I was 16, she was 17. Bed was too squeaky with my sleeping mother in the room above us so we did it on the floor. At the time it was great, of course, but now that I know just how insane our relationship would turn out (6 years of craziness) I would have waited for the woman to whom I am now married.

I spent the afternoon of my 17th birthday outside of Planned Parenthood while she was inside getting a pregnancy test. I was waiting in stressed agony. Not pregnant, thankfully. Of course I had to be stupid and continued to have sex with this girl who kept forgetting her birth control, with no protection, it is a happy miracle she never got pregnant.

Now I'm married, with a beautiful 6 month daughter. I was very happy wen I found out my wife was pregnant. Maybe that should be a good way of deciding if you should have sex with a person or not: would you like to have children with them?

Eight years old, involuntarily.

That is awesome. Congrats! :)

I was 17, so was she. Typical high school sweetheart scenario, we broke up after 2 and a half years together. I have no regrets, other than the one I ended up with afterwards gave her virginity to me, we got engaged, and she recently left me for one of my friends, but that my friends, is a different story all together.

I was 17, was messing around with my long time friend in my room one morning.. tickling turned into kissing, and so on...

if I could, I would take it all back... ya know.. to be a virgin still. Then I wouldn't know what I'm missing right now.

I was 14, ans so was she... it was the strangest fucking thing. Some girl one day commented on my shirt while I was in a mall, and we ended up striking up a conversation... and it was a REALLY long conversation... eventually we started walking and talking with each other, and before you know it, she was leading me off into the bathroom, we stumled into a stall, and I think you can imagine the rest from there... pretty awkward, because if we made too much noise, we'd be fucked (no pun intended). I tried to call her again after that, but never once did I get an answer... all I'll ever really know is that her name was Erica.

20 and counting.

Not sure how much of an issue it is, honestly. I've only had a single relationship (if you could call it that), so it's more or less a question of circumstance.

*shrug*

Better to be happy and single than miserable and committed.

15

i was 15 and the girl was 18 outside on a beach at a Christian summer camp. it was very strange because she was the first serious physical realationship id ever had and was fascinated by everything.

I was 17 and she was a 30 something and divorced. We were at a wedding with many many of my family. She was at our table bored, and I was bored as well.

We talked for a couple hours while everybody else partied. Then the entire party went to the hotel we were all staying at.

Partied some more in a very big room with about 60 people. Then we got kicked out. As we went to the next room to party some more she pulled me into her room.

She was so hot and horny that she basically took off all her clothes in about 2 seconds. She laid on the bed and all I did was kiss her stomach and she had an orgasm. That was the first time we touched.

I wanted it to last so I took my clothes off and slowly slipped inside her. I was moving slow and making it last. It was very intense. You could hear people partying all over the place and walking in the hall past our room.

Obviously she had enough of my slow technique. She raised her legs and grabbed my ass and pistoned me into her until I finally orgasmed.

We had about 15 seconds to gain our bareings and her roomates (my cousins) were coming into her room. She dashed to the bathroom and I slowly got dressed. I left before she came out of the bathroom.

I only caught a glimpse of her the next day and I have never seen her again.

A very great first time...

I'm 20 and still haven't lost it... my girlfriend is 17 and she might get it, but probably not for another couple years just because we want to wait. It's going to be the right time and right place which isn't in a car (although I'm not saying its bad just the way I want it) .

I was 17, she was 19 and i absolutely sucked. I don't think there was any possible for me to ever erase the horrible memory of our first time together. After that, she had very low expectations from me as a lover. I guess it's a good thing i got enough practice with her to improve. It's been smooth sailing ever since.

Define loss of virginity? I was first blown when I was 12. There was a party at my mates house (he was 16) and they started showing porn. His sister, lets call her Kate, (almost 12) and I snuck in... saw a little... and then snuck out under the house to mimick what we had seen...

As for actual sex though.... well after that incident I couldn't see the point to all this sex stuff.... and I waited until I got hammered at a 18th birthday party (I was nearly 18) and ended up having what will be the worst sex of my life with this chick that makes the bearded lady look hot.

Luckily.... kate and I meet up again at my 18th, so aslong as I forget to mention that OTHER incident, I just say kate took my virginity. But sadly that aint true... I fucked a fugly... (as we say in oz)

My story is nearly identical...but I dissed her afterwards (wanted some personal space that night). We talked hard about it though, and many tears were shed. She now (7 years later,) understands my feelings at the moment and I realize too - that I was a self-absorbed dickhead.

Sadly I still am...

You give me hope :).. I'm 20 and still gaming :)

Although next time i go to Wisconsin and a certain someone is visiting home as well..... I honestly don't know what'll happen. Unless I have a g/f by then.. it may become a very nice weekend.

I was 19. I'd fooled around before with high school boyfriends but believe it or not I lost my virginity to my husband-to-be. Didn't know at that point he'd eventually be my husband but that's how it turned out!

We were in my dorm room and had kicked my roommate out, and we "tried out" just penetration. Hurt and felt sooooo good at the same time. Must have been a real feat for him to not finish the deed right then. I remember walking around with him the rest of the day thinking "I can't believe I did that!!! I'm not a virgin anymore! Woohoo!" Then that night we made love (somewhat awkwardly, we'll both admit) and slept together and had a shared dream that was the most awesome experience I've ever had with another person.

To be completely honest, I was 13 and she was 14. The only problem is;I wish I could take it back. I now realize that I never really did love her, and the girl that I have now is who I wish could've been my first. If only we could turn back the wheels of time...*sigh*

I was 16. She was 2 years older than me when me, a mate, his girl, and this other girl Pip all got drunk together, played strip Pictionary, then my mate told me to put my arm around her and see what happened... the rest is history (translation: she near killed me!)

21 and still have it. I've dated several women, but I just haven't met the one I'm willing to give it to.

I was 24. Could've earlier but always chickened out. Finally some fat slut kinda did everything for me. Dunno now what the hell I was so afraid of. Now I have more confidence than I can probably afford and standards probably beyond my means. Sex is overrated.

Holy piss! I'm so surprised that some of yous lost it "late". I thought I was the only 25 year old virgin when I still was one. I am so glad that I passed up on the handful of opportunities I had. I lost it to a girl that I have been with for just about 2 years now, and everything about it was perfect. So all you guys (and gals ) out there, in my experience...it was well worth the wait.

I didn't "lose" my virginity as much as I kicked it the hell out.

I was 17 she was 15. She knew what she was doing, if you know what I mean. She didn't know I was a virgin (I assume) and it was over with rather quickly, to her dismay. She looked down and said, "You're not done, are you?!?" I dead-panned: "It's been a long time." Her mom came home before I could muster up round 2...

19 on a trip to Disneyland

13 to my right hand. 18 to a living breathing female.

i was 14 she was 15. i was with her for like 2 years. 2nd yr = lots of sex :D

I was 13 he was 16.

I wanted to lose it before i was 21 so I was 20, and still with my bf who I lost it to. In college of course ;). Were like sex crazy now.

Art, my friend- did that really come out the way you intended? :confused:
I hope your dad wasn't there!

Me? 18, my apartment, my best friend's girl, who used him to get to me...
But I think I've regained my virginity a few times since that!:D

We were both 15 and had been going together for about 6 months. Were playing around in the field behind his house and one thing led to another. Didn't enjoy it much that time, but we got better.

Just 18, LT gf in college. Spent most of the night laughing (both of us!)

20 at my house with the chick I dated for three years. Not all its cracked up to be...

19 And still keeping it closely guarded.
I dont want to have sex with someone i'm not madly in love with.

14..he was older then me. I think back now and don't regret it though, it was goign to happen sometime. :)

17. I was over Lori's condo, her mom and sister weren't home. We had bought condoms earlier and decided to go for it. Well, we didn't know what the hell we were doing, did it (awkwardly), and relaxed together for a while. (But it got better than that pretty quickly ;-)

She was 16, I was 17. On the couch. Then on the bed. Then a dip in the shower, then out to a hockey game, then back for another round. hehe. Twas fun. The parents were out of town so we just explored all weekend.

Heh. I actually lost my virginity while this thread was in progress. Still 18. Was good :)

My 18th BD - A BD present form my GF. (We had been dating for some time.) .....And then every day until we broke up 6 months later :)

I was 14, she was 16. We'd been aiming for when I was 15, for the smaller sketchiness factor :)
We ended up not waiting.

19. 3 nights after moving into rez at university, still with her though :)

18 and still waiting. can't decide whether to wait or not.

16 ... funny story, Well I had just gotten over this girl that I was "in love with". And I met a 23 year old girl named Racheal at a friends house, she moved in a week later (my parents are the coolest). And she had a good job apparently (she told me that she was a secretary at a company out of columbus). Well one night she came home drunk with two girlfriends of hers (up to this point she had really been trying to get me to fuck her, but I was scared so she settled for giving me blowjobs). Well I'm trying to sleep for school and one of her friends comes in and doesn't say shit so I think its her (its dark) and she starts blowing me and I am getting into it and I come and I kiss here and I notice that her tongue is pierced (it wasn't previously and she hated piercings) so I ask her about it and Nina pipes up about having it done since last year and I shit bricks. Well my girlfriend comes in and she is all cool about it (while I am thinking its one of those incidents where she is saying everything is alright while meaning that I had better hide behind something solid.) And she starts kissing Nina and rubbing me and I think to myself that she must have already killed me and I'm in heaven and Racheal sits on my cock while Nina is working my balls and Racheals asshole! Needless to say I came in about 5 seconds but after about 10 minutes I am back in the game (oh, to be a teenager again) and me and Racheal and Nina go at it for about 2 hours until racheal throws up all over my blanket and pillows. well she left me about 2 weeks later for the boyfriend that she left to go out with me. I ended up hooking up with Nina and found out that her and sarah (the passed out friend) liked a little bi action also, so I had another great week. UNTIL I ended up getting crabs and then had to take keflex for a FUCKING MONTH(for another nasty surprise she had left me)! I find out that Racheal, Nina, and Sarah are fucking strippers working in a skank house in bucyrus! and that Racheal was fucking her ex-boyfriend when he came to see here at work and a plethora of other guys that came to see her dance also. And then to top it off my friend Rebecca tells me that Racheal has been with at least 30 guys! talk about being scared while waiting for test results ... But at least I busted in that bitches ass umpteen fucking times before we broke up!

I had just turned 18...worst experience of my life!

16

i was 16, she was an 18 year old coworker over the summer... sex was great but she moved away to college and subsequently broke up with me a week after my first visit. She was really selfish though (in more ways than one); she did me a favor [and saved me a lot of money in train tickets] by dumping me... i just miss the sex :(

teknophile, that's a helluva story!!

18 and still haven't gotten rid of it. Used to want to really bad didn't think first time is a big deal but after reading several of the posts in these forums I'll be a little more choosey I believe even though they say beggars can't be choosers.

Thanks BermuDa, Actually at the time I thought it was pretty great. But if given the chance again I wouldn't have done it at all. I've only "been" with one girl since (my current girlfriend). And now that I think about it, that whole situation really messed me up emotionally. I had no idea what love was and I really would have rather lost my virginity to someone who understood what I was giving them (instead of just another dick to add to the list). Not to mention the hellish aftermath, and at the time what I was carrying around in my pants because of her, at the time messed me up even worse. I was scared all the time thinking that despite the meds it would never go away. And I stopped talking to girls altogether (thinking that 1 if I did get together I would be giving them the same STDs that I had at the time, and 2 that all women were like racheal and would just hurt me more). It just created alot of excess baggage that I didn't need.

I was 19 and she was 18... we dated for a year and had mad good sex the whole time. Just recently broke up :\ So now im out on the market again.

I was 15 and so was she.

Now that I have two little daughters (3 and 6) I'm utterly dreading when they reach their teen years and I have to start worrying about this stuff. Payback, I guess.

not yet, im 18, keeping my standards high.

My first time was when I was 18. Sad, isn't it?:D

Almost 27. Still virgin. Have only ever held a girl's hand. Think something is very broken in my head, probably.

first time was in her backyard when i was 20

i've slept with 3 people since, but only experienced that 'love making' thing with one of them.

Damn i miss that feeling. I hope i get that feeling with someone else, though it's doubtfull i guess.

Either way, i am probably going to be on a long stretch here for a while, since i am not gonig to have sex with someone until i know i am in love with them. That's what i did with my ex and damn i miss that feeling.. hehe. That first time actually meant a fuck of a lot and it just felt so right. I still remember it like it was yesterday. I kind of consider that my first time.

18- And then married her, now I agree with Ferris Bueler- never marry the first girl (or guy) you lay- guess it works for some, just not for me- after five years of hell got divorced- incidentaly, (and this may qualify me for the Geekier than thou award) i lost said virginity on the downstairs couch of a game store I worked in at the time, after finishing my D&D game and locking up for the night

i was 16 - i had to crawl in her window while her dad was in the garage she had candles burning, and condoms. sneaking out was just as fun

19, and glad I waited that long. Girl ended up being a freaky psycho "put her on Lithium and lock the door behind you evil gf" type, but I'm glad I got some experience before I met my wife.

Girls lose their virginity way earlier than guys most of the time. It's not fair!

havn't yet...i'm 21 now

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Still waiting. I guess that's okay though, heh. I'll survive, schoolies week approaches soon, signifying the end of high school.
Never know. :o

18. She lost here's at the same time, and was 15.

I am a cradle robber, but I married her, so it's OK.

You mean never NEVER? Or never as in until you get married never?

Still a virgin at 19. I`ve never even touched a girl.

17 - after the homecoming dance my senior year in highschool

lost it at 14, it was a big mistake

still got it. And i aint gonna do it for the hell of it, coz to me that is just lame.

first time for oral sex was 15 at a party. still goin strong with the virginity thing tho....18 now.

I am about to turn 21 and am engaged to be married next year. We have been together for 4.5 years. Still have not had sex and do not regret it at all. It will be great when the time comes.

I was nine. She was seventy-three. It was beautiful.

I was 17 super 8 on good friday and boy was it a good friday. . . it was with my only true love chad

17, and the story is sort of boring.

laxative - put down that Harold & Maude tape and back away slowly...


18 and 18, not her first. We planned it, did it at the beach - nice as first times go, but it's gotten a metric buttload better as the years have gone by. At least three different times, I have thought I was having the bext sex I could hope for in this life. I like that trend.

My favorite unit of measurement is the "cubic buttload"

Not sure if I already posted this, but I was 19 when I lost mine, and very glad I waited that long.

17 and it was a mistake. Wish I'd waited until I met the woman of my dreams when I was 20

I feel kinda strange for holding out after reading all these posts.

<- 22, once a virgin by situation, later by choice, and now pretty much ambivilant about the whole thing.

technocrat - am in the same boat as you, but not married yet...

that ones still in the works

Way too young. Should have waited two, three days longer.

still awaiting. :\

I was 15, she a year younger. We met at a party thrown by the best friend of my 19 year old stepbrother. I thought I'd never see her again, waking up the next morning with nothing but a warm memory of my first kiss. Three days later she called me and said she had asked all her friends about me until she found my phone number from the host of the party. After school the next day we made love in my bedroom. She was one of the most beautiful people I've ever met, with a flawless body, a boundless excitement for life, sparkling blue eyes, and a stunning smile. We made love almost every day until I left for college. I never stopped loving her, but to my lasting regret I lost touch with her 2 years later.

Ah, 2 weeks before my 18th b-day. It was pretty much accidental. Our messing around got too heated and we were off! Those were the days...

17 she was 18. went up in the moutains when we were suppost to be at a school dance. We fucked 2 times and went home very happy. only ever saw her once after that.

25...On my wedding night with my virgin wife

We were both 15 and it took a second attempt to do the deed. My woody wouldn't work the first time we tried, but a week later at her house it happened. We were together all three years in hs. Went away to college and parted ways.

I was either 17 or 18, it was in the summer after my senior year at HS and I don't remember exactly whether it was before or after my B-Day. It was close, because I remember making a bad joke about it being my present. I had been dating this girl for about 2 years and it hurt her feelings. I felt about 2" tall after I said it.

19 and still got it

I was 18, had been going out with the girl for a few months before this. She was a few months younger than me. We were fooling around in her room in dorms, and, well...

Same here! Screw you all!...18...and waiting...

Hehe. 18 here, still have it..Had the chance countless times (really). I dont know. Never feels right. Maybe I'm just wierd =) Never been really sexually driven, tho. Maybe thats why I get so many girls?

I was 13, and I lost my virginity in an orgy involving a bunch of 15-year-olds. Mostly girls.

Apparently, I was a natural.

*beams*

We were both 16, and are still together a couple of years later, although it wasnt her first, but it was mine.

I was dating this girl over the summer between my junior and senior years of high school. She ended up being a little loopy and I kind of regret it on one hand, but on the other hand it was a real good experience at the time.

At my parents' house in my room, with them down the hall, we had come back from somewhere.. it was kind of late. Everybody was asleep. When we got undressed, she threw her shorts into my wall, with a very heavy belt and buckle still in the loops. It scratched some paint off the wall.

That mark is still there, so I have the memories every time I go home to visit. My mom asked me once what the mark was, I don't remember now what I said though.

18 for me, she was 16

I was 19, as was she. It was both of our first times. ^.^

well...this changed last friday :crazy:
i'm 21, she's 19. she is not a virgin

I was 19, she was 17, she was VERY experienced, and it was in my college dormroom.


MB

Sixteen, almost seventeen. I had been with the gilfriend for around almost a year at that stage.

19.. she was 24 :-)

It was really good (well I thought so!) - was expecting a terrible disaster after numerous virginity-loss-horror-stories :)

guess thats what you get from dating older women.

Was 18 (at Uni), found untainted private school girl (17) . . . . corrupted her quickly *laughing insanely* . .

I was 18, freshman in college. He was 24. We did it after I knew him for like 3 days. I just wanted to do it, didn't like him all that much, but then the damn sex got me attached. He was an ass. We were together for 6 weeks.

i was all of 17, my junior year in high school. lost it to a girl a year older than me after we had gone out for just a week. the relationship didnlt last so long, but it was still great. :)