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Old 01-17-2004, 03:58 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Special things to do for your significant others birthday? (special sexual things?)

Special things to do for your significant others birthday? (special sexual things?) My gf is visiting me at college for the weekend of her bday, i want to do something special for her. I already have done the bed of rose petals thing, im wondering is there anything else special that i can do to make her feel extra loved ?
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Old 01-17-2004, 04:47 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Maybe buy her some nice lingerie, satin sheets, you name it. Or you could try some more foreplay related stuff, simple and not too kinky, like a blindfold, so all of her other senses are heightened. Being a dorm, I'm guessing candles are out of the question.
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Old 01-18-2004, 01:11 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Well this really depends. Does it have to be comepletely sexual. You could make it real intimacy. There is a difference. Make sure you tell her you love her. And sex should always be something you both really enjoy. Stick with the following rule. My partner before myself. With that you will make her feel loved.


I don't mean to say you have no sense of love or anything I just however mention this because people just like to know they are loved. You don't always have to do something extremely special to make them love you more. You should just love them with everything you can everyday. Maybe you could start with this weekend?
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Old 01-18-2004, 01:44 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 01-18-2004, 11:15 AM   #5 (permalink)
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If you really want to make her feel loved then please her sexually for three days without letting yourself come, not even one time... not THAT should work!

Let us know how I went will ya?
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Old 01-18-2004, 12:26 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Well this really depends. Does it have to be comepletely sexual. You could make it real intimacy. There is a difference. Make sure you tell her you love her. And sex should always be something you both really enjoy. Stick with the following rule. My partner before myself. With that you will make her feel loved.

I don't mean to say you have no sense of love or anything I just however mention this because people just like to know they are loved. You don't always have to do something extremely special to make them love you more. You should just love them with everything you can everyday. Maybe you could start with this weekend?
Oh i let her know shes loved, but the thing is we are on a long distance relationship, so when we get togather we spend all day togather and i love every moment of it and i let her know. It dosent have to be sexual, but im looking for something sexual, sensual, or just intimate.
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Old 01-18-2004, 03:25 PM   #7 (permalink)
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best results I've had

she does things for him = wear a babydoll outfit, shave, and have the lights down low and be waiting at the door when he opens it

he does things for her = lots of candles, a bottle of lotion, romantic music, and had just taken a shower... so you are still kinda that hot sweaty, but good sweaty when she comes in, oh and minus the shirt... but in boxerpants or something of the like
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Old 01-18-2004, 04:18 PM   #8 (permalink)
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we use ropes, they work well if used correctly (i.e. how she likes them)

But overall, LStanley's got it, read his post twice.
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Old 01-18-2004, 05:55 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Be romantic -- candlelight dinner (maybe ask her to go with no panties on and "play" with her gently as you eat -- builds the "sexual tension"), if you can get out of the dorm -- give her a nice bath (wash her, pamper her), a body massage -- whatever you do, have the focus be her.

IMHO, don't "not come" as she may feel she is doing something wrong. Also, it may wear her out. However, do put her pleasure before your own. Oh, and maybe buy her a new "toy."
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Old 01-19-2004, 02:20 PM   #10 (permalink)
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yeh i do have that problem with not comming, but latley it has been i come once the first time we go at it, then the next 8 times we go at it i dont...eeek...yeh she loves it when i come makes her feel like shes "accomplished something" as she describes heh.
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Old 01-21-2004, 08:02 AM   #11 (permalink)
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The key is romance rather than sex.

Candles, good food, massage... all of these things may lead to sex but don't let her feel like you are doing this for sex. Ensure that she feels the evening is all about her and only her.

Personally I don't buy my SO lingerie. Lingerie is a gift for you. If you are going for a gift it all depends on where you are at in your relationship.

If you are newly together it shouldn't be to expensive and it should come from the heart (when I first started dating my SO I made her a "Box of Love" -- essentially it was a very nice antique, heart-shaped box that I filled with paper slips with Love written on them as well as a poem about her -- perhaps it is cheesy but it completely blew her away).

If you are much further along, jewelery is a good bet. Nothing too flash (I'm not talking diamonds here) just something nice (I've bought a few rings -- amethyst with markisite, red ambers, something I knew was to her taste -- NOTE: this means you have to pay attention to what she likes!!!).

There is also the getting of something very dear to her. I gave my SO a china doll that she'd had her eye on for sometime. It was in the window of a jewelery store at the bus stop near her apartment. She pointed it out to me a couple of times. I bought it for her. When she saw it was gone from the window she was devestated. When she got it for her birthday she was extatic.

Know what she likes and do these things for her...
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Old 01-22-2004, 02:04 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Ummm... jewelry, a stuffed animal, and some oral sex.

ok... I'm not very creative.
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