fpgt91

Well I was thinking about getting a little kinky and using an ice cube on the gf and was just curious what some good ideas for the use would be. Like do I hol dit in my mouth and go around her body like that or do I use just my hands? If som ewomen could reply on what they would like done with an ice cube that'd be really helpfull.
Thanks in advance

Painted

Well, just dont use one when the windchill is in the negatives.

Coppertop

Last I checked there weren't any rules. Use your imagination and when she starts moaning, there ya go!

ratbastid

You want to ease into it with an ice cube. It's cold, see. A lot of cold all at once isn't sexy, it's shocking. Like jumping into cold water all at once. Not sexy. We guys aren't much into subtlety with these things, but exercise some restraint, or it'll be the first an last time you play with ice. Which would be a shame, cause it's fun stuff.

Start by holding her from behind and just barely grazing a corner of it against her shoulders and her arms and her belly. Don't move from those spots until she's tensed up. She'll be experiencing the cold, and thinking of where she wants it next. You want to move slower than her mind, keep her guessing and thinking ahead. Once she's gotten sort of used to the cold in the areas you started with, try running it slowly up and down her spine once. That should get a full-body shiver out of her. Then start running it in slow, gentle circles around her breasts. DO NOT go straight for the nipples. Let the nipples come to you. I'll leave you to your own imagination about what next. Just remember to go slow! Slower than that! Go 1/4 the speed you think you should!

Another great thing is to chase the ice cube across her skin with your mouth. The interplay of cold and warm is delicious.

Edit: Can't believe I forgot to say this... It should be plenty warm in the room when you do this. Hypothermia isn't sexy either.

lurkette

Just don't hold it on any piece of skin for too long - cold burns like a mofo! Learn how long is too long for your gf. That goes double for the naughty bits. I find that I don't like having my pussy touched with an ice cube even just a little, but I LOVE fingers/tongues that are cold from being in contact with an ice cube for a while.

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fpgt91

Right on thanks for the replies guys some really good tips for sure :thup:

robodog

Warming massage oil + ice cubes = LOTS of fun =)

Sbudda

I've had a lot of luck with inserting the cube into her and trying to suck the water back out. The difference in temperatures between the cube and my mouth really does a number on her. You have to warm her up to it first though - don't just go sticking it in. I think I used to warm her up to it by putting the cube in the mouth and starting out with a cold tongue, then tracing the outside with the cve in my teeth and finally pushing it in.

Also, holding the cube in your fist and letting it randomly melt and drip onto her worked very well too.

Also, a cup of warm water nearby is nice to have after your mouth is cold and she starts to get a bit chilly.

Man, I haven't done that in awhile. I need to rectify this oversight.

Pigtails

Put the ice cube in your mouth and then proceed to go down on her. Then there is the right amount of heat and cold and I love it!

Brooke

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yeah, input here.

most shocking thing my ex ever did - ice cube on the neck in the middle of a movie. it was warm and we were drinking ice water, and he starts to kiss me and all of a sudden it is hot and cold....
I think the reaction was me half comming out of my seat. not quite sure though, my brain kinda shorted out. If she has a sensitive neck, hold it in your mouth and work your way from the back of the ear to the base of the neck. verrrry nice.

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vox_rox

This is probably the best advice, for men or women, with men or women. Use the ice cube on the body sparingly, by tongues and hands cooled by ice can create the most amazing sensations.

As one previous posted intoned, creativity is the way to approach it, but less ice and more cool touch is a great rule of thumb.

Hey, thumbs! cool...

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imkeen

Great advice everyone. I haven't tried an ice cube in recent memory either. Ah, another TFP-inspired sexual adventure...

losamigos

wow, good tips. i've always wondered how its done. now i know, thanks

fpgt91

Wow, I'm so glad a friend directed me to this site. Some really good advise and I've already tested some from another thread I read over (The one on how to work the breasts) and I got nothing but good results, can't wait to try this with my woman

dman2

Gets me excited thinking about trying this on my wife. She will not likely be into it though. I wish she were more kinky or adventurous. Any advice on how to spice things up a little? Only been married 5 years and both of use under 30.

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mtnman323

wow..yeah. ice cubes are hot. pardon the pun

funkeodor

Well, as anyone can tell you, creativity is the key, and so is being persuasive. Just try something new and see how it goes over, such as handcuffing her and see what happens. in other words, JUST DO IT!

DJ Happy

I knew a girl who used to like having them inserted into her and then using them to cool down gin & tonics. She was a filthy beast. I miss her.

ItaCharm

Ice out of the icemaker is the best. The edge is pretty sharp so you can control the affected area better ;-)