as i already said in a different post, being touched by someone else and touching yourslef are two very different things. it's like wine compared to beer. if you're accustomed to masturbating, you're likely to keep doing it. you know exactly how to pelase yourself, and therefore it's a pleasurable thing! but being with a woman is different because you try to make it last and tease yourself and her touch feels a lot more alien than yours. it's not a bad thing, i really. maybe when she was too tired, you could ask her if she minded watching you masturbate, or something else like that, if you know what i mean. just beacuse you're pleasuring yourself doesn't mean she doesn't have to be invovled, and if you're the one doing it, then it shouldn't make her any more tired.
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