Is there anyone out there who doesn't like oral? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

sbscout · 04-19-2003, 05:06 AM

An addendum to a similar post in TFP v.3:

We've talked about getting bad bj's and less than satisfactory cunnilingus, but here's the "new" question...

Is there anyone out there who doesn't like to GIVE or RECEIVE oral sex? And why or why not?

Personally I like giving and receiving; it's a very intimate act between two adults

John Henry · 04-19-2003, 05:35 AM

I know lots of people who don't like to give oral, especially guys, because they don't like the taste/strain etc. My girlfriend, however, won't let me go down on her and I haven't got round to asking why. I nip a bit sometimes when we kiss, so maybe she's afraid I'll do that when I go down on her.

ccvirginia · 04-19-2003, 06:32 AM

I got my "red wings" back in 1991 while stationed in Germany. It took me 5 years before I would go down on a woman again.

Red Wings: Going down on a girl while on her period. It was dark and the girl didn't realize she was flowing. I thought she was just really wet.

04-19-2003, 06:41 AM

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Originally posted by ccvirginia
I got my "red wings" back in 1991 while stationed in Germany. It took me 5 years before I would go down on a woman again.

Red Wings: Going down on a girl while on her period. It was dark and the girl didn't realize she was flowing. I thought she was just really wet.

you must have looked like a lion after a fresh kill.

done that too back in the eighties...I love to eat a girl out for breakfast, lunch, and dinner...even some snacks.

jets · 04-19-2003, 06:50 AM

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Originally posted by ccvirginia
I got my "red wings" back in 1991 while stationed in Germany. It took me 5 years before I would go down on a woman again.

Red Wings: Going down on a girl while on her period. It was dark and the girl didn't realize she was flowing. I thought she was just really wet.

OMFG! I don't even know how I'd react to that

Roark · 04-19-2003, 06:52 AM

Ugh... You have my sympathies although i'm sure there are people out there who would be envoius. <shakes his head>

I enjoy both giving and recieving but find myself living sort of a double standard. If I met a girl at a bar i'd let her give me a BJ and with protection have sex but I most likely wouldn't perform oral on her until another time.

At the risk of offending the women, to me a guy going down on a girl is more intimate than a girl doing the same on a guy.

I'm not saying I wait six months or anything but it's probably on the third encounter or so.

I never really thought about it though until now. Wierd how we do things and don't even realize it.

Spanky Johnson · 04-19-2003, 07:32 AM

Kind of a weird thing happened with my wife...she used to love to receive, but after childbirth it doesn't do much for her anymore. I still try occasionally, but it just doesn't work the same as before. Manual stimulation is the thing now.

Xapphire · 04-19-2003, 08:12 AM

I love to give, but I'm a bit shy on the getting part. I'm submissive, but getting puts me completely out of control, the orgasms are too intense, and that bothers me. When I submit, I still have a safeword, but I can't opt out of an orgasm, if that makes sense... (am female btw)

yournamehere · 04-19-2003, 08:27 AM

I've always enjoyed both.

As far as the red wing stuff - just stay a little higher up - unless it's a reall heavy flow day, there's ways to work around it

Lebell · 04-19-2003, 09:49 AM

Hehe, that was very funny, re the 'redwings'. That is probably something I won't be doing (on purpose, at least).

I love oral both giving and recieving, but I've only known one or two women that were any good at giving it.

j_lonty · 04-19-2003, 11:30 AM

I'm a huge fan of giving to women- something about the wonderful taste, smell, it just gets me goin' as well. That said, its been rare for me to find a woman who likes to reciprocate as much, and I've spent a good deal of time thinking about it. Sadly, I blame a lot of the culture of the male-bj. In so much pr0n/locker-room-talk/etc it's portrayed as a big power-thing, and I have no doubt that a disturbing number of folk out there believe the hype.

That, and I find its a bit more of an acquired taste than that of a woman, as there's a funky texture thing too - kinda like oysters...

146519 · 04-19-2003, 12:31 PM

I used to love giving head to girls, but one day it just stopped. I had a similar redwing experience and it just grossed me out.

Uuudar · 04-19-2003, 02:18 PM

I love to give it, and love to get it. I almost love to give it more. Something about a girl in pleasure is the biggest turn on evah! It just makes it that much better when she goes down on me. I think it's selfish if someone expects to get it and not give it.

EDIT: If she's on the red tide, I just stay away. Ewww, I had a red wing experience my very first time. Didn't ruin it for me though, just made me come to the conlusion that I'll never do that again. Mmm, endometrium lining =\

im2smrt4u · 04-19-2003, 04:06 PM

I love to give and recieve, but giving while reciving is even better!

SeXuaLSoYBeaN · 04-19-2003, 04:06 PM

Well, I like giving and receving it.

kreskin · 04-19-2003, 04:44 PM

I love to give oral sex to a woman, but I don't like getting it much. Not to brag, but I'm a bit large, and damnit teeth HURT. Only one chick has ever done it right, and I loved it!

snowy · 04-19-2003, 04:48 PM

I love to give...it's probably one of my favorite things to do. I just got out of a relationship with a guy who didn't really care for it, and so I didn't get to do it very often. I love receiving as well, so there's really nothing better than both for me!

Here's to hoping I end up with some guy who loves bjs.

i8one2 · 04-19-2003, 06:24 PM

seeing that I have a big assed mouth at times, doing an oral presentation is always a relieve for my loved one Galaxygirl

Grondar · 04-19-2003, 06:51 PM

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Originally posted by ccvirginia
I got my "red wings" back in 1991 while stationed in Germany. It took me 5 years before I would go down on a woman again.

As I ponder.. "What are 'Red Wings'? Perhaps, a German minor league club of the Detroit NHL club?

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Red Wings: Going down on a girl while on her period. It was dark and the girl didn't realize she was flowing. I thought she was just really wet.

As I pray... "Can the Red Wings please be a minor league club for the Detroit NHL club?"

Good information, but very disturbing. I hadn't heard of it before, and I surely don't know how I would react upon experiencing it. Eck!

Johnny Rotten · 04-19-2003, 07:25 PM

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Originally posted by Tantalizer
I like to give and receive as well. For the most part I've been lucky in being with guys who enjoy giving it as much as receiving with the exception of one guy who would never even try to do it because he was to scared and had never done it before.

LMAO, it's not like it bites or something

sixate · 04-19-2003, 07:32 PM

I love eating pussy. I love having my dick sucked (by a chic) even more.

Lebell · 04-19-2003, 10:48 PM

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Originally posted by Johnny Rotten
LMAO, it's not like it bites or something

Johnny,

There is actually a psychological term to describe that very fear.

Sorry I can't recall it, but it exists.

zizdog69 · 04-20-2003, 04:41 AM

I have received awesome BJ's but now my currant GF is less than satisfying. I know I somewhat show this when it is my turn to give. There are just some people who don't have the technique down yet. I am still hoping that she will watch a few movies and try different things.

ratbastid · 04-20-2003, 05:12 AM

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Originally posted by Lebell
Johnny,

There is actually a psychological term to describe that very fear.

Sorry I can't recall it, but it exists.

You're thinking of <i>vagina dentata</i>.

Here's an article: http://www.rotten.com/library/sex/vagina-dentata/

ratbastid · 04-20-2003, 05:15 AM

I love giving and getting.

There was a time when I'd never given, thought it was nasty, never wanted to, etc. I'd GET, though! Then the selfishness of that dawned on me, I tried it out, and I've never looked back.

rogue49 · 04-20-2003, 05:26 AM

I prefer giving not getting.

nuff said.

NoCure · 04-20-2003, 07:22 AM

I've given and never gotten

Mad_Gecko · 04-20-2003, 08:26 AM

Giving and recieving are great. Although some birds are better than others. (That probably works both ways, but I'm not qualified to comment)

I'm with Roark on this one I usually wait till I've been with a girl for a bit till I munch the beef curtains. Yet they can blow me whenever and wherever they want even if I have just met them.

Didn't realise I was such a hippocrate, oh well I'll deal with it.

Nad Adam · 04-20-2003, 10:36 AM

About six months ago I was with a girl who had her toungue pirced. I thought that that kind of pircings was supposed to make oral sex more enjoyable but it was mostly annoying. But I'm not complaining, bad oral sex is better than no oral sex.

sierra2774 · 04-20-2003, 11:41 AM

I like to give it as long as I am getting it in return!

cdwonderful · 04-20-2003, 12:10 PM

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Originally posted by sierra2774
I like to give it as long as I am getting it in return!

Could you ask for anything more reasonable?

Casus Belli · 04-20-2003, 02:21 PM

My girlfriend (for well over a month now) gives these great blowjobs, swallows the cum and everything. Fantastic, and she loves it, too. But everytime i want to ´give something back´she doesn´t want to... Says she doesn´t like it... Quite frustrating while i quite like satisfying her with the tounge..

I just have to find some way to make her understand its going to be great, but i don´t want to push it too hard. Any advice?

reconmike · 04-20-2003, 02:25 PM

giving getting it is all good

snowy · 04-20-2003, 02:28 PM

You might try just nibbling on her legs and moving upwards from there. If she stops you, ask her if she's willing to put up with it once for your sake, that you really want her to try it. Start sucking/licking her thighs first and then move in from there if she lets you. Good luck.

BigBlueWrecking · 04-20-2003, 03:21 PM

I have dated some women that claim to be self conscious down there, and that is why they don't like it for guys to go down. It is not my favorite dish on the menu, but I don't mind it. She has to be trimmed down there though. There is nothing worse than going down there and getting a mouthful of hair.

I love getting oral and I can't imagine a guy that didn't.

Casus Belli · 04-21-2003, 03:08 AM

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Originally posted by onesnowyowl
You might try just nibbling on her legs and moving upwards from there. If she stops you, ask her if she's willing to put up with it once for your sake, that you really want her to try it. Start sucking/licking her thighs first and then move in from there if she lets you. Good luck.

I´ll try that tonight...

thanks

Mr.Deflok · 04-21-2003, 03:27 AM

I love to receive it but seeing my girl suck me off kinda makes me feel like she's a slut. But then I realise that we both like the feel of it and I splooge in her mouth.

04-21-2003, 11:15 AM

Eh - I take take or leave oral when it's given to me. I can't get off that way so what's the point.

blkdmnd · 04-21-2003, 11:46 AM

I like giving pretty much. Nothing like having your head clamped between trembling thighs. I like to get also, but don't get much. The wife just doesn't dig it.

Jolt · 04-21-2003, 08:05 PM

I don't have a lot of practice giving so I don't know if I'm any good? Receiving doesn't do much for me *shrug* I hope that doesn't skew my abilities in the area.

I need more practice...that's all.

The gf I had the most sex with really really really was opposed to receiving and insisted on giving even though that just doesn't get me off...she was a control freak in bed because some experiences in her life had messed with her head something fierce.

04-19-2003, 05:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
sbscout Disorganized Location: back home again...	Is there anyone out there who doesn't like oral? An addendum to a similar post in TFP v.3: We've talked about getting bad bj's and less than satisfactory cunnilingus, but here's the "new" question... Is there anyone out there who doesn't like to GIVE or RECEIVE oral sex? And why or why not? Personally I like giving and receiving; it's a very intimate act between two adults __________________ Always question authority... it'll keep the bastards on their toes! Last edited by sbscout; 04-19-2003 at 05:10 AM..

04-19-2003, 05:35 AM	#2 (permalink)
John Henry Addict Location: Grey Britain	I know lots of people who don't like to give oral, especially guys, because they don't like the taste/strain etc. My girlfriend, however, won't let me go down on her and I haven't got round to asking why. I nip a bit sometimes when we kiss, so maybe she's afraid I'll do that when I go down on her. __________________ "No one was behaving from very Buddhist motives. Then, thought Pigsy, he was hardly a Buddha, nor was he a monkey. Presently, he was a pig spirit changed into a little girl pretending to be a little boy to be offered to a water monster. It was all very simple to a pig spirit."

04-19-2003, 08:27 AM	#9 (permalink)
yournamehere Invisible Location: tentative, at best	I've always enjoyed both. As far as the red wing stuff - just stay a little higher up - unless it's a reall heavy flow day, there's ways to work around it __________________ If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors: "If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too." It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.

04-19-2003, 09:49 AM	#10 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	Hehe, that was very funny, re the 'redwings'. That is probably something I won't be doing (on purpose, at least). I love oral both giving and recieving, but I've only known one or two women that were any good at giving it. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!

04-19-2003, 04:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
im2smrt4u Beer Aficionado Location: Rancho Cucamonga, CA	I love to give and recieve, but giving while reciving is even better! __________________ Starkizzer Fan Club - President & Founder

04-19-2003, 06:32 AM	#3 (permalink)
ccvirginia Crazy	I got my "red wings" back in 1991 while stationed in Germany. It took me 5 years before I would go down on a woman again. Red Wings: Going down on a girl while on her period. It was dark and the girl didn't realize she was flowing. I thought she was just really wet.

04-19-2003, 06:52 AM	#6 (permalink)
Roark Insane	Ugh... You have my sympathies although i'm sure there are people out there who would be envoius. <shakes his head> I enjoy both giving and recieving but find myself living sort of a double standard. If I met a girl at a bar i'd let her give me a BJ and with protection have sex but I most likely wouldn't perform oral on her until another time. At the risk of offending the women, to me a guy going down on a girl is more intimate than a girl doing the same on a guy. I'm not saying I wait six months or anything but it's probably on the third encounter or so. I never really thought about it though until now. Wierd how we do things and don't even realize it.

04-19-2003, 07:32 AM	#7 (permalink)
Spanky Johnson Insane	Kind of a weird thing happened with my wife...she used to love to receive, but after childbirth it doesn't do much for her anymore. I still try occasionally, but it just doesn't work the same as before. Manual stimulation is the thing now.

04-19-2003, 08:12 AM	#8 (permalink)
Xapphire Crazy Location: Dallas TX (close enough)	I love to give, but I'm a bit shy on the getting part. I'm submissive, but getting puts me completely out of control, the orgasms are too intense, and that bothers me. When I submit, I still have a safeword, but I can't opt out of an orgasm, if that makes sense... (am female btw)

04-19-2003, 11:30 AM	#11 (permalink)
j_lonty Upright	I'm a huge fan of giving to women- something about the wonderful taste, smell, it just gets me goin' as well. That said, its been rare for me to find a woman who likes to reciprocate as much, and I've spent a good deal of time thinking about it. Sadly, I blame a lot of the culture of the male-bj. In so much pr0n/locker-room-talk/etc it's portrayed as a big power-thing, and I have no doubt that a disturbing number of folk out there believe the hype. That, and I find its a bit more of an acquired taste than that of a woman, as there's a funky texture thing too - kinda like oysters...

04-19-2003, 12:31 PM	#12 (permalink)
146519 Crazy	I used to love giving head to girls, but one day it just stopped. I had a similar redwing experience and it just grossed me out.

04-19-2003, 02:18 PM	#13 (permalink)
Uuudar Insane	I love to give it, and love to get it. I almost love to give it more. Something about a girl in pleasure is the biggest turn on evah! It just makes it that much better when she goes down on me. I think it's selfish if someone expects to get it and not give it. EDIT: If she's on the red tide, I just stay away. Ewww, I had a red wing experience my very first time. Didn't ruin it for me though, just made me come to the conlusion that I'll never do that again. Mmm, endometrium lining =\

04-19-2003, 04:06 PM	#15 (permalink)
SeXuaLSoYBeaN Loser Location: Florida	Well, I like giving and receving it.

04-19-2003, 04:44 PM	#16 (permalink)
kreskin Junkie Location: Solaris III	I love to give oral sex to a woman, but I don't like getting it much. Not to brag, but I'm a bit large, and damnit teeth HURT. Only one chick has ever done it right, and I loved it! __________________ I believe in the inner beauty of a woman: When you’re in’er – beauty.

04-19-2003, 04:48 PM	#17 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	I love to give...it's probably one of my favorite things to do. I just got out of a relationship with a guy who didn't really care for it, and so I didn't get to do it very often. I love receiving as well, so there's really nothing better than both for me! Here's to hoping I end up with some guy who loves bjs. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

04-19-2003, 06:24 PM	#18 (permalink)
i8one2 COMPLETED and A TRAINER Location: BEAN_TOWN	seeing that I have a big assed mouth at times, doing an oral presentation is always a relieve for my loved one Galaxygirl __________________ LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC" "Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad" Quality is for those who know what they want and are at peace with what they have. "S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker

04-19-2003, 07:32 PM	#21 (permalink)
sixate Registered User Location: Somewhere in Ohio	I love eating pussy. I love having my dick sucked (by a chic) even more.

04-20-2003, 04:41 AM	#23 (permalink)
zizdog69 Crazy Location: Arizona	I have received awesome BJ's but now my currant GF is less than satisfying. I know I somewhat show this when it is my turn to give. There are just some people who don't have the technique down yet. I am still hoping that she will watch a few movies and try different things. __________________ "So I was sitting in my cubicle today, and I realized, ever since I started working, every single day of my life has been worse than the day before it. So that means that every single day that you see me, that's on the worst day of my life." -Peter Gibbons, Office Space

04-20-2003, 05:15 AM	#25 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	I love giving and getting. There was a time when I'd never given, thought it was nasty, never wanted to, etc. I'd GET, though! Then the selfishness of that dawned on me, I tried it out, and I've never looked back.

04-20-2003, 05:26 AM	#26 (permalink)
rogue49 Loser	I prefer giving not getting. nuff said.

04-20-2003, 07:22 AM	#27 (permalink)
NoCure Crazy Location: Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio	I've given and never gotten __________________ ...So I punched her in the cunt

04-20-2003, 08:26 AM	#28 (permalink)
Mad_Gecko Pro Libertate Location: City Gecko	Giving and recieving are great. Although some birds are better than others. (That probably works both ways, but I'm not qualified to comment) I'm with Roark on this one I usually wait till I've been with a girl for a bit till I munch the beef curtains. Yet they can blow me whenever and wherever they want even if I have just met them. Didn't realise I was such a hippocrate, oh well I'll deal with it. __________________ [color=bright blue]W[/color]e Stick To Glass "If three of us travel together, I shall find two teachers." Confucious

04-20-2003, 10:36 AM	#29 (permalink)
Nad Adam Psycho Location: Sweden	About six months ago I was with a girl who had her toungue pirced. I thought that that kind of pircings was supposed to make oral sex more enjoyable but it was mostly annoying. But I'm not complaining, bad oral sex is better than no oral sex. __________________ Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones. - Psalms 137:9

04-20-2003, 11:41 AM	#30 (permalink)
sierra2774 Addict Location: Northeast Ohio	I like to give it as long as I am getting it in return! __________________ "Every tomorrow brings new opportunities, challenges we must address...A chance to affirm all our wishes and dreams, to seek beauty and true happiness."

04-20-2003, 02:21 PM	#32 (permalink)
Casus Belli Crazy	My girlfriend (for well over a month now) gives these great blowjobs, swallows the cum and everything. Fantastic, and she loves it, too. But everytime i want to ´give something back´she doesn´t want to... Says she doesn´t like it... Quite frustrating while i quite like satisfying her with the tounge.. I just have to find some way to make her understand its going to be great, but i don´t want to push it too hard. Any advice?

04-20-2003, 02:25 PM	#33 (permalink)
reconmike Thank You Jesus Location: Twilight Zone	giving getting it is all good __________________ Where is Darwin when ya need him?

04-20-2003, 02:28 PM	#34 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	You might try just nibbling on her legs and moving upwards from there. If she stops you, ask her if she's willing to put up with it once for your sake, that you really want her to try it. Start sucking/licking her thighs first and then move in from there if she lets you. Good luck. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

04-20-2003, 03:21 PM	#35 (permalink)
BigBlueWrecking Psycho	I have dated some women that claim to be self conscious down there, and that is why they don't like it for guys to go down. It is not my favorite dish on the menu, but I don't mind it. She has to be trimmed down there though. There is nothing worse than going down there and getting a mouthful of hair. I love getting oral and I can't imagine a guy that didn't.

04-21-2003, 03:27 AM	#37 (permalink)
Mr.Deflok Blood + Fire Location: New Zealand	I love to receive it but seeing my girl suck me off kinda makes me feel like she's a slut. But then I realise that we both like the feel of it and I splooge in her mouth.

04-21-2003, 11:15 AM	#38 (permalink)
smithja0423 Guest	Eh - I take take or leave oral when it's given to me. I can't get off that way so what's the point.

04-21-2003, 11:46 AM	#39 (permalink)
blkdmnd Addict	I like giving pretty much. Nothing like having your head clamped between trembling thighs. I like to get also, but don't get much. The wife just doesn't dig it. __________________ I blow my nose at you. Now go away before I taunt you a second time.

04-21-2003, 08:05 PM	#40 (permalink)
Jolt Insane Location: Over here	I don't have a lot of practice giving so I don't know if I'm any good? Receiving doesn't do much for me shrug I hope that doesn't skew my abilities in the area. I need more practice...that's all. The gf I had the most sex with really really really was opposed to receiving and insisted on giving even though that just doesn't get me off...she was a control freak in bed because some experiences in her life had messed with her head something fierce.