When I first started having sex I had a problem getting wet...and had that problem with the next couple of partners, but with my current partner it's no problem at all. I think a variety of factors contribute, and for each woman it's different. For me it's a sexual attraction, mental engagement thing--if I'm really into the person I've got no problem getting really, really wet. But if it's not 100%, I'm not going to get as wet as I possibly can. Just a fact of life.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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