Plan9

So, what percentage would you say were less-than-acceptable to be seen with in public (during the day, without intoxication)?

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World's King

About 10%


Just cause I'm a drunk doesn't mean I don't have standards.

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Shaindra

He wasn't small to begin with either. The logistics alone...but I digress.

Let's just say that the games are a lot more fun when people can actually move around a bit. ;-)

girldetective

Affection creates beauty.

Shauk

neh

removed

Plan9

Exit Wounds was such a shitty movie.

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Shauk

never seen it, lol. Some random dudes house for an after party, That photo was taken at about 5 am in the middle of a snowstorm

theres a crazy story behind that night and how i even wound up 100 miles away from where I live with no car using only my wits and my clever dialogue and wound up starting a relationship with that girl who is basically the bane of my existance at this point but once was good for me.

meh, people change. BUT TO STAY ON TOPIC, She's attractive to me.

World's King

Is that first girl a midget? Or are you giant?

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Shauk

i'm 6'6" and she's asian.

I didn't own this shirt back then

World's King

"Stand up and blow me."

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surferlove007

No can't say I have.

gentlesoul43

Sure did about 2 years back. Still wondering to myself why I did it and if I'd do it again. She offered free sex and said that she just needs someone to sleep with while she was on holiday. It didn't help that she had some sordid details about sexual preferences and during the time when we had our fling, she also had a girlfriend. I had imagined that eventually I'd end up doing the both of them together or at least be allowed to watch them make out. And that would have put a tick in my list of "Things to do before I die".

Hahaha, I didn't find her that attractive but she had a nice bod. I didn't find her female partner attractive at all so perhaps that's why I didn't pursue that. And she said yes to the menage a troi but later she said her gf didn't like the idea.

She called a month back and wanted to catch up now that she's back. I don't know... I don't know...

blahblah454

That is the most kick ass shirt I have ever seen Shauk, and I think that first tiny girl is hot

Kpax

No, but I've only been with one girl. Physical attraction would be my only determining factor, ironically. I wouldn't care what her personality is like, or how long I've known her. This seems to be the reverse of how men are chosen by women.

So far, for me, 100%, but her personality is so unattractive that her physical attraction and her lack of presence (in my life) is not burdening me much.

james t kirk

But haven't you slept with only 1 or 2 men?

Revisit this topic should your number hit 20 something some day.

Derwood

no, but every woman who's slept with me has

Shauk

ZING!

I should steal that.

Bear Cub

High five, FTMFW.

Aladdin Sane

Oh yeah. Once that I can remember. She was unattractive inside and out.
Well, inside I mean figuratively. I didn't really look in there and say wow you are ugly in there. She was shallow and creepy. But outside I mean literally. She was ugly in her face like a old dirty dishtowel. It was a bad, bad scene. Uggg, did you have to remind me? I feel bad all over again, except without the orgasm.

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savmesom11

Am I the only one who has done this sober?!?!?! EEEwww some how I feel dirty and this was like 10 years ago. Any way, after staying single for almost a year (by choice) I had needs that needed to be met. Instead of going to the bar and picking up someone, which I could easily have done, I choose someone I knew and trusted. He had a crush on my for years and he was sooooo not my type. To make matters worse he was so excited that I finally was giving him the opportunity he couldn't last. Blah, I should have went to the bar.....

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cyklone

Does being married count?

Crack

I have heard the term "Desert Queen": Someone who looks really good in Iraq, but get her back in the states, and you wouldn't even go there at last call on a Tuesday.

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Barstool

I've tagged a fattie before, so yeah, I guess I can say I've sexed someone I'm not attracted to.

Jinn

A little tact often goes a long way..

I don't think I've ever heard "tagged a fattie" out of someone who didn't have one of the following:

a) a popped collar
b) a waxed chest
c) a ridiculously ugly zoot-suit
d) aviators
e) a shirt with their frat's letters on it

We aren't your frat brothers or your adolescent male friends who think its "badass" to talk about women like that.

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frankx

Yep. Fucked my brains out. No alcohol involved (or needed). She was a great regular Sunday afternoon fuck buddy. Nothing implied or expected.

Not that she wasn't attractive, she was, she just wasn't my ideal.

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Plan9

Pfft, you speak for yourself, bro.

*pops collar, slides on aviator shades*

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The responses to this thread are often devoid of the critical point it makes.

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Willravel

Dude, you've totally tagged a fatty.

You totally have "Phattys are Phun to Phuck" tattooed across your back.

Shauk

for some reason all I can think about is the bunny with a pancake on it's head.

richard311

I had severe confidence issues, so yes, I got stuck with someone I didnt find attractive. I was with her for 7 years. We broke up and I was finally with someone hot. I used to always lay in bed and just imagine someone who was thin and had a flat stomach and what it would be like.

It was more glorious than i could have imagined.

I still have confidence issues, but not like back in the day. I wouldnt be with someone not attractive again.

Nole of 4UrMe

Oh my, well I've got a story for this thread.

Married to a man I found attractive, intelligent, etc. However he wouldn't hardly have sex with me after we were married. He claimed it was because he didn't know what to do to please me (he had a hair trigger so by intercourse was out) and I couldn't explain any other way to bring me to climax. I could do it myself and I was mostly okay with that, but since he couldn't satisfy me, he wouldn't even try to have sex with me anymore; that was not okay with me.. . . .proceed forward to our tenth year of marriage.

I am building a pond and meet a fellow that is connected with that. Little short icky guy, really. Never had dental insurance so he had the brown/black line around his teeth just a bit from years of smoking, fat, about 5'1". Nice dresser though. Anyway he was giving me such good deals on the stuff I was buying that when he went to kiss me goodbye one afternoon I let him. Of course he had to push a bit to get a real kiss, but what the hey, I let him.

I'm telling you, my toes curled like I had never experienced. I was dumbfounded, speechless (which you can already tell is rare for me). So I demanded he kiss me again. (I'm figuring that its because of years of marital neglect, second kiss won't even catch my notice) WRONG! It was so bizarre.

So I went home and explained to hubby that I might have met someone who could show me and hence I could show him. Took some convincing, but hubby says okay.

So YES I have had sex with someone I did not find the least bit attractive. He didn't teach me as much as I had hoped, but it was enough to take home and teach a little something to the hubby.

Moral of the above story. The concept presented in the revenge of the nerds. . . ugly guys can have talents/skills that good looking guys don't seem to need to learn.

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dd3953

yes. i have. more than once. doesn't really matter much if the room is dark - & they understand it just sex & just this once.

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Toaster126

Yes and no. A lot of what makes people attractive to me sexually has to do with who they are as a person. I've not been sexually attracted to someone only to change my mind as I got to know them better and liked them.

As an aside, there sure is a lot of bitterness in this thread.

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neflyte

Nope. I've only ever had one and she was drop-dead gorgeous in my eyes.

I don't get a lot of attention from women in general anyways. If someone's interested in me, they sure as hell don't let me know.

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levite

No. I almost did once, but I couldn't do it. Not because of the lack of physical attraction. She had a decent bod, and physically, I was ready to go. But she was totally in love with me, and even though she said she just wanted to get it on, no strings, I could tell it would mean something to her that it would never mean for me, and if I did it, it would just be cruel to her. So I didn't.

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allaboutmusic

I haven't.

Terrell

Yes a few times. Usually it's a case of personality more than making up for only 'average' looks.

Sugarmouse

Levite your post has intrigued me alot!

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gentlesoul43

Show me the fugly girls.. you're turning me on already!

vancityboi

never. for me i would need to a lil bit physically attracted to her. of course this also has to come with personality. i hate gorgeous ppl who are absolutely dull or really outgoing and just not good looking.

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percy

Twice.

The first guy was shorter than me and nerdy looking, kinda out of shape.(He fixed my computer). Almost pissed himself asking me if I wanted a drink. When I left my legs were so wobbly from getting screwed senseless I forgot my computer. Did it again when I went back.

Second time not so good.

Was lonely (horny!%#$@!) and getting drunk at a friend's cottage. Was talking to this guy innocently about movies and stuff and all of a sudden he says, "Wanna find a room and do it?"

Being a little drunk (but more horny) I agreed. What a mistake. Let's see. The guy barely had his dick in me and he loses it. Couldn't have been more than 5 seconds. He sort of looked like Quentin Tarantino. Yuch. Not only creepy but the worst ever.