guinnessgurl

I have had probably the worst week ever! I found out that my big brother (only sibling) is getting married and I won't be invited to the wedding (the ceremony Maybe, but definitely not the reception). I haven't even met his fiance and she's only a month older than me (I'm almost 19) and they've only been dating since winter, and they're getting married in May. not cool.
Secondly, I fount out that my mom has a cancerous tumor in her chest (not brest cancer, but rather lymphoma) and will have to start undergoing chemotherapy soon = very scary. And lastly, tonight my boyfriend of a year and a half (well a few days short of, our anniversary is on tuesday) broke up with me, which means I will soon have to start looking for another place to live and possible new jobs altogether in another town (right now we live together in a Very small town where he knows everybody - makes it very tough to stay). So needless to say, I've been in quite the emotional state and if I even start thinking about what it was like to see my mom in the hospital, I start bawling. Nothing else right now is more important than her and being there for her if she needs me (everything else is just icing on the cake so to speak). Who knew one person could have so many tears inside of them?

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amonkie

Let it out, girl. There's an endless supply of kleenex . A little sleep can do wonders for making life seem a little less unbearable. In the meantime, *hugs*

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StickODynomite

I'm sorry, darlin. Hang in there and be strong..
do make sure to let those tears come out tho. bottled up feelings are the worst.
You'll get thru this ! <3

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fallenangel

again, you know you're welcome at my place as soon as i get back into town. Be strong, i know you are. I'm wishing nothing but good things for you with everything i have.

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cj22009

Im sorry for ya babe but it will get better be strong and try not to get to stressed out about it all wounds heal in time

bookerV

Wow, I'm terribly sorry to hear that you have to go through all that, especially all at the same time. That is really rough. I wish you all the best through this rough time...

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maleficent

When it rains it pours for you doesn't it.

You've got a great friend in fallenangel and lots more wishing you nothing but the best. You aren't alone right now, glad you are not keeping what you are feeling bottled up.

Cry as long as you need to, you'll stop eventually, and you'll feel better for it.

Best wishes to your mom, I hope she's got great medical care. She's got a great daughter who is pulling for her, that counts for a lot.

Take care of yourself right now...

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Rodney

I'm so sorry. You're having a "perfect storm" year, for sure, when all the things that you counted on suddenly fail or look shaky. I feel for you.

At least you know what's most important to you: your mom.

:::OshnSoul:::

I am very sorry to hear of all this. Especially your mom, she is in my thoughts and I wish her the best.
As for you, my dear- why are you not invited to your bro's wedding? Also, even though it's tough times (I know that these things like to come all at once) but that actually gives you the opportunity to grow stronger. Don't let these things weigh you down, you'll keep going through the days ahead, one day at a time, and with your head up. Changes have been big lately and they come in waves, trust me, I'm right there with ya. I've had a motorcycle accident in the family, running out of insurance, running out of unemployment, and starting a new job. It's crazy, but I know that I just trust in the sea, and just ride the waves it gives me, I'll stay afloat.

la petite moi

I'm so sorry all this is happening. It's totally okay to cry.

For your brother's wedding- you should talk to him about how you feel. It might help you a bit.

About the cancerous lump- I'm in the same boat (well, sorta) with you. My mum just had a breast surgery, and is now about to start chemo and radiation. Very scary, but just give her lots of support and love.

About the boyfriend- I'm SO sorry. I wish you luck, and I'm sure things will work out. They always have a way of doing that.

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And I thought my life was hard...

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whocarz

This is the same guy that said he wanted to hang out with his buds and do the frat boy stuff isn't it? What an asshole, someone should beat the ever living fuck out of him for abandoning you at such a tough time.

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