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Tara · 05-18-2005, 01:41 PM

okay, can someone help me.
ive been on BCP for 2 months, we always have sex with a condom,but the last time we had sex the condom broke right off and he cumed inside of me.
question #1 should i be worried about pregnancy?
question #2 can a condom get stuck inside you?

thanks for your help. xoxo.

Irishsean · 05-18-2005, 01:48 PM

1. Any chance is still a chance, doesn't hurt to get it checked.

2. Yes. I remember quite well an unfortunate incident which involved trying to get one out, it took me about 2 hours to find it and get enough of a grip to pull it out of her. It was odd for me, and very uncomfortable for her as well.

abaya · 05-18-2005, 01:49 PM

My first thought: NO. Do not worry.

Have you been taking the BC regularly and at the right time each day? If so, really, don't worry about it. If you find yourself freaking out about it still, then you still have to wait until your period... if you miss it, THEN take a store-bought pregnancy test and let us know what happens.

Condom stuck inside? Well, did you fish it out after it broke off, or just leave it in there? If you haven't already done so, put your finger up as far as you can in your vagina and sweep around to see if any latex parts are still in there. If you already got it out after it broke off, then don't worry about it.

Bottom line: Don't worry.

Tara · 05-18-2005, 01:57 PM

ok thanks!
yea ive never missed my pill since ive been on it, and i take it usually around the same time, there has been days were i sleep in and take it like 3 hours late but thats it.
and this week is suppose to be my period and it hasnt come thats why im kind of worried. but i think it could be just because of the BCP and because i havnt been on it that long, because last month it came but it was REALLY REALLY light but it was late too.
thanks alot xox

KinkyKiwi · 05-18-2005, 02:48 PM

i should add...it really cant get lost inside your body..if you stick a finger in when your not aroused you should be able to find it.

and even tho its probably fine...you should make sure you take them on time..when i was on the pill my gyno told me every hour that your late screws up your whole month. if you cant remember to take the pill try the ring or the patch.

also..just take a pregnacy test just to be sure..the pill is supposed to make your periods regular.

Sage · 05-18-2005, 03:40 PM

BC keeps you from getting pregnant... period. IF you take it right and IF your body metabolizes it right THEN you will not get pregnant. Also, a condom can't get "lost" inside your body- there's no where for it to go. It's probably floating around your cervix somewhere, and fiddiling around with a finger should turn it up. However, if you can't find it, you totally should go to a doctor PRONTO to have them take it out, because the longer it's up there the more risk of a bacterial infection.

Lead543 · 05-18-2005, 03:56 PM

First off, good for you for being responsible and using two forms of conterception.

Birth Control is 99.7% effective when taken at the same time, everyday. There's a different statistic for typical use though, factoring in human error. I'm not talented enough to manuveur planned parenthood to find that statistic though.

Anytime you have sex you should make a map of what would happen if you had a baby. The costs, what you may have to give up, etc. I did and that's why I don't have sex.

Condoms, like tampons, can't get lost inside you. If you relax and ummm...fish around you can pull them out. In the event that you can't, don't panic, but do visit a doctor immediately. The last thing you want is something stuck up there.

KinkyKiwi · 05-18-2005, 04:01 PM

sage-there is till a failure rate even with perfect use

MSD · 05-18-2005, 05:13 PM

Silly kids. Thread Closed.

05-18-2005, 01:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tara Loser Location: Maple	help: some questions okay, can someone help me. ive been on BCP for 2 months, we always have sex with a condom,but the last time we had sex the condom broke right off and he cumed inside of me. question #1 should i be worried about pregnancy? question #2 can a condom get stuck inside you? thanks for your help. xoxo. Last edited by Tara; 05-18-2005 at 01:50 PM..

05-18-2005, 01:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
Irishsean edited for content Location: Austin, TX	1. Any chance is still a chance, doesn't hurt to get it checked. 2. Yes. I remember quite well an unfortunate incident which involved trying to get one out, it took me about 2 hours to find it and get enough of a grip to pull it out of her. It was odd for me, and very uncomfortable for her as well. __________________ There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances. Leon Trotsky

05-18-2005, 01:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	My first thought: NO. Do not worry. Have you been taking the BC regularly and at the right time each day? If so, really, don't worry about it. If you find yourself freaking out about it still, then you still have to wait until your period... if you miss it, THEN take a store-bought pregnancy test and let us know what happens. Condom stuck inside? Well, did you fish it out after it broke off, or just leave it in there? If you haven't already done so, put your finger up as far as you can in your vagina and sweep around to see if any latex parts are still in there. If you already got it out after it broke off, then don't worry about it. Bottom line: Don't worry. __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

05-18-2005, 01:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
Tara Loser Location: Maple	ok thanks! yea ive never missed my pill since ive been on it, and i take it usually around the same time, there has been days were i sleep in and take it like 3 hours late but thats it. and this week is suppose to be my period and it hasnt come thats why im kind of worried. but i think it could be just because of the BCP and because i havnt been on it that long, because last month it came but it was REALLY REALLY light but it was late too. thanks alot xox Last edited by Tara; 05-18-2005 at 01:59 PM..

05-18-2005, 02:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
KinkyKiwi "Without the fuzz" Location: ..too close for comfort..	i should add...it really cant get lost inside your body..if you stick a finger in when your not aroused you should be able to find it. and even tho its probably fine...you should make sure you take them on time..when i was on the pill my gyno told me every hour that your late screws up your whole month. if you cant remember to take the pill try the ring or the patch. also..just take a pregnacy test just to be sure..the pill is supposed to make your periods regular. __________________ Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps. Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

05-18-2005, 03:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	BC keeps you from getting pregnant... period. IF you take it right and IF your body metabolizes it right THEN you will not get pregnant. Also, a condom can't get "lost" inside your body- there's no where for it to go. It's probably floating around your cervix somewhere, and fiddiling around with a finger should turn it up. However, if you can't find it, you totally should go to a doctor PRONTO to have them take it out, because the longer it's up there the more risk of a bacterial infection. __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

05-18-2005, 03:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
Lead543 Registered User Location: Calgary	First off, good for you for being responsible and using two forms of conterception. Birth Control is 99.7% effective when taken at the same time, everyday. There's a different statistic for typical use though, factoring in human error. I'm not talented enough to manuveur planned parenthood to find that statistic though. Anytime you have sex you should make a map of what would happen if you had a baby. The costs, what you may have to give up, etc. I did and that's why I don't have sex. Condoms, like tampons, can't get lost inside you. If you relax and ummm...fish around you can pull them out. In the event that you can't, don't panic, but do visit a doctor immediately. The last thing you want is something stuck up there.

05-18-2005, 04:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
KinkyKiwi "Without the fuzz" Location: ..too close for comfort..	sage-there is till a failure rate even with perfect use __________________ Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps. Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

05-18-2005, 05:13 PM	#9 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	Silly kids. Thread Closed.