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I had just turned 19, it was in December of '97. The psycho ex boyfriend was 23. I was his 5th girl, probably.
The sex was pretty boring, and shortly after we did it, I fell obsessively in love with him, wanted to marry him, have his babies, etc. He was a real psycho though, I'm so glad we broke up. |
I was 15 and a freshman in high school. She was a sophomore and aged 17. The event took place in my parent's basement on a sofa bed. What fond memories come back when thinking about those days. She was HOT HOT HOT I tell ya...(or at least that's how I choose to remember her :) ). She was also the first girl to blow me which was just amazing. She swallowed it all the very first time and never looked back. Boy do I miss her now....hahaha.
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18..... oh wait that was 3 weeks ago... :)
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17 and she 19 big boobs new years eve and never a blow job in 2 years. what a bitch
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17, on her mom's couch, with her mom sleeping on the couch next to us
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17, on a warm summer night at the beach in san diego.
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I was 18, he was 20, it was his birthday and we had been living together for more then five months. The tension and frustration had built up so much that it seemed a loss to stop, and being his birthday he found it a fitting gift. That night I fell asleep with him, and three weeks later I had moved over a thousand miles and it was two days before the new year, and he called and dumped me because he didn't have the time to devote to a long distance relationship. I regret giving it up to him and because I was weak.
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13, almost 14. Long story.
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I was 17 and in the back seat of my car and in a park in the hills. Everything was magical, we had dinner and we watched the sunset, everything she had wanted and then we went to the back seat of my car and everything was perfect until the cops showed up. I guess we were in the park past the curfew and he had to make a report and luckily didnt call our parents and just let us go with a warning. a day i will never forget, just like the fairy tales, right ;)
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I waited until I was 18. It wasn't all that great.
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I was 19, didn’t happen the way I thought it was going to happen (hopeless romantic I am)…Always thought I would loose it to some one I loved.
I gave in to peer pressure and lost it to a girl who did three of us that night, I was third. Nothing I am proud of. FM |
dec 11, 1994, at the young age of 17...
not that i remember... 8:58 pm.. both virgins...it sucked...it was over at 9:01 pm... many moons of practice later and we ended with a weekend romp that lasted all weekend... after that, muuuuuccchhhh happier me and gfs... |
Fifteen, she was fourteen and we had been dating a few months. She initiated, it was in her parents bed.
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It was all with one lady, but everything was so fucking gradual -- it's hard to say when "it" happened, because we had tried a great deal of "alternatives" to intercourse for years, and it was fun! It finally happened on a spring break in Florida, and I've got to admit was "anticlimactic" then, and still seems so now. I dig all the alternatives to vaginal intercourse most of the time.
We started about 18 -- had intercourse about 5 years later (no shit) |
19 she was 31
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15, she was 15. I didn't really want to actually but things moved so quickly and she was quite the vigilant one...
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16, he was 21... and didn't know i was a virgin.. needless to say i've realized (a few years too late) that i was taken advantage of...
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I was 15... with a 16 year old...
seems so long ago, when it really wasnt all that long at all |
We were both 17. I had an imperforate hymen which basically meant I was a super virgin. I couldn't even wear tampons. The Dr that I went to see about it said I would have to have my hymen surgically removed because to break it the old fashion way would be too painful, the opening was the size of a pin hole. Can you imagine the smile on my father's face when he found out his 16 yo daughter couldn't have sex without surgery?
Enter Dr. Primal (who would be my husband some years down the road). They were right, it really hurt. Took 1 year to work up to breaking it. A good time was NOT had by all. (sorry was that TMI?) |
redgirl..
my...3rd was like that, it took FOREVER to work up to normal sex...i'm talking patience, time, and a lot of pain and a little blood... but after a month, she was up for anything :) |
17 summer just before i started college_it was in my room on a lazy afternoon_it was one of hte best days of my life_we were nervous it was the first tmie for both of us_things were so much more simple back then_the good old days
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Saying Farewell?!?! In the long scope of things to come down
the road, my virginity hasn't even gone to middle school yet. |
"Frustration" and "losing virginity" go hand in hand for me.
Much to my chagrin, I didn't lose it until I had finished grad school. I think I was about 24. I was not clueless, not unattractive, had been to a college my classmates were calling "camp hormone" (because of all the fucking going on). I was just wonderging why women kept rejecting me. I'm still wondering ... I guess I tried too hard or something. I don't look back on it as a decent experience -- the memories of how difficult it was (mid-1980s) to get someone to cooperate were, well, frustrating. Still are. Since that occasion, I've deflowered a few women as well. I'd have to say, sex with a (female) virgin (as a male) isn't all it's cracked up to be. Mostly they lie there wondering if they're allowed to move, and even after four or five sessions they still didn't "loosen up" until they've had A DIFFERENT MALE PARTNER. The whole "am I doing it right" and "I don't know what feels good to me" things just got in the way. Maybe I'm picking the wrong women? And I've dated a thirtysomething divorcee who hadn't had sex with anyone except her husband until me (hence, was a virgin at marriage) who says, categorically, her lack of sexual experience was one of the main motivating factors in driving her into a marriage that was a mistake, and driving her to stay in it despite the feeling of it being a mistake, because she didn't have any sensation (sexual or otherwise related to intimacy) to compare to. I guess I'm making a call for greater sexual liberation among our young women. It sure would have made MY life a lot better ... :) |
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19 with a 30 year old.
Older women are much more interesting in bed. |
older women are beautiful lovers, I've been around some, and i've come to know
props to who can name the song/artist :) seriously, though, no offense out there, but female virgins aren't all tehy are cracked up to be. "Why am i bleeding, am i doing it right, can you feel me, how will i know when i'm about to cum, why does ti feel like i have to pee, OH MY GODDDDDDDDDDD WHAT WAS THAT AND WHY IS MY BED SOAKED (ok, i liked that one), Wow, that hurts, Can i miove now, what do you mean you want my ass in the air???? i'm so embarassed, my parents are going to kill me, i'm going to get caught, i'm going to get pregnant, Why would you want to come on my tits, where can i put my feet, does this feel good." I swear, peopel should get 1 free fuck when yuo're like 16 so you can enjoy your sex life after that. Sheesh... |
I was 15 she was 15 and it was a whole lota lovin' fun.
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Old enough to still have it fresh in my memory. But I'm working on erasing it.
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I was 18, she was 17. We were both virgins. We had known each other for about a week and a half . . . we moved pretty quickly.
By "known each other for about a week and a half," I mean we met, and in under two weeks there it went. The first time was . . . embarassing, to say the least. It got better, though. |
18. what a great summer.
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I was 13 and she was 16. I had no idea what I was doing. Luckily she did.
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I was 17 he was 20..hmm I think that was illegal.
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im 18, it hasnt happened yet, but I've been very close. my girlfriend says it hurts, so after a few tries, we stop and do something else. If I lose it to anyone, i want it to be her, but im not really in a rush to have it happen like i once was, i dont mind taking my time with her. she's truly something special
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I was 17 and she was 16. We were both virgins so it was kind of awkward and certainly painful on her part. It was a warm summer day...being nude with the girl you love for the first time you love - sweating all over each other and loving every moment of it...there are few moments in my short life that mean more to me.
I wasn't a total virgin and definetly wasn't new to sex so I knew what to do but she it hurt like hell for her and it was still a bit weird until we had done it for quite some time. We're still together and I'm hoping we get married. |
16, so was she. It was a joke, on the cement in a park shelter. I was scared shitless, kept looking around for people. Didn't even know how to kiss. She even stopped during making out to eat a Reeses PB cup and smoke, because she was drunk and probably bored. She was the biggest slut, and practically took it from me. That was 1987. I think it lasted 30 seconds, and I was too naive to even feel bad about that! I remember saying I'm done, are you? Like a girl comes that quickly! I had SO much to learn, it's kind of embarrassing. My next gf taught alot, though.
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I was 13 and it was with my sisters best friend in my bed she was 17 man what a day
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eek... I was 14 and she was 17. I'm not even going to tell the story it's so bad... just... ugh.
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virgin, 19, in uni, by choice. While i dont regret it, it does make you feel kind of small when you have a group of jocks talking about their latest conquest while your looking at java code :(
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I want to say we were both 17, but there is a 5 month diff between our B'days and I can't remember when it was. It very likely could have been right before she turned 17....dont remember. She was my HS sweet heart, we dated for almost 7 yrs.
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21 yrs. and counting... Not in a huge hurry, just want to make sure it's right.
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at my 21st birthday :)
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I was 15, she was 14. Her folk's place, after school one day. Pretty risky, actually. There was no lock on the door, and her brother was home. Oh yeah, and no condom, so I had to pull out. That sucked ass. Later that week she gave me head in the back of her parents car on the way home from a ball game. Super-rad.
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I was 21, she was 20. She thought I didn't love her if I didn't. I was like her 5th or 6th at that point and I found out later that I was likely not the only one that month. :( Believe it or not, we still talk and are friends. I have a weird life.
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I was fifteen when it was taken.
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24 and she was 23. She'd done it before, and had a daughter, so I bagged me a MILF on my first run! Kinda cool I guess. We're still pretty good friends too.
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Oral sex---> 15 yrs. old with my boyfriend on a camping trip. We were in a tent and his best friend Geoff was sleeping (at least I hope he was) right next to us. My bf's mom was in a tent about 10ft. away...it was risky and fun.
Sex (the real deed)---> Day after my 21st birthday in April 2001. My same boyfriend and I lost ours together in a shady motel room in South Shore Lake Tahoe. We lost our virginities together. It took six years to get him to have sex with me because he was catholic and thought he would go to hell or something if he had pre-marital sex...I must have really been in love with him to hold out for so long. We're no longer together now. |
I was 16 and she was 24 or 25 and married with a young daughter. We worked at a fast food joint together, I had worked for her on easter so she owed me a favor as she liked to put it. We flirted she would always ask me what I wanted as a favor in return, being so young and imaginative I fantasized about what this favor could be thinking of course it will never happen. One day she asked me to meet her after work at a local grocery store we talked for hours and she proceded to sorta seduce me and give me head "a taste of what was coming" as she would say. She would bring me to the edge and stop. It was very frustrating for me.
It took a few weeks but I finally was able to convince her to take my virginity in a close by apartment parking lot in my car she began by riding me it was pretty amazing considering the situation.. before I could finish she thought she saw someone coming over so we stopped..that was it.. She got weird on me and would talk about love and her leaving her husband and I was to immature and young to handle that so I quit work and never saw her again. |
I'm 20 and still truckin.
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I was 21 and she was 23.
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I was 15, she was 16. In the parking lot of a local park in the backseat of a convertible '68 Camaro - very cramped. Didn't have a clue.
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I was 16, and she was 18... ahh yeah, how you like me now, stepping up with the older women? Sorry, got stupid for a second. Anyway, nothing too exciting. HEr parents house and in her bedroom. I think I had a clue what I was doing, but I really can't remember it at all. It's hard to remember 45 seconds of you life 12 years ago ;)
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almost 21 and still have it
didn't find the right girl yet/didn't have luck with the ones I wanted ^^ |
she 15 i was 17
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Seems to me like a lot of you managed to do what I couldn't quite: have sex with a girl during your teens.
I waited without really intending to until I was 22 and was almost forced into it by a rather aggressive, recently divorced high school teacher from a long way away. She was 4 years older. Now, I imagine most people reading here will skip over most of the content of the thread since it is rather samey..... but how about a new question? I was reading the other day a theory linking Freud's Oedipus Complex with the supposedly 'common' experience of males losing their virginity or having a first major sexual attachment to an older woman. How common is this 'older woman' thing? I could look back over all the posts so far and count, but I don't think that would give me the answer. If it's common and normal for guys to get involved with older girls/women, why is that? And what brings them back to younger girls afterwards? And is it any different from what girls tend to do by going for older guys? Too many questions? |
18, high school, pretty standard. Except maybe I married her, not because anything went wrong mind you, but because she was and is a fabulous person.
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wow some of you lost it at a very young age
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15, she was 19
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14, so was she. My parents were house sitting a neighbors house, so we got the keys.
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22, to my new wife. She was against sex before marrige and I respected that and loved her enough to give that to her. Longest 6 years of my life, even though we did some stuff though.
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I was 18 and in love...
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16, in the backseat of my car, parked in an out of the way lot at a local community college. Wished I had waited so that my current girlfriend would have been my first.
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I was 15, he was 17. Fun times.
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Nine. Literally.
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I was 18, I believe she was 19. It was the 4th of july & I had nothing better to do b4 the fireworks show.
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I was 21 and she was 28....hot damn is all I can say....nothing like an older woman...of course now I am 23 and my g/f is 27 and its the best choice I ever made....
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I was 18, she was 17 - in my bed
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I was 15, and the girl I was dating was 17. It was really quite a disaster as she was insane, but what can ya do?!
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18, he was 29, in my parents' basement while they were out of town. And the subsequent two years we dated were phenominal because of him... I'll never regret it.
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16..she was 14 and a pro
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18, and my mum and dad came in the house just as the soldiers left the trenches :crazy: job done
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22, with the woman i eventually married.......................and divorced.
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I was 16 and in Asia visiting a friend who went to school here and stay the summers there. Being the white guy in the area he thought it would be best to take me around to all the hot spots. After a day of eating at street vendors we decided to go to a hostess bar and get shit faced and sing songs with the ladies who worked there.
Well like 30min into the party I started to feel the street vendor fried squid start disagreeing with the quail I ate. So I went to the bathroom to relive myself. I came out like 10 min later feeling better in the stomach but had a major headache. The language barrier was so bad that they didnt understand what I meant. So I was grabbing my head showing that I needed some Tylelol or something. One of the girls who spoke broken english to put it lightly took me into the private bathroom of the bar to what I thought would be a neck massage. Well needless to say it wasnt. She said, "I helping your head better ok. I know special thing to helping." You can guess where it went from there. We ended up doing it in the private bathroom. Luckily it had a condom machine. :P |
I was 18 she was 18, we had been together for about 3 months and have been together now for 2 and half years. We did it in the basement of her parents place on the floor, oh what a night :).
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18 and sadly I'm still in love with her. Damn those attachments
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I was 18, she was 17. We did it doggie style in my room while my dad was downstairs.
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We were both 20 and both virgins, together about 9 months. Waited until we were both sure and it was amazing...
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I was 16 she was 17 in my bed. Don't remember where my parents were, but i do remember that we did it twice. Thought I knew what I was doing the second time ;)
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30. I got tired of waiting for the "perfect" woman so I took a 21 yr old home from a party and had a blast :)
My wife thinks its funny that she is only the 2nd woman I have ever been with. |
I was 16. We had been friends since third grade. We did it on a love seat and it was very uncomfortable and awkward. Not a good memory, really. I prefer to remember the first time my wife and I had sex.
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I was 15 and so was my GF, we did it in her bedroom with her parent right across the hall....I like taking risks.
Then 2 years later she got pregnant...I think she liked sex just a little to much:D |
I was 13 and so was she. Thank god for catholic schools teaching sex ed in 5th grade so I knew to pull out.
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I was 21, so was she...
I remember feeling a little embarassed that I hadn't had sex as a teenager, but once when I was about 16 some friends walked in on my girlfriend and me with our pants down, so they told everyone at school that we'd been having sex. I guess it was nice to have the reputation without actually having done it <grin>. Now that I'm older I realize that waiting until I was 21 wasn't a big deal, of course...it just seemed like it back then. |
21...I was holding off for the perfect girl (she wasn't it) but alas booze soon makles short work of that. Sorta wish I held off for my current partner, who is the love of my life and hopefully will be me wife one of these days :)
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I was 22, she was 21, we had dated since she was 16, and it was our wedding night!
That is the best way... no doubt. |
I was 12 when I said farewell to it, but it stuck around like an unliked in-law.
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I'm 19 and still waiting :(
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