Heh heh - there was a thread about this on the old board.
In my opinion - it aint broke, so don't go fixin' it.

Improving on the feeling of a natural, properly administered blowjob is one of life's certain impossibilities, IMO.

Obviously I like receiving and I certainly get into giving.

My last girlfriend was kind of a problem on the giving side of things, though. For whatever reason, she was uncomfortable with it, but told me to do it anyway, and would get bent out of shape if I didn't, but when I did she was never into it. It's a tough bind to be in to on the one hand have them telling you they want it, objecting if you don't and all the while clearly not being very happy when it does happen.

I asked her in a round about way why this was a couple times but never got a decent answer. Technique was never the problem, as far as I know, since she would give me pointers whenever I was doing something she did or didn't like. It's just a bit tough to really get into it when you know she's thinking "I'm not sure I want him down there, but it feels good, but it's gross, but it's good, etc." the whole time.

Any ladies just comfortable enough to let their guys do it but still get a bit squeamish when it happens or have any idea what's up with this?

I love giving it and getting it.Did date a girl once though that wouldn't give head since she said it was against her religion but she sure didn't mind taking it in the ass.Go figure.

I love to give and receive.

A man wiser than me once said: Oral sex is like pizza. There is good pizza, and there is not-so-good pizza. But hey, its still pizza!

:D

My wife doesn't like it when I give it to her because I love to kiss her afterwards......maybe it's the juices left in my goatee.HAHAHHAHH. It took me years to go down there again after watching the birth of both of my children. enough said.

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Receiving oral sex is like awesome, but my wife doesnt really dig it much - so that kinda sucks. I get it - but its far too rare.

I dont mind giving, but once again, my wife doesnt much care for it so I just dont.

i love to give for some reason, getting is a little weird, although i'm only 20 and i've had blowjobs that i'd rather i hadn't (serrated teeth)

Love it. Both giving and receiving. Almost more pleasurable giving as you get to see how much satisfaction the girl receives. No better feeling than seeing her 'quiver' as she orgasms.

I don't know, I don't mind getting oral or receiving... but for me it's not that great, I'm not incredable sensitive and doesn't do alot for me, only had one girl accually get me off from just a blow job... I don't mind eating either, but has to be trimmed/shaved, no hair diving for me!

anywhere that is good enough for my cock, is good enough for my tongue. even if it means eating a little asshole every now and then.

i like getting more then giving but thats just me

I'm not a big fan of giving, i'll do it, but once in awhile. However, i looovvee getting head. Man, there is nothing better than a girl with her lips around my cock.. gotta love it. although, i have had bad head before.. and it made me want to die. One girl was soooo bad, i actually went limp everytime she tried...

giving== great if the girl is smart enough to 1)assume comfortable position without needing to be forced to and 2) is smart enough to know when she shouldn't let you go down.
recieving== good, unless she has no skill then it is just painful. It is also more fun when giving at the same time; but that need not be said i think.

After correcting his spelling, I totally agree with this guy.

Alpha phi was my first and I didn't give him a bj till quite a while after we were having sex even though he always did me...I don't know why I didn't him ....I guess I just wasn't comfortable with it....He finally got me to try it...and I loved it....he told me he couldn't get off that way....sure as hell surprised me when he did one time ...surprised him too....now he can get off with oral all the time.....he says that he finally did because I actually cared enough to keep trying and I tried different techniques.....he says I'm the best....I'm quite proud of that....Now I much prefer to give....not that I don't like to get it...I just prefer to get off with him in me :D

I _love_ getting eaten out by my guy and I love sucking him off. A crucial part of our enjoyment tho' is communicating to one another what feels good. It doesn't have to be in a demanding way-just talking about what feels good, body language, moaning, anything that gives the message, *I dig what you're doing, please keep doin' it!*
About some women seeming reluctant to receive oral gratification, some of us buy into the big lie that we are *dirty* down there, no matter how careful we are to stay fresh and well trimmed. Our inner dialogue prevents us from relaxing enuf to really let go and let our partner pleasure us. Trust can be a really big issue for both sexes, and the idea of holding off for a little while getting to know the new partner is a good one, I think.

I _love_ getting eaten out by my guy and I love sucking him off. A crucial part of our enjoyment tho' is communicating to one another what feels good. It doesn't have to be in a demanding way-just talking about what feels good, body language, moaning, anything that gives the message, *I dig what you're doing, please keep doin' it!*
About some women seeming reluctant to receive oral gratification, some of us buy into the big lie that we are *dirty* down there, no matter how careful we are to stay fresh and well trimmed. Our inner dialogue prevents us from relaxing enuf to really let go and let our partner pleasure us. Trust can be a really big issue for both sexes, and the idea of holding off for a little while getting to know the new partenr is a good one, I think.

Never been much on the getting end. I've had some really techniques used on me, but it just not that intimate for me. I'd rather spoon if giving a choice.

On the giving end, all the anatomy courses I took for premed really pay off. I love knowing that I'm making the woman squirm and moan like a whore because of what I'm doing.

Most of the time it's because they're insecure and think they 1. smell, 2. taste bad, or 3. both. If she says no, start messing with her with your fingers. After a few minutes of that, pull them out and make a show of licking/sucking them. If you seem to enjoy it, she'll know she doesn't taste bad/smell bad, and might start to open up a bit- don't expect to lick your pointer finger and dive, you are really more laying groundwork.

One thing to try though, is when you start back in with the fingers, lean down SLOWLY and let your tongue join in, then remove fingers and proceed.

I didn't recieve oral from my "ex."

i love oral, cant give it though, seems nasty .. ;x

I've always loved to give oral to a girl. My ex-girlfriend was never a big fan of giving blowjobs so i never really thought much of them until i met my current GF. my current gf gives amazing head and i actually wish i got it more often (whereas with my ex i never recall even wanting it with her).

I love getting, and I don't mind giving, but my wife is very self conscious about her vaginal odours. I don't mind too much, but sometimes it's very noticeable, and I do find the smell stays around for quite some time. But she is very hesitant and in fact I haven't given her head in over a year.

The best is giving and receiving at the same time. Nothing like feeling her quivering thighs and hearing her muffled moans (that just feels damn good too!). The self consciousness normally goes away in that position as they are concentrating on giving you good head. If you get her to that state, don't stick with just lickin teh clit... Go on, live a little - suck on it, tongue the inside, nibble on the perineum, even give that ass a little tip if you're feelin frisky. If she doesn't slap the hell out of you, I swear you'll get the best BJ you have ever had or will ever have. Sometimes even 2 or 3 in a row! :D :crazy:

I don't like giving it, so in return I don't really like receiving it either. It doesn't seem fair :/

Peach, I don't really get off to it, but I love giving oral. You don't think it's fair to get but not give. But do you like it? If so, maybe you and I are the perfect match! :D

I LOVE giving oral, and I like receiving it, although my wife hasn't attempted in 5+ years. If I could get off going down on her, actual intercourse would probably be more rare. When she did blow me (4-5 times total), she did swallow. :-)

bad oral is still pretty good

I love to give and have been lucky in that most of the women I dated and the one I am now maried too enjoy giving.

I have to be with someone who enjoys it. For me it is a big part of sex. I need to have a healthy and enjoyable sex life in order to enjoy a relationship. It's an important piece of the puzzle...

Just a note to the girls....guys like to give oral sex! If you've been with someone for a while, oral sex can be a very intimate experience. Don't be insecure about the way you look, taste, smell, etc. Most of the time, it's the things that you're insecure about, that turn us on the most.

I believe the proper action is to wipe your face off before kissing her.

peter batah does not!

After being with two women in a row that gave great head and loved recieving great head ;) the third that didn't give head but liked to get head was a real put off.

I'm firmly in the camp of mutual give and recieve but even if I'm not getting I'll still give just because I love to do it and hopefully she'll come around to sharing the love!

I've always loved going down on girls. Luckily they were all trimmed/shaved. I'm pretty good at it (been told so anyway) so that's a plus. and of course I love getting. seems like every girl i've been with has been better than the last by leaps and bounds so thank god for that too.

I love going down on girls becuase it drives them crazy, the biggest turn on for me is when the girl is enjoying it. However, I haven't ever really enjoyed a girl going down on me. Sometimes it's just painful. Then again, I haven't gotten head from that many different girls, so maybe they just weren't the best at it. I dunno, never really bothered me before although they were kinda mad cause they couldn't get me off :rolleyes:

I also love giving head to a female. In fact I love giving it more than I like gettting it. I've never suggested that the gal do me unless she shows good indication that she really wants to blow me. The one time I really enjoyed it was when I woke up in a tent, while camping in the mountains, and the gal next to me was blowing me while I slept. We got in to the 69 position and both came at the same time -wonderful!

Position and comfort are always important when eating a gal. I prefer to sit on he floor and have her lie back on the bed with her hips right at the edge so everything that demands my attention is right there an inch in front of my face, This also provides her with the freedom of motion necessary to easily shift herself a little so that she can get the proper attention right where she wants it. It's amazintg how many of them like their asses licked a little and they show their delight with little mewings and moanings. Talking with them between licks and asking what they like the best is a good idea since it helps them break through their shyness if they are new at it.

Giving oral sex is the my main fantasy on those occasions when I decide to give Lady Fivefingers a break. If fact lately I've even had visions of myseelf giving a couple (male and female) some oral stimulation while they are screwing. Now if I can just find the right couple I think that would be a wonderful experience even though I've never done it to a guy before. I think the gal would be the main course and the guy would be just a side dish -maybe not -maybe I'd get to really like that too.

Does anyone have any ideas they can share about the couple thing described in the above paragraph? :icare: :icare: :icare:

Love receiving and giving...

I love both giving and recieving. My girlfriend doesn't always let me eat her, though. Only after she feels 100% clean and comfortable. Mmmm....pussy.