04-23-2003, 08:59 PM | #43 (permalink) |
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Location: The 7th Level..
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Owie. Sorry to hear that, Uuudar. Don't stay down too long. There is someone (or many someones) out there who operate on the same wavelength you do. They will show up.
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04-26-2003, 02:02 PM | #46 (permalink) |
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Location: Midwest
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I'm good friends with both of my ex-girlfriends. I couldn't date them again, but I could marry them.
Dating is an exploration of the other person. You can't explore your good friends you already know them, so you just end up fighting over stuff that didn't matter as friends but doesn't work when dating. If you want a long-term marriage track relationship find out what she thinks. You can ask as a friend and not seriously mess up the relationship. However, if you are just looking for a quick lay, say goodbye to your friend.
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04-26-2003, 02:29 PM | #47 (permalink) | |
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10-17-2004, 08:18 PM | #50 (permalink) |
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Location: Ottawa (frozen hellscape)
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Although I suppose it could technically work, you're really going out on a limb. I can say from experience that once you cross that line, there's no going back to 'just friends'. And if it doesn't happen to work out, well...be prepared for an abundant harvest of awkward moments.
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10-17-2004, 09:25 PM | #51 (permalink) |
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Location: Toronto
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i believe there can be sex with no strings attached if you are both can walk out of it without emotions.
i have always been very emotional in any romantic relationships, but i know of one guy whom i can go to bed with and walk away the next morning feeling nothing. and it has happened, more than once, and we're still good friends. we still confide in one another bout our problems, but we flirt and get it off too. it really depends, but i have realized that in most cases, it has screwed up friendships. |
10-18-2004, 09:10 AM | #52 (permalink) |
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I tell you what; marrying your best friend is the best. I did and things have never been better. At least you have gotten to know someone that you can share your life with. Someone that you have something in common with. Not just a sexual partner. Sex is fine but if you don't have a life it is not worth it in the long run. Sex is only a part of a relationship and a minor one at that. You have to really get along to make a relationship work. Just take it slow and hopefully it will make you as happy as I am in my relationship.
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10-18-2004, 09:16 AM | #53 (permalink) |
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Location: Cleveland, TN
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I had the same situation going on that you did about 2 years ago. Me and a friend of 15 years started hanging out a lot, just real friendly like. Then, one night after a football game we were talking, and boom we were on the couch making out like nothing else mattered. That relationship lasted about 3 months before it just blew up. Over a year goes by and we don't speak, and I really just hate life because I not only lost a girlfriend who I loved very much, but one of the best friends I'd ever had. Then, one day my friend hands me his phone with her on it and within seconds we're back together. I can now say I'm in the happiest relationship anybody could probably ever be in. Dating a friend can be a great thing, just take things slow... maybe jump to the whole friends with benefits thing first before really committing. That's always a fun thing to do... let's you test the waters a little bit before you dive on in
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