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bing bing · 01-05-2005, 03:55 AM

I'm up for trying anything. However, I don't see myself ever finding a lady that would be willing.

The Prophet · 01-05-2005, 04:00 AM

Slam! (the sound of my mind going shut)

Um, no thanks.

ShaniFaye · 01-05-2005, 04:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by doncalypso

As I said it before in this thread, I love to give women anal sex and I love the feeling of a hot tight ass around my dick... But I have a hard time imagining what a woman would get out of fucking a guy in the ass with a dildo or strapon since a strapon doesn't have nerve endings.

I think women who are into ass-fucking guys with strapons do it for the power trip or because they just want to get back at guys for liking to take them up the ass... I don't see what a woman gets out of it.

isnt that kind of a selfish way to look at it?

Why should it be about what the woman gets out of it? Dont you ever do anything for your girl that is for HER pleasure when it does nothing for you? Can't it just be about knowing you're doing something that your partner greatly enjoys. What about when a woman gives her guy a bj and nothing else? There are LOTS of times that I know Dave has had a bad/tiring/etc day and I give him a bj when we go to bed to relax him....what do I get out of that? Whats the difference between onesided oral and using a strapon?

and as a sidenote...I have gotten off doing it....the strapon hits the "right" places and causes clitoral orgasms.....BUT Id do it even if it didnt because I love nothing more than knowing that IM doing something that my partner enjoys very much and satisfying him is what its all about.

Redlemon · 01-05-2005, 06:28 AM

I got a big kick out of this question, which I got off of the Suicide Girl RSS feed: ADVICE: Does My Boy Want a Wiener In His Butt?

Quote:

My boyfriend and I have recently become heavily active with anal sex, and at first it was a total blast. But before I let him deflower my winker, I required that he let me give him the old backdoor lambada with one of my many dildos from our pleasure chest.

The problem is that he really likes it, perhaps too much! Lately it seems as if all he wants to do is have me ream out his butt-guts with my strap-on. We even do this thing where he is on all fours in the bathtub while I jackhammer away up his ass and give him a firm reach around. This is starting to get old fast, I think what bugs me is how hugely he gets off, spastically shaking, dribbling his semen and sometimes peeing all over the tub. It's like the most intense orgasmic experience that could even be imagined.

I guess my question is, did I unlock some kind of Pandora’s Box here? Do you think deep down my boyfriend is looking to take a pork sword up his pooper? This would totally suck because we've gone out for like a whole year!

cameroncrazy822 · 01-05-2005, 07:07 AM

Ummmmmm negative.

mtnman323 · 01-05-2005, 06:07 PM

no never thank you

Aladdin Sane · 01-08-2005, 07:08 AM

Sign me up! Only problem is my wife is not up for it.

(
Any ladies here willing to make me their bitch?

fino534 · 01-08-2005, 08:50 AM

Sure why not, up for a lot of different things.

pinkie · 01-08-2005, 01:35 PM

Edit: For lack of real penis.

Roark · 01-08-2005, 02:46 PM

If she asked i'd give it the college try. I could see a finger or something small no huge strap on or anything thank you very much. If I don't like it no harm no foul and i don't seem like a jerk for asking her to let me do the same to her. Boy now that I think about it that would be real awkward that''s for sure!

01-08-2005, 08:36 PM

Sorry, my ass is definately exit only.

yotta · 01-09-2005, 01:25 AM

I've had a finger up my ass, and enjoyed it. I would like to try being on the receving end of strap on sex.

biznatch · 01-09-2005, 11:54 AM

I dont mind a girl fingering my ass but the strap on thing looks scary.

mazagmot · 01-09-2005, 07:25 PM

Absolutely down for it. I've spent far too much time with my own fingers up my ass to say no, and I also don't want to be a hypocrite. I just need to find someone who's willing to give it a go.

lovetoy · 01-10-2005, 01:05 PM

There are so many great ways to experiment and experience sexual things... I am sorry I waited so long to try anal play. The strap-on with your woman is great and sexy and has some interesting power exchange concepts. However the real deal is for her to use a dildo with her hand - massaging/pounding your prostrate. You must communicate and guide her and use lots of lube. The initial feeling is a little strange, but once you are comfortable- this play can send you to another planet (Uranus!)- seriously want a new kind of orgasm that will send you body into a tremor and put a moan on your lips...an no this is not just a gay thing.
OK so the best, cleanest is to do an enema before you play and make sure that you do not present her with any surprises. This is not that difficult for the reward you reap.

Munku · 01-11-2005, 05:52 PM

I'd definately do it any day.

SntrRck · 01-11-2005, 10:21 PM

I enjoy having my ass played with and my plug is certainly fun, but it still hurts like crazy going in...so I don't think I'm ready for the strap on just yet. I need to get loosened up.

robertjtucker · 01-14-2005, 11:33 AM

Just don't like the idea of it, don't think I would like it.

Crisis · 01-14-2005, 08:43 PM

Not a chance in hell. Not a road I would ever take when experimenting.

Cervantes · 01-15-2005, 11:13 AM

I think I've said it before in a thread in Wayside but for records sake, If it was with someone i trust and care for and they want to try it I'm game. I'll try everything once.

VitaminH · 01-15-2005, 11:28 AM

I prefer to keep rectums one way streets thankyou. That goes for both sexes.

I'm just not into that.

biznatch · 01-15-2005, 10:00 PM

strap ons are scary...they just look painful and brutal and have an S&M connotation to them (no offense to S&M ppl out there)
and I like having my ass played with, but not in a S&M brutal way, just a pleasurable way

rainheart · 01-16-2005, 02:07 AM

biznatch kind of summed it up for me
they look scary, they are sort of tied with s&m, which for the most part I don't enjoy at all. now if you knew for sure the woman would be gentle... and the strapon penis was like extra extra small.... id still probably not lol

you know, the reason why it may have seemed that *every man* was interested and messaging you over yahoo was probably because it was the internet

hambone · 01-18-2005, 11:54 AM

no thank you.

drakers · 01-18-2005, 03:27 PM

That would just hurt too much to even try, guys just aren't built to do things like that, especially me.

kel · 01-18-2005, 04:20 PM

Up t3h bu++ R0X0RZ

tommylee02 · 01-18-2005, 08:31 PM

No thank you, please.

monkey boy · 01-22-2005, 06:17 AM

i'd be willing to I guess, but I'd have to be in a very horny mood. It'd be cool to feel the women on you for a change.

streak_56 · 01-25-2005, 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights

That's something that I'd have to take a pass on.

I second that

oizo · 01-25-2005, 11:25 PM

yeah i'd give it a go! why not.

skinnymofo · 01-26-2005, 12:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rainheart

you know, the reason why it may have seemed that *every man* was interested and messaging you over yahoo was probably because it was the internet

that i think could be a good point, seeing as how No guy would just be shooting the shit with their friends (no pun intended) and be like "yeah, so i had my [wife/gf/fb/whatever] stick their (finger, dildo, strap on, whatever) and it was freakin' awesome!"
although an older person if they had really good and open friends its feasible, i guess

projectself · 01-26-2005, 11:41 AM

i have never used a strap-on on my boyfriend, however, he does like a finger shoved up his ass right before he's about to cum. he's never brought it up, and as we have an extremely comfortable and understanding sexual relationship, i'd think he would have mentioned it by now. too bad - i'd be willing! but i definitely understand why he might not.

pinkie · 01-26-2005, 12:11 PM

Quote:

Quote:
Originally Posted by doncalypso:
As I said it before in this thread, I love to give women anal sex and I love the feeling of a hot tight ass around my dick... But I have a hard time imagining what a woman would get out of fucking a guy in the ass with a dildo or strapon since a strapon doesn't have nerve endings.

Ummmmm… turned on by it? (Just a guess)

Quote:

I think women who are into ass-fucking guys with strapons do it for the power trip or because they just want to get back at guys for liking to take them up the ass... I don't see what a woman gets out of it.

Oh, please…. Sex is a give and take. It should turn you on to turn someone else on. Your way sounds a little one-sided. If a girl breaks down and fucks her man in the ass because he ASKED her to, and said he’d been fucking himself for years, and wanted to feel an actual woman on the other end filling him with pleasure, would this still be in your opinion, a power trip for the woman?

Now, what does she get out of doing something that drives her man wild? Hmmm, let me guess; A dripping wet, swollen, throbbing, hot, pussy? (Again, I'm just speculating)

I think you need to free your mind...

Jim Kata · 01-26-2005, 12:32 PM

I wasn't opposed to a finger up the pooper but a strap-on was a no way thing for me.
Until I had a dream two nights in a row about it. Now I'm curious. But I may go the Aneros route instead.

flstf · 01-26-2005, 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leah's Passion

My old one is kind of cheap. All of this strap on talk has inspired my s/o to try it out, so I ordered this from my wholesaler last night (I am a sex toy retailer)
Isn't it pretty?

I guess I'm not very adventurous. If my wife came at me with one of those things I would be afraid, very afraid.

WS6_KID · 01-26-2005, 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Redlemon

I got a big kick out of this question, which I got off of the Suicide Girl RSS feed: ADVICE: Does My Boy Want a Wiener In His Butt?

BWHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAA!

C4 Diesel · 01-26-2005, 04:37 PM

No thank you... I'm a giver, not a taker.

mazagmot · 01-26-2005, 06:05 PM

With the way most strap-ons sit, it rubs on the woman's clit. You can also find strap ons that take vibrating bullets without too much trouble. There are even ones that use a double headed dildo, so one end goes in the women, and one into whomever she's penetrating.

socal · 01-27-2005, 12:11 AM

I dont know about being pounded with a dildo, but one time, I was getting a blowjob by my girl and right when I was blowing she pushed her finger in. Not hard and not far, and it definitely took the orgasm to the next level.

ShaniFaye · 01-27-2005, 04:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pinkie

Ummmmm… turned on by it? (Just a guess)

Oh, please…. Sex is a give and take. It should turn you on to turn someone else on. Your way sounds a little one-sided. If a girl breaks down and fucks her man in the ass because he ASKED her to, and said he’d been fucking himself for years, and wanted to feel an actual woman on the other end filling him with pleasure, would this still be in your opinion, a power trip for the woman?

Now, what does she get out of doing something that drives her man wild? Hmmm, let me guess; A dripping wet, swollen, throbbing, hot, pussy? (Again, I'm just speculating)

I think you need to free your mind...

pinkie, he didnt bother to answer my questions along that line either

View Poll Results: Would you enjoy being pleasured by a woman wearing a strap on? (men only, please)
No, I have no interest in that	311	43.56%
I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again	3	0.42%
I have not tried it, but I would be willing to	325	45.52%
I have done it and would do it again	75	10.50%
Voters: 714. You may not vote on this poll

01-05-2005, 04:00 AM	#122 (permalink)
The Prophet Tilted Location: Space, the final frontier.	Slam! (the sound of my mind going shut) Um, no thanks. __________________ "The death-knell of the republic had rung as soon as the active power became lodged in the hands of those who sought, not to do justice to all citizens, rich and poor alike, but to stand for one special class and for its interests as opposed to the interests of others. " - Theodore Roosevelt

01-08-2005, 07:08 AM	#127 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane Degenerate Location: San Marvelous	Sign me up! Only problem is my wife is not up for it. ( Any ladies here willing to make me their bitch? __________________ Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam.

01-08-2005, 01:35 PM	#129 (permalink)
pinkie Helplessly hoping Location: Above the stars	Edit: For lack of real penis. Last edited by pinkie; 01-08-2005 at 01:55 PM..

01-09-2005, 01:25 AM	#132 (permalink)
yotta Irresponsible	I've had a finger up my ass, and enjoyed it. I would like to try being on the receving end of strap on sex. __________________ I am Jack's signature.

01-05-2005, 03:55 AM	#121 (permalink)
bing bing Addict Location: Melbourne, Australia	I'm up for trying anything. However, I don't see myself ever finding a lady that would be willing.

01-05-2005, 07:07 AM	#125 (permalink)
cameroncrazy822 Junkie Location: MD	Ummmmmm negative.

01-05-2005, 06:07 PM	#126 (permalink)
mtnman323 Upright	no never thank you

01-08-2005, 08:50 AM	#128 (permalink)
fino534 Upright	Sure why not, up for a lot of different things.

01-08-2005, 02:46 PM	#130 (permalink)
Roark Insane	If she asked i'd give it the college try. I could see a finger or something small no huge strap on or anything thank you very much. If I don't like it no harm no foul and i don't seem like a jerk for asking her to let me do the same to her. Boy now that I think about it that would be real awkward that''s for sure!

01-08-2005, 08:36 PM	#131 (permalink)
Skidude Guest	Sorry, my ass is definately exit only.

01-09-2005, 11:54 AM	#133 (permalink)
biznatch Junkie Location: France	I dont mind a girl fingering my ass but the strap on thing looks scary. __________________ Check it out: The Open Source/Freeware/Gratis Software Thread

01-09-2005, 07:25 PM	#134 (permalink)
mazagmot Crazy Location: S. Korea	Absolutely down for it. I've spent far too much time with my own fingers up my ass to say no, and I also don't want to be a hypocrite. I just need to find someone who's willing to give it a go. __________________ d^_^b Got my headphones on.

01-10-2005, 01:05 PM	#135 (permalink)
lovetoy Upright Location: SF Bay Area	There are so many great ways to experiment and experience sexual things... I am sorry I waited so long to try anal play. The strap-on with your woman is great and sexy and has some interesting power exchange concepts. However the real deal is for her to use a dildo with her hand - massaging/pounding your prostrate. You must communicate and guide her and use lots of lube. The initial feeling is a little strange, but once you are comfortable- this play can send you to another planet (Uranus!)- seriously want a new kind of orgasm that will send you body into a tremor and put a moan on your lips...an no this is not just a gay thing. OK so the best, cleanest is to do an enema before you play and make sure that you do not present her with any surprises. This is not that difficult for the reward you reap.

01-11-2005, 05:52 PM	#136 (permalink)
Munku Lost Location: Florida	I'd definately do it any day.

01-18-2005, 11:54 AM	#144 (permalink)
hambone Zeroed In Location: CA	no thank you. __________________ "Like liquid white from fallen glass, Nothing to cry over"

01-18-2005, 04:20 PM	#146 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Up t3h bu++ R0X0RZ __________________ "It better be funny"

01-11-2005, 10:21 PM	#137 (permalink)
SntrRck Upright	I enjoy having my ass played with and my plug is certainly fun, but it still hurts like crazy going in...so I don't think I'm ready for the strap on just yet. I need to get loosened up.

01-14-2005, 11:33 AM	#138 (permalink)
robertjtucker Upright Location: Durham, NC	Just don't like the idea of it, don't think I would like it.

01-14-2005, 08:43 PM	#139 (permalink)
Crisis Tilted	Not a chance in hell. Not a road I would ever take when experimenting.

01-15-2005, 11:13 AM	#140 (permalink)
Cervantes Psycho Location: Above you	I think I've said it before in a thread in Wayside but for records sake, If it was with someone i trust and care for and they want to try it I'm game. I'll try everything once. __________________ - "Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned.." - "Religions take everything that your DNA naturally wants to do to survive and pro-create and makes it wrong." - "There is only one absolute truth and that is that there is only one absolute truth."

01-15-2005, 11:28 AM	#141 (permalink)
VitaminH An embarrassment to myself and those around me... Location: Pants	I prefer to keep rectums one way streets thankyou. That goes for both sexes. I'm just not into that. __________________ "Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever." - Napoleon Bonaparte

01-15-2005, 10:00 PM	#142 (permalink)
biznatch Junkie Location: France	strap ons are scary...they just look painful and brutal and have an S&M connotation to them (no offense to S&M ppl out there) and I like having my ass played with, but not in a S&M brutal way, just a pleasurable way __________________ Check it out: The Open Source/Freeware/Gratis Software Thread

01-16-2005, 02:07 AM	#143 (permalink)
rainheart Psycho	biznatch kind of summed it up for me they look scary, they are sort of tied with s&m, which for the most part I don't enjoy at all. now if you knew for sure the woman would be gentle... and the strapon penis was like extra extra small.... id still probably not lol you know, the reason why it may have seemed that every man was interested and messaging you over yahoo was probably because it was the internet

01-18-2005, 03:27 PM	#145 (permalink)
drakers Psycho Location: IOWA	That would just hurt too much to even try, guys just aren't built to do things like that, especially me. Last edited by drakers; 01-27-2005 at 07:56 AM..

01-18-2005, 08:31 PM	#147 (permalink)
tommylee02 Tilted	No thank you, please.

01-22-2005, 06:17 AM	#148 (permalink)
monkey boy Upright Location: Perth, Western Australia	i'd be willing to I guess, but I'd have to be in a very horny mood. It'd be cool to feel the women on you for a change.

01-25-2005, 11:25 PM	#150 (permalink)
oizo Upright	yeah i'd give it a go! why not.

01-26-2005, 11:41 AM	#152 (permalink)
projectself Upright Location: seattle, wa	i have never used a strap-on on my boyfriend, however, he does like a finger shoved up his ass right before he's about to cum. he's never brought it up, and as we have an extremely comfortable and understanding sexual relationship, i'd think he would have mentioned it by now. too bad - i'd be willing! but i definitely understand why he might not.

01-26-2005, 12:32 PM	#154 (permalink)
Jim Kata Swollen Member Location: Northern VA	I wasn't opposed to a finger up the pooper but a strap-on was a no way thing for me. Until I had a dream two nights in a row about it. Now I'm curious. But I may go the Aneros route instead.

01-26-2005, 04:37 PM	#157 (permalink)
C4 Diesel Crazy Location: Troy, NY	No thank you... I'm a giver, not a taker. __________________ C4 to your door, no beef no more...

01-26-2005, 06:05 PM	#158 (permalink)
mazagmot Crazy Location: S. Korea	With the way most strap-ons sit, it rubs on the woman's clit. You can also find strap ons that take vibrating bullets without too much trouble. There are even ones that use a double headed dildo, so one end goes in the women, and one into whomever she's penetrating.

01-27-2005, 12:11 AM	#159 (permalink)
socal Tilted	I dont know about being pounded with a dildo, but one time, I was getting a blowjob by my girl and right when I was blowing she pushed her finger in. Not hard and not far, and it definitely took the orgasm to the next level.