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Once again, its not about their position. Of course there are gay people who aren't in favor of gay marriage. This is about honest and hypocracy in terms of the position they adopt, and how they represent themselves. The "homosexual" aspect, in my opinion at least, isn't really *that* crucial. I'd have the same opinion if someone was a staunch supporter of the Drug War and MADD, and it turned out they were a heavy drug user who routinely drove drunk. In fact, I find the sensationalist hype surrounding these disclosures to be an interesting reminder of how homophobic we are as a society. In the above example of the drugs / DUI - the reaction would be nowhere near this severe. Of course, the fact that you can successfully run for office on the "traditional marriage" slogan is a pretty strong indicator of our social homophobia in the first place.
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Last night, my wife and I watched this: http://www.hbo.com/docs/programs/lastlettershome/ Two of the fathers of dead US soldiers were so shattered that they did not speak in front of the camera....they left it to their wives to try to put their loss into words. One mother said that she knew her son's (killed in Iraq) saliva was on the lip of the envelope flap of his "last letter home", and knowing that gave her a feeling of contact with him. Several "next of kin" said that, when the military chaplain and two soldiers in dressed in "class "A"s, appeared at their door to "inform them", they reasoned that, if they did not let them in the house, their soldier would not be dead. My wife has not heard anything from her deployed son in the last 14 days. Watching "Last Letters Home", last night, I tried to imagine how we would cope with "a knock on the door".....it something that I hadn't thought of, before. None of the dozen changing, "reasons" that president Bush has "communicated", to justify his invasion and occupation of Iraq, or continued US and NATO "presence", in Afghanistan, is IMO, worth one drop of blood of any American soldier, nor one tear of a grieving loved one. If Tammy Bruce is "so sure", she should enlist in the military herself, and spare another soldier, a fourth "rotation" into "service" in Iraq. I find her role as propagandist chearleader for a war criminal POTUS, an affront to what most of us now know. <b>Just read my "sig" at the bottom of this post.....</b> www.pollingreport.com/BushJob.htm PRESIDENT BUSH – Overall Job Rating in recent national polls ...........................................Approve....Disapprove Newsweek 11/9-10/06 31%.......63% Quote:
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Tammy Bruce is a neo-con apologist.
As far as homosexuals being against gay-marriage legislation, I can understand that position completely. It is not necessarily hypocrisy. The solution to dealing with same-sex marriage is not to add yet another law, but to change or remove current law which restricts and defines marriage -- a social institution. If the word "marriage" is so precious that it couldn't possibly be associated with filthy filthy homosexuals, take it away from everyone and replace it with "civil union." Straight, gay, and other couples could then all get the same "civil union license/registration" and then perform whatever religious, spiritual, or personal ceremonies they'd like on their own to complete their "marriage."
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This thread got interesting when Jess added that last bit. However, I have to step in and say one thing.
If you want to run for office, run under your own values. If all you are is some puppet, bending your own values to meet the expectations of your constituents, then you are.. well.. nothing special. What is the definition of a politician? Someone who presents themselves to be society's most obediant bitch? If I am voting someone ahead of myself (which means, to me, giving someone OTHER THAN MYSELF a vote of confidence to do the right thing) then I am voting for them based on what their decisions WOULD BE if they had to wing it. Now, who do you want for a leader; someone who is not true to themselves, or someone with a real drive and passion for the policies they enforce? This is what is ridiculous about politics. There are no leaders, only slimy businessmen sucking on the teat of public opinion.
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I'm confilcted on this one.
On one hand, I don't think it should be neccesary for a politician's sexual orientation to be public information. Much in the same way I wouldn't want any of their sexual habits to be made public. They're American citizens with a right to privacy. But if current politics demand that homosexuality be a political issue, then this information is relevant. So... not sure. But, while we're at it, can we out congresspeople who are closet agnostics/atheists? I'm sick of politicians claiming they love the Jesus, when you know they're lying through their teeth to get the votes. I mean, why not?
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Not to mention, there's also seretogis' scenario as a possibility. And really, I'm thinking there's quite a few possibilities besides these two. And at any rate, even if there is hypocrisy, what is the practical difference to a voter in getting a straight anti-gay rep versus getting a closeted anti-gay rep? Besides the opportunity for petty humiliation of the closeted one, I mean.
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I want politicians to be honest. Just as atheists should not have to make apologies for their beliefs, neither should gays. Honesty is the first quality I am looking for in a political representative. I would not vote for a hypocrite. The closet is a place to hide.....I want my politicians to be strong enough to not hide.
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Unless you can show me how you're concretely harmed by a politician keeping their orientation private.
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The benefit would be knowing that the person you are voting for is not a political hypocrite....that they have the basic character to stand by their own personal convictions/actions, and not just say whatever they think it will take to get "their side" to win, and in power. Imo...our political landscape is too much about spin and power, and not enough about real debate on the important issues.
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1. How does this knowledge benefit you? 2. How does this knowledge tell you that their political choices are wholly motivated by an unprincipled thirst for power? And like I asked before, how do you know that their personal life - as opposed to their political life - isn't the part of their life that contrasts with their principles? Quote:
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That knowlege benefits me by helping me decide who is the best person to hold an office. I need truth to make good decisions. I would not want to vote for someone who is living a lie....This issue of accepting homosexuality as ahealthy and normal variation in our society is important and needs to be taken seriously. Double talk is not helpful.
Hiding and lying makes this issue seem less real/important than it truely is....imo.
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How does knowing about a particular case of living a lie actually improve the quality of your decision? How is straight/anti-gay better than double-life/anti-gay, given equal political stances and actions?
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You're probably talking to the wrong people here, FTA. The real people that you should be having this conversation with are the constituents these congressmen represent. They're probably for gay marriage amendments, being Republican. How do you predict they will react to learning their representatives are gay? My guess is that the congressmen's popularity would take a hit. Assuming that were to happen, that would show the information is, definitively, relevant.
Most of the left you're talking to here would probably *gain* respect for congressmen that come out of the closet. So maybe our perspectives don't reflect the real issue here....
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Host, I don't understand your aim in posting those articles. What's your point?
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Everyone has things about themselves that they don't advertise and would rathen not be made public. Some of them are trivial, some are important, and each of us would probably differ as to which is which. But in the final analysis, each person gets to define what makes him/herself be who s/he is, and how important to his/her self-definition any single particular aspect is.
To put it another way: we each choose the face we present to the world. For example, I'm not naturally charming and not naturally extroverted. But to be successful in my line of work I have to learn to be charming and somewhat extroverted. it's not really me; I'm much more of a bookish and cerebral type than a glad-hander. My wife knows this, and some of my close friends, but I have no particular desire or need to have these aspects of my personality become common knowledge. I mention this not because I think that sexual preference is on a par with personality type - clearly it's a different kind of personal characteristic - but rather to make the point that each of us chooses how s/he presents him/herself to the world. And the choice of how to do that is uniquely each of ours; it's as much a part of who we are as the choice of clothing or the part of our hair. If I like to look at porn, I don't tell that to my business colleagues. If I wipe my ass with my left hand instead of my right, I don't mention it in polite company. If I prefer having sex with my wife doggie style, I don't need other people to know about it. What's more, I might even think (to take a hypothetical example) that it's not a good thing that I like to look at porn. I might have any number of negative characteristics that I am not proud of and prefer to suppress. That doesn't mean anyone has the right to go tell everyone else that I like to look at porn, or that I bite my nails in private, or that I like to scratch my ass. Even if I do those things, I don't have to be proud of them and - this is crucial - I may still think they are wrong. maybe I'd advocate restricting access to porn in order to help me save myself from urges to look at it. Or, even if they are not wrong, they are none of anyone's business. (no, I don't urge restrictions of this type - I'm libertarian through and through - but I'm giving these examples for purpose of argument). Sexual activity of all kinds, including sexual preferences, are precisely like any other kind of activity or trait. It's up to the owner to decide what becomes public and what does not. No one else has the right to interfere with anyone's life or personality or self-definition that way. It's a very intrusive, very personal violation. And for what? To demonstrate that someone is a "hypocrite?" Actually, no - because it takes a few assumptions to get to the conclusion that the person is a hypocrite. Yes, <i>you</i> might think the person is a hypocrite, but that doesn't mean s/he is - it could simply mean that s/he is wrestling with something, or indulged a curiosity, or what have you. You simply don't know how the behavior you happen to focus on fits into that person's life. It could be that the person "knows" what s/he is doing is wrong, and wants outside restrictions in order to help him/her stay away from it, and to remove temptations. In short, you have no way to know what the person's motivation is, and no real basis for painting them as hypocrites - all you know is that s/he prefers to keep some aspect of life private. Be very careful about this sort of "outing" - there may one day be something <i>you</i> prefer to keep private, that someone else might think has to be exposed, for reasons of their own that you might not share - it might not even be sexual in nature. What goes around comes around. Finally, there is apparently an assumption among the supporters of "outing" that all Republicans or republican supporters or voters hate gays or advocate restrictions on gays. To begin with, simply as an empirical matter, I doubt most people especially care about what other people do; they simply want to be left alone. You can't simply assume that a Republican voter hates gays. I have voted Republican at times in the past, and I would venture to say I have more gay people in my home on a regular basis than most; my occasional choice of a Republican candidate had zero to do with gays - what it had to do with is regulation, taxes and national security. That's what happens in a two party system: yo'ure left with the choice of which party's candidates match more of the preferences you have at a particular moment than the other party's. There is no such thing as a candidate who matches me in all opinions, which means I'm always compromising. I would guess most gay Republicans do too. To suggest, as the "outers" do, that a free-market libertarian who happens to be gay should have to vote for a welfare state democrat in order to be able to maintain his privacy is totalitarianism - i.e., you have to do things the way the "outer" thinks you should do them, or else suffer the consequences. Bah. In the final analysis, people are entitled to respect. ALL people. |
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Well....I could repeat myself, again, about how it is important to me that "public people" asking other people to vote for them.... to represent them when making laws that affect us all be honest about who they are and what they do....but I won't bore you all again.
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attain high profile, elected office, or, as in Ken Mehlman's case, prominent republican party office, are influenced by the 35 years campaign against the news media (AKA "working press") that features, as a cornerstone, the demonization of homosexuals. The Scaife financed apparatus cited in my last post, spearheaded first, by the late Reed Irvine, founder of AIM, and then by his protege, www.mrc.org 's Bozell, has had a great deal of influence over the media's coverage of homosexuals and gay rights issues. The purpose is to mobilize the christian right to support an ultra-conservative agenda, and to tar the major press outlets, and their reporting, as tainted by liberal bias to the point that the information that they distribute is wholly unreliable....hence the "need" for alternative "news"....that has pushed out, for many conservatives, the "news" that the rest of us, receive, digest, and arm ourselves with as one of several components of information that helps us navigate in the "reality based" environment that we function in. The vacuum created after the news gathering apparatus is pushed aside, is filled by approved aim.org , and mrc.org "organs"....Limbaugh, Drudge, townhall.com, NRO, powerline blog, and to an extent, by foxnews and washington times ....of course, Scaife's Pittsburgh "newspaper" is there to provide "approved" news, too. This movement created distortion....consider Rep. David Dreier, and his life mate and house mate, and chief of staff, Brad W. Smith....this is the legislative work these two have supported: Quote:
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I think that you are not keeping away from this narrowcasting, and a symptom of the effect of it's influence on you, is the basis for your posts on this thread. <b>I know that my opinion has not been salted by the influence of Scaife's money and ideology.</b> I would learn to enjoy gay sex if it was a way to keep Scaife's psy-ops out of my brain! |
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This is the first I've heard of the name Scaife, though I've heard of similar views before. I don't agree with his demonizations of homosexuals, and I don't see what it has to do with my views on this topic. You're going to have to be more clear in the link between the two.
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loquitur: thanks for your post. I'm still not sure I agree with you 100% (in particular, I think that personal responsibility changes when you have a public public life) but I can certainly see the reason and logic--and especially the compassion--on that side of the fence now. That's the sort of post we need more of in Tilted Politics. Great work.
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Maher is on to something here and should probably expand his research into polititians sexual lives. He should interview ex-spouses and lovers and get all the sordid details to publish. You know, stuff like, "he says he's for family values but wanted me to perform perferted acts in bed".
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Uh... so? Is it your contention that, because Bozell and Scaife are wrong in their demonization of homosexuals, they couldn't be right about anything else? I'm still struggling to figure out what the hell your point is, host. Could you please be more clear in showing the relevance of your posts to the topic at hand?
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thanks, Ratbastid. In my dotage I have learned that most people are flawed and that each person is unique and worthy of respect on his/her own terms, rather than trying to impose my terms on them.
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After reading all the posts and trying my best to think through all the issues, I have a couple of questions I'd like to ask:
1. Is it absolutely essential that the voters know all about the candidates they are faced with at the polls? 2. If an elected official proves to have values or habits different from what they claimed in their campaign, should they be ousted? (or even outted?) These are a couple of things I've been wondering in reading all of your very deep thoughts, and I was just wondering.....
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so just who did Bill Maher out that friday night? or was it just more Geraldo's Vaults of Al Capone?
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The topic seems to have been intentionally avoided, as the discussion veered elsewhere. But, after his comments on Larry King were edited out in other time zones, Maher made no mention of the promise on his show Friday. I did not see it myself, but here's an article: http://www.gaywired.com/article.cfm?section=66&id=11516 no, i don't read gaywired.com. i got it off of google. i swear. Strange, indeed.
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I see... all talk and no cock... what little respect i had for him has totally evaporated. He now falls into the pot of "shit stirrer" or as we like to call on internet forums, trolls.
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