Ugh... You have my sympathies although i'm sure there are people out there who would be envoius. <shakes his head>
I enjoy both giving and recieving but find myself living sort of a double standard. If I met a girl at a bar i'd let her give me a BJ and with protection have sex but I most likely wouldn't perform oral on her until another time.
At the risk of offending the women, to me a guy going down on a girl is more intimate than a girl doing the same on a guy.
I'm not saying I wait six months or anything but it's probably on the third encounter or so.
I never really thought about it though until now. Wierd how we do things and don't even realize it.
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