Terminal Frost

God damn it. My girlfriend and I were almost completely naked on my bed just really getting into things and my fucking dad knocks on the door. She ran to the bathroom real quick and I threw on my pants and shirt and answered the door. My dad and his girlfriend were there because they had some clean towels or some shit that the wanted to give me. Fuck that.

I know this isn't a big deal, but I'm posting this right now and this is how I feel. My girlfriend and I get to see each other so little and it just blows when a whole night is gone like this. When my dad realized my girlfriend was over he seemed kind of sorry that he knocked on the door, but whatever.

I'm not mad that I didn't get to get off. I just hate it when I can't have a good night with my girlfriend with no fucking interruptions. It completely ruins the mood. I told her I was sorry but she laughed and said she didn't care. She had to leave soon anyway so she just took off.

It seems like it is impossible for us to have a good, mature, eventful night without some petty shit happening to ruin it. Granted we're only seniors in highschool and most 18 year-olds don't have their own houses, but it still sucks. I hate to be reminded that I still live at home and that in many ways we're still just kids. I hate that because I know we're much more above it and we always have such a fucking unbelievebly awesome time when we get the rare occasion that no one else (friends, family, etc.) are around.

Ok - sorry for the rant... I'm just here in my room alone now and you guys are the only ones I can vent to

MrFlux

Meh, get a lock and just tell them to go away.

I don't have a lock, my family always comes in without knocking even, or they knock then open the door without waiting for a reply.

You just learn to live with it, don't let it spoil your fun.

Trust me, it's worse when your girlfriend's mother rings while you're going at it.

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ickma

Just buy your parents a gift certificate for a nice restaurant. They'll enjoy themselves, think you're a good kid and you get to have your fun.

ibis

Shit! Where was this advice when I was in highschool?

Terminal Frost,
This is the reason motels were invented. The only problem, geting your girl to go for it. Usually it takes a bit to get'em worked up to the point you were at.

You can't say, "hey, lets go to a motel" when your at home cause by the time you get there the mood will be lost. And if you say "Lets go to a motel" before hand... well she may not be into, or feel like she's pressured.

If you figure out how to work this sitution LET ME KNOW!

exizldelfuego

Or the most genius way of all: Both you and the girl answer the door stark naked. They'll think twice about knocking in the future.

Rlyss

I'm surprised you said 'but whatever'. Has this happened before? or is this the first time? If this is the first time I think it might even be the last. Your dad's got a girlfriend, not a wife, so I do apologize for putting this thought in your mind, but he's probably looking for some privacy too. That means he's going to be more aware of you and your girlfriend being in the same situation as him (er...).

What's that mean? It means next time you're in a good mood with your dad, mention that your girlfriend was over and if he's an understanding guy (and OK with you having a girlfriend in your room alone) then I can almost guarantee he's not going to come barging in anytime soon.

Your dad being sorry for barging in is a good sign, it means next time he'll be more careful.

maleficent

the bandana on the doorknob always worked in college - give it a shot next time...

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Seaver

Your dad is sorry for it, so it wasnt intended. It also sounds like he's cool with it since he's not mad it was taking place in his house.

So...

1) Take the advice of the gift certificate/reservation for your dad/his gf.
2) Talk to your dad, let him know never to interrupt like that again. Bandana/rubber band on the door knob works as long as he knows to look for it.
3) If nothing else rent a hotel room. As long as she's comfterble with you it'll work... everyone turns freakier in a hotel for some reason. But it *could* make her feel cheap or like a whore... had it happen to a friend. They were at it like rabbits in each others house... one weekend he rented a hotel room (she was up for it) then they got there she freaked out, ran out, and broke up with him because she said it made her feel like a hooker.

Redgirl

You prob can't rent a hotel room, most places you have to be at least 21. Unless it's really sleazy and then she probably would feel like a whore!

Yep, if your dad is cool with you guys having sex there, then it shouldn't be a problem to just let him know the sign to look for that says "don't bother me, I'm fucking". Ummm... sorry, "making sweet, sweet love" I mean.

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pig

Yeah, as a follow up I can't quite relate to the situation. My parents in high school would have caned my ass if they had known the shit I was pulling off with my girlfriends, and they certainly weren't crazy about me having girlfriends alone in my bedroom. Girlfriends parents were usually crazy about it either.

As said above, if your dad walked in on you and realized that your girlfriend was in and all that, he must know you were smackin it. You can choose to either live with it / get inventive, or break the code of silence and set up a early warning system.

You could also walk in on him sometime, and then suggest that maybe he might want to put a rubber band on the door to let you know he's getting bizzy, and then suggest that, what the fuck, since y'all are being all modest and friendly, maybe you'll just do the same when you need privacy.

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denim

That's a good answer, but I think the best one would be to ignore them. If they open the door while you two are going at it, they'll learn REALLY fast. Just be sure to warn your girl before you adopt this policy.