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ShaniFaye · 11-07-2004, 05:24 PM

no one that does anal should "stick it" anywhere else until they've washed, it can cause really bad infections for the woman

Irishsean · 11-07-2004, 05:46 PM

Yeah, those videos that show a man swapping holes without any breaks contribute to some serious delusions about the cleanliness of it.

K-Wise · 11-07-2004, 05:57 PM

That was a porno man. Nothing in porno's is like real life...thats why they're porno's. Those guys use stunt cum.

Asta!!

daneo · 11-07-2004, 06:01 PM

As to the smell, depends on how well the girl and or man has "cleaned up" (so to speak) before the act.

I have never tried but would be pretty open to it. It seems as though many men suffer from some (homo)phobia when it comes to their own hole. I don't get the whole "I know what comes out of it" argument. You know what comes out of your penis right? There isn't THAT big of a difference in that respect. Anyway, I guess it all comes down to your personal limits. Let's not be judgemental here...

Fallon · 11-07-2004, 06:03 PM

I'd be willing to try it as long as my fiancee would get somethin out of it. I doubt I would be that tremendously much.

braisler · 11-07-2004, 07:02 PM

I've had a finger from my wife during oral and that is very pleasurable for me. Adds to the experience and all. I don't know about a strap-on. If she was really into it, then maybe. It would have to be a mostly psychological thing for her. I mean, if I am penetrating her, we both have sensation. If she is penetrating me with a strap-on... I feel it, sure. But what does she get out of it exactly? Any females out there who want to comment? Have you done this with your man? If so, did you get direct physical pleasure from it or was it a domination thing, control thing?

MSD · 11-07-2004, 08:32 PM

With the right person, I'd be open to trying just about anything. I don't say no to anything until the decision is in front of me, so I really can't tell now.

thesupermikey · 11-07-2004, 08:53 PM

when my last girl friend would give give me a message she would some times grind aginest my bum. I really liked that a lot. moving from dry humping to anal, i guess it would have to be with a woman i trusted. Im not really to keen on anal sex anyways, but if a girl wanted to give it a try i would be open about it

guthmund · 11-07-2004, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by daneo

I have never tried but would be pretty open to it. It seems as though many men suffer from some (homo)phobia when it comes to their own hole. I don't get the whole "I know what comes out of it" argument. You know what comes out of your penis right?

Love-juice? Man-malade? Jerking Jelly?

I was trying to be funny, but I guess we'll have none of that here. To be perfectly honest, I have no interest in assholes. None. I have no desire to stick anything up mine nor stick anything of mine in anybody elses. Don't know why. Can't explain it. I also don't get the whole latex asphyxiation thing, tentacle rape or bukkake. I wouldn't consider myself a prude; I'm just not turned on by it.

Let's not be too quick to jump on the homophobe wagon. It's been my experience that the folks around here are, for the most part, brutally honest in all matters. Why wouldn't they be about anal sex? I'm sure there are a few who are harboring some pent up homophobia, but more than likely the vast majority just aren't interested.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

im2smrt4u · 11-08-2004, 12:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by guthmund

Let's not be too quick to jump on the homophobe wagon. It's been my experience that the folks around here are, for the most part, brutally honest in all matters. Why wouldn't they be about anal sex? I'm sure there are a few who are harboring some pent up homophobia, but more than likely the vast majority just aren't interested.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

And on the flip side, I'm not a closet homosexual for liking it.

A cigar is still a cigar.

Bill O'Rights · 11-08-2004, 05:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by brianna

huh. i'm kind of shocked at the number of men who are so adverse to this. and honestly, i'm a a little concerned that many of you expect women to try (and usually enjoy anal sex).

<----Anal sex virgin. (both ways)

zepher · 11-08-2004, 06:03 AM

I'd be into it! My wife has used her finger on me before and I came buckets. Whats with the homophobe comment?....its just sex....if it gets you off, why be ashamed?

Charlatan · 11-08-2004, 06:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leah's Passion

My old one is kind of cheap. All of this strap on talk has inspired my s/o to try it out, so I ordered this from my wholesaler last night (I am a sex toy retailer)

Isn't it pretty?

That is *very* pretty indeed!

Captain Nemo · 11-08-2004, 06:28 AM

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Would I do it again? Most definitely

Paul67 · 11-08-2004, 06:46 AM

The idea has entered my mind a few times when giving oral to a lady. There I am, on my hands and knees, doing what I love to do most, with my butt up in the air, and suddenly it comes to mind, gee, now if we had another lady to join us we could try some kinky stuff, like ----

StephenSa · 11-08-2004, 10:02 AM

ehh.....not so much. We're a one penis family!

absorbentishe · 11-08-2004, 10:35 AM

I'd be willing to try it, as long as my woman would let me get her there, which she won't. So this is moot. But you never know until you try it. And her doing this to you certainly won't make you gay.

tellumFS · 11-08-2004, 11:47 AM

Yea...gonna have to pass on the strap-on. It just doesn't really work for me.

Coppertop · 11-08-2004, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ninety09

If my girlfriend wanted to, I'd be willing to try. If I like it, good! If I don't like it, just too bad, won't do it again. Don't see what the big deal is..

Fear. People are afraid of the unknown. I used to be that way, but now I'm much happier.

I haven't done it, but would give it a shot if my girl suggested it. I've been on the giving end so it'd be kinda hypocritical of me to outright refuse the reverse. Who knows? It may open up whole new worlds of pleasure to me. If not, then I will no longer wonder if I missed out on something I might have enjoyed in this life.

Redlemon · 11-08-2004, 12:19 PM

I don't mind anal play at all, but I think a strap-on might be a bit too rough. For the record, I haven't 'pitched' on anal sex either, so that's not a double-standard.

Coppertop · 11-08-2004, 12:21 PM

I also find it telling that not a single person (as of this post) responded with this answer:

I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again

I think that says a hell of a lot about the experience.

Redlemon · 11-08-2004, 12:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coppertop

I also find it telling that not a single person (as of this post) responded with this answer:

I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again

I think that says a hell of a lot about the experience.

No, not really. I think it says that only someone who is sure that they are going to like it actually tries it.

im2smrt4u · 11-08-2004, 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redlemon

No, not really. I think it says that only someone who is sure that they are going to like it actually tries it.

I'd have to disagree. I wasn't sure I'd like it and tried it anyway.

water_boy1999 · 11-08-2004, 12:58 PM

Yup, tried it, liked it very much. I am sure a lot of the difinitive "no way" responses are due to the stigma that it is a "gay" thing. It doesn't have to be. Men have a serious erogenous zone down there and there is nothing wrong with a little experimentation. I have had fingers twiddling down there, but would be open to something a little more robust with my SO.....if and when I find an SO.

GTI · 11-08-2004, 01:01 PM

I'll pass on that experince.

oscar0308 · 11-08-2004, 01:04 PM

i've only done it twice. once 2 yrs ago.. and once about 2 wks ago. both times w/ my wife. dont know the difference between the 2 times, but after this time, she said 'we're gonna have to start doing that more often.' she loved..... and i cant say that i argued with her.

its a really different feeling and after relaxing enough to enjoy it, it's great.

as far as what the women get out of it.. you can buy a harness with either an inverted vibrator or a vibrating egg. inour case we had neither but the friction of the harness against her still have her an orgasm. very unexpected but o' so wonderful.

ziadel · 11-08-2004, 02:42 PM

yupp, I've dont it, loved it, did it some more, hope to do it more in the future

dood · 11-08-2004, 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by brianna

huh. i'm kind of shocked at the number of men who are so adverse to this. and honestly, i'm a a little concerned that many of you expect women to try (and usually enjoy anal sex). anyone want to contribute thoughts on why so many men are so afraid or anything going up their ass? it could very easily be argued that anal sex would be much more pleasurable for men then for women since men have a prostate gland to be stimulated....

no interest in being on the receiving OR giving end. The idea of sticking my dick up a hole someone shits out of is disgusting, and would draw no pleasure shoving something up my own. No fear involved, I simply find the activity to be nasty, akin to shoving foreign items up my peehole.

imkeen · 11-08-2004, 10:03 PM

In the spirit of openness...

I'd like to try, but the wife isn't interested in receiving or giving. I've resorted to trying it on my own, just because I find myself bored and looking for new experiences. During masturbation, a finger or dildo is also VERY effective... (showers are a good place to do this, given the need to wash)

Dizzet · 11-08-2004, 11:42 PM

hmm dont know if i would let that thing in my bum bum but maybe

RenaissanceII · 11-09-2004, 05:58 AM

OH gawd yess!!!!!!!!!

BobbyWard · 11-09-2004, 07:04 AM

If that's really you in your profile picture, you could do anything you wanted to me with that thing.

Daoust · 11-09-2004, 07:13 AM

I have given myself anal with my wifes vibrator but I didn't enjoy it much. It made me feel like I had to take a dump (which I assume is normal), and I didn't access any g-spots. I did it to myself because my wife would never in a million years go near my anus or have me go near hers. I just wanted to see what it felt like. Probably won't do it much anymore...

cj22009 · 11-09-2004, 07:23 AM

I did this with my ex wife she said if you want to do it to me i'm going to do it to you and it acctually felt good but man it made me cum in a heart beat

blindawg · 11-09-2004, 08:57 AM

I've had one gf use a vibrator onme, and another 2 use their fingers.. I must say those time have beent eh most instense orgasms I ever had. It's really the only time I can give up total control and enjoy myself..

mattevil · 11-09-2004, 12:14 PM

as long as she was gentle and knew what she was doing I'd be open to it. Don't want to get a hemroid or something for being open minded.

Mango · 11-09-2004, 12:19 PM

I'd be into trying it but my wife when I mentioned it was totally not willing to entertain the idea.

Nazggul · 11-09-2004, 01:13 PM

Not sure why, but I have had fantasies about this recently. The way I picture it is on my back so she can jerk me off at the same time. I figure eventually I'll give it a go.

Debianuser, typically before you would do anal the "receiver" will clean themself up first with a...whatchamacallit...Enima, ya that's it. I know I wouldn't do it to a woman if I didn't know she was clean inside and out.

Jim Kata · 11-09-2004, 01:30 PM

My girlfriend is against all anal. I'm not really into getting fucked with a strap on, but sometimes I wish she would just rub the buttle some while giving me head. And I would also love a rimjob. But like I said, she is against anal anything.
We did try the prostate thing, but it didn't work out good because of my girlfriend's "prudeness". Basically I just jerked off with her finger in my ass....it wasn't as good as if she was giving me some dome or jerking me off herself (at least that is what I think).
So no to the strap on, but yes to everything else.

PayUp · 11-09-2004, 02:35 PM

If my wife came to me and said she wanted to try it I would have to say ok. After all, she lets me do her. If I said no she might not ever let me fuck her ass again. Who knows, might like it.

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No, I have no interest in that	311	43.56%
I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again	3	0.42%
I have not tried it, but I would be willing to	325	45.52%
I have done it and would do it again	75	10.50%
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11-07-2004, 05:24 PM	#41 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	no one that does anal should "stick it" anywhere else until they've washed, it can cause really bad infections for the woman __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

11-07-2004, 05:46 PM	#42 (permalink)
Irishsean edited for content Location: Austin, TX	Yeah, those videos that show a man swapping holes without any breaks contribute to some serious delusions about the cleanliness of it. __________________ There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances. Leon Trotsky

11-07-2004, 05:57 PM	#43 (permalink)
K-Wise It's All About The Ass!! Location: In a pool of mayonnaise!!	That was a porno man. Nothing in porno's is like real life...thats why they're porno's. Those guys use stunt cum. Asta!! __________________ "I love music and it's my parents fault (closing statement)." - Me..quoting myself...from when I said that...On TFP..thats here...Tilted Forum Project *It ain't goodbye, it's see ya later! I'll miss you guys!* - Asta!!

11-07-2004, 08:53 PM	#48 (permalink)
thesupermikey I got blisters on me fingers!!! Location: In my stressless expectation free zone.	when my last girl friend would give give me a message she would some times grind aginest my bum. I really liked that a lot. moving from dry humping to anal, i guess it would have to be with a woman i trusted. Im not really to keen on anal sex anyways, but if a girl wanted to give it a try i would be open about it __________________ If you are not outraged than you are not paying attention! "Reality has a well-known liberal bias" - Steven Colbert

11-07-2004, 06:01 PM	#44 (permalink)
daneo Tilted	As to the smell, depends on how well the girl and or man has "cleaned up" (so to speak) before the act. I have never tried but would be pretty open to it. It seems as though many men suffer from some (homo)phobia when it comes to their own hole. I don't get the whole "I know what comes out of it" argument. You know what comes out of your penis right? There isn't THAT big of a difference in that respect. Anyway, I guess it all comes down to your personal limits. Let's not be judgemental here...

11-07-2004, 06:03 PM	#45 (permalink)
Fallon Junkie Location: RI	I'd be willing to try it as long as my fiancee would get somethin out of it. I doubt I would be that tremendously much.

11-07-2004, 07:02 PM	#46 (permalink)
braisler Addict Location: Midway, KY	I've had a finger from my wife during oral and that is very pleasurable for me. Adds to the experience and all. I don't know about a strap-on. If she was really into it, then maybe. It would have to be a mostly psychological thing for her. I mean, if I am penetrating her, we both have sensation. If she is penetrating me with a strap-on... I feel it, sure. But what does she get out of it exactly? Any females out there who want to comment? Have you done this with your man? If so, did you get direct physical pleasure from it or was it a domination thing, control thing?

11-07-2004, 08:32 PM	#47 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	With the right person, I'd be open to trying just about anything. I don't say no to anything until the decision is in front of me, so I really can't tell now.

11-08-2004, 06:03 AM	#52 (permalink)
zepher Upright	I'd be into it! My wife has used her finger on me before and I came buckets. Whats with the homophobe comment?....its just sex....if it gets you off, why be ashamed?

11-08-2004, 06:28 AM	#54 (permalink)
Captain Nemo Insane Location: In a forest of red tape (but hey, I have scissors)	Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Would I do it again? Most definitely

11-08-2004, 06:46 AM	#55 (permalink)
Paul67 Upright	The idea has entered my mind a few times when giving oral to a lady. There I am, on my hands and knees, doing what I love to do most, with my butt up in the air, and suddenly it comes to mind, gee, now if we had another lady to join us we could try some kinky stuff, like ----

11-08-2004, 10:02 AM	#56 (permalink)
StephenSa Psycho Location: Dallas, Texas	ehh.....not so much. We're a one penis family!

11-08-2004, 10:35 AM	#57 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	I'd be willing to try it, as long as my woman would let me get her there, which she won't. So this is moot. But you never know until you try it. And her doing this to you certainly won't make you gay.

11-08-2004, 11:47 AM	#58 (permalink)
tellumFS Tilted	Yea...gonna have to pass on the strap-on. It just doesn't really work for me.

11-08-2004, 12:19 PM	#60 (permalink)
Redlemon Devoted Donor Location: New England	I don't mind anal play at all, but I think a strap-on might be a bit too rough. For the record, I haven't 'pitched' on anal sex either, so that's not a double-standard.

11-08-2004, 12:21 PM	#61 (permalink)
Coppertop Getting Medieval on your ass Location: 13th century Europe	I also find it telling that not a single person (as of this post) responded with this answer: I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again I think that says a hell of a lot about the experience.

11-08-2004, 12:58 PM	#64 (permalink)
water_boy1999 Fly em straight! Location: Above and Beyond	Yup, tried it, liked it very much. I am sure a lot of the difinitive "no way" responses are due to the stigma that it is a "gay" thing. It doesn't have to be. Men have a serious erogenous zone down there and there is nothing wrong with a little experimentation. I have had fingers twiddling down there, but would be open to something a little more robust with my SO.....if and when I find an SO. __________________ Doh!!!! -Homer Simpson

11-08-2004, 01:01 PM	#65 (permalink)
GTI Upright	I'll pass on that experince.

11-08-2004, 01:04 PM	#66 (permalink)
oscar0308 Crazy Location: New England	i've only done it twice. once 2 yrs ago.. and once about 2 wks ago. both times w/ my wife. dont know the difference between the 2 times, but after this time, she said 'we're gonna have to start doing that more often.' she loved..... and i cant say that i argued with her. its a really different feeling and after relaxing enough to enjoy it, it's great. as far as what the women get out of it.. you can buy a harness with either an inverted vibrator or a vibrating egg. inour case we had neither but the friction of the harness against her still have her an orgasm. very unexpected but o' so wonderful.

11-08-2004, 02:42 PM	#67 (permalink)
ziadel Myrmidon Location: In the twilight and mist.	yupp, I've dont it, loved it, did it some more, hope to do it more in the future __________________ Ron Paul '08 Vote for Freedom Go ahead and google Dr. Ron Paul. You'll like what you read.

11-08-2004, 10:03 PM	#69 (permalink)
imkeen Insane	In the spirit of openness... I'd like to try, but the wife isn't interested in receiving or giving. I've resorted to trying it on my own, just because I find myself bored and looking for new experiences. During masturbation, a finger or dildo is also VERY effective... (showers are a good place to do this, given the need to wash)

11-08-2004, 11:42 PM	#70 (permalink)
Dizzet Psycho Location: Denmark	hmm dont know if i would let that thing in my bum bum but maybe

11-09-2004, 05:58 AM	#71 (permalink)
RenaissanceII Psycho Location: Grand Rapids	OH gawd yess!!!!!!!!! __________________ *And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.* Anais Nin I Wish *You* Well.

11-09-2004, 07:04 AM	#72 (permalink)
BobbyWard Upright	If that's really you in your profile picture, you could do anything you wanted to me with that thing.

11-09-2004, 07:13 AM	#73 (permalink)
Daoust "I'm sorry. What was the question?" Location: Paradise Regained	I have given myself anal with my wifes vibrator but I didn't enjoy it much. It made me feel like I had to take a dump (which I assume is normal), and I didn't access any g-spots. I did it to myself because my wife would never in a million years go near my anus or have me go near hers. I just wanted to see what it felt like. Probably won't do it much anymore... __________________ I have faith in a few things - divinity and grace But even when I'm on my knees I know the devil preys

11-09-2004, 07:23 AM	#74 (permalink)
cj22009 On the edge of control Location: Ga	I did this with my ex wife she said if you want to do it to me i'm going to do it to you and it acctually felt good but man it made me cum in a heart beat

11-09-2004, 08:57 AM	#75 (permalink)
blindawg Lord over all I survey Location: Northern Michigan	I've had one gf use a vibrator onme, and another 2 use their fingers.. I must say those time have beent eh most instense orgasms I ever had. It's really the only time I can give up total control and enjoy myself.. __________________ ( • Y • ) I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it. ( • Y • ) - Jack Handey

11-09-2004, 12:14 PM	#76 (permalink)
mattevil Addict Location: Virginia	as long as she was gentle and knew what she was doing I'd be open to it. Don't want to get a hemroid or something for being open minded.

11-09-2004, 12:19 PM	#77 (permalink)
Mango Banned	I'd be into trying it but my wife when I mentioned it was totally not willing to entertain the idea.

11-09-2004, 01:13 PM	#78 (permalink)
Nazggul Psycho Location: San Francisco	Not sure why, but I have had fantasies about this recently. The way I picture it is on my back so she can jerk me off at the same time. I figure eventually I'll give it a go. Debianuser, typically before you would do anal the "receiver" will clean themself up first with a...whatchamacallit...Enima, ya that's it. I know I wouldn't do it to a woman if I didn't know she was clean inside and out. __________________ "If something has to give then it always will." -- Editors

11-09-2004, 01:30 PM	#79 (permalink)
Jim Kata Swollen Member Location: Northern VA	My girlfriend is against all anal. I'm not really into getting fucked with a strap on, but sometimes I wish she would just rub the buttle some while giving me head. And I would also love a rimjob. But like I said, she is against anal anything. We did try the prostate thing, but it didn't work out good because of my girlfriend's "prudeness". Basically I just jerked off with her finger in my ass....it wasn't as good as if she was giving me some dome or jerking me off herself (at least that is what I think). So no to the strap on, but yes to everything else.

11-09-2004, 02:35 PM	#80 (permalink)
PayUp DILLIGAF Location: AZ	If my wife came to me and said she wanted to try it I would have to say ok. After all, she lets me do her. If I said no she might not ever let me fuck her ass again. Who knows, might like it. __________________ Born to Lose.