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View Poll Results: Sexual frequency per month (edited)
Every day 16 14.55%
Twice per week 25 22.73%
Three times per week 23 20.91%
Four times per week 15 13.64%
Once per week 14 12.73%
Once per two week 7 6.36%
Once per three week 6 5.45%
Once per month 6 5.45%
Less than once per month 1 0.91%
NEver 0 0%
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:14 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Sexual Frequency

Hello all,

I would like to have a poll on our sexual activity based on
age. Let us know your age and your sexual frequency
(ladies, sorry about asking about your age!)
Also, tell us if the trend is up or down compare to previous
years
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:23 AM   #2 (permalink)
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is this a homework assignment if not then I'll participate
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:26 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Just a simple question

Not a school work. Been out of school for too long!
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:29 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Umm... none of the above? Long distance relationships = infrequency of seeing the person = having sex about 4 times a day per the 2ish days we have together every 3ish weeks.

So really, it's not a simple question for me
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:33 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Might be interesting to add length of relationship for couples also.

Me 33, her 41, been together 5 1/2 years, averaging 1-2 times a week.
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:35 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Yeah, it's kind of complicated for me too. Average is probably four-five a week for me. I'm 23 btw. It is more frequently than it has been in the past.
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:39 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:43 AM   #8 (permalink)
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You can choose multiple poll options; that doesn't make any sense. And you really need a 2-dimensional answerspace (perhaps 3-dimensional, if you want to include gender), which the polling system here can't handle. There should probably be options for [] less than once per month and [] never. And the order is screwy; if you assign ordinals, the options are 1, 4, 3, 2, 5, 6, 7, 8.

Other than that... what was the question again?
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Old 09-28-2004, 11:48 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Dear Redlemon... please feel free to update this into a new poll. I am pretty new with this system and don't really know how to do all that. Your idea sounds good to me!
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Old 09-28-2004, 12:04 PM   #10 (permalink)
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In the last week it was about five times. That hasn't happened in a few years.

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Old 09-28-2004, 12:18 PM   #11 (permalink)
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It varies, but I'd say an average of once per week. I'm 24.
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Old 09-28-2004, 12:30 PM   #12 (permalink)
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so I'm 26....and am at once a month with a steady girlfriend (4 yrs) that I live with!!! (is something wrong with this picture?)

if it were up to me it'd be at least once a day!
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Old 09-28-2004, 01:01 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Im female, 19yr.s old and i have been with/ living with some one for about five months (hes 21).... went slowly from three times a day to three times a week or more. no complaints =)

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Old 09-28-2004, 01:14 PM   #14 (permalink)
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It varies so much. Might be 2-3 times per week, or 2 or 3 weeks without. Just never know.

Edit- Oh yeah. I'm 32, she's 30. We've been together for 12 years, married for the past 7 yrs.
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Old 09-28-2004, 01:39 PM   #15 (permalink)
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I'm 33, my wife is 34. We've been together almost 14 years. Right now, the trend is down, 2 times per week. But that really isn't the case. We cam go 2 or 3 weeks with nothing, then bang if you know what I mean!
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Old 09-28-2004, 01:39 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I used to have much more frequent sex with my girlfriend. However this is now my last year at school and I'm a Biology major so my classes and lab demand most of my time (not to mention that I'm also involved in the executive board of some on-campus orgnizations as well) and I don't get to spend as much time with the girlfriend as I'd like.

Another problem is that my girlfriend has seriously let her physique slack since we've been together (almost three years now), so now she no longer has that nice tempting and bootylicious figure that initially caught my attention and yet she expects me to be turned on by her all the time and find her to be the sexiest woman on Earth even though she eats way too much and doesn't work out at all. So of course, our sex life is slowly but surely heading towards the abyss.
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Old 09-28-2004, 01:51 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Old 09-28-2004, 02:04 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Right now... I'm getting it 3 to 5 times a week. I'm 34 and have a new g/f (been together almost 3 months). The trend is certainly on the rise... no pun intended... since I was single for quite some time before that.
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Old 09-28-2004, 02:21 PM   #19 (permalink)
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it may not always be "intercourse" but we engage in some kind of sexual "activity" at least 4 times a week Im 36, Dave is 31 and we have been together 1 year and 10 days
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Old 09-28-2004, 02:26 PM   #20 (permalink)
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I would have chosen the more frequently than every day option if it was there, but I voted as "every day".
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Old 09-28-2004, 02:35 PM   #21 (permalink)
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25yo. About 4-5 times a week. Don't you love the early part of relationships?
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Old 09-28-2004, 02:36 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I know i'm coming short to answer your query, but i'll be 42 in December. Currently...sex is about once every 2-3 months if lucky. Yeah....it sucks. This changed with age. I'm very sexual...my other lost the drive. I am considering an alternative lifestyle...never thought it would come to that, but guys...you gotta feel me here; Ladies...i'm sure the response is as diverse as the depths of the ocean, but males have needs too.
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Old 09-28-2004, 02:49 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Eh, once every two weeks. 21. I'd talk about it more, but it just makes me sad.
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Old 09-28-2004, 04:13 PM   #24 (permalink)
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At least once a day, but usually It's 2 to 3.
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Old 09-28-2004, 04:14 PM   #25 (permalink)
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my girl and i don't have sex, but we do fool around once or twice a week. we don't see each other except on the weekends.

i'm 27
she's 29
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Old 09-28-2004, 07:17 PM   #26 (permalink)
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This seems to be my plan at the moment too. Only three years till I hit that first 22 years. ... Hmm...
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Old 09-28-2004, 08:04 PM   #27 (permalink)
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In the last week it was about five times. That hasn't happened in a few years.
Make that six.
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Old 09-28-2004, 08:12 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Old 09-28-2004, 08:19 PM   #29 (permalink)
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We've been together almost 9 months and right now it's usually once or maybe twice everyday.
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Old 09-28-2004, 08:21 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Are you counting sex with a partner? Or does self-love count?

If it was up to me, I'd have sex at least every day. My gal has mellowed from the earlier days of our relationship.

I'd say about 3 times a week, but multiple times those days.
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Old 09-28-2004, 09:06 PM   #31 (permalink)
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*Rant* Just based on your own words, I'd say that you are only interested in your girlfriend as a sexual object and not as a equal human being. Yes, I'm fat, and that does color my opinions a bit (but only a smidge). You say you've been with your GF for three years and in that time she's let "her physique slack" and "eats way too much and doesn't work out at all". Well, guess what?...people change!!!

My Hubby and I have been together almost 16 yrs. We were 17 1/2 when we met and I weighed all of 95 lbs., had a kick-ass body, and was beautiful back then (probably why he was drawin to me, although I was insecure and didn't realize any of that at the time). Within the first year we were together, actually the last 8 mths., I gained 100 lbs. and went from a 95 lb. girl to a 195 lb. girl with absolutely no change in diet or lifestyle (only change in my life was my parents getting divorced which was actually a very good thing). And no, I wasn't a closet eater, I didn't have late night binges and stuff my face with tons of junk food or any of the other cliche' things people who've never been fat like to throw around about why other people are fat. Like I said (and I've been tested by many doctors since), it just happened.

My Hubby is a very good-looking guy, not just in my eyes, but in many other females eyes as well. He had not even a year of my thin self before I gained weight and yet he has been with me for nearly 15 yrs. since. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and obviously you can't behold beauty in someone who has a few extra pounds on her body.

I'm not saying fat is beautiful, but if you truly love your GF (of 3 yrs.!), than you need to accept her as she is or else tell her that you will never be able to deal with a less-than-perfect person and get your ass out of the relationship so she doesn't have any worse emotional fall-out (than she already will) if you do it any later on down the road.

Sorry, but I can't stand people who buy into the "Britany Spears/Supermodel" Hollywood ideal of what women should look like. Hello, take a look around you (unless you live in L.A.), 98.9% of women don't look like models/actresses/porn stars or any other woman that is in the media, get a clue people, please.

For those of you still in the dark, most of those Hollywood women don't even look like that in real life, it's called airbrushing. If you don't want your bubble popped, than don't check this site out! (I appoligize, I don't really know how to post links yet)

"Greg's Digital Archive". www.homepage.mac.com/gapodaca/digital/bikini/

That site's content's even surprised the shit out of me and I suspected something along those lines, but didn't think reality even came as close as that.

*Rant* over, continue on...

Ali

Edited to say: Happy happy, joy joy!! I now know that I just have to type out the web address and a link will automatically be there! (Pretty much a forum tech virgin )
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Old 09-28-2004, 10:43 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Now? Zilch. When I had a girlfriend? 2-3 times per day.
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Old 09-29-2004, 12:16 AM   #33 (permalink)
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Umm... none of the above? Long distance relationships = infrequency of seeing the person = having sex about 4 times a day per the 2ish days we have together every 3ish weeks.

So really, it's not a simple question for me
I'm with Averett. Maybe we should set up a thread where the distance people disclose how frequently they get nookie when they are together with their SO's.
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Old 09-29-2004, 03:19 AM   #34 (permalink)
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I used to have much more frequent sex with my girlfriend. However this is now my last year at school and I'm a Biology major so my classes and lab demand most of my time (not to mention that I'm also involved in the executive board of some on-campus orgnizations as well) and I don't get to spend as much time with the girlfriend as I'd like.

Another problem is that my girlfriend has seriously let her physique slack since we've been together (almost three years now), so now she no longer has that nice tempting and bootylicious figure that initially caught my attention and yet she expects me to be turned on by her all the time and find her to be the sexiest woman on Earth even though she eats way too much and doesn't work out at all. So of course, our sex life is slowly but surely heading towards the abyss.

Im sorry in advance....but this REALLY pisses me off....I think thats one of the most shallow statements I've read here in awhile.....I can't stand when people talk like this....if she doesnt "do" it for you anymore why are you still with her? There are plenty of men in the world that LOVE their girlfriends and its that LOVE that works in turning them on....hell Im not skinny (as most of you know) and my guy still wakes up every morning telling me that Im the sexiest woman in the world and he wouldnt change a thing about me....grrr Im going to try to calm down now as I really dont want to say something wrong

alicat....high fives to you woman, looks like we found guys that dont live in the "shallow hal" world
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Old 09-29-2004, 06:27 AM   #35 (permalink)
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We are both 28, been together over 12 yrs and probably have sex 2-3 times per week. But I am easily persuaded to give a BJ or handjob on those nights when I'm not in the mood. So I think he's pretty happy with that.

Back when we first started having sex we were 17 and fucked like rabbits every day after school. Sometimes several times in one night. That tapered off when we went to college because it was harder to be alone (stupid dorm roommates!).

It's mostly me that has the 'mood' issues. He'd have sex at least once a day if I was still that horny all the time. Real life has taken hold though, and I'm not a carefree teenager anymore! The house doesn't clean itself, the laundry doesn't just jump in the washer for me, and I can't send a Redgirl clone to work for me everyday. Sometimes I just get tired dammit!

(Sorry, we've had this discussion... I'm a little defensive.)
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Old 09-29-2004, 07:00 AM   #36 (permalink)
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alicat...that is really hard to swallow....the fact that you haven't changed your easting habits or excercise yet have put on 100 lbs in 8 months?? I call bull-S**T on that. There is no way you can pack on 100 lbs that quickly without eating alot more food.....or the same amount but just loaded in sugar and fat. I sympathize with doncalypso......hell I'm in the same boat.....I'm young and my gf has kind of fallen of the wagon.....and it's affecting my sex life cause she is unhappy with her looks. I'm supportive and all that BS....but she does nothing to change her appearance....so why should I tolerate it? My personal philosophy is to be in the best shape you can be...and if you aren't than you are lazy....and you are settling in your own life, let alone those that are affected by it.....so before losing it on calypso.....think of it from his perspective...
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Old 09-29-2004, 07:24 AM   #37 (permalink)
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I'm 24 - loverboy's 26 and I'd say that we do it 2 times per week or up to 4 times if our daily schedule isn't too stressing or tiring for either of us. Of course we did it like 6 times per week when we first started seeing eachother but it's been about 2 times per week for the last 1½ years + the bonus of BJ's, oral sex and what not. That's a pretty good rate so I'm not complaining
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Old 09-29-2004, 07:49 AM   #38 (permalink)
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im 23 and she is 28....its anywhere between 1 - 2 times a day depending on if her kid is busy watching cartoons or doing homework. Its a religious thing to wake up and its the first thing we do...helps start the day of right!
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Old 09-29-2004, 08:49 AM   #39 (permalink)
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