Ever slept with someone you didnt find physically attractive?
 

Yes, unfortunately. He was really nice and easy to talk to. Give me a couple of drinks and well...it didnt last long. I realized he was just a nice guy, i.e. loser. I knew I was better than that.

Nope. Can't say that I have. I can't imagine even trying.

Nope.

yup...

yup...

No. Though personality, words, and behavior can indeed turn me on, finding the person physically attractive is usually what gets it all started.

Yes. I've had a couple of men in my life that I didn't find attractive (as aquaintances or friends) but once I saw who they were inside, I saw them very differently and they became attractive and sexy to me.

Yes I have. Most of my sex has been with folks I dont find 'physically' attractive however usually when I find someone attractive because of who they are, I begin to find them physically attractive also.

Other times,I have failed to find someone attractive at all, usually in a tired relationship and I have still slept with them. It happens.

I have to tune into someones mind to find them attractive physically.

Yes. They might not have been physically attractive standing around, but lying down, they were gods...
Used to be a "saying": "Ugly people make better lovers because they have to try harder." Compensation can be a wonderful thing.

Slept with? No.

Woke up next to? Numerous times.


I kid. I kid.

never. my drunkologue didn't even have room for it since I was a staunch celibate at the time.

Loads of times. There have been a few guys who I thought would be average, at best, but turned out to be Gods in the bedroom. Those guys weren't attractive, imo, but boy am I glad I didn't let their looks get in the way. :>

The hottest guy I've been with was alright. He was a bit too vanilla for me, though.

Wait... I don't think you're communicating your thoughts clearly. It sounds like you're calling nice guys losers unless they're physically attractive.

Anyway, yeah... one of the girls I slept with I found very attractive mentally and emotionally, but physically she didn't really do it for me. We had a good time together though, so I don't regret it one bit.

yep.

Kinda...

If there is a scale with a yes and a no cut off, I've been with a couple that were JUST over the no point on the attraction scale.

Yup.

But she deep-throated and swallowed. Oh, and I was a teenager too. Not gonna let a little thing like physical attraction get in the way of getting some back then.....

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OP: Oh, it has happened. The thing that scares me the most though is how easy it was for me to file it under "PTSD therapy" to make self-excuses.

Does sleeping alone count? :)

Ooooo, modern emo existential melt-down! Nice.

Ha!

Back to the OP: Does sharing a double bed in hotels with my sister when we were kids count?


Seriously: No, I have never slept with someone I didn't find physically attractive.

See, the problem with this is that it doesn't take into account how many men will sheath their Jedi meatsaber in whatever piece of TonTon comes by on a Friday night. In the army we had a phrase for this type of activity... the kind of phrase that I don't really feel like ever repeating again. *shiver*

If the OP says: "Ever slept with someone you didn't find physically attractive?" it would be a little silly to assume that you'd take your pants off for someone that initially repulses you. I think the idea is, "ever woke up to a bad one-nighter?"

Somebody's banging the ugly people of the world and, by-God, it includes some of us.

I'm an alcoholic.




'nuff said...

Got a higher body count than Contra III, huh?

I have not had sex with an ugly woman before. But I did let a pretty ugly girl when I was just out of high school suck me off when she wanted to. And she wanted to a lot! And she was amazing at it, best head I have ever had, best head I will probably ever have.

Yes.

Once.

Ugh.

....said my boyfriend about his ex from high school. Then again, he was a pretty big dork in that day too.

Was a time....when I truly cared about a girl most would consider quite unattractive. Thing is, she knew it, and became nearly depressed about her physical appearance, but I became her friend, and in a way I loved her. Over a couple month period I gave her "attention" in many ways to build her self esteem and it worked wonders.
She lost 40 lbs, and made abrupt changes to her appearance that pushed her into the attractive arena. When the inevitable came...I just smiled inside and told her she rocks. Haven't talked to her in years, but I bet shes happy and confident...woo hoo.

I did once sleep with a guy who was attractive, just not to me. I was a little...unstable at the time, having just gotten out of a 1.5 year totally fucked up relationship. The dude in question was known for being a bit of a player...yeah, well, I played him good.

I guess he was mopey for a couple weeks afterwards because he'd never had a girl use him like that before...serves him right.

Nope, Never. Oddly attractive in a dark, Jewish genius sorta way....yeah.

And that's like the counter/opposite of my being. Probably why I was so attracted!

Now regrets hmmm- of course. Was it worth it? Oh YeAHHhhhhhh :thumbsup:

( I loved the pre-AIDS time of sexuality!!!!)

unfortunately yes i did...

a girl i knew in university, my good friend had picked her up earlier in the year and had a fling with her, he said she was the best lay he ever had.

i ended up at her house 4th year, well I had to see what the hype was about. she was attractive, just not my type.

and damn he was right, she was amazing.

now that i think about it i should chance that first line from "did" to "have" as now i can remember others....

(hangs head)

Yes, but it wasn't until after we broke up a couple of years later that I found him unattractive physically as well as mentally. That seems to be the way it goes. When I like someone, I find them physically appealing, no matter how others perceive them. When I can't stand them, I find them ugly through and through.

No and I hope I never let it get that far...

In short, I have never been so alcoholically stupified that I could do that.

And I know I couldn't do it sober.

Yes. Alcohol was not involved. She offered, I didn't want her to feel bad, so I said yes. The worst part was she kissed me on the mouth. Her teeth looked like a game of pick-up sticks.

I've never slept with someone that I felt was VERY unattractive, although, I lost my virginity to a sixteen year old who wasn't the best looking guy I've seen.

I've also slept with a girl who has the exact opposite body type that I enjoy... but I take what I can get.

maybe, but hard to remember, lol, alcohol kinda erases memories, thank goodness

Not really, I don't like to pretend... But what I have learned since my divorce and returning to the dating scene, is that I after have had sex/slept with women that I find very attractive, the more I get to know about them on the inside, the less attractive they are, so far anyway. I think I am just more picky now than when I was younger.

LOL

Best one yet

To the question at hand - yes, an alcohol was NOT involved either, so there.

I have no regrets about any woman that I have ever slept with to tell you the truth.

Crompsin, you are my hero. :thumbsup:

Sleep with him? Heck, I married him. And you know what? When feelings get involved, you get get past almost anything. Even that 150lbs he put on during the marriage.

Single now. And I wouldn't sleep with someone that I didn't feel at least a spark with. Of course after years of sleeping with someone I didn't desire, that spark is amazingly easy to find.

Wow, that's like growing a fully-developed 16 year old Crompsin in your torso.

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The investment we have in another person allows us to overlook what we initial see as temporary setbacks or minor issues even though they're dealbreakers.

Our brains rationalize it with simple mechanics. The cost of going vs. the cost of staying.

Yes. I've slept with more people then anyone I know.