02-12-2010, 10:29 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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My b/f has an odd request.
I said I would think about it and we left it at that. It doesn't turn me off or anything. Its just I am not shore if its safe. Well he asked if next time we have anal sex if he could pee in my ass. I don't mind anal sex every now and then but peeing in you ass doesn't seem safe. Should I let him do this?
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02-12-2010, 11:26 PM | #3 (permalink) |
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Urine is sterile. As far as safety, there's not a ton to worry about. The question is, is that something you want him to do?
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02-12-2010, 11:34 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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Well, I'm not an expert or anything, but I've heard that putting liquid in your ass can be quite dangerous because it's where the body temperature is regulated...
Perhaps, somebody with more facts than I can either back me up or correct me here.
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02-12-2010, 11:43 PM | #5 (permalink) |
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The above post is correct urine is sterile but...wait inside? Well I don't know, it is sterile but can grow bacteria quickly outside of the body, if trapped inside of you it might cause some problems...infection maybe?
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02-13-2010, 01:09 AM | #6 (permalink) | |
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It's perfectly safe. People drink their own piss (and others) with no ill effects. The body (kidneys) will filter any absorbed waste products from the urine. The colon absorbs water like crazy, which is why some people get the great idea of giving themselves beer/wine enemas. This is also why a few of those people die
If you did it, it would be best to drink water to dilute the toxins. However the real question is do you want to experience this or not? If enemas and anal squirting (and the associated nasty products of this) excite you, go for it. If they do not, then don't do it. If you have a little curiosity but you are fearful or embarrassed, assess the situation. Talk to your guy, see what he thinks about what happens when he pulls out. The thing that guys often don't consider when they are revved up and horny as fuck is what happens after the event. Make sure he knows it's not going to be pretty. Still, you have the ultimate authority on this situation. ---------- Post added at 03:09 AM ---------- Previous post was at 03:06 AM ---------- Quote:
LOL. It's like this forum is strangely liberal in everything but nasty kinky full fluid sharing sex
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02-13-2010, 02:14 AM | #7 (permalink) |
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I'm a liberal dude....
Just looking out for safety.
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02-13-2010, 05:03 AM | #11 (permalink) |
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hmmm..im not sure how to answer this one.
Is the opening poster a male or female? clayman could be a male, but i automatically assumed it was a female. in any case here are your options if you are female - ask him if he'd drink your menstrual blood in return as a sign of his love for you if you are male - ask him to lick off the aftermath of his request...again as a sign of his love for you
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02-13-2010, 05:15 AM | #12 (permalink) |
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Aren't you the same Clayman who said this in the why does my boyfriend want me to poo on him? thread:
You should just do it. I try and keep an open mind to sex and will do anything once. Sometimes you find you like things you thought you would hate before hand. Also I have looked up a bit on this fetish he has and apparently its another way of showing how much the person loves their mate. To them it's like showing you that they love you so much they are willing to come in contact with even the most nasty parts of you and still get off. Or something like that. But then again for some its just they like to be humiliated and whats more humiliating than having someone take a dump on you.
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02-13-2010, 05:17 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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I'd say it's safe, but sounds like something I will never let anyone do to me. Nothing about it turns me on in any way, in fact it does the opposite. No amount of wanting a boyfriend to be happy and turned on would get me to do that. Say no if you don't want to do it. If your only concern is safety, I don't think it will cause any damage or harm.
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02-13-2010, 06:49 AM | #15 (permalink) | |
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There's not a lot to be worried about here from a health perspective. I think the question is: would you be able to look at yourself in the mirror afterward? Urine play has a lot of dominance and degradation baggage, which might be your thing, and if so, giddy up. If it's HIS thing but not YOUR thing, though, you've got something to discuss with him. |
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02-13-2010, 07:11 AM | #17 (permalink) | |
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02-13-2010, 07:12 AM | #18 (permalink) |
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Reply to Lucifer: Cuz I would do it but I am worried it could hurt me. Pooing on someone doesn't seem to dangerous as long as you wash up after. There is noway to wash out your asshole after someone pees in it. As for the am I a man or woman question I am a bisexual male and am in a relationship with a man right now.
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02-13-2010, 07:15 AM | #19 (permalink) |
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You've never pissed in the midst of a morning wood? It's totally doable.
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02-13-2010, 10:31 AM | #21 (permalink) |
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i have, B.G.
it can sometimes be risky. the only time that i've tried this i was still at half chubs after a nice round of buttsecks with the missus. i felt the after sex piss coming on, asked her the "question", crammed my half flaccid ding-dong in her ass, and unleashed a torrent of yellow. shameless. edit: there was no poo. but thats not saying your s/o wont shit all over the place.
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02-13-2010, 03:27 PM | #29 (permalink) |
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Ok I thought I would come back and fill you in on the out come. Not to long ago we tried the whole peeing in the ass thing and he couldn't do it so we gave up and continued with normal anal sex. He got the idea when he saw some hentai porn on the internet showing this. He is into hentai. I don't get the attraction.
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02-14-2010, 04:06 AM | #32 (permalink) | |
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02-25-2010, 01:45 PM | #35 (permalink) |
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Well, there's all sorts of valves in there to keep the blood in and the urine out during baby making. Forcing the urine valve open also tears down the blood blockade. So, you can pee in salute, but it usually always goes down during/after.
Why yes, I am a doctor. What, you don't believe me?
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02-25-2010, 02:16 PM | #36 (permalink) |
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That's exactly what I was thinking.
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02-25-2010, 03:42 PM | #39 (permalink) |
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One of my best friends in High School (yeah THAT long ago) used to let her BF do it all the time in her toosh and bum. No problems. Lotsa fun.
So - what's the big deal? Really ...it's warm and sterile.
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