_Yossarian

Raking the ketchup.

Like to give and recieve, like others said, both at same time is best.

frankx

I LOVE eating pussy. Always have. I'll pack a lunch and stay down there all damn day. Luckily, my wife likes to return the favor.

I've also "swabbed the red deck" in the dark. They really should give you some sort of award for "above and beyond" or something.

__________________
Louisiana: We're Not ALL Drunken Cajun Wackos, But That's Our Tourism Campaign

PHYcos

Same here! I love nothing more than a bj and then goin down on my girl. At first I hated it. The smell and the taste but......then I started to like it. Now I love it!

__________________
-All women are 2 drinks away from a GIRL-ON-GIRL adventure!-

Nancy

I LOVE to give oral but hate receiving it. I don't know why but it's never been my thing. In return I get off on some other crazy things instead so it's all good

__________________
I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy.
I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

Mr.X

oral... this seems fun.

Ambient1

I love to give but I'm ambivilant about receiving. The concept of a bj sounds amazing, but in reality I just don't find it feels all that great.

But maybe I just need to find the right woman

raeanna74

I will just about refuse to give oral to a woman who smokes. The taste is about as wonderful as tasting nail polish remover.

I definately don't mind giving oral to men. I enjoy it and have been told I do it well.

I'm not crazy about recieving oral. Women give oral to other women better than it seems men manage. My clit is oversensitive it seems and men tend to like to focus on my clit. It gets to the point where it's almost painful. At that point I will refuse to receive any oral.

__________________
"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

Johnny Pyro

I like giving and I love recieving. Theres nothing more exhilarating then a really good blowjob. Ahhhh.......

__________________
"From delusion lead me to truth, from darkness lead me to light, from death lead me to eternal life. - Sheriff John Wydell

Poppinjay

I like giving if I'm drunk. It drives my wife crazy. Otherwise, eh... I do it for her, not because I like it.

And as for earning red wings, hell. no. never. no. no. no.

__________________
I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet

SiNai

I don't like recieving blow jobs. The thrill of sex mostly comes from the interaction with the woman, and I don't get much interaction when all she is doing is sucking on my thing. I want to feel her body close to me, feel her curves.. mm..

On the other hand, I love giving. It's great foreplay for me, gets me very excited for the real thing.

__________________
I can't seem to remember now
What it was like- to live life, before you.. symbiont

Mr Honest

Well 69 then and you certainly feel close to her body then

If oral on a man is done timidly like someone is putting a rancid sausage into the mouth then it probably doesn't feel too hot!

Now Natasha (ex g/friend) gave me the best ever oral (good grip, no hands and her tongue moving at about 112 mph all over). Man she never failed to get me to come in her mouth.

__________________
Human beings : who could ever claim to like them all?

noodle

I love to give, but can't stand to receive. I don't know why, it just doesn't feel good. I like to focus on him... I'm very tactile. and I swallow. Anything else ruins the mood.

__________________

abaya

As a woman, I love both giving and receiving, but only if there is enough time to do either one properly. Rushing oral is not as fun as doing a quickie (intercourse)... it needs time. But not too much time!!... My mouth goes numb sometimes from giving a bj, and then I become far less effective "on the job." (Hell, when I got back from my 2.5 month summer of research and gave ktspktsp a bj for the first time, my cheek muscles were sore all the next day!)

__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran

Val_1

Love to give and to recieve. The last girl I dated wasn't into oral much, I had to give her a little nudge here and there.

BTW, I too have earned my Red Wings... not that bad actually. I would volunteer to do it again, but I wouldn't complain about it a hole lot. A bit bitter but, all a part of nature.

__________________

I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.

-Frank Sinatra

tec-9-7

Same here - I will say this tho - in terms of getting it from women, angle of attack makes all the difference to me. I don't get much from it if the womans head is pointed down toward my feet; entirely different tho if she's between my legs w/ her head pointing upward...

SiNai

Hah, you've got me all figured out.. Definitely on my list of favorites.

__________________
I can't seem to remember now
What it was like- to live life, before you.. symbiont

Wingless

My girlfriend doesn't give me oral all too often, but the other day when she did the whole thing was so intense, I had never felt like that before, and we've been having sex for the past 2 1/2 years! It was so intense I couldn't control myself, but at the same time I couldn't cum.

Still, needless to say I LOVE receiving. I've only given her oral once, and no offense to her (or any girl i guess), but I'd probably only do it again if she showered beforehand - that's her deal too, she only gave me head because we had showered together beforehand.

And Red Wings (not talkin about my hometown here)... no, no, no. Sorry, not for me.

__________________
Tommy
Nibs is a funny word.
So here I am, above palm trees, so straight and tall...
You are, smaller getting smaller, but I still see... you.
Jimmy Eat World - Goodbye Sky Harbor

livewirerc

My wife and I pretty much go down on each other every time we have sex, but I have a next to impossible time cumming just from oral. I'd like to be able to, and my wife doesn't have a problem with swallowing, but for some reason no matter how good it feels I can't cum unless I'm inside her. On the other hand, I have made her come many times with oral or a combination of my mouth and hands.

I've gotten my redwings several times over. Maybe I'm just dirty, but it doesn't bother me too much and if my wife lets me I'm willing to go down on her whenever. It does seem to work better if they take a hot shower right before though.

5757

Its too bad that my future partner wont be reading this.

I HATE RECIEVING!!!!! NO ONE DOES IT RIGHT. IF I HAVE TO EXPLAIN IT, IT TURNS ME OFF.

I LOVE GIVING THOUGH!! I COULD GIVE ORAL ALL NIGHT LONG!! ALL DAY!! WHATEVER!

Whew! Felt good to get that out!

I love going down on a guy and looking up at the expressions on his face! Nothing turns me on more. I also love when Im giving oral and I get a man to make a noise....



(pointing mouse at log-out. walking away. getting overly excited)

__________________
Hey! Wait! I've got a new complaint, Forever in debt to ((your)) priceless advice. - Nirvana

Mr Honest

[QUOTE=5757]Its too bad that my future partner wont be reading this.

I HATE RECIEVING!!!!! NO ONE DOES IT RIGHT. IF I HAVE TO EXPLAIN IT, IT TURNS ME OFF.

QUOTE]

Well I feel sorry for you I really do but us humans have a voice and ability to explain things and we really should sometimes. You can't expect every partner to know exactly what pleases you. Everyone has to learn and ladies aren't all the same so what pleases one might not please you. I have absolutely no problem with a g/friend (and my wife to be) telling me what to do.
Most men can't read minds and unless you tell someone (if your sounds of pleasure/silence) alone fail to work I sense a future of unnecessary unhappiness! Please speak up!!

__________________
Human beings : who could ever claim to like them all?

jt6879

I like giving my wife oral, its very satisfying for me, if I can make her cum just from that, because I know what she likes. I also, like all guys like recieving oral sex. But thats pretty obvious im sure lol

Uncle Pony

Sure I will! We post on the same board after all.



Sorry. I couldn't resist.

5757

HA! You're funny. (Uncle Pony)

So, uh, one thing you have to understand (Mr Honest) is that I've been with more girls than I can possibly count. Men, I've been with a few. Women know how to give it to eachother in my opinion and experience. So, you have to understand how frustrating it is when I am with a man and I have to direct his every move.

I guess I should have explained myself better in the first place. The fact that I don't like directing men the (whole) time they are down there isn't even the only reason. I am also sensitive to UTIs (my body doesnt like foreign germs from the mouth down there). So.... I am happily a giver!! Works best for me!

__________________
Hey! Wait! I've got a new complaint, Forever in debt to ((your)) priceless advice. - Nirvana

Anxst

I love both giving and receiving. I mean love it. I tend to enjoy foreplay of all types as much as (if not more than, sometimes) actual sex.

Both my girls love receiving, but unfortunately neither like to give. At all. Both have stated they'll try to work on it, but I've gotten head maybe twice in the last 4 years. We've talked about it some, but neither is willing to tell me why they don't like it. I just bring it up from time to time and don't push it. Oh well, maybe someday they'll get into it.

__________________
Don't mind me. I'm just releasing the insanity pressure from my headvalves.

hrandani

Cleanliness aside, there is nothing hotter, my friend.

LoganSnake

I like receiving it, but I only give it for my partner's pleasure (and for them to return the favor). I really dislike the vagina smell and taste otherwise. Especially if there is more than minimal amount of hair...huge turn-off.

__________________
Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

Salomon

^ hmm..interesting. There are workarounds.

Giving. Usually sends me into a state of erotic, animalistic frenzy. Brings out the animal in a guy...does giving. Hair or bare, I'm there.

Receiving. Yes. Good. Not in the shower though. On dry land.

LoganSnake

Basically, if my partner wants it and likes it, I'll do it without question. I just don't enjoy it.

__________________
Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

BeBogus

Just like beer, its an aquired taste. I personally like to give, rather than recieve, but its not like i would turn it down if it were to happen.

Rippley

Love the gettin', enjoy the giving, even if only for her sake. Don't get much out of giving, myself, but it helps encourage the gettin'!

__________________
roadrazer - 300kgs, 300hp = pure fun.

Mr Honest

get your lady to wash dammit!

seriously I've been down on every g/friend apart from one who refused and the taste is great. I love it. I could stay there for hours if only my tongue didn't refuse after ohh about 21.5 minutes....

__________________
Human beings : who could ever claim to like them all?

sailor

Love the getting. The most amazing feeling. I don't come from it, but it feels so good...

Giving is fun too. Not as nice as getting, but I enjoy seeing her squirm in pleasure and exploring her folds.

Not a fan of 69. I've found that neither party can really do a good job, so it just kinda doesnt work as well.

__________________
"Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws."
--Plato

Martian

And some guys don't like broccoli. It's just not for everyone.

Re: earning the red wings, I've done that before. By accident, yeah, but all the same. It's not that big a deal. Sex is fun and funny and sometimes messy and things like this happens. You can let it get to you or just laugh it off and keep going.

__________________
I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said

- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame

noheart65

i am a 40 yr old male who has never had the so called joy of cumming in ones mouth. i have had a lot of action down ther , just no end result. i enjoy giving head to both male and female. but as for me many have tried even saw it as a challenge, but to no avail.
i prefer licking in the genital area thighs, kneecaps, etc... as to mouth stroking of my penis. i have seen many techniques by a few south of my belt, if i ever was to ejaculate, lifes tray would be full.

manoclay

I love receiving, even from those who don't do it well.

Giving I enjoy, but only for her to get off on it. If she doesn't, I'd rather move on to something else

Sugarmouse

I love to give....if it is a man i love i reaally love to give!i have been told i am very good by severa men...whether this counts for anything i do not know!

i m notkeen on receiving...no reason other than it just does notdo anything for me!

__________________
Sugarmouse=Festered

NotAnAlias

Only had one sexually involved girlfriend, so my judgement of good head is out a little bit :P At first i didn't like the idea of her (or anyone really) going down on me, that is, until she did it. Wow. She was amazingly good lol. And get hard (oh god the pun sorry) , a little nibble here and there is awesome :P

I love loved loved loved loved going down on her, she didn't like it at all, so i only had a little bit of time ;< and stop moaning about hair, don't see what the big deal is lol.

mixedmedia

I love both......but I'm partial to giving head. Preferably on my knees.....yes, for the obvious reasons (*mischeivous glimmer*).....but also because it is easier on my neck.

cellophanedeity

If the mood strikes me, then there's nothing I like better than giving and getting head. Other times, I just want to skip any sort of foreplay and jump him. I really want to give oral sex to a woman again. I've only done it once, and I can barely remember it.

__________________
who am I to refuse the universe?
-Leonard Cohen, Beautiful Losers

visotech

Theres good sex and bad sex, but isn't any sex good sex

I love to give and recieve, sometimes I just love to dive into the juicy goodness of a woman But i know my ex didn't really want to give unless she was really hardup/horny, complained her jaw hurt. Sure I have the same problem after 15 min of oral on a woman my jaw is a little sore, but hey, im a giver!