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aphroditeskiss1 · 02-03-2005, 05:51 PM

Ok, I have a question for all you ladies. I never get very wet "down there" at all. I still get turned on, orgasm, etc. It's really quite annoying to always have to use lube or something. Does anyone else have this problem or have any idea what's causing this or what I can do? It's not a new problem. Ever since I started doing sexual stuff I've always had the problem. Any advice would be great. Thanks!

StormBerlin · 02-03-2005, 06:45 PM

I'm kind of the same way. When i first got a vibrator I got super wet whenever I used that, but it's like my body got used to it and now I don't gt very wet at all, but I still orgasm. I'm not really sure what the deal is. My guess would be that it's all mental, but I'm really not sure.

Grasshopper Green · 02-03-2005, 06:56 PM

I know that certain medications (like sinus meds or cold meds) can dry you out down there...but it also could be something that is just distinctly you. I don't tend to produce much natural lubricant either, even when I'm very turned on, and while it can be a pain sometimes, I don't worry about it much. Getting lubed up can be fun if you do it right!

ngdawg · 02-03-2005, 07:13 PM

birth control pills, alcohol consumption-they dry you out as well.

snowy · 02-03-2005, 07:29 PM

When I first started having sex I had a problem getting wet...and had that problem with the next couple of partners, but with my current partner it's no problem at all. I think a variety of factors contribute, and for each woman it's different. For me it's a sexual attraction, mental engagement thing--if I'm really into the person I've got no problem getting really, really wet. But if it's not 100%, I'm not going to get as wet as I possibly can. Just a fact of life.

ling ling · 02-03-2005, 07:52 PM

Ugh. I have a wetness problem, too. I'm too wet! And I get wet really easily.
Do you always make sure you get plenty of foreplay?

countrygal6 · 02-03-2005, 07:59 PM

Im not sure if there is an actual medical condition for this. I guess if it doesnt bother you just use the lubes.

aphroditeskiss1 · 02-03-2005, 10:28 PM

Yeah, there's always enough foreplay, I just don't get wet. Using lube doesn't really bother me, but I would much prefer to use it alot less or not at all. Do you girls think maybe my gyno might be able to help me figure out if it's me or anything, or would it not be worth putting myself through a gyno visit I don't need?

Manuel Hong · 02-05-2005, 10:55 PM

It may just be you, or it could be a sign of a problem. After searching through webmd, I figure you are better off going to your gyno, getting a check-up and addressing your concerns with her (or him).

Brooke · 02-06-2005, 01:38 PM

Storm Berlin: I am starting to notice that with the vibrator thing...is it variable to how much you use it, or a permanant thing?

Ananas · 02-06-2005, 02:20 PM

I've found that using a little lube every time just adds to the experience (whether or not it's needed).

I've nothing more to add to the check your diet, make sure you're getting plenty of water, and to be on the safe side, talk to your gyno advice. But, at least go and have your mind put at ease.

Storm Berlin:I've noticed the lack of lubrication when using the vibe, too. Could it be that we just don't take the same amount of time for foreplay, which would normally get us wet, because we don't think it's necessary?

shesus · 02-06-2005, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by ling ling

Ugh. I have a wetness problem, too. I'm too wet! And I get wet really easily.

I have the same problem. I have to wear panty liners so I don't ruin my panties. The only time I have problem of not getting wet is when I get drunk. My husband and I do have a great lubricator though. It is strawberry flavored body butter. It smells good and doesn't taste too bad when doing oral sex. I am guessing that dryness is a typical problem because there are so many products available. However, asking a gyno probably isn't a bad idea.

02-03-2005, 05:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
aphroditeskiss1 Insane Location: Albuquerque, NM	Sex Question Ok, I have a question for all you ladies. I never get very wet "down there" at all. I still get turned on, orgasm, etc. It's really quite annoying to always have to use lube or something. Does anyone else have this problem or have any idea what's causing this or what I can do? It's not a new problem. Ever since I started doing sexual stuff I've always had the problem. Any advice would be great. Thanks! __________________ "You always said destiny would blow me away. But nothing's gonna blow me away"- Something Coporate " I do not pop pills! I take them and I eat them..." - Foamy's friend

02-03-2005, 06:45 PM	#2 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	I'm kind of the same way. When i first got a vibrator I got super wet whenever I used that, but it's like my body got used to it and now I don't gt very wet at all, but I still orgasm. I'm not really sure what the deal is. My guess would be that it's all mental, but I'm really not sure. __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane

02-03-2005, 07:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	When I first started having sex I had a problem getting wet...and had that problem with the next couple of partners, but with my current partner it's no problem at all. I think a variety of factors contribute, and for each woman it's different. For me it's a sexual attraction, mental engagement thing--if I'm really into the person I've got no problem getting really, really wet. But if it's not 100%, I'm not going to get as wet as I possibly can. Just a fact of life. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

02-03-2005, 07:52 PM	#6 (permalink)
ling ling Upright	Ugh. I have a wetness problem, too. I'm too wet! And I get wet really easily. Do you always make sure you get plenty of foreplay? __________________ For your sake I hope heaven and hell are really there but I wouldn't hold my breath Modest Mouse

02-03-2005, 10:28 PM	#8 (permalink)
aphroditeskiss1 Insane Location: Albuquerque, NM	Yeah, there's always enough foreplay, I just don't get wet. Using lube doesn't really bother me, but I would much prefer to use it alot less or not at all. Do you girls think maybe my gyno might be able to help me figure out if it's me or anything, or would it not be worth putting myself through a gyno visit I don't need? __________________ "You always said destiny would blow me away. But nothing's gonna blow me away"- Something Coporate " I do not pop pills! I take them and I eat them..." - Foamy's friend

02-03-2005, 06:56 PM	#3 (permalink)
Grasshopper Green ...is a comical chap Location: Where morons reign supreme	I know that certain medications (like sinus meds or cold meds) can dry you out down there...but it also could be something that is just distinctly you. I don't tend to produce much natural lubricant either, even when I'm very turned on, and while it can be a pain sometimes, I don't worry about it much. Getting lubed up can be fun if you do it right!

02-03-2005, 07:13 PM	#4 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	birth control pills, alcohol consumption-they dry you out as well.

02-03-2005, 07:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
countrygal6 Upright	Im not sure if there is an actual medical condition for this. I guess if it doesnt bother you just use the lubes.

02-05-2005, 10:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
Manuel Hong Addict Location: Land of the puny, wimpy states	It may just be you, or it could be a sign of a problem. After searching through webmd, I figure you are better off going to your gyno, getting a check-up and addressing your concerns with her (or him). __________________ Believe nothing, even if I tell it to you, unless it meets with your own good common sense and experience. - Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha)

02-06-2005, 01:38 PM	#10 (permalink)
Brooke Crazy	Storm Berlin: I am starting to notice that with the vibrator thing...is it variable to how much you use it, or a permanant thing? __________________ And so its over Your fantasy life is finally at an end And the world above is still a brutal place And the story will start again

02-06-2005, 02:20 PM	#11 (permalink)
Ananas Still Crazy Location: In my own time	I've found that using a little lube every time just adds to the experience (whether or not it's needed). I've nothing more to add to the check your diet, make sure you're getting plenty of water, and to be on the safe side, talk to your gyno advice. But, at least go and have your mind put at ease. Storm Berlin:I've noticed the lack of lubrication when using the vibe, too. Could it be that we just don't take the same amount of time for foreplay, which would normally get us wet, because we don't think it's necessary?