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HeadFaceLeg · 08-07-2009, 04:13 AM

i took my new gf to the pictures in liverpool, we get on really well and were both chewing the fat by taking the piss out of all the people who were there alone, isnt people watching fun!? but anyway.

Then my ex walks in

im sat thinking WHAT THE HELL? is she stalking me?
turns out no. BUT, she then carrys on to sit n her own o.O perhaps you dont see the dilemma. im thinking what i know my new girl must be thinking, 'is she on her own because she should have been going with me, but we broke up and therefor now she's a loner?!'

not cool, the result was her noticing me and me pretending like i had no idea. this wasnt cruel but less embarrassing for everyone involved- further result was me feeling shitty for breaking up with said girl.

anyone been in a similar situation who can feel my pain?

im new, so hey. *wave*

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 04:37 AM

Welcome, HeadFace!

I don't quite understand why she would have gone to see a movie all by herself unless she was stalking you.

ratbastid · 08-07-2009, 04:41 AM

Drama!

HeadFaceLeg · 08-07-2009, 04:58 AM

Drama indeed! these are the days of our lives! is that show even real? anyway.

so it is a stalk job? she did add my new girl friend on the dredded facebook, i decided this could be a lame attempt at friendship? naive?

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 05:02 AM

Yes, you're naive. This is stalking.

shakran · 08-07-2009, 05:13 AM

Seconded. Stalking.

HeadFaceLeg · 08-07-2009, 05:17 AM

well that is a shame. i still feel bad that she had no one to at least stalk with. like a sidekick.
it could all be a coincidence-

Thanks for the welcome!

LoganSnake · 08-07-2009, 05:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HeadFaceLeg

I took my new gf to the pictures in liverpool, we get on really well and were both chewing the fat by taking the piss out of all the people who were there alone.

Was that...English?

Anyhoo, welcome.

HeadFaceLeg · 08-07-2009, 05:58 AM

hahaha, my bad! Admittedly i do rely on auto correct allot of the time while im typing :]

Cheers!

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 05:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LoganSnake

Was that...English?

Anyhoo, welcome.

Hey, don't scare away the newbies!

Meditrina · 08-07-2009, 06:24 AM

I don't understand why it is automatically stalking just because she was at the movies alone. I know it does not happen often, but can't people go to the movies alone? Do they have to go with someone? Maybe she just really wanted to see that movie.

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 06:28 AM

Between adding the current girlfriend as a friend on Facebook and going to the movies - there's no question in my mind.

I have been to movies on my own - movies are fun and you can't always find someone who wants to go when you have time - but this case is just too fishy to not be otherwise.

Meditrina · 08-07-2009, 07:20 AM

ah, yeah. I didn't put 2 and 2 together, obviously. I am a bit new to the whole dating thing, at least it has been awhile since I was. I can see the whole stalking thing now.

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 07:23 AM

You did bring up a good point, though Medi.

CinnamonGirl · 08-07-2009, 07:26 AM

Huh. I go to the movies by myself all the time.

Glory's Sun · 08-07-2009, 07:28 AM

YouTube - Facebook Stalker

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 07:34 AM

That's a great video, gucci.

Punk.of.Ages · 08-07-2009, 07:46 AM

HeadFaceLeg, when I read your posts my mind translates the British accent. You're the first poster to ever get me to read in an accent...
________

I've been hearing about girls stalking guys a lot lately. Seems like a nice ego boost...

I want a stalker.

highthief · 08-07-2009, 08:17 AM

Stalker. I'd get a restraining order or there'll be dead bunnies everywhere.

Glory's Sun · 08-07-2009, 08:17 AM

just be glad the scouse accent didn't come through

difficult to understand those scousers..

(assuming scouse as Liverpool was mentioned)

and yeah.. she's stalking. nip it in the bud now.

add this to the reasons of why I'm not on facebook.

and welcome

genuinegirly · 08-07-2009, 08:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by highthief

...or there'll be dead bunnies everywhere.

Nooooooooooooooooo. Anything but the bunnies.

obigatory photo of my cinnabunny

HeadFaceLeg · 08-07-2009, 08:50 AM

hahaha! Guccilvr, that video made my day! -my accent isnt too bad, its only slightly scouse.. for a scouser.
As for detecting the British accent, im not totaly sure if thats a good thing. but thanks all the same 'of Ages, very astute of you! :]

Facebook seems to be slightly better than Myspace on the stalking prevention front, that is.. as far as im aware.

im not convinced i am being stalked quite yet, so the ego thing isnt really hitting me. i've not even found my cat dead... yet :P

one more thing; how exactly does one go about 'nipping it in the bud?' sure the very nature of the stalker would make this quite a task? i don't think a restraining order is an easy thing to do in the UK. I tryed to get my mate sectioned once for a laugh.. turns out you need a fair amount of evidence

LoganSnake · 08-07-2009, 09:12 AM

Stalk back. Catch her in the act and take pictures/videos.

For evidence.

Glory's Sun · 08-07-2009, 09:38 AM

ask your current squeeze how she feels about this.. if she doesn't like it then tell the ex to back off.. you have your own life.

and a mild scouse accent?? never heard of such a thing

glory glory man utd..

LordEden · 08-07-2009, 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by genuinegirly

Nooooooooooooooooo. Anything but the bunnies.

Bunnies are good eatin'.

/channelsbubba "Rabbit stew, rabbit kabobs, rabbit chops, rabbit surprise..."

*****

biznatch · 08-07-2009, 10:44 AM

Welcome HeadFaceLeg!
I've never had the honor of being stalked myself. I think the best thing would be to wait and see if the problem continues, and if it's stalking.
I've gone to the movies by myself a bunch of times, so don't jump to conclusions yet.

If it is stalking, talk to her maturely. Maybe she just needs a bit of closure... or maybe she wants to make you suffer a long, painful death. You never know.

highthief · 08-07-2009, 02:47 PM

Stalking isn't always bad mind you ... unless you're the rabbit.

Then you're screwed.

SecretMethod70 · 08-07-2009, 03:07 PM

HeadFaceLeg: I like you already. Stick around

Facebook is actually quite good when it comes to privacy (for a website). You can easily control who sees what info.

The movie incident isn't too bad on its own, but the fact she tried to friend your new girlfriend on Facebook is rather questionable. I'm assuming they have no other connection to one another?

Anyway, I wouldn't really worry about it too much yet. If she mysteriously shows up somewhere again, then it's definitely stalking, but for now I'd be inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Plan9 · 08-07-2009, 03:09 PM

I wish I had a stalker. That sounds kinda hot.

Craven Morehead · 08-07-2009, 07:48 PM

threesome

go for it

FelixP · 08-07-2009, 09:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crompsin

I wish I had a stalker. That sounds kinda hot.

I agree. I once had a girl ask me to break into her house at night and "rape" her.

Adios, amiga de loco.

I failed spanish class.

Fremen · 08-07-2009, 10:34 PM

Maybe I should go to the movies alone and pick up some stalkers.
Would they have the time, though?

UnclearContent · 08-08-2009, 04:31 AM

In the town where I grew up I've gone to the movies dozens of times without running into a single person I know. Unless this was the movie's night of release in the only movie theater in Liverpool I seriously doubt it's coincidence.

HeadFaceLeg · 08-08-2009, 10:03 AM

some most awesome suggestions here, also thanks all for the welcome!
UnclearContent- i dont know what it is about me but i do have a tendency to bump into folk i know, drinking [some nice bars and pubs in liverpool if your ever down!] and on the way to work mostly! Liverpools a fairly big a place but its not HUGE. Unless your going to an indy cinema your going to hit the same one really!

Secret Method im definitely gona be running if she makes a showing on my next date hahaha!

im intrigued by; 'a stalker being hot', after hearing

'long, painful death' and 'rape'

has anyone had a GOOD stalking experience? being the stalked or the prey? open up, i wont feel any less of you :]

i once followed a hot girl into a music shop to find out she was gay :]

haha 'glory glory man utd' - Liverpool lost today :[

FuglyStick · 08-08-2009, 10:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CinnamonGirl

Huh. I go to the movies by myself all the time.

Me too. Maybe I just haven't settled on someone to stalk yet.

Bear Cub · 08-08-2009, 11:38 AM

This is a complicated situation.

A situation resolved only with a threesome.

08-07-2009, 04:13 AM	#1 (permalink)
HeadFaceLeg Upright	went to the pictures with my new gf eek :\| i took my new gf to the pictures in liverpool, we get on really well and were both chewing the fat by taking the piss out of all the people who were there alone, isnt people watching fun!? but anyway. Then my ex walks in im sat thinking WHAT THE HELL? is she stalking me? turns out no. BUT, she then carrys on to sit n her own o.O perhaps you dont see the dilemma. im thinking what i know my new girl must be thinking, 'is she on her own because she should have been going with me, but we broke up and therefor now she's a loner?!' not cool, the result was her noticing me and me pretending like i had no idea. this wasnt cruel but less embarrassing for everyone involved- further result was me feeling shitty for breaking up with said girl. anyone been in a similar situation who can feel my pain? im new, so hey. wave

08-07-2009, 04:37 AM	#2 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	Welcome, HeadFace! I don't quite understand why she would have gone to see a movie all by herself unless she was stalking you. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

08-07-2009, 05:02 AM	#5 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	Yes, you're naive. This is stalking. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

08-07-2009, 05:58 AM	#9 (permalink)
HeadFaceLeg Upright	hahaha, my bad! Admittedly i do rely on auto correct allot of the time while im typing :] Cheers! __________________ BOW CHICKA BOW WOWW :]

08-07-2009, 06:24 AM	#11 (permalink)
Meditrina Junkie Location: LI,NY	I don't understand why it is automatically stalking just because she was at the movies alone. I know it does not happen often, but can't people go to the movies alone? Do they have to go with someone? Maybe she just really wanted to see that movie. __________________ "Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras

08-07-2009, 04:41 AM	#3 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	Drama!

08-07-2009, 04:58 AM	#4 (permalink)
HeadFaceLeg Upright	Drama indeed! these are the days of our lives! is that show even real? anyway. so it is a stalk job? she did add my new girl friend on the dredded facebook, i decided this could be a lame attempt at friendship? naive?

08-07-2009, 05:13 AM	#6 (permalink)
shakran Tone.	Seconded. Stalking.

08-07-2009, 05:17 AM	#7 (permalink)
HeadFaceLeg Upright	well that is a shame. i still feel bad that she had no one to at least stalk with. like a sidekick. it could all be a coincidence- Thanks for the welcome!

08-07-2009, 06:28 AM	#12 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	Between adding the current girlfriend as a friend on Facebook and going to the movies - there's no question in my mind. I have been to movies on my own - movies are fun and you can't always find someone who wants to go when you have time - but this case is just too fishy to not be otherwise. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

08-07-2009, 07:20 AM	#13 (permalink)
Meditrina Junkie Location: LI,NY	ah, yeah. I didn't put 2 and 2 together, obviously. I am a bit new to the whole dating thing, at least it has been awhile since I was. I can see the whole stalking thing now. __________________ "Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras

08-07-2009, 07:23 AM	#14 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	You did bring up a good point, though Medi. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

08-07-2009, 07:26 AM	#15 (permalink)
CinnamonGirl She's Actual Size Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell	Huh. I go to the movies by myself all the time. __________________ "...for though she was ordinary, she possessed health, wit, courage, charm, and cheerfulness. But because she was not beautiful, no one ever seemed to notice these other qualities, which is so often the way of the world." "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"

08-07-2009, 07:34 AM	#17 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	That's a great video, gucci. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

08-07-2009, 07:46 AM	#18 (permalink)
Punk.of.Ages Forming Location: ....a state of pure inebriation.	HeadFaceLeg, when I read your posts my mind translates the British accent. You're the first poster to ever get me to read in an accent... ________ I've been hearing about girls stalking guys a lot lately. Seems like a nice ego boost... I want a stalker. __________________ "The fact is that censorship always defeats its own purpose, for it creates, in the end, the kind of society that is incapable of exercising real discretion..." - Henry Steel Commager "Punk rock music is great music played by really bad, drunk musicians." -Fat Mike

08-07-2009, 08:17 AM	#19 (permalink)
highthief Junkie Location: Ontario, Canada	Stalker. I'd get a restraining order or there'll be dead bunnies everywhere. __________________ Si vis pacem parabellum.

08-07-2009, 08:17 AM	#20 (permalink)
Glory's Sun Registered User	just be glad the scouse accent didn't come through difficult to understand those scousers.. (assuming scouse as Liverpool was mentioned) and yeah.. she's stalking. nip it in the bud now. add this to the reasons of why I'm not on facebook. and welcome

08-07-2009, 08:50 AM	#22 (permalink)
HeadFaceLeg Upright	hahaha! Guccilvr, that video made my day! -my accent isnt too bad, its only slightly scouse.. for a scouser. As for detecting the British accent, im not totaly sure if thats a good thing. but thanks all the same 'of Ages, very astute of you! :] Facebook seems to be slightly better than Myspace on the stalking prevention front, that is.. as far as im aware. im not convinced i am being stalked quite yet, so the ego thing isnt really hitting me. i've not even found my cat dead... yet :P one more thing; how exactly does one go about 'nipping it in the bud?' sure the very nature of the stalker would make this quite a task? i don't think a restraining order is an easy thing to do in the UK. I tryed to get my mate sectioned once for a laugh.. turns out you need a fair amount of evidence __________________ BOW CHICKA BOW WOWW :]

08-07-2009, 09:12 AM	#23 (permalink)
LoganSnake We work alone Location: Cake Town	Stalk back. Catch her in the act and take pictures/videos. For evidence. __________________ Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

08-07-2009, 09:38 AM	#24 (permalink)
Glory's Sun Registered User	ask your current squeeze how she feels about this.. if she doesn't like it then tell the ex to back off.. you have your own life. and a mild scouse accent?? never heard of such a thing glory glory man utd..

08-07-2009, 10:44 AM	#26 (permalink)
biznatch Junkie Location: France	Welcome HeadFaceLeg! I've never had the honor of being stalked myself. I think the best thing would be to wait and see if the problem continues, and if it's stalking. I've gone to the movies by myself a bunch of times, so don't jump to conclusions yet. If it is stalking, talk to her maturely. Maybe she just needs a bit of closure... or maybe she wants to make you suffer a long, painful death. You never know. __________________ Check it out: The Open Source/Freeware/Gratis Software Thread

08-07-2009, 02:47 PM	#27 (permalink)
highthief Junkie Location: Ontario, Canada	Stalking isn't always bad mind you ... unless you're the rabbit. Then you're screwed. __________________ Si vis pacem parabellum.

08-07-2009, 03:07 PM	#28 (permalink)
SecretMethod70 Human Administrator Location: Chicago	HeadFaceLeg: I like you already. Stick around Facebook is actually quite good when it comes to privacy (for a website). You can easily control who sees what info. The movie incident isn't too bad on its own, but the fact she tried to friend your new girlfriend on Facebook is rather questionable. I'm assuming they have no other connection to one another? Anyway, I wouldn't really worry about it too much yet. If she mysteriously shows up somewhere again, then it's definitely stalking, but for now I'd be inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt. __________________ Le temps détruit tout "Musicians are the carriers and communicators of spirit in the most immediate sense." - Kurt Elling

08-07-2009, 03:09 PM	#29 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	I wish I had a stalker. That sounds kinda hot. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake."

08-07-2009, 07:48 PM	#30 (permalink)
Craven Morehead Custom User Title	threesome go for it

08-07-2009, 10:34 PM	#32 (permalink)
Fremen With a mustache, the cool factor would be too much Location: left side of my couch, East Texas	Maybe I should go to the movies alone and pick up some stalkers. Would they have the time, though? __________________ Google

08-08-2009, 04:31 AM	#33 (permalink)
UnclearContent Tilted	In the town where I grew up I've gone to the movies dozens of times without running into a single person I know. Unless this was the movie's night of release in the only movie theater in Liverpool I seriously doubt it's coincidence. Last edited by UnclearContent; 08-08-2009 at 04:39 AM..

08-08-2009, 10:03 AM	#34 (permalink)
HeadFaceLeg Upright	some most awesome suggestions here, also thanks all for the welcome! UnclearContent- i dont know what it is about me but i do have a tendency to bump into folk i know, drinking [some nice bars and pubs in liverpool if your ever down!] and on the way to work mostly! Liverpools a fairly big a place but its not HUGE. Unless your going to an indy cinema your going to hit the same one really! Secret Method im definitely gona be running if she makes a showing on my next date hahaha! im intrigued by; 'a stalker being hot', after hearing 'long, painful death' and 'rape' has anyone had a GOOD stalking experience? being the stalked or the prey? open up, i wont feel any less of you :] i once followed a hot girl into a music shop to find out she was gay :] haha 'glory glory man utd' - Liverpool lost today :[ __________________ BOW CHICKA BOW WOWW :]

08-08-2009, 11:38 AM	#36 (permalink)
Bear Cub The Reverend Side Boob Location: Nofe Curolina	This is a complicated situation. A situation resolved only with a threesome. __________________ Living in the United Socialist States of America.