17... parents gone.. boyfriend snuck over.. that's all

i was 17, and it was to to a girl who is now my fiancee

I was 15 (2.5 months shy of the big 16). My boyfriend and I had gone to a concert the night before -we were parked out on a dirt road and were really going at it, Closer came on the radio like an omen, and then, we realized that we didn't have any condoms. Arrgghhh!
Long story short, we didn't forget the next night.

No rubber....thats what Birth Control is for :D

28. It just happened this year. I didn't wait that long by choice. In high school, I thought of myself as really fat (I was, and I still carry several extra kilos, but mindset is everything...), and pretty slow, and in University I wasn't much better -- although that's when the 'slow' part finally started getting better.

After University, working shit jobs and seeing how most everyone else around me was getting what they wanted (including scoring with girls) and I wasn't, finally I got more social. A big change in my attitude plus financial desparation took me to teaching in Korea.

Korea forced me to be social -- it was either get out there and be social with the foriegners or be lonely. I picked up a tiny bit of the language. I talked to people, and I smiled. I made a shitload of really, really stupid mistakes and got really frustrated trying to date with girls. I pissed off a lot of good, kind potential dates with my angst. 90% of those first girls I really talked to don't even want to chat by e-mail anymore. I lost a lot of good friends.

Finally, after the angst was gone, I was able to convince myself that dating wasn't so important in the face of all the good things I *did* have - a good, fun job, a more full and satisfying social life than I ever had back home, and a new confidence.

And then I had an idea. I posted an ad a local cafe where I knew the shopowner. It was worded (in both languages!) as a language exchange ad, where I would teach somebody English, and they would teach me Korean. I got a lot of enthusiastic responses to the ad, and that's how I met her.

After meeting every day for week, she and I really connected. I had a mind to ask her out, but she was too fast for me -- she called me up one night and asked to come over. It took us two hours of talking to figure out we were crazy for each other.

She took me to my bed that very night. We've been dating steady for three months. I absolutely love her.

Sorry 'bout the long post. Feels good to tell this story now...

Don't be sorry its always good to read a nice story like that...I'm happy for you to! :thumbsup:


Small world eh! :D

I was 17 she was 17, my mom and my step dad went to a movie and we stayed at home and "hung out" fun fun, did it on a fold out bed couch, then on an old TV. Very interesting

19
it was arkward....

hmmm..it was the day after i'd turned 14...i had been with the guy officially 6 months..we had been dating a bit longer...he was 4 years older..in my house while my parents were gone..(of course they didnt know he was over) in my room...

it was really special ..tho it didnt feel that great :/

18, Friend knew the girl from high school. Introduced us online, went to her university to sleep with her 2 or 3 times.

Big mistake.

In a closet at the tender age of 15.

I was 18; she was 18, first year in college. Was the first time for both of us, we stayed together for 2 years. 2ed year was horrid, just staying together because it was all we knew.

I was 18 and lost in Wetzel Hall at Western Illinois. It was a tuesday night and a one night stand. Not very good sex, but it was more of a revenge thing to get back at some girl from home.

Warrrreagl, we could be twins. Except I was 17 and she was 16 (still not her first time) and it was a '65 Mustang Fastback. My 8 track worked better than yours and sounds like I had a better time. Thanks Terri.

16 in the girl's dorm at a private school. She was a year older than me.

My biggest fear was getting busted for being in the girl's dorm when it was a well known fact that boys were not allowed in there!

i was 15 she was 16.... her place middle of the night some stupid infomercial chanell on tv .... my buddy left....did it.. or i put it in and then it was over... lol

we "dated" for a month or so... then just lost each other... not bad or good just over

20ish with the woman who is now my wife.

Still haven't.

19. I was under the stands at the football game (Queen's vs McGill) it was cold out, I was drunk, and wearing a kilt, he was (probably not as) drunk and in a kilt too. Wasn't too elegant for both of us, I was his first chinese girl, he was my first guy and was white.

the thing i remember most was how cold his cum felt dripping down my leg afterwards, and how happy i was that I was on the pill for controlling my period...

(too much info?)

18, she was 17, we had been dating for a few months and her parents were gone out. It wasn't all that memorable. I suffered from a bit of stage fright, but, got through it.

Age 18, my bedroom in the upstairs of my parent's house... That's about all there is to it. They were home, by the way... and had no clue from what I could tell at the time.

almost the same here, but my folks were gone.

I was 18, she was 16... and it was this last Saturday. :D Was in her room, her parents were below us sleeping. They already know about it though, her mom does at least.

Wow, it was amazing.

16. She was mid 20's. Don't remember her name. Can't picture her face, either. It was 28 years ago so I guess I'm lucky to be able to remember it at all.

I lost my virginity a few months ago, on my first weekend of college.

I won't go into details, because it's just like the other 200 "college" stories in this thread.

We did use three (3) forms of birth control though.

i ws 16 he were 18..dont rememebr it much and dont really wnt to!!Lol

I was fifteen.

We had been dating for five months, and just decided that we wanted eachother. It was funny 'cause we hadn't learned to move in synch with eachother yet, but we caught on quickly, and tried twice again that night.

We're still together three years later. The sex got much better.

27. Last year. Odd, I'd not known him long but it seemed like we'd known each other forever. Together 8 months. Back as friends after a separation and another go at a relationship. We were rabbits in the beginning. Was kinda fun :D. But he's been my only thus far and that's okay with me.

19 or 20. Friend of a girl I worked with in a small town who I'll guess was about 28. I was shy and worked all the time but got talked into going to a local bar. Met her and we danced then she asked me if I wanted to go back to her place. NO expectations on my part. Duh. I wasn't a sexual person as a teenager.

First she blew me (my first) then we had sex about 3 times (short sessions). The next morning a couple more times. NO protection but she was on birth control. Never did catch her last name although I went back over a couple more times. After that I started college and got busy with the girls. The best part of losing it was I didn't even have the chance to be nervous. No regrets on my part. Older women rock!

I was 15, he was 16. Biggest mistake of my life. Used protection but doesn't always work.

hmm, was 18 at a friends house with her best friend house-sitting. We did it on her bed

i just turned 16 and he was 28. he picked me up from school one day and we went to his place.and the rest as they say is history...and so was my virginity.

lots of twists to that tale.but thats another story.

sometimes i feel i should have waited.like with my current bf,the one i know im going to spend the rest of my life with, i wish to god i could take it back because with him was the first time i made love.

12. I just had that much game......

JK. It was actually at 16 with some chick I had no business fucking around with.

21 - with mandy, my first REAL girlfriend. On the floor in her parent's lounge too :D

I was 19, he was 20, and I was in love.

He later raped me.

I was eighteen... exactly one month shy of my nineteenth birthday.

15 and had just had my wisdom teeth out a week earlier. It was a poor choice and seriously, I wish I still had my V-card in tact.

16, and so was she. Front seat of my parents' '66 BelAir. We'd dated for about 3 weeks, and she'd been down that road before. I lied and said I had too. We broke up about a month later when I took an interest in her friend.

I was 18, he was 17 (and I wasn't his first). I don't remember it...and no, I wasn't on drugs or drinking. I don't think I was ready and have kind of blacked it out. Weird, eh. I guess it wasn't too bad though, because I later married him.

I have scanned a couple of pages of responses to this thread, and all I can say is that it is sad that I never saw the word "love". I was 16, she was 19. It was in the backseat of the family car, and we thought we were in love. She was a college sophmore and I was a high school junior. Not a good fit, timewise. Still, it was very good sex. 3X that night. It was not her first, and she said we were made for each other. I have fond memories. I hope she does, too.

15. Wow I'm suprised how long people waited.

19 for both of us.

16, he was 25. And looking back.. a jerk..still hope to run him over in a dark alley someday...

Not old enough. Sexuality, I've found, has direct ties to maturity and the bond between two people that is meant to last (presumably matrimony). Sexuality as recreation is a representation of the inmaturity of those who engage in it. I say enjoy sex, but with someone you know that you'll be with for a very long time. Of course, that's just my personal belief based on experience and history.

22, wedding night. Gotta agree with Will

20. I wasnt ever in a relationship I considered serious enough until then. It was her first time, too, and I don't regret it in the least.

16, she was 15. Didn't feel wrong at the time, but looking back we both probably should have waited a few more years.

At 19, I was 'broken in' by she 17. Looking back, the act itself was over-rated (duhhhh!!), but it's still one of the most romantic nights of my life. We planned for a warm moonlit night on a secluded beach. It was worth the wait and the effort to make it something special. There's definite value in the art of romance, as well as the reckless abandon of pure lust. Trick is getting the balance right, ha.

I was almost 17 and she was 15, back seat of my folks Ford....1956

18, she was 17.
It'll always stick in my mind, not because it was my first time, but because looking back, it was so funny! We we're on the bed but it was squeaking so we moved to he floor. But, we moved too close to the wall and with each thrust, she was hitting her head on the skirting board! :lol: I don't know why we didn't move...

I was 18, he was 18. It was perfect and amazing, we had sex three times that first day, six years later, We're married now :)

Sweetpea

i was 14, its one of the things i regret the most.

20 y.o.

I married her too

18
she was 20

25. Took the first real chance I had.

15. Never saw the dude after that night. And it was pretty amazing.

29....but I've sure made up for lost time.

When I was a virgin, I was never frustrated about being one, but I felt like I was missing out on something just the same. My perspective now is that I'm glad I waited.

Lets just say it was awkward. I was a virgin until I was 19 years old. I was with a guy for three months and bam! That was it.... all hope for my innocence was lost! haha Though it was very awkward, I did continue to date the same guy for another year and a half. I remember listening to 'Your Body is a Wonderland' when we were getting it on for the first time. Crazy times... I laugh when I think about it now...

We were both 17, in the back of a buddy of mine's truck following a Charlie Daniels concert.

Lasted about two seconds.

I was proud as hell.

VERY FREAKIN HILARIOUS! THATS AWESOME! I'm sure you're not the only one who has had this idea... haha

25, lost it to Prostitute at a Spa - is this bad or ok? I just coulnt wait to get married.

19 years old, and I'm embarrased to say this, but I am still a Virgin. I came close the other night, when a girl from my hometown came down to see one of my plays. We made out for six hours, and I touched my first bare titty, and she was the first person to grab my bare junk. Not that you want those details. I'm just very happy about it.
Time to take a cold shower. That and I'm scared of talking to girls.

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I was 12. 12 years old. I was 12 with a guy. I messed around with a girl first. That was when I was 9. :lol:

When I was 15 (she was 15 too). It was fun then after that, I found out she dated my other friends before she dated me but she did nothing with them. Now I think she is a whore bc she was very horny. Im glad I was her first...hehehe

i was 18 and she was the same

I was l9 and he was 23 (though not a virgin - his first time was when he was l4) and eventually - five years and a couple of non-serious relationships later- ended up marrying each other.

I was 18, drunk,with a friend, still friends with the guy.i regret it now, but cant change what happend.

Dont you sometimes wish you waited longer?.if you dont mind me asking.

If you're asking me - I don't wish I had waited any longer. I was pretty independent and mature by that time - knew enough to make sure I was with someone who cared about and respected me and was prepared with birth control, etc.

I don't think I would have thought of all of that if I had been any younger though - so it happened at a good age for me.

Do you wish you had waited longer? And if so, why?
(sounds like a short answer question on a test or something - you have to excuse me - I'm a teacher- it must be in my dna or something).

Edit - I was drunk at the time - of posting. forgot about my privacy.

20. Felt like I was going to have it forever. then an older friend (29),true redhead, came down from the city for the weekend when my parents where at the cottage. I seduced her (rather inexpertly) and we did it in the guest room bed. It creaked a lot, and everytime it did, she jumped 'cause she had once been walked in on by her old boyfriend's mother while they were doing it. didn't really enjoy it the first time (I remember phoning a friend the next day, and asking if I had to do that again!), but have learned to enjoy it more over the years. Lost touch with her soon after, but would love to get in touch again.

I was 13 she was 15 and her brother watched. Kinda fucked up eh?

"MY OLD LADY" get mad when I say she was 13,so I'll do the politically correct thing and sat ...."she was almost 14 and I was 16"......43 years ago!!! XOXOXOO

Wait a minute...I'm 43. :hmm:



Dad? :eek:

.........."SON???"............... :hmm: XOXOXOO

I was 16 she was 16 also and literally the girl from up the street. We played around and did everything before sex, and one day went through with it. I enjoyed it.

We were both 17 and she was moving for college soon. We figured it was pointless to have a long distance relationship since they're more of a hassle than they're worth, so we decided to go out with a bang.

No pun intended.

I said goodbye to my virginity at 14 but the bastard wouldn't leave for another two years.

It was me and my first love in the back seat of my '71 Firebird. Given the space restrictions it was a better workout than Pilates. For the same reason I'd say it was more significant than great. Great came later.

16 and she was 26. Mrs. Robinson she was

sept 17 of this past year with a girl i started seeing over the summer... both 19 but only my first time

was somewhere between 6 and 9 to my cousin, is hazy and it doesn't come up in family conversations, though drug use has helped me tell friends to their delight.

Wow, I'm almost embarrassed to say 21. I had a crush on a girl at school and threw this huge hotel party at a Knight's Inn had a conference room and the 2 adjoining bedrooms, one was mine the other was for drunks so they didn't have to drive. I did this hoping she'd come. (She did with another guy....)

Around 4 AM the party ended and I went into "my room" that had been invaded by a lady I barely knew naked on my bed. We ended up having sex until checkout. We stayed friends but never talked of that night.

She was damn good and could do this vagina twisty thing with me in her..... that I have never had another woman be able to do. Hard to explain.... it was like she twisted her vagina around my dick and pulled.... course being the first time maybe it was just my imagination.

I was 18. I waited two years past the legal age, and gave it to someone I thought was special who turned out to be a rat. I wasn't that upset though, I just wanted it over with.

Still got it at 23.

17, i had no idea what i was doing.

I was 18, she was 18. Five and a half years ago now. We're still together.

-Tamerlain

I was 15 at the time with my 15 year old girlfriend, who I'm currently dating.

21. She was getting frustrated because we'd been going out for awhile and I was hesitant, so we got a little tipsy one night and she just grabbed it and jumped on top.

I was 22. smooth was fresh out of prison and I was tired of waiting. besides, he convinced me that if God was all knowing and knew the future and the present and the future were the same to Him, then He saw us as married (since we were definately getting married) and it wasn't a sin.

yeah, well it worked anyway.

together for 9 and married for 5.

I lost it just last October to the girl I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. I wouldn't want it any other way.

18.

sweetpea

Somewhere in all the posts, there is one about me still having mine. That's not true anymore. I lost mine at 23.

Same still goes...though with a couple more partners and a bit more perspective, I've had much better sex since then...even since that post...

I think I was 13. (I'm 73 now and the past is a little fuzzy.) First I tried in on my bed while my mother was in the kitchen. I was not able to gain entrance. We tried it again in the basement and finally I managed. It wasn't a loving experience though we told each other we were in love. It was many years before I learned how to provide pleasure for the girl.

So...this was 60 years ago, or around 1945.
I just wanted to point out, for the benefit of the "youngsters", how little things have actually changed over the years. The more things change...the more they stay the same.
I now return you to your regularly scheduled thread.

[edit] Damn...I started this thread almost 3 years ago?

Bill...it makes me think of the stories my grandfather told me about his young sex life (some very funny stories, including one about how my great-grandmother looked the other way when my grandmother stayed over)...and the tales my mother told me about doing it on her parents' couch while her folks were asleep upstairs...

Yeah, things haven't changed a whole lot, that's for sure.

I was 18, very close to turning 19. She was 23ish. Awkward as fuck. It's kinda fuzzy now.

The day before my 18th birthday. He was 18 at the time. It was romantic and everything I had hoped for.

I think I was either 16 or 17... it was boring as hell. The girl was a year younger than me. We did it a couple more times and it did get better. She was my last, since then I have decided to wait for someone special (I think I have a good friend who might take that position if she wants it). That plus the fact that I am paranoid about STD's and would never trust doing it with anyone other than a good friend, but if they are a good friend I also dont want to ruin that by sex. But all in all I am pretty satisfied with my current position and don't feel like I am missing out on anything.

Oh, yeah.

I'm gonna bump this one. This was the first thread that I had ever started. A lot of the "old timers" will remember some names of some very prolific members that haven't been around in ages.