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03-26-2005, 05:28 PM
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crazyness.... someone wants me
okay, theres this one kinda crazy girl who i know who lives kinda far from me, she's meet one friend once and was obbessing over him, but was turned down.... now she's trying to get on me and wants to meet for sex... i've never seen her before, she's young for me, but still of legal age of consent.....
i reallllly don't know what to do.... i'm single and all, and it wouldn't really hurt anything to do it... i'm not really feeling it for her right now, i don't know why... theres a girl who is determined to have sex with me and she's horny as hell i'm sure if we meet, it could be fun.... she isn't very sexually knowledgeable, and she's a virgin who hasn't once masterbated.... but she really wants sex..... right now she is like trying to figure out everydetail of how to convince her parents to let her drive up here... shes thinkking about how to plan it agaisnt her period, what to bring, what to wear... and still theres a nice chance her parents wouldnt let her travel alone.... ... and one thing i know might also not work with her is the fact that she's a virgin, and wouldn't beable to actually enjoy sex off the bat... i'm not sure how long it would take for her to have pleasureable sex after it.. what should i do???
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03-26-2005, 05:34 PM
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AHH! Custom Title!!
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All I can say dude is that HOLY SHIT ARE YOU ASKING FOR IT!
With a chick that off the deep end, she's either going to latch onto your nuts and you're never going to be rid of her no matter what you do, or she's going to go completely the other direction and tell EVERYBODY about how terrible you are, making shit up and everything else. Are you really that hard up for sex that you'd put yourself into a position that has an almost 0% possibility of ending well?
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03-26-2005, 05:38 PM
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she doesn't know any of my friends and shes lives far away, soo nobody could know....
its that latching on thing is what i kinda fear, cause i don't want to hurt her feelings or anything......... i could allways play my chances and let her parents turn her down by not letting her come up too....... i just dont know!!! shes all over me, but seems to be more for the one day of sex than a relationship... i hope she is seriously counting her menstral period stuff up now to see when would be best for her to screw.....
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03-26-2005, 05:44 PM
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Don't put yourself in that position. From the female perspective, she is going to go through the 'cherry blues'. She will latch onto you like a suction cup after it's over. Unless you WANT someone clingy, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit and don't look back.
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03-26-2005, 06:50 PM
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That's what she said
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as exciting as it might seem on one end, you're really asking for a wild ride if you do anything with this girl... you won't be playing with fire, you'll be playing with a young girl's emotions... which can be far more volatile. sure, she seems all about it right now... but what if you do have sex and then she regrets it? that is a situation you do NOT want to be in. period. |
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03-26-2005, 07:11 PM
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you've never even seen her before? have you spoken to her on the phone? IM'd with her? do you know what she looks like?
if the two of you haven't had a good session of phone sex yet, I say that's the next step. also, just because she's past the age of consent doesn't mean you couldn't me in legal trouble, depending on her age, your age, and the state you live in. i.e., if you're 20 and she's 16, that might still be illegal.
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03-26-2005, 07:14 PM
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03-26-2005, 08:09 PM
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Yeah, I'm another one who thinks this would generally be a bad idea. Once again, she's either expecting mind blowing orgasmic sex, or a relationship out of the deal, and she'll probably get neither.
And to play up my shallow side. Watch out, web cams can lie. Oh boy can they lie. If she looks crazy, acts crazy, and talks crazy, chances are, she's crazy. And last thing you want is to wake up full of stab wounds, or that when she said "plan her trip around her period" mean "plan her trip around when she's most fertile" to try and bait you into a relationship with a kid.
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03-26-2005, 08:39 PM
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Location: Austin, TX
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Run away, Run away! Now!
Stalkers are bad man, I made the mistake of going on a date with a girl like this once. The topic of conversation over a few drinks quickly turned into how many kids we were going to have, and what flowers we would have at our wedding.... on the first date! Aaaaah!
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03-26-2005, 10:15 PM
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Fade out
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There are some moral implications here . . . she seems young and impressionable and probably wanting to rebel against her parents . . . You said you weren't that into it for some reason . . . listen to your inner intuition . . .
Think with your head, not your dick and see what answer you come up with . . . That being said . . . it's your life . . . but your decision on this could really affect this young woman's life . . . choose wisely for both of you. Thanks, Sweetpea
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03-27-2005, 05:25 PM
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today she said she thought about me all day when i got online this evening...
lol, i donno, i think it would be a fun experience, she's nice and all... the big thing that freaked me out was the age difference, since shes' the age of my younger brothers
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03-27-2005, 05:42 PM
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That's what she said
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also... if you do meet up with this girl, don't think that you will or have to automatically have sex. just take things one step at a time, don't rush into anything, and don't feel obligated to go through with something you're not really sure about... and make sure she's not having second thoughts either. |
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03-27-2005, 05:50 PM
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if i do anything, it will be what she wants, i'm not going to ask or really do anything she didn't want or ask for....
i'm talking her about it and trying to get her to determine why she really wants it.... it would be great for us to meet and hang out, but sex is alot to ask for, i'm going to be sure she understands what she is getting herself into before anything else
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03-27-2005, 07:08 PM
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Run, do not walk, as fast as you can in the other direction. Really. Your life will be better for it. I promise. This girl sounds like a total nutjob.
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03-27-2005, 07:23 PM
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she is more or less just super horny.........., she's really focused on it, she was the same for my friend before she was rejected, since he wasn't interested in a relationship
the way i see it, really horny virgin who wants the best time of her life, she even said she wants candles and stuff for when we do it if we do it.... but she's shy in preson edit: shes definitally one of the horniest girls i've talked to, lol
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03-27-2005, 07:57 PM
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I would not do that to someone. If they were that way, probably mean's she think's to get a guy to like her she has to be that way. Some thing happened to her when she was younger probably. I kinda feel sorry for her.
I think at 16 your too young to have sex cause your still a child your self. Some 16 year old's don't even know how to get birth control so it's kinda risky.
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03-27-2005, 08:08 PM
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Just one word for you: Run!!!!
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03-27-2005, 08:41 PM
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Don't do it. She doesn't know what she's asking for. She needs to meet a nice guy at her high school or something, not proposition strangers. She clearly has a serious issue with a lack of boundries. Do you want to play a part in something that ultimately will only make her feel worse about herself? Even from just a selfish point of view, this girl still sounds like nothing but trouble.
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03-28-2005, 12:13 AM
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Well, I'll join the chorus and say this isn't a good idea. Age of consent laws aside, she's a child, you're an adult.
It isn't your job to persuade her that she needs to find someone her own age, just that you don't think it's a good idea because of the age difference. She'll get the idea. She's going to find some guy to accommodate her, but it doesn't have to be you, and you may be putting yourself in line for trouble if you do. Let her down easy, don't lay blame, but don't have casual sex with this girl just because she's horny. |
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03-28-2005, 06:28 AM
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03-28-2005, 07:00 AM
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03-28-2005, 09:17 AM
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Location: Michigan
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I don't get how a girl can be that horny & have absolutely no idea what she's even going to be experiencing. I know what sex is like & yeah, I can see being horny after a while without it. Christ, I'm horny by at most the next morning after my wife & I have sex.
As everyone else has said above, you are getting yourself in over your head whether you realize it or not. Get a different phone number, change your online profile, get away & do it fast. As everyone on this board can probably spot, you are staring down the sights at a 100% basket case. You'd almost be doing this nutjob a favor by calling her parents & asking what the hell her problem is that she wants this so bad? She might have some other real issues. A 16 year old girl that's decent looking shouldn't have much problem getting laid (locally) if she's really interested in it. She's got major issues, keep them out of your life. Oh yeah, and RUN like the wind! |
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03-28-2005, 06:26 PM
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i'm gonna most likely just start rubbing her the wrong way, as in making myself less apealing.......
calling her parents isn't a idea. from what her friend says, she doen't have the guts to even actually do anything anyways if she had the chance, shes mostly all talk thank goodness she doesnt know anything about my location or phone numbers, lol
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03-28-2005, 07:27 PM
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i bascially summed up everything in this thread that was agaisnt us having sex, and told it to her.........
i talked about if she had any local guys and stuff too, then i talked about how she is going to feel after its done, she knows shes gonna have a hard ttime leaving and all... right now, if this gets called off, i want it to be her that calls it off soo she can understand why....... she did question my wanting to do this, she respects my opinion and will be okay with me saying no.. i told her what i felt about it and how i really wants right for her
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