you'll be far better off Aqua. good luck with the rest of it.

There are a few ways to approach this (I assume 16 is legal in your country?):

The Horny Asshole: Whip your dick out and let her play with it to her hearts content. Don't give in when she says she wants something more.

The Self-Depriving Pussy: Tell her you don't want to fuck her because you feel it will hurt her, etc etc.

Horny and Honest: Tell her your true intentions for her. Tell her that you want to fuck her madly, and that's the only interest you have for her. Be blunt. Don't hint towards any sort of emotional attachment unless you truly have one for her (I assume you don't, or if you do, it is very minimal). Be cool about it, but be blunt. Let HER make HER own decision, and when it comes time, just be ready to accept whatever her decision may be.

I highly suggest the third one. You're being offered some pussy, and you know you want it. Your being honest with her fully educates her in the current situation, while at the same time you're not forcing an opinion on her. Being an asshole and leading her on just isn't cool, while at the same time, if you tell her, "I really want to fuck you but I can't because I feel it would be wrong," you KNOW she's just gonna go jump someone else's bones. For all you know, she could end up with an asshole, and she WILL end up being fucked-in-the-head at the end of this. Being horny yet honest let's you be the good guy while at the same time gives you a chance at some pussy.

But damn, man...where do you live where 16 is legal?

The simple fact is this: If she doesn't have sex with you, she is going to do it with someone else. You will not be the savior of her dignity or chastity. You will be the guy that kicks himself in 2 years for missing the opportunity. Yes, there are moral issues here, but they are HERS, not yours. So here is all you need to know.

1) Protection,protection,protection
2) Under NO circumstances do you give her your phone number or address. Never call her from a phone that she could back trace to an address of yours.
3) Tell her you are willing to fulfill her sexual fantasies, but don't want a relationship.
4) Never take her to your house.
5) Did I mention protection?

I'm on the fence, my first intention was to tell you to punt, but on the other hand if she wants it after you have been completely honest and open (that means telling her things that she doesn't ask about) then saddle up partner. Bring your own condoms and put them on yourself. Be smart, open, honest and if it comes your way then let us know how it works out!

age of consent is 16 in michigan

actually a lot of states have it at 16:

http://www.webistry.net/jan/consent.html

cherry blues... I love it.

i live in PA, good advice, lol, i know i'm gonna besure we don't start anything, i just not determined on if i want sex or not with her.... afterall, a nice tight 16 year old pussy would be nice


lol, thats the holy grail, i know her numbers but never called her, she doesn't know where i live, i told her the region i was in, and i'm letting her pick the hotel, i'm gonna bring all my own fresh condoms and lube... i don't plan any body fluid transfer if we do, soo no real kissing or mouth-on oral

... and the last thing on earth i'm gonna do is take her to my house, lol, thats why i'm making her get a hotel... she's not even going to know my last name

i'm only going to call her once with a restricted number soo she can't trace it to me... sooo i know that she's real

lol, and i'm also watching my ass legally by keeping logs of the conversations we have





i'm talking to her now and she wants to know if in addition to condoms, can you get like birth control pills/patches without a perscription?

which can easily implicate you as well.... the double edged sword of evidence.

This girl sounds like a freak for sure. Definitely a keeper.

lol, yeah, i hopefully will not be in any situation that requires evidence.... lol

In this situation the only way that will be 100% is if you don't continue this...

after that it's diminishing returns...

why pursue this risky endeavor? is there not ANYONE else that you have interest in?

lol, yeah, shes breaking away from wanting me, since i'm being soo cautious, it is a real turn off :thumbsup:

I figure that might happen. There is a distinct difference between "aloof" and "cautious". Aloof is a challenge - she will do all the work because you are like "whatever". Cautious is a turnoff because it implies a conservative thoughtful nature. It reduces the dangerous nature of this encounter. You need to be cautious but appear to be aloof.

Are you a man who can get sex elsewhere easily?
I ask because I am not a man like that, and I myself fell victim to a similar situation about a year ago, and ended up turning the girl down. I know hate myself for that (figuratively speaking).

The only differance is that with this same girl (a virgin as well), the situation is now reversed! I am horny as hell and about dieing over her, and she wants little to do with me. It was a girl I went out with a few years ago, untill she suddenly broke up with me after a vacation (I never talked to her about this, but I have a strong feeling she met somebody else during that vacation). Then one day she started droping a ton of sexual hints and pretty much begged me to take her virginity. I was completely single, but like you, wasn't feeling into her at all. I had a strange notion that I wanted to lose my virginity to somebody I loved. Today, about a year later, I'm kicking myself hard in the ass for that because I am now begging the same thing of her and she is acting the same way as I was back then. A taste of my own medicine I guess...

My point is, if you're feeling the same sex crave that she is and you are unable to get it elsewhere, I highly suggest you do it. To avoid the risk of any clingyness, just make sure she understands very clearly that you do not want a relationship afterwards - she'll probably say OK because she is so horny, and then all you have to do is holder to that.

fox, whatever happened to that girl? did you go? if you didn't, how is she acting to it?

dude, if you havent already just dont...
legal worries and plus c'mon its just street smarts ..shes a virgin..she has issues..this coul dreally hurt her in the long run..and what happens if her mom or dad do end up finding out or she wants more after because she didnt realize the emotional attactment that follows sex and gets mad that you dont want more and tells people...

Think about dealing with her parents if for some reason she gets knocked up. I think the word is Statuatory rape. The sex won't be overly satisfying anyways.

umm... i almost forgot about this thread.....


we don't talk as much anymore and the whole idea of it is fading away, i don't think she wants it anymore or at least as much... soo all is good

Age of Consent
 

From this thread..

Age of Consent Laws

Look down at both footnotes.. Something doesn't quite click for me. How do people come up with stipulations like this??

This is more like bad karma running over bad dogma. Fatal Attraction was already mentioned but that was the first thing that came to mind. I'm not a fan of having a rabbit boiled in a pot on my stove.