packmandaniel

Hi

It is a sensitive issue but I am in a problem and nothing like Internet to discuss things in anonymity. My problem is that my gf is one of those rare women who are multi orgasmic.

While this makes for great sex, but she wants more when I am spent. I feel bad for her as she remains unsatisfied. I have heard that there are some stimulants available which can make me ready for next rounds early.

Nisses

Let's go with the all-classic:

You know you can use other appendages on her as well right? fingers, tongue, ...

Also, have her go down on you seems like a classic boost as well.

If all that fails, try a cockring? It's basically like tying a knot in your balloon, making sure you won't lose 'hardness'.


I'd think twice about pumping chemicals in your system that are rumored to work (and come with their own downsides). If they work 100%, some Pfizer-like companies will have a patent on it, rest assured.

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jewels

Hi

Rare? Please stop reading statistics.

Every woman has the potential to be multiorgasmic so it might be a good idea to prepare yourself for life. We need men out there who aren't intimidated or afraid of that and know how simple it is to help us out.

Learning is half the fun, ya know. Why not ask her what would work for her? Let her know you're willing to be there for her.

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indebut

Never look a gift horse in the mouth my friend Like someone else mentioned...you have hands and a mouth, use them.

Does she have any toys? If so you could use them on her to give yourself a bit of time to recharge.

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LoganSnake

I don't think I have talked to many women who are not multi-orgasmic. And the ones I've been with are fun as hell. I certainly am not a marathon fucker, so using other stimulants than your cock do the tricks quite well and leaves everybody happy.

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ratbastid

You can bring a woman to ecstasy many times over with relatively little effort, once you learn how. Very LITTLE of it actually has to do with the presence of your penis inside her. I recommend you get yours over with, then spend the rest of the night taking care of her.

botabota

Tongue - its a magic little thing use it on her - make her go crazy be confident and dont be afraid of going down on her with your tongue
Finger - you have 8 of them (+2 thumb ) use them too - make her orgasm before putting your thing in and after

and other suggestion above are good too - cockring - you could even try those condom that prolong your erection

let us know how it goes and have fun

The Faba

Woah woah woah... Before we start advising this man to use his mouth, hands, arms, etc... we should make sure that he, in fact, has those appendages. We don't know if he was born without a mouth and must snort all his food through a straw in his nose - for example.

This scenario makes sense if his gf is not very perceptive, as the only clue she would have that he was finished would be the well known 'orgasm face'. Without a mouth our man would be in dire straits indeed, as she would only expect more and more of him, not realizing he finished 130 minutes ago and is close to having the lactic acid in his veins eating through his skin.

Your words must be like poison to him.

I, for one, feel your pain packmandaniel. I can't imagine how hard it must be to go through this meaningless life without a mouth. I'm so very proud of your struggle and ability to function normally with your impressive handicap. Unless you're actually lying about not having a mouth... then you're despicable. But I couldn't imagine anyone lying about this sort of disability.

There. I said it.



But seriously, I agree with the other posters.

toxic515

okay, I haven't been posting much in a long time, mostly because someone like Ratbastid or Shanifaye says pretty well exactly what I have to say. Frankly, the correctness is usually enough that I don't think it requires reinforcement. HOWEVER, this time, I have to weigh in:
Faba, that made me laugh out loud.

and to Packmaadaniel... read Ratbastid's post again... twice. and next time, shut off the tv and start earlier. ;-)

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perrymichael939

You sure are one lucky guy, your girl must be something in bed, but to be asked to do it again when all you want is to sleep… must be very irritating and disappointing.

It must be doubly hard for the girl, may be even depressing. Well Viagra is not for you as you don’t have any problem with normal erection. You can go for some natural herb based medicine. There are some wonderful Indian and Chinese herbs like Shilajeet etc. which can have you perform like your girl always wants you to. But you must be wary of the cheats as there are many of them when it comes to sexual stimulants.

StellaLuna

Um.... can't you wear her out most of the way before you get yours? Unless you have the serious physical disabilities Faba has pointed out, it's just not that difficult. Give her a toy, give her a hand?

I'm stunned that this is even an issue, and I'm actually kind of sorry for y'all. I used to not have -any- orgasms. Not a one. To have someone point out that my ability to keep on coming, as it were, is a problem for them...

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genuinegirly

I second that one.


Get yourself a dildo. When you're pooped, bring out your friend. At least, that's one simple option.
Time to get creative. Plenty of good suggestions here. Don't think of it as "demanding", so much as a treat. Plenty of women out there have difficulties with obtaining orgasm, revel in the fact that she's enjoying herself. If it doesn't turn you on, well... your future doesn't look to bright.

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maudlinae

Thirded.

What the other posters have suggested is pretty much spot on, but I do have one hint. Instead of starting off with a little light foreplay, jumping straight into the sex, and then trying to help her to multiple orgasms, try mixing things up. Start off with foreplay, then use your fingers or your mouth to bring her to orgasm once or even twice, and then start the actual intercourse.
I don't know about you, but once my guy comes he pretty much goes into Basking Mode and all he feels up for is some mumbling and some stroking before he goes to sleep. Being in a mood like that makes doing anything for about a half hour to an hour, even going to get a drink, seem like a chore. To avoid feeling like you're being made to pleasure your girlfriend and seeing her as "demanding" try to start off with her. Not only does it keep her satisfied, but it gets her even more prepared for actual intercourse.