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Be romantic -- candlelight dinner (maybe ask her to go with no panties on and "play" with her gently as you eat -- builds the "sexual tension"), if you can get out of the dorm -- give her a nice bath (wash her, pamper her), a body massage -- whatever you do, have the focus be her.
IMHO, don't "not come" as she may feel she is doing something wrong. Also, it may wear her out. However, do put her pleasure before your own. Oh, and maybe buy her a new "toy."
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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