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Tack · 12-23-2004, 07:26 PM

How long did you know you would lose your virginity before the day or night it happened?

Was it a planned event, or did you just get caught up in the moment.

For me, I had just started seeing this girl and I was at her house where we did some heavy petting. I had a pretty good idea that we would have sex the next weekend, and I was correct. She had told a mutual friend that she wanted to even though she and I never discussed it. So the next weekend, we consumated our relationship. She was a virgin and so was I, but she thought that I was may more experienced and being a macho stud didn't want to admit that it would be my first too.

anleja · 12-23-2004, 07:30 PM

I was 16, she was 17. We were seeing eachother for about... 2 months. She went to Florida with her family for a week or so. Before she left she gave me a letter saying she was ready to have sex.

That was a looong week. Then she came back, and it was worth the wait. Actually, we were going to do it, then my friends came over. The next night worked out splendidly though.

*edit* Ten years later I still have that letter... you don't ever get rid of something like that, even if she does turn out to be psychotic.

sandinista · 12-23-2004, 07:34 PM

Went to a summer program in oxford this summer kinda expecting to get laid - and it happened about 2 weeks into it - that was fun

f6twister · 12-23-2004, 07:37 PM

I knew a day ahead of time. My girlfriends parents were going out of town and she told me that I was to attend a small gathering of friends and her place and bring "everything necessary" for spending the evening. My bag was packed an hour later.

World's King · 12-23-2004, 08:04 PM

I had been bugging my girlfriend at the time for about two months. Never thought it was gonna happen. She had issues with a lot of things. It was getting to the pont that I thought I might have to just get her drunk and go to town. But a few days before Christmas we were hanging out at my house and she said, "Let's do it."

Blackthorn · 12-23-2004, 08:04 PM

It was semi planned and semi spontaneous. I was 15 and she was 17. It happened in my parents basement. No one else was home but it was still a scary sort of thing. We didn't use a condom or other contraceptive which was not smart but it turned out okay. I didn't shoot the magic ball of life inside her but damn I sure could have. Wow what a fun experience that was....

I'd like to go back there and try that again.....

snowy · 12-23-2004, 08:05 PM

I knew I wanted to, but I didn't know until the day of that it was going to be that night. I had condoms and such already because I've always been a "be prepared" sort of girl, so he didn't know until I told him that we were going to have sex that night.

eyeronic · 12-23-2004, 08:15 PM

I'd been trying for the better part of two months when all of a sudden...

zakool21 · 12-23-2004, 08:32 PM

I was completely lead on one evening by a girl from downstairs (in our dorm building) into thinking that I was going to get laid....

I went down there and we watched TV for an hour.

Needless to say, I am still a virgin.

zombie_sympathi · 12-23-2004, 08:34 PM

i figured it would happen within a week of starting college.

and it did, about two or three days after i got there.

mokle · 12-23-2004, 08:39 PM

I refuse to answer this question on the grounds that I am still a virgin. Ha.

ariekitten · 12-23-2004, 08:45 PM

i didn't really know that i was going to lose it and i guess i just sorta got caught up in the moment. i had been hoping that yknow i would find someone special, etc, being that i was nearing 19 at the time, but i didn't really think that he was interested in me that way....i guess i was wrong

skinnymofo · 12-23-2004, 09:22 PM

i knew pretty much the day before, my friend was staying at my house and we were fooling around but the condoms were packed away in luggage so we had to end it at that. the next night when we started fooling around i said look what i found and that was that. unfortunately it was too small and cuttting off major circulation which could of been i could thing i guess so i was in for a good 15 minutes

El Kaz · 12-23-2004, 09:28 PM

It was "spontaneous", altough I was pretty sure it would happen soon, without knowing the exact day. As in, we were both foreplaying almost nightly, venturing a bit further every time, so it was just a matter of time before "it" happened.

*Sighs* Aaah, first loves

RMMsGirl · 12-23-2004, 09:52 PM

My first time was planned.. I'm not sure how long ahead it was planned, I just know that it was.

MSD · 12-23-2004, 10:45 PM

I still have no fucking idea.

Willravel · 12-24-2004, 09:14 AM

I was 13, she was 15. I had dated this girl for about 6 months and we were as hot and heavy as anyone else (kissing) our age. One day after school, she walked up to me and whispered in my ear, "Tonight I'm going to take your virginity". Huh? So that night I did it. I guess I knew for about 5 or 6 hours beforehand.

cyrnel · 12-24-2004, 09:31 AM

There were religious complications, so it went like...almost, guilt, almost, etc. We had made our rounds to third several times. Never talked about squat or planned any of it. When it finally happened it was pure impulse leading to 30 painful minutes in the back seats of a 71 Firebird.

I still try to forget and only count the next time when we had a more comfortable location.

noodles · 12-24-2004, 11:23 AM

caught in the moment. i didn't expect anything to happen (but thats probably because i have a very thick head) and it did.

aintyoboyfriend · 12-27-2004, 07:56 PM

Mine was partially planned.

We knew it was going to happen, but not when.

Then we managed to find a few hours we could be together alone at my house, and it just happened.

GraveTaker · 12-30-2004, 05:32 PM

she was 17 i was 18, we were laying on one another rubbing pelvises saying that we wanted each other so i suited him up and off we went....

zensheep · 12-31-2004, 08:50 PM

My girlfriend came to visit for a few weeks in the summer, and 2 days before she arrived she told me we wouldn't be having sex. Four days into her visit I lost my virginity hehe. I kind of had an idea it would happen at some point after she arrived but I'd say it was sprung on me; one night we were fooling around and she asked if I had a condom. That was that.

monkeysugar · 12-31-2004, 10:58 PM

I knew about 30 seconds before I lost it. We were both freshmen in college. We'd been "going out" for about two days, were making out and doing some heavy petting. I went down on her for a while, then she got up, grabbed a condom out of her dresser, and told me to put it on. Yes ma'am.

jvwgtr · 01-01-2005, 10:59 AM

I was dating a gilrl in high school who, as it turns out, had deflowered half of my classmates...

We were making out in the cab of my dad's pickup, as we had done every Friday night. Things were getting pretty hot and heavy, we were both undressed, and she gave a little push with her hips--the next thing I knew, I was inside her.
I remember thinking, "Am I really doing this?"

I was pretty freaked out for a little while. In those days I was trying my best to wait for marriage. Of course, that seems a little idiotic to me now.
If I knew then what I know now...

MageB420666 · 01-01-2005, 12:51 PM

I knew about an hour ahead of time, we were in my car, she said we should fuck, and it took a little while for me to find a good place to park.

Jesus Pimp · 01-01-2005, 01:48 PM

I never thought I would get any until freshman year of college. This older woman decided to fuck my brains out after I wooed her with my geekiness.

jaypc2 · 01-01-2005, 05:02 PM

about 3 seconds it was just one of those cought up in the moment things

Wax_off · 01-01-2005, 05:36 PM

I was shit ass drunk at a party and this girl started making out with me. Ended up going home with her. Don't remember most of it.

So I would say that it was a totally unplanned event.

countingsheep · 01-03-2005, 09:00 PM

it wasn't planned at all. it just really happened.. haha i had raging hormones that night.. i still remember every single second of that night. but yeah it was totally spur of the moment, shall i say, i got caught up in the moment.

qweds · 01-03-2005, 09:08 PM

Was told by said female prior to act at some party that she believed we needed to explore a non-physical relationship. Well that was the first time I'd heard that and the most physical non-physical relationship I can imagine as it consisted of nothing besides the physical. Ahh, women...

Pax131 · 01-03-2005, 09:15 PM

My first time was pretty interesting I was 17 and a junior in high school. I grew up on an island in Southeast Alaska in a town of about 3,000. Now as all the neighboring towns were also on their own little islands and there's no way the government would even consider paying the money to connect small remote towns by bridges, school travel for sports and ect. was a bit interesting. I imagine most other schools simply load their teams on buses, drive them to the next town where they play their game and then drive them back the same day or the day after. We had to jump on a ferry and take a boat ride that lasted anywhere from 8 to 36 hours to reach another town. So school travel was a bit like taking a three or four day vacation to go party in another town. I took a ceramics class my junior year as an elective, I had fun and it was an easy grade. Now there was an art festival that all art students were elligable to attend. It got you out of school for a week where you would travel to another town, all the other art teachers from southeast were there with their students and you would just take art classes from different people for a week. Recently I had been having better luck hooking up with girls from other places rather than the hometown crowd but I hadn't made it all the way yet. I got to the festival and signed up for a silk painting class and a raku ceramics class. The silk painting class was full of people but there was only four of us in raku. There was me, two other guys, and a little blonde freshman girl who started giving me the eye the moment I walked in. So I sat down, introduced myself and got to know everyone. The chick turned out to be really cool and since we had a lot of time to kill between classes, we hung out together. Now I don't know how we got on the subject, it comes up that she didn't wear underware. I knew that moment. I just thought "Score!".

gonad · 01-04-2005, 01:03 AM

Had no idea. I was hoping of course, but what 15-year-old doesn't. Standard makeout session and then, bam, I'm in.

Side question, how long did it go the first time?
I made it like 30 minutes. She kept switching positions which definitely helped prolong the event. I remember being stunned that I held out that long. Never took more than a minute on my own, I remember thinking...

RCR · 01-13-2005, 04:57 PM

About an hour before, we were in a bar, and I rememeber buying a margerita for myself and the lady, and then she said, are we going back after this....

good night

Death9099 · 01-13-2005, 05:51 PM

Mine was planned, the week after new years. Glad i waited for the right person too.

Zenir · 01-13-2005, 06:50 PM

I had decided that it was particularly not an issue and after dating my recent girlfriend who was working 2 hours away in a secluded... I guess it would be called a commercial village... She had come to visit me this time and we were rough housing and she ask what I thought of having sex. She new I was a virgin, but wanted to make sure it was okay if she had sex with me. I explained to her my thoughts and we were locked up all night and into the morning. I was actually quite surprised when I was educating her on sexuality.

Ramallah · 01-13-2005, 07:00 PM

It was a spontaneous thing; I was at her house after school and we were messing around, then we decided to go all the way. I was 15 and she was 14. I think we had been dating for three months or so.

Quote:

Originally Posted by jvwgtr

I remember thinking, "Am I really doing this?"

I seem to remember the same thing... the first time felt so surreal. Even now it feels somewhat surreal.

TexanAvenger · 01-13-2005, 08:18 PM

We'd been dating for about a year, but ready to have sex for about eleven and a half of those months... just lacked the opportunity. Which isn't to say we didn't try to figure out ways to. When I got a car though( which the same girl named "Cherry" since it was, and is, my first car), we were off like there'd be no tomorrow. So we both lost our virginity in the back of a car named Cherry. Not exactly the way we thought it'd happen, but good nonetheless.

As for the whole "Am I really doing this?" idea, I remember thinking that and having my mind fairly blown. But even weirder, for me anyway, was afterward, when life continued as normal. Stranger than the idea that I had had sex was the idea that the world didn't end because of it, that it wasn't the epitome of existence.

thermight · 01-14-2005, 09:00 AM

Spur of the moment. I was 17 she was 24. Went out. Ended up back at her place.

The opposite side of the coin is my wife. She knew for 6 months; it took that long to plan the wedding after we got engaged.

TheWalkinDude · 01-14-2005, 09:18 AM

I knew I was going to about five days before. Then I got penis-thrush. I wasn't among the happiest of bunnies.

Camelbackcinema · 01-17-2005, 02:50 PM

~1.5 hours

12-23-2004, 07:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tack Upright	How long did you know you would lose your virginity? How long did you know you would lose your virginity before the day or night it happened? Was it a planned event, or did you just get caught up in the moment. For me, I had just started seeing this girl and I was at her house where we did some heavy petting. I had a pretty good idea that we would have sex the next weekend, and I was correct. She had told a mutual friend that she wanted to even though she and I never discussed it. So the next weekend, we consumated our relationship. She was a virgin and so was I, but she thought that I was may more experienced and being a macho stud didn't want to admit that it would be my first too.

12-23-2004, 07:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
anleja disconnected Location: ignoreland	I was 16, she was 17. We were seeing eachother for about... 2 months. She went to Florida with her family for a week or so. Before she left she gave me a letter saying she was ready to have sex. That was a looong week. Then she came back, and it was worth the wait. Actually, we were going to do it, then my friends came over. The next night worked out splendidly though. edit Ten years later I still have that letter... you don't ever get rid of something like that, even if she does turn out to be psychotic. Last edited by anleja; 12-23-2004 at 07:34 PM..

12-23-2004, 07:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
sandinista Tilted	Went to a summer program in oxford this summer kinda expecting to get laid - and it happened about 2 weeks into it - that was fun __________________ "Nature herself makes the wise man rich." -Cicero

12-23-2004, 07:37 PM	#4 (permalink)
f6twister Addict	I knew a day ahead of time. My girlfriends parents were going out of town and she told me that I was to attend a small gathering of friends and her place and bring "everything necessary" for spending the evening. My bag was packed an hour later. __________________ A little rudeness and disrespect can elevate a meaningless interaction to a battle of wills and add drama to an otherwise dull day. Calvin

12-23-2004, 08:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	I had been bugging my girlfriend at the time for about two months. Never thought it was gonna happen. She had issues with a lot of things. It was getting to the pont that I thought I might have to just get her drunk and go to town. But a few days before Christmas we were hanging out at my house and she said, "Let's do it." __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

12-23-2004, 08:04 PM	#6 (permalink)
Blackthorn Beware the Mad Irish Location: Wish I was on the N17...	It was semi planned and semi spontaneous. I was 15 and she was 17. It happened in my parents basement. No one else was home but it was still a scary sort of thing. We didn't use a condom or other contraceptive which was not smart but it turned out okay. I didn't shoot the magic ball of life inside her but damn I sure could have. Wow what a fun experience that was.... I'd like to go back there and try that again..... __________________ What are you willing to give up in order to get what you want?

12-23-2004, 08:05 PM	#7 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	I knew I wanted to, but I didn't know until the day of that it was going to be that night. I had condoms and such already because I've always been a "be prepared" sort of girl, so he didn't know until I told him that we were going to have sex that night. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

12-23-2004, 08:15 PM	#8 (permalink)
eyeronic I run E. Location: New York	I'd been trying for the better part of two months when all of a sudden... __________________ I hold with those that favor fire. Last edited by eyeronic; 12-24-2004 at 10:57 AM..

12-23-2004, 08:32 PM	#9 (permalink)
zakool21 Upright	I was completely lead on one evening by a girl from downstairs (in our dorm building) into thinking that I was going to get laid.... I went down there and we watched TV for an hour. Needless to say, I am still a virgin.

12-23-2004, 08:34 PM	#10 (permalink)
zombie_sympathi Upright Location: AR	i figured it would happen within a week of starting college. and it did, about two or three days after i got there.

12-23-2004, 08:39 PM	#11 (permalink)
mokle Psycho Location: Alberta, Canada	I refuse to answer this question on the grounds that I am still a virgin. Ha. __________________ Mokle "Your hands can't hit what your eyes can't see" -Ali

12-23-2004, 08:45 PM	#12 (permalink)
ariekitten bAck iN aCtiOn! Location: in my imagination	i didn't really know that i was going to lose it and i guess i just sorta got caught up in the moment. i had been hoping that yknow i would find someone special, etc, being that i was nearing 19 at the time, but i didn't really think that he was interested in me that way....i guess i was wrong __________________ I am known as Valentinez Alkalinella Xifax Sicidabohertz Gombigobilla Blue Stradivari Talentrent Pierre Andri Charton-Haymoss Ivanovici Baldeus George Doitzel Kaiser III. Don't hesitate to call. ~Vash, Trigun >'.'< kitty kitty, meow ^..^~

12-23-2004, 09:22 PM	#13 (permalink)
skinnymofo Addict ed to smack Location: Seattle	i knew pretty much the day before, my friend was staying at my house and we were fooling around but the condoms were packed away in luggage so we had to end it at that. the next night when we started fooling around i said look what i found and that was that. unfortunately it was too small and cuttting off major circulation which could of been i could thing i guess so i was in for a good 15 minutes

12-23-2004, 09:28 PM	#14 (permalink)
El Kaz Crazy Location: Canada	It was "spontaneous", altough I was pretty sure it would happen soon, without knowing the exact day. As in, we were both foreplaying almost nightly, venturing a bit further every time, so it was just a matter of time before "it" happened. Sighs Aaah, first loves

12-23-2004, 09:52 PM	#15 (permalink)
RMMsGirl Tilted Location: Bakersfield, Ca	My first time was planned.. I'm not sure how long ahead it was planned, I just know that it was.

12-23-2004, 10:45 PM	#16 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	I still have no fucking idea.

12-24-2004, 09:14 AM	#17 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	I was 13, she was 15. I had dated this girl for about 6 months and we were as hot and heavy as anyone else (kissing) our age. One day after school, she walked up to me and whispered in my ear, "Tonight I'm going to take your virginity". Huh? So that night I did it. I guess I knew for about 5 or 6 hours beforehand.

12-24-2004, 09:31 AM	#18 (permalink)
cyrnel Adequate Location: In my angry-dome.	There were religious complications, so it went like...almost, guilt, almost, etc. We had made our rounds to third several times. Never talked about squat or planned any of it. When it finally happened it was pure impulse leading to 30 painful minutes in the back seats of a 71 Firebird. I still try to forget and only count the next time when we had a more comfortable location. Last edited by cyrnel; 12-24-2004 at 09:34 AM..

12-24-2004, 11:23 AM	#19 (permalink)
noodles Psycho Location: sc	caught in the moment. i didn't expect anything to happen (but thats probably because i have a very thick head) and it did.

12-27-2004, 07:56 PM	#20 (permalink)
aintyoboyfriend Insane Location: Arlington, VA	Mine was partially planned. We knew it was going to happen, but not when. Then we managed to find a few hours we could be together alone at my house, and it just happened.

12-30-2004, 05:32 PM	#21 (permalink)
GraveTaker Crazy	she was 17 i was 18, we were laying on one another rubbing pelvises saying that we wanted each other so i suited him up and off we went.... __________________ GraveTaker

12-31-2004, 08:50 PM	#22 (permalink)
zensheep Crazy Location: Seattle	My girlfriend came to visit for a few weeks in the summer, and 2 days before she arrived she told me we wouldn't be having sex. Four days into her visit I lost my virginity hehe. I kind of had an idea it would happen at some point after she arrived but I'd say it was sprung on me; one night we were fooling around and she asked if I had a condom. That was that.

12-31-2004, 10:58 PM	#23 (permalink)
monkeysugar I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross. Location: Rand McNally's friendliest small town in America. They must have strayed from the dodgy parts...	I knew about 30 seconds before I lost it. We were both freshmen in college. We'd been "going out" for about two days, were making out and doing some heavy petting. I went down on her for a while, then she got up, grabbed a condom out of her dresser, and told me to put it on. Yes ma'am. __________________ I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.

01-01-2005, 10:59 AM	#24 (permalink)
jvwgtr Completely bananas Location: Florida	I was dating a gilrl in high school who, as it turns out, had deflowered half of my classmates... We were making out in the cab of my dad's pickup, as we had done every Friday night. Things were getting pretty hot and heavy, we were both undressed, and she gave a little push with her hips--the next thing I knew, I was inside her. I remember thinking, "Am I really doing this?" I was pretty freaked out for a little while. In those days I was trying my best to wait for marriage. Of course, that seems a little idiotic to me now. If I knew then what I know now...

01-01-2005, 12:51 PM	#25 (permalink)
MageB420666 <Insert wise statement here> Location: Hell if I know	I knew about an hour ahead of time, we were in my car, she said we should fuck, and it took a little while for me to find a good place to park. __________________ Apathy: The best outlook this side of I don't give a damn.

01-01-2005, 01:48 PM	#26 (permalink)
Jesus Pimp The Original JizzSmacka	I never thought I would get any until freshman year of college. This older woman decided to fuck my brains out after I wooed her with my geekiness. __________________ Never date anyone who doesn't make your dick hard.

01-01-2005, 05:02 PM	#27 (permalink)
jaypc2 Tilted Location: south east	about 3 seconds it was just one of those cought up in the moment things __________________ Zero Cool stay sexy

01-01-2005, 05:36 PM	#28 (permalink)
Wax_off No Avatar, No Sig.	I was shit ass drunk at a party and this girl started making out with me. Ended up going home with her. Don't remember most of it. So I would say that it was a totally unplanned event.

01-03-2005, 09:00 PM	#29 (permalink)
countingsheep Upright Location: beach	it wasn't planned at all. it just really happened.. haha i had raging hormones that night.. i still remember every single second of that night. but yeah it was totally spur of the moment, shall i say, i got caught up in the moment. __________________ lick it before you stick it

01-03-2005, 09:08 PM	#30 (permalink)
qweds has been Location: Chicago	Was told by said female prior to act at some party that she believed we needed to explore a non-physical relationship. Well that was the first time I'd heard that and the most physical non-physical relationship I can imagine as it consisted of nothing besides the physical. Ahh, women... __________________ tim(mah)

01-03-2005, 09:15 PM	#31 (permalink)
Pax131 Upright Location: Arcata, California	My first time was pretty interesting I was 17 and a junior in high school. I grew up on an island in Southeast Alaska in a town of about 3,000. Now as all the neighboring towns were also on their own little islands and there's no way the government would even consider paying the money to connect small remote towns by bridges, school travel for sports and ect. was a bit interesting. I imagine most other schools simply load their teams on buses, drive them to the next town where they play their game and then drive them back the same day or the day after. We had to jump on a ferry and take a boat ride that lasted anywhere from 8 to 36 hours to reach another town. So school travel was a bit like taking a three or four day vacation to go party in another town. I took a ceramics class my junior year as an elective, I had fun and it was an easy grade. Now there was an art festival that all art students were elligable to attend. It got you out of school for a week where you would travel to another town, all the other art teachers from southeast were there with their students and you would just take art classes from different people for a week. Recently I had been having better luck hooking up with girls from other places rather than the hometown crowd but I hadn't made it all the way yet. I got to the festival and signed up for a silk painting class and a raku ceramics class. The silk painting class was full of people but there was only four of us in raku. There was me, two other guys, and a little blonde freshman girl who started giving me the eye the moment I walked in. So I sat down, introduced myself and got to know everyone. The chick turned out to be really cool and since we had a lot of time to kill between classes, we hung out together. Now I don't know how we got on the subject, it comes up that she didn't wear underware. I knew that moment. I just thought "Score!".

01-04-2005, 01:03 AM	#32 (permalink)
gonad Bartender Extraordinaire Location: The good side of the Red River	Had no idea. I was hoping of course, but what 15-year-old doesn't. Standard makeout session and then, bam, I'm in. Side question, how long did it go the first time? I made it like 30 minutes. She kept switching positions which definitely helped prolong the event. I remember being stunned that I held out that long. Never took more than a minute on my own, I remember thinking... __________________ "We were somewhere around Barstow, on the edge of the desert, when the drugs began to take hold."

01-13-2005, 04:57 PM	#33 (permalink)
RCR Crazy	About an hour before, we were in a bar, and I rememeber buying a margerita for myself and the lady, and then she said, are we going back after this.... good night

01-13-2005, 05:51 PM	#34 (permalink)
Death9099 Upright Location: CA	Mine was planned, the week after new years. Glad i waited for the right person too.

01-13-2005, 06:50 PM	#35 (permalink)
Zenir Tilted Location: Fairbanks, Alaska	I had decided that it was particularly not an issue and after dating my recent girlfriend who was working 2 hours away in a secluded... I guess it would be called a commercial village... She had come to visit me this time and we were rough housing and she ask what I thought of having sex. She new I was a virgin, but wanted to make sure it was okay if she had sex with me. I explained to her my thoughts and we were locked up all night and into the morning. I was actually quite surprised when I was educating her on sexuality. __________________ Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success.-Albert Schweitzer, philosopher, physician, musician, Nobel laureate (1875-1965)

01-13-2005, 08:18 PM	#37 (permalink)
TexanAvenger Born-Again New Guy Location: Unfound.	We'd been dating for about a year, but ready to have sex for about eleven and a half of those months... just lacked the opportunity. Which isn't to say we didn't try to figure out ways to. When I got a car though( which the same girl named "Cherry" since it was, and is, my first car), we were off like there'd be no tomorrow. So we both lost our virginity in the back of a car named Cherry. Not exactly the way we thought it'd happen, but good nonetheless. As for the whole "Am I really doing this?" idea, I remember thinking that and having my mind fairly blown. But even weirder, for me anyway, was afterward, when life continued as normal. Stranger than the idea that I had had sex was the idea that the world didn't end because of it, that it wasn't the epitome of existence.