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Blackthorn · 03-12-2005, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by fatboss

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I don't HAVE to have her. No there's nothing wrong at home. This is why I'm so confused. The only woman who had this effect on me is Mrs. Fatboss.

Why do I have Betty in my head so much? Is it because I can't have her?

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Everybody wants to be "do-able". Even at the ripe young age of 39 it's okay to want to be desired. I agree with most of the early posters though. If you are really okay and home and you want to stay that way then don't play with fire. Accept this situation for what it is and let it ride.

Good luck...

william · 03-12-2005, 04:45 PM

I'll probably catch some hell over this, but the biggest factor is not your kids. Sure - they are a big responsibility that you need to think about. But a reason not to cheat? Your hormones are raging over this girl - you want an excuse. Here's the deal, and be clear, it's a make 'em or break 'em deal - is this woman enough to sacrifice everything you've gained so far? Are you for her? Because the bottom line is this - once it happens, nothing's the same. You didn't give enough info to warrant anyone feeling sorry for you; and the bottom line is, the grass is not always greener on the other side. If you have problems w/your wife, deal w/them. Or don't. Just don't ask me to justify you being w/someone else. DO YOU LOVE YOUR WIFE? I'd like to think at one point you did. Find that. If not, save the kids a world of grief, and move on. Above all else, be honest. She's just another girl that looks good in a short skirt.

aberkok · 03-13-2005, 10:03 PM

Two words: Three Way

Seriously though, wait it out. I know you've come the some resolutions thanks to the other great posts, but as well, just wait and you may just find your attraction diminish for Betty. These things always seem better in your fantasies than they end up being.

Also, check out the movie "Sideways." Very funny take on precisely your situation.

03-13-2005, 10:03 PM	#43 (permalink)
aberkok “Wrong is right.” Location: toronto	Two words: Three Way Seriously though, wait it out. I know you've come the some resolutions thanks to the other great posts, but as well, just wait and you may just find your attraction diminish for Betty. These things always seem better in your fantasies than they end up being. Also, check out the movie "Sideways." Very funny take on precisely your situation. __________________ !check out my new blog! http://arkanamusic.wordpress.com Warden Gentiles: "It? Perfectly innocent. But I can see how, if our roles were reversed, I might have you beaten with a pillowcase full of batteries."

03-12-2005, 04:45 PM	#42 (permalink)
william Psycho	I'll probably catch some hell over this, but the biggest factor is not your kids. Sure - they are a big responsibility that you need to think about. But a reason not to cheat? Your hormones are raging over this girl - you want an excuse. Here's the deal, and be clear, it's a make 'em or break 'em deal - is this woman enough to sacrifice everything you've gained so far? Are you for her? Because the bottom line is this - once it happens, nothing's the same. You didn't give enough info to warrant anyone feeling sorry for you; and the bottom line is, the grass is not always greener on the other side. If you have problems w/your wife, deal w/them. Or don't. Just don't ask me to justify you being w/someone else. DO YOU LOVE YOUR WIFE? I'd like to think at one point you did. Find that. If not, save the kids a world of grief, and move on. Above all else, be honest. She's just another girl that looks good in a short skirt.