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I'll probably catch some hell over this, but the biggest factor is not your kids. Sure - they are a big responsibility that you need to think about. But a reason not to cheat? Your hormones are raging over this girl - you want an excuse. Here's the deal, and be clear, it's a make 'em or break 'em deal - is this woman enough to sacrifice everything you've gained so far? Are you for her? Because the bottom line is this - once it happens, nothing's the same. You didn't give enough info to warrant anyone feeling sorry for you; and the bottom line is, the grass is not always greener on the other side. If you have problems w/your wife, deal w/them. Or don't. Just don't ask me to justify you being w/someone else. DO YOU LOVE YOUR WIFE? I'd like to think at one point you did. Find that. If not, save the kids a world of grief, and move on. Above all else, be honest. She's just another girl that looks good in a short skirt.
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