rogue49

Yes, I foolishly fell in love with another's wife.
I knew their marriage was a sham, with no love in it.
Our relationship was very passionate, and significant.
But since she was Catholic, she kept trying.
I got tired of hiding, because I wanted her in my life, and I wanted to shout our love aloud.
And I eventually got frustrated and walked away from "the one"

I found out about 3 years later, that she had divorced her husband.
But by that time, I had moved my life elsewhere, never to return.
She won't leave, and I can't go.

I've got to work on my timing.

Her memory still haunts me in many ways.
But at least I know I can love again
I just have to make sure, that I find that woman that wants to stick around for awhile.

Interestingly enough, even though she was the only attached woman that I knowingly had relations with.
I seem to attract many that are in relationships already.
As if, I can give them something they are yearning for.

But I learned my lesson the first time, and I do not knowingly start up with an attached lady.
Now, if they don't tell me, I can't do anything about that.
But if I found out, then...I would break it off immediately.

I am now selfish...I want them only for myself
If I give my time & life to them, then the reverse is true.
That's the way it should be...sharing each other.
Love & passion is too significant to waste.

tfin

As a guy I really really hate the whole "it is guys nature to cheat." HORSE SHIT! I was in a realationship for 7 years and have to say I never considered or wanted to cheat. The funny thing is that I was so oblivous to the idea of cheating I guess I missed several women almost throwing them selfs at me. It took my x or my firends to clue me in. And as for being cheated on, well that sucks.

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maximus

1st: I have been cheated on and let me tell you that it hurts your heart alot more than it hurts your ego. I could care less about my ego when someone who I love is involved.

2nd: I believe that qoutes like the 2nd part of your quote up there are totally sick and I really feel sorry for you that you feel that way. Have it done to you from someone who you love and tell me that.

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yellowgowild

Obviously if the person you love has cheated on you, they just did you a favor by showing you you're loving the wrong person. And I do believe that most people get their hearts confused with their egos.

Averett

That's bullshit. People who cheat are weak. That's the whole thing. They are weak because they can't seem to keep their pants on. They are weak because they give in to the easy sex that's in front of them. They're weak because in some cases they are in a relationship that they don't want but they don't have the balls to get out of it.

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Captain Canada

The only time I have ever cheated on my girlfriend was at two parties here at school, with the same girl. I was way too drunk, and had really no control over what was going on at that point. I did not have sex with the girl. We only fooled around both times. I had enough sense in me to know not to do anything like sex. After it happened I felt really horrible and called my girlfriend and told her all about it. She forgave me. She knows how much I love her and how much it hurt me that i let something like this happen. I promised her it wouldnt happen again.

I have been cheated on once before. My ex girlfriend was fucking this guy pretty much the whole time we were going out. I only found out about it when one of my friends went to her school's prom with one of her friends, and saw the guy and her there together. She ended up saying some really mean shit about me behind my back, that my friend ended up telling me the next day. I broke up with her that night because of what she had done.

padam

been both. if your going to cheat on me make damn sure i don't find out about.

Giant Hamburger

Hail Cheaters!

You are weak and selfish people.

Someone you supposedly care for has given a certain level of trust to you and you returned the gift with contempt and disregard. You have a flaw in your character that will grow more serious with time. If the problem is not addressed you will become worthless. When you are gone you will not be missed. The people in your life that you have poisoned will be better without you.
-GH

Mango

I haven't cheated. I thought about it had someone to cheat with but didn't do it.
I don't know if I have been cheated on but I don't think so. Ignorance is bliss.

dy156

Kinda both, long time ago, but the relationships were questionable/on a break/on their last leg.

Loved the quote about appetite and eating.

Funny true story:
I had just gotten back from my honeymoon, sitting next to my friend, when I hot girl walks by.
"Nice ass"
"Man, I just got back from my honeymoon, I don't need to be checking out other girls"
"Ive been married alot longer than you have, and let me tell you the difference between married and single men. Single guys suck in their gut, puff out their chests, and make sure their hair looks good. Once you're married, you can just stare like a dirty old man. If you start to suck in the gut, you know you're in trouble."

yellowgowild

All that because a person stuck it in the wrong hole.

IC3

I have never cheated but i have been cheated on...I can't say that i am happy, But at the time my girlfriend came to me and told me.

It's funny cause she has been the only girl that i think i was ever in love with..and she cheated. She was pretty upset about it, She was crying and all that.

I kicked her to the curb.

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wry1

I came close to cheating on my girlfriend once - but it never mattered, as we broke up before it became something for me to seriously ponder. It was one of those times when she was a year younger than I, and we wound up separated as I went to college a few hours away. But I was faithful! Just tempted. Guess that's what happens when you live in a CoEd dorm, huh?

As for Being Cheated On.....yep. It sucked. In fact, I did a whole thread about it in here already. Messed me up for quite a while when it came to trusting women.

....But I'm much better now.

noblejr

never cheated, been cheated on once

Rubyee

I have been cheated on, and everyone knew but me for the longest time. It makes you feel like such a fool, which is why I have never done it to anyone else. I once almost kissed someone while going out with the person that cheated, and just about broke into tears just thinking about it. Needless to say, the relationship did not last much longer. But I could never cheat on someone knowing how it feels.

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iamjero

I have been dating a girl for a little over a year now and just recently I had to move to Kentucky for a job and she stayed in Chicago. I have never really cheated before, but since I have been here I met this chick and the sex in GREAT. I feel since my girl aint here and the sex wasnt nearly as good anyway its kinda expected for me to wander. My current girl has a lot of issues.... no head, sex only about once a week, over conscious about her body, everythings gross to her.... so its a great relief to actually be getting satisfied.

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Rubyee

Now, I don't mean to be rude or vicious, but why not break up with the girl still in Chicago? You are only hurting her feelings, and stringing her along. If you did, she would also have the chance to see others, and you could still have the great sex guilt free?

I just think that if there is a way to hurt no feelings, that way should be taken.

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kingal

I consider myself a person who wouldn't cheat. I've been in a place where I was the one cheated on - my GF with my best friend.

One thing I must say.

We say we wouldn't. We say I'm not like that. We say never. Until that one time you just can't control anything and it just happens. Even in your unwillingness to go there, it happens.

We're human. Sometimes it in anger, revenge, hate, lonliness, dissatisfaction, etc. Sometimes it just happens. And it sucks, and it still happens.

Jonsgirl

But we CAN say, with absolute certanity, that we will NEVER do it again.
Or at least, I can say that.

There are few lessons in life more painfully learned, and few that are driven home as hard, as the one where you learn that you are a lying whore, and that you don't deserve the love of your partner.

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31Friction

ive been cheated on multiple times. only done it once, early in a relationship, after I found out she had cheated on me. I felt like shit for a week even then. its one thing im very against for alot of reasons and will NEVER do again.

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Litespeed

Nothing will kill a relationship deader than a little disloyalty. At least that's what my experience has told me. Even when it seems agreed upon... it's not. The girl wants loyalty. I've told a guy before that he can as long as he gives his heart and love to me. DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE. it doesn't work. His heart will stray soon after his mind does.

Thank goodness for Hal. Never met a more loyal guy.

Apex Shok

Very well put.

I have never cheated. I have been cheated on.

You cheat on me. There are no second chances. Hit the road.


Well, I have been known to get one last Grudge F*** in before leaving. But after that your gone.

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