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Boo · 02-15-2005, 02:36 AM

Old military saying - "It's my dick and my soap, I'll wash it as fast and as hard as I want to".

CandleInTheDark · 02-16-2005, 01:01 PM

It's biology; fresh sperm is more healthy and fertile.

zhevek · 02-16-2005, 06:34 PM

I like it by myself for different reasons, as much as I love my gf. We've talked about it, and we both appreciate masturbating.

No guilt and no hang ups with communication.

tecoyah · 02-16-2005, 06:38 PM

Because you are a Human Male......and still Alive.

Val_1 · 02-17-2005, 04:07 PM

Quote:

Why do I still Masturbate?

Cause it's FUN!

Batski · 02-18-2005, 08:49 AM

when i have had a fantastic sexual relationship i masturbate MORE! because i am perpetually turned on.

Jay You Dee · 02-19-2005, 05:15 AM

Hell with my girlfriend I usually get head or sex like 3 times daily because she's a damn nympho, and I still beat off before I go to bed. She knows I do, she likes it, and she does it before she goes to bed too, it's just natural. Although, I don't think she likes it as much when I spend the night with her and at about 3am when she's been well asleep for 2-3 hours, I beat off, then wake her up so I can cum in her mouth for easy cleanup so I can just roll over and cash out. Oh well, gonna have to keep doing that until she says there's something wrong with it.

kel · 02-20-2005, 08:02 AM

Masturbation continues even in a healthy relationship, with porn. No woman can be there to satisfy all your needs all the time.

piesen · 02-20-2005, 05:16 PM

Relax Its Normal
I do it
My wife does it
Sometimes we do it together
Sometimes she does it to me and I to her
It feels good and its normal
Don't you stop
and remember 3 days without ejac your sperm gets old and tired, young sperm is better swimmers

animosity · 02-20-2005, 05:43 PM

For me, I dont masterbate at all the first few months of a relationship. Even when I am not in a relationship--If I have any interest in a girl, I usually stop masterbating. It is not a conscious effort, but I havent touched myself in a month because I have been finding myself surrounded by a lot of different women.

I wouldnt say that there is something wrong with doing it though. It seems pretty normal.

drakers · 02-21-2005, 12:14 AM

There is nothing wrong masturbating every once in a while, it is when your doing it all the time and replacing whatever sex you were having with your partner. Try mutual masturbation, trust me it is a great experience.

squirrelyburt · 02-21-2005, 09:04 PM

because I can.

bobophil · 02-23-2005, 01:14 PM

cuz masturbation is alot like going to the bathroom. You can hold it in for a while, but after too long, you have to 'go to the bathroom'. I'm trying to give up masturbation for lent. (God help me) And lets just say im counting the days.

Hishi · 02-26-2005, 02:30 PM

Me and my current girlfriend have been together for 3 months now and we haven't had sex wich is fine, she's no sex before marrage and i respect that, but everytime i stay with her i get a hand or blow job 3 or 4 times a night and i see her almost everyday. I still masturbate when she's not around, she knows and she's fine with it.

Demeter · 02-26-2005, 04:06 PM

I will never give it up. Its at least one thing I can enjoy about my day.

paulskinback · 02-27-2005, 01:17 PM

Why do I still Masturbate?

Because I can.

greyeyes · 02-27-2005, 01:19 PM

I would say that masterbation isn't only something different but it's also safer than having sex all the damn time.

03-10-2005, 05:33 AM

as i already said in a different post, being touched by someone else and touching yourslef are two very different things. it's like wine compared to beer. if you're accustomed to masturbating, you're likely to keep doing it. you know exactly how to pelase yourself, and therefore it's a pleasurable thing! but being with a woman is different because you try to make it last and tease yourself and her touch feels a lot more alien than yours. it's not a bad thing, i really. maybe when she was too tired, you could ask her if she minded watching you masturbate, or something else like that, if you know what i mean. just beacuse you're pleasuring yourself doesn't mean she doesn't have to be invovled, and if you're the one doing it, then it shouldn't make her any more tired.

Rinndalir · 03-10-2005, 09:58 AM

Lots of reasons. Sometimes to help me sleep before bed. Sometimes I get so turned on by something, wife isn't around or isn't feeling up to it so I have to get that tension out. Sometimes you just want to, and I'd rather do it than have sex, that's kinda rare but occasionally I get a huge urge to load up some porn and go at it instead of actual sex.

I don't do it as much as I used to because I prefer to save it up for a huge moneyshot for the wife.

Still get the urge constantly though...

RGHoskins26 · 03-10-2005, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Garcon

I'm currently in a very strong relationship with a beautiful woman who is usually very accomodating when it comes to sex. We have our ups and downs but our sex life is usually healthy. We explore our sexuality and both of us are happy to avoid any of the swinging stuff (though we sometimes go to strip clubs where we buy each other lap dances). She is by far the best sexual partner I've ever hand and she has said the same about me.

My problem is that I often find myself very aroussed late at night and she is often too tired to have sex. When this happens, I often end up masturbating, usually with some porn, and always by myself.

Why is it that with all the great sex in my life, I still feel the need to masturbate? I'm no sex addict and feel very satisfied with our sex life but I just can't seem to get past the masturbating. As all guys know, masturbation feels much different than actual sex, but the final sensation feels that same to me.

Anyone got any ideas or pointers?

......dude, first off there is never enough sex for those that love it and second, it is normal and ok.......as guys, we jack off, plus you're saving your loved one that much energy

Eight · 03-11-2005, 05:32 AM

Cause I like watching porn

Cause shes not always around when you feeling frisky

Cause its fun lol

pattycakes · 03-14-2005, 08:54 PM

masturbation is why god gave us thumbs

masturbation is why evolution gave us thumbs

Mantus · 03-15-2005, 07:51 PM

In most males masturbation develops into a very strong habit.

Masturbation is not sex but it does share certain qualities. Obviously people percieve their own sexuality in differnt ways and the interaction between masturbation and sex is always unique. Though it seems that for most men masturbation is rather distant from coitus. This is why so many man continue to masturbate even when involved in sumptuous sexual relationships. Some men even masturbate right after sex.

Is it a bad thing? I wrote a post on this topic a while ago, explaining the complications masturbation has caused in my life. So there are deffinately some pitfals. Over all I believe it's perfectly healthy but I also believe that too many men don't put enough though towards this frequent activity.

Well anyways, have fun

lordkos · 04-02-2005, 07:21 AM

Ah every ones does it

CrAzEd · 04-02-2005, 10:46 AM

Most men, even with the most accomodating partner still beat it every once in a while. Its natural

Joan of Arc · 04-04-2005, 03:36 PM

Can't it just become a wonderful 'addiction'.?

02-15-2005, 02:36 AM	#41 (permalink)
Boo Leave me alone! Location: Alaska, USA	Old military saying - "It's my dick and my soap, I'll wash it as fast and as hard as I want to". __________________ Back button again, I must be getting old.

02-16-2005, 01:01 PM	#42 (permalink)
CandleInTheDark Addict Location: Where the music's loudest	It's biology; fresh sperm is more healthy and fertile. __________________ Where there is doubt there is freedom.

02-16-2005, 06:34 PM	#43 (permalink)
zhevek Tilted Location: Portland, Or	I like it by myself for different reasons, as much as I love my gf. We've talked about it, and we both appreciate masturbating. No guilt and no hang ups with communication. __________________ Whatever is done from love always occurs beyond good and evil

02-16-2005, 06:38 PM	#44 (permalink)
tecoyah Illusionary	Because you are a Human Male......and still Alive. __________________ Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha

02-20-2005, 08:02 AM	#48 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Masturbation continues even in a healthy relationship, with porn. No woman can be there to satisfy all your needs all the time. __________________ "It better be funny"

02-18-2005, 08:49 AM	#46 (permalink)
Batski Tilted Location: LOndon	when i have had a fantastic sexual relationship i masturbate MORE! because i am perpetually turned on.

02-19-2005, 05:15 AM	#47 (permalink)
Jay You Dee Tilted Location: Cleveland, TN	Hell with my girlfriend I usually get head or sex like 3 times daily because she's a damn nympho, and I still beat off before I go to bed. She knows I do, she likes it, and she does it before she goes to bed too, it's just natural. Although, I don't think she likes it as much when I spend the night with her and at about 3am when she's been well asleep for 2-3 hours, I beat off, then wake her up so I can cum in her mouth for easy cleanup so I can just roll over and cash out. Oh well, gonna have to keep doing that until she says there's something wrong with it.

02-20-2005, 05:16 PM	#49 (permalink)
piesen Banned Location: WA	Relax Its Normal I do it My wife does it Sometimes we do it together Sometimes she does it to me and I to her It feels good and its normal Don't you stop and remember 3 days without ejac your sperm gets old and tired, young sperm is better swimmers Last edited by piesen; 02-20-2005 at 05:18 PM..

02-20-2005, 05:43 PM	#50 (permalink)
animosity on fire Location: Atlanta, GA	For me, I dont masterbate at all the first few months of a relationship. Even when I am not in a relationship--If I have any interest in a girl, I usually stop masterbating. It is not a conscious effort, but I havent touched myself in a month because I have been finding myself surrounded by a lot of different women. I wouldnt say that there is something wrong with doing it though. It seems pretty normal.

02-21-2005, 12:14 AM	#51 (permalink)
drakers Psycho Location: IOWA	There is nothing wrong masturbating every once in a while, it is when your doing it all the time and replacing whatever sex you were having with your partner. Try mutual masturbation, trust me it is a great experience. __________________ Friends don't shake hands, friends 'gotta HUG!

02-21-2005, 09:04 PM	#52 (permalink)
squirrelyburt Crazy Location: Central Wisconsin	because I can. __________________ If you've ever felt there was a reason to be afraid of the dark, you were right.

02-23-2005, 01:14 PM	#53 (permalink)
bobophil Tilted	cuz masturbation is alot like going to the bathroom. You can hold it in for a while, but after too long, you have to 'go to the bathroom'. I'm trying to give up masturbation for lent. (God help me) And lets just say im counting the days.

02-26-2005, 02:30 PM	#54 (permalink)
Hishi Banned	Me and my current girlfriend have been together for 3 months now and we haven't had sex wich is fine, she's no sex before marrage and i respect that, but everytime i stay with her i get a hand or blow job 3 or 4 times a night and i see her almost everyday. I still masturbate when she's not around, she knows and she's fine with it.

02-26-2005, 04:06 PM	#55 (permalink)
Demeter Psycho	I will never give it up. Its at least one thing I can enjoy about my day.

02-27-2005, 01:17 PM	#56 (permalink)
paulskinback Insane	Why do I still Masturbate? Because I can. __________________ 'Everything that can be invented has been invented.- - 1899, Charles Duell, U.S. Office of Patents. 'There is no reason anyone would want a computer in their home.' - Ken Olson, 1977, Digital Equipment Corporation

04-02-2005, 07:21 AM	#64 (permalink)
lordkos Upright	Ah every ones does it

02-27-2005, 01:19 PM	#57 (permalink)
greyeyes ham on rye would be nice Location: I don't even know anymore	I would say that masterbation isn't only something different but it's also safer than having sex all the damn time. __________________ I'm kind of jealous of the life I'm supposedly leading. - Zach Braff

03-10-2005, 05:33 AM	#58 (permalink)
kitsune Guest	as i already said in a different post, being touched by someone else and touching yourslef are two very different things. it's like wine compared to beer. if you're accustomed to masturbating, you're likely to keep doing it. you know exactly how to pelase yourself, and therefore it's a pleasurable thing! but being with a woman is different because you try to make it last and tease yourself and her touch feels a lot more alien than yours. it's not a bad thing, i really. maybe when she was too tired, you could ask her if she minded watching you masturbate, or something else like that, if you know what i mean. just beacuse you're pleasuring yourself doesn't mean she doesn't have to be invovled, and if you're the one doing it, then it shouldn't make her any more tired.

03-10-2005, 09:58 AM	#59 (permalink)
Rinndalir Insane	Lots of reasons. Sometimes to help me sleep before bed. Sometimes I get so turned on by something, wife isn't around or isn't feeling up to it so I have to get that tension out. Sometimes you just want to, and I'd rather do it than have sex, that's kinda rare but occasionally I get a huge urge to load up some porn and go at it instead of actual sex. I don't do it as much as I used to because I prefer to save it up for a huge moneyshot for the wife. Still get the urge constantly though...

03-11-2005, 05:32 AM	#61 (permalink)
Eight Crazy Location: UK	Cause I like watching porn Cause shes not always around when you feeling frisky Cause its fun lol

03-15-2005, 07:51 PM	#63 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	In most males masturbation develops into a very strong habit. Masturbation is not sex but it does share certain qualities. Obviously people percieve their own sexuality in differnt ways and the interaction between masturbation and sex is always unique. Though it seems that for most men masturbation is rather distant from coitus. This is why so many man continue to masturbate even when involved in sumptuous sexual relationships. Some men even masturbate right after sex. Is it a bad thing? I wrote a post on this topic a while ago, explaining the complications masturbation has caused in my life. So there are deffinately some pitfals. Over all I believe it's perfectly healthy but I also believe that too many men don't put enough though towards this frequent activity. Well anyways, have fun

04-02-2005, 10:46 AM	#65 (permalink)
CrAzEd Upright	Most men, even with the most accomodating partner still beat it every once in a while. Its natural

04-04-2005, 03:36 PM	#66 (permalink)
Joan of Arc Tilted	Can't it just become a wonderful 'addiction'.? __________________ "Insanity and Genius are on the same side of the street"