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lostgirl · 06-24-2009, 04:45 PM

Ladies, do you ever get the feeling you just have to have sex right now.
I mean like your clitoris seems to buzz a little and twitch. I call it 'restless pussy syndrome'. Just masturbating wont solve the problem either. It's like I just need a real live penis inside me right now. I have masturbated up to 10 times and it still wont make the feeling go away. It makes it hard to get to sleep sometimes, and I end up waking up my SO just to get some.

What causes this?
What else can I do to solve this?

snowy · 06-24-2009, 05:07 PM

Couldn't tell you what to do about it. I had a similar attack this morning, right after my honey had left for work. I was decidedly uncomfortable for about half an hour because my body just decided arbitrarily that it needed some cock. Thankfully it subsided and I was able to continue going about my business. But yes, masturbation in that sort of situation almost never satisfies, but it doesn't hurt to try anyway.

Are you just stimulating your clit or are you engaging in some kind of vaginal penetration too? Does that not help at all?

I don't have this problem as often as you seem to imply that you have it. It occurs to me during certain times of the month more than others. I usually just wait it out.

lostgirl · 06-24-2009, 05:24 PM

Thanks snowy, it makes me feel better knowing that it happens to other girls.

It used to only be in the week before my period, but it has been happening a lot more lately. I am just stimulating my clit so maybe getting a dildo or vibrator for penetration would help.

CinnamonGirl · 06-24-2009, 05:33 PM

Oh, yeah. Totally happens all the time to me. Nothing helps, except ACTUALLY getting sex. (and when I'm feeling like that, I'll be honest-- it needs to be rough.)

So...no advice, sorry. But you're definitely not alone.

lostgirl · 06-25-2009, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by CinnamonGirl

Oh, yeah. Totally happens all the time to me. Nothing helps, except ACTUALLY getting sex. (and when I'm feeling like that, I'll be honest-- it needs to be rough.)

So...no advice, sorry. But you're definitely not alone.

Seriously! I am not sure using something for penetration will work. Nothing is like the real thing.

PonyPotato · 06-25-2009, 01:56 PM

I think I'm ovulating for the first time today since I stopped my birth control (at least the mucus sort of tells me that, idk) and I'm hornier than I think I've been since I was 17. I don't know what to do with myself, because I can't even dirty talk with someone.

I must say that it is making getting over this breakup MUCH easier when I'm horny and looking at all of the men I work with trying to determine if they are single and approachable or not. Good thing I'm shy!

jewels · 06-25-2009, 02:52 PM

:!!!NEWS FLASH!!!

This is not related to birth control or your menstrual cycle. I haven't had either of those in a few years

and it happens to me more often now than it did in the past.

Glad y'all fessed up, though. I thought it was because I haven't had a man in a couple of months.

hunnychile · 06-25-2009, 02:54 PM

I found out that after I quit using birth control pills, I was hornier and ready to screw ALL the time. Not just a few days here & there...and after you're off BCPs for awhile you'll start to know fairly well, when you are ovulating.

In truth, I've always been sort of a nymph and wanting cock almost all the time. And funny, but I thought it would go away as I've gotten older, but...Nope - I'm still a real fan of good old hard cock. When I'm outta control, I've learned to pleasure myself, but no - it's never as "good as the real thing". I've even had a few trysts with ladies and even that wasn't as good as a hard cock that belongs to someone you love or have the uncontrollable HOTS for and just gotta do it.

Shaindra · 06-25-2009, 05:39 PM

Oh yeah, I used to call it "CTC" Craving The Cock. And a dildo or vibrator won't do it. Has to be the real deal.

Damn...now you guys got me going now. :-P

cellophanedeity · 06-25-2009, 10:14 PM

Oh man, all the time! And my love's an hour and a half away by transit!

Nothing can make it go away except for the real thing.

Oh well.

hunnychile · 06-26-2009, 12:57 PM

Sometimes the waiting makes it all the better!!!

little_tippler · 06-28-2009, 07:08 AM

I'm not sure I get the sensations you describe, but I'm pretty sure most women get this sort of craving. Masturbation or waiting it out can make it subside but when you just gotta have some cock, you just gotta have it. I know that I've got myself into some funny situations when I'm that horny. Like letting on to people you're with that you're horny in the most innapropriate way, without realizing it. I usually just laugh it off. Can't help it!

Shaindra, I like that new acronym - CTC. Will be using it in the future! Heh

DaniGirl · 06-28-2009, 10:50 AM

wow maybe I'm a lesbian, I have never went threw this. Its news to me. But then again I don't really like sex. I know I'm a freak, but I have my reasons. The only thing I miss when my husband is gone for longer then a day is being able to lay next to him in bed.

Shaindra · 06-28-2009, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DaniGirl

wow maybe I'm a lesbian, I have never went threw this. Its news to me. But then again I don't really like sex. I know I'm a freak, but I have my reasons. The only thing I miss when my husband is gone for longer then a day is being able to lay next to him in bed.

I went through a time when I was either pregnant or nursing for about 6 years straight. Sex was the last thing on my mind. I just wanted *sleep*.

Now? Seems like I want it 24/7. Hormones are amazing things.

DaniGirl · 06-28-2009, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaindra

I went through a time when I was either pregnant or nursing for about 6 years straight. Sex was the last thing on my mind. I just wanted *sleep*.

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That's probably what it is. I have a 4 year old, 19 month old and a 8 month old. I think I associate sex with pregnancy, child birth etc.

ItWasMe · 06-30-2009, 01:25 AM

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Originally Posted by lostgirl

...I mean like your clitoris seems to buzz a little and twitch. I call it 'restless pussy syndrome'.

LOL We call it 'the twitch' because the entire area twitches and clenches in spasms.

If it's alcohol induced (1-2 drinks will do the trick if it works) it lasts anywhere from 10-30 minutes. And once it's gone, it's gone. That's one reason we frequent the bar 2 blocks from our house when we do go out. If we're farther from home, I have an SUV with heavily tinted windows

And no, I'm not kidding.

If it's not alcohol induced, it lasts anywhere from 1 to 4 days. On birth control or not. I strongly suspect he lives for those days, if his sappy grin is any indication. For me, it's great if it happens on my weekend; awful if I have to work.

I've never received a complaint because I woke him up to jump him. Not once. Worry about the emotional connection some other day. Cause when you gotta jump him, you just gotta jump him.

CinnamonGirl · 06-30-2009, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ItWasMe

Worry about the emotional connection some other day. Cause when you gotta jump him, you just gotta jump him.

Cheers to that.

Shaindra · 07-01-2009, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ItWasMe

LOL We call it 'the twitch' because the entire area twitches and clenches in spasms.

If it's alcohol induced (1-2 drinks will do the trick if it works) it lasts anywhere from 10-30 minutes. And once it's gone, it's gone. That's one reason we frequent the bar 2 blocks from our house when we do go out. If we're farther from home, I have an SUV with heavily tinted windows

And no, I'm not kidding.

If it's not alcohol induced, it lasts anywhere from 1 to 4 days. On birth control or not. I strongly suspect he lives for those days, if his sappy grin is any indication. For me, it's great if it happens on my weekend; awful if I have to work.

I've never received a complaint because I woke him up to jump him. Not once. Worry about the emotional connection some other day. Cause when you gotta jump him, you just gotta jump him.

I call it "thrumming" which is a cross between throbbing and humming. And yes, I get the involuntary clenches too along with a lovely skin flush. Not that red face from too much wine, but a lovely glow that people have commented on more than once.

lostgirl · 08-21-2009, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by snowy

Couldn't tell you what to do about it. I had a similar attack this morning, right after my honey had left for work. I was decidedly uncomfortable for about half an hour because my body just decided arbitrarily that it needed some cock. Thankfully it subsided and I was able to continue going about my business. But yes, masturbation in that sort of situation almost never satisfies, but it doesn't hurt to try anyway.

Are you just stimulating your clit or are you engaging in some kind of vaginal penetration too? Does that not help at all?

I don't have this problem as often as you seem to imply that you have it. It occurs to me during certain times of the month more than others. I usually just wait it out.

Thanks so much for the advice snowy. Using a vibrator for penetration does help. It doesn't solve it completely, only a real cock will do that, but it makes it more satisfying than just clitoral stimulation. I have been missing out not using it before.

YellowBird · 09-16-2009, 02:31 AM

I know this is an old thread but I felt like posting in it.

I think it's got to do with hormones because I get this feeling and masturbation of any kind just doesnt fix it but just being with a naked guy, there doesnt have to be sex, just two bodies together with hormones and endorphins rushing.

little_tippler · 09-16-2009, 02:37 PM

This thread is never old

onodrim · 09-17-2009, 09:52 PM

I have definitely been there! When sex isn't an option for whatever reason, the best substitute I've found is warming up a glass dildo, the feeling of warmth plus fullness is close enough to the real thing to mostly satisfy. Occassionally I wake up from a sex dream with that overwhelming pulsing feeling, but I usually just cum immediately after waking up without having to do anything, those are nice.

StephanieH · 09-29-2009, 12:42 PM

YES! It happens to me too! Only a real live penis will cure it. I have gotten frustrated with the hubby when I'm feeling like that and he wants to be playful. It's like if you get a penis for a little while, then you can play and tease and all that, but FIRST you must have penetration or you may very well explode.

06-24-2009, 04:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
lostgirl lightform Location: Edge of the deep green sea	Just gotta have it Ladies, do you ever get the feeling you just have to have sex right now. I mean like your clitoris seems to buzz a little and twitch. I call it 'restless pussy syndrome'. Just masturbating wont solve the problem either. It's like I just need a real live penis inside me right now. I have masturbated up to 10 times and it still wont make the feeling go away. It makes it hard to get to sleep sometimes, and I end up waking up my SO just to get some. What causes this? What else can I do to solve this? __________________ We're about to go through the crucible, but we'll come out the other side. We always arise from our own ashes. Everything returns later in its changed form. - Children of Dune

06-24-2009, 05:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	Couldn't tell you what to do about it. I had a similar attack this morning, right after my honey had left for work. I was decidedly uncomfortable for about half an hour because my body just decided arbitrarily that it needed some cock. Thankfully it subsided and I was able to continue going about my business. But yes, masturbation in that sort of situation almost never satisfies, but it doesn't hurt to try anyway. Are you just stimulating your clit or are you engaging in some kind of vaginal penetration too? Does that not help at all? I don't have this problem as often as you seem to imply that you have it. It occurs to me during certain times of the month more than others. I usually just wait it out. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

06-24-2009, 05:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
lostgirl lightform Location: Edge of the deep green sea	Thanks snowy, it makes me feel better knowing that it happens to other girls. It used to only be in the week before my period, but it has been happening a lot more lately. I am just stimulating my clit so maybe getting a dildo or vibrator for penetration would help. __________________ We're about to go through the crucible, but we'll come out the other side. We always arise from our own ashes. Everything returns later in its changed form. - Children of Dune

06-24-2009, 05:33 PM	#4 (permalink)
CinnamonGirl She's Actual Size Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell	Oh, yeah. Totally happens all the time to me. Nothing helps, except ACTUALLY getting sex. (and when I'm feeling like that, I'll be honest-- it needs to be rough.) So...no advice, sorry. But you're definitely not alone. __________________ "...for though she was ordinary, she possessed health, wit, courage, charm, and cheerfulness. But because she was not beautiful, no one ever seemed to notice these other qualities, which is so often the way of the world." "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"

06-25-2009, 01:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
PonyPotato Soaring Location: Ohio!	I think I'm ovulating for the first time today since I stopped my birth control (at least the mucus sort of tells me that, idk) and I'm hornier than I think I've been since I was 17. I don't know what to do with myself, because I can't even dirty talk with someone. I must say that it is making getting over this breakup MUCH easier when I'm horny and looking at all of the men I work with trying to determine if they are single and approachable or not. Good thing I'm shy! __________________ "Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark." — Henri-Frédéric Amiel

06-25-2009, 02:52 PM	#7 (permalink)
jewels Eponymous Location: Central Central Florida	:!!!NEWS FLASH!!! This is not related to birth control or your menstrual cycle. I haven't had either of those in a few years and it happens to me more often now than it did in the past. Glad y'all fessed up, though. I thought it was because I haven't had a man in a couple of months. __________________ We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess. Mark Twain

06-25-2009, 02:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	I found out that after I quit using birth control pills, I was hornier and ready to screw ALL the time. Not just a few days here & there...and after you're off BCPs for awhile you'll start to know fairly well, when you are ovulating. In truth, I've always been sort of a nymph and wanting cock almost all the time. And funny, but I thought it would go away as I've gotten older, but...Nope - I'm still a real fan of good old hard cock. When I'm outta control, I've learned to pleasure myself, but no - it's never as "good as the real thing". I've even had a few trysts with ladies and even that wasn't as good as a hard cock that belongs to someone you love or have the uncontrollable HOTS for and just gotta do it. __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

06-25-2009, 05:39 PM	#9 (permalink)
Shaindra Psycho Location: Massachusetts	Oh yeah, I used to call it "CTC" Craving The Cock. And a dildo or vibrator won't do it. Has to be the real deal. Damn...now you guys got me going now. :-P __________________ "Never regret something that once made you smile."

06-25-2009, 10:14 PM	#10 (permalink)
cellophanedeity Heliotrope Location: A warm room	Oh man, all the time! And my love's an hour and a half away by transit! Nothing can make it go away except for the real thing. Oh well. __________________ who am I to refuse the universe? -Leonard Cohen, Beautiful Losers

06-26-2009, 12:57 PM	#11 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Sometimes the waiting makes it all the better!!! __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

06-28-2009, 07:08 AM	#12 (permalink)
little_tippler Leaning against the -Sun- Super Moderator Location: on the other side	I'm not sure I get the sensations you describe, but I'm pretty sure most women get this sort of craving. Masturbation or waiting it out can make it subside but when you just gotta have some cock, you just gotta have it. I know that I've got myself into some funny situations when I'm that horny. Like letting on to people you're with that you're horny in the most innapropriate way, without realizing it. I usually just laugh it off. Can't help it! Shaindra, I like that new acronym - CTC. Will be using it in the future! Heh __________________ Whether we write or speak or do but look We are ever unapparent. What we are Cannot be transfused into word or book. Our soul from us is infinitely far. However much we give our thoughts the will To be our soul and gesture it abroad, Our hearts are incommunicable still. In what we show ourselves we are ignored. The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged By any skill of thought or trick of seeming. Unto our very selves we are abridged When we would utter to our thought our being. We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams, And each to each other dreams of others' dreams. Fernando Pessoa, 1918

06-28-2009, 10:50 AM	#13 (permalink)
DaniGirl Addict Location: Fucking Utah...	wow maybe I'm a lesbian, I have never went threw this. Its news to me. But then again I don't really like sex. I know I'm a freak, but I have my reasons. The only thing I miss when my husband is gone for longer then a day is being able to lay next to him in bed.

09-16-2009, 02:31 AM	#20 (permalink)
YellowBird Upright Location: Brisbane, Australia	I know this is an old thread but I felt like posting in it. I think it's got to do with hormones because I get this feeling and masturbation of any kind just doesnt fix it but just being with a naked guy, there doesnt have to be sex, just two bodies together with hormones and endorphins rushing.

09-16-2009, 02:37 PM	#21 (permalink)
little_tippler Leaning against the -Sun- Super Moderator Location: on the other side	This thread is never old __________________ Whether we write or speak or do but look We are ever unapparent. What we are Cannot be transfused into word or book. Our soul from us is infinitely far. However much we give our thoughts the will To be our soul and gesture it abroad, Our hearts are incommunicable still. In what we show ourselves we are ignored. The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged By any skill of thought or trick of seeming. Unto our very selves we are abridged When we would utter to our thought our being. We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams, And each to each other dreams of others' dreams. Fernando Pessoa, 1918

09-17-2009, 09:52 PM	#22 (permalink)
onodrim Cosmically Curious Location: Chicago, IL	I have definitely been there! When sex isn't an option for whatever reason, the best substitute I've found is warming up a glass dildo, the feeling of warmth plus fullness is close enough to the real thing to mostly satisfy. Occassionally I wake up from a sex dream with that overwhelming pulsing feeling, but I usually just cum immediately after waking up without having to do anything, those are nice. __________________ "The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides" -Carl Sagan

09-29-2009, 12:42 PM	#23 (permalink)
StephanieH Upright Location: St Johns, Mi	YES! It happens to me too! Only a real live penis will cure it. I have gotten frustrated with the hubby when I'm feeling like that and he wants to be playful. It's like if you get a penis for a little while, then you can play and tease and all that, but FIRST you must have penetration or you may very well explode.