mattgical

I used to chat in the AOL rooms all the time and the IM's would lead to sex talk. I've met so many girls online that I've had sex with. Just meet up and have sex. Usually just a one time thing, sometimes it turned into a booty call.

Anyone else with similar stories? Is yahoo chat a good meetup? I know it has a lot of spambots ruining the valid chats.

celticjester

I've come close to it many times but I've only done the deed once. Not alot of people in my area of Australia really into net met sex - unfortunately

The one i did meet we had dinner, and had sex in the car in her drive way at her house...

Interesting times *thinks back and smiles*

LoganSnake

I've met my current girlfrirnd in an AIM chatroom for my high school students. A friend of mine invited me there. They both knew eachother as well, so you could say that we've met through a mutual friend. She was the "loudest" one in the chatroom, got my attention, we started talking, then met the next day at school. About 5-6 months later we started going out...aaaaaand it's beem a year and two months since we started dating.

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Locs

Never have never will.

I was a Radio DJ for a few years and learned my lesson from females calling me, telling me how pretty they are etc.. Well, after meeting some after phone conversations I came to realize, sexy, pretty girls, are not sitting at home at 8pm Friday nights to call their local radio station.

Anyway, I learned that lesson, and will only meet people in person. I jus dont trust that crap...it could be ANYONE or ANY"THING", behind a PC.

kollege_gal2000

I've been there and done that. I've met a variety of people online and had sex with them. I also met what is now my good friend online. But, I wouldn't do it again. I got tired of the "booty call" life.

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Mango

I have. Met a 40 yo woman who had divorced her high school sweetheart and had not had sex for 6+ years. She was a snake in the sack.

I am currently in contact with a local guy who is part of a couple. When we get together he and I are going to play while his wife watches. Once she gets hot enough he figures she will join in.

Daoust

If I was young and crazy and promiscuous and I had a webcam I would probably have tried that. I think that's what AIM is really, truly meant for.

So here's a question for all... I like to IM a little bit (although not for the aforementioned reasons) and I am a teacher. So this past summer a number of my ex-students got a hold of my MSN address and have been chatting with me on MSN. So far, so good right? Now, here's where it gets tricky... the kids are 14 years old. I'm pushing 26. I talk to both boys and girls, but I do keep it very clean and professional. The conversations are always very short, and I'm very cautious about what is said by both parties. I now live 15 hours and three provinces away from these students. Personally, being in the situation I know my motives are clear. However, I wonder about the parents of these kids and what they would think if they knew their children were talking online to their teacher. My personal opinion is that they don't care. More to the point that they don't know, because most parents of 14 year olds don't know what their kids are doing. I realize that's a generalized statement. But whatever. I would appreciate feedback on the matter of my online discussions with my previous students.

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LoganSnake

Daoust, I've had a few opportunities to chat with my teachers online, but never did. One of the main reasons is that talking to them purely about school is boring as shit, especially since they were still my teachers at a time. Talking about personal things with them would feel weird because there's still that student-teacher difference. Now that I'm out of high school, I got a hold of my english teacher's email address and sent him a few mails. Very minimal of it was school related. Talked to him on the phone too. I think that once you don't have contact with your teacher, that boundary sort of dissapeares and both them and you feel more free to talk about everyday things, not just being professional.

I hope that made sense.

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WillyPete

I met my girlfriend, of almost 2 years now, online.

No, not through a dating agency or chatting, but through a bulletin board similar to this, but for snowboarding.

Now it may sound odd, but it's ecoming much more common place. Think of it as the village dance of the 21st century. Whereas in the old days you'd travel into the dance to hope you'd meet your future spouse, these days we go online to do the same.

Now I do realise the difference in my case. The site we were at was one where we both had a similar interest, making leisure time activities easy to match up and our resultant lifestyles were very similar.
We'd also met up about 2 years before we even started dating, during one of the forum meets in London. In fact I've not just gained a girlfriend, but about 30 new friends who all enjoy snowboarding.
About 16 of us are headed out to Tignes for a week in January.

Compare that to a lot of people who meet their partners at work, and you'll find that the only thing they really have in common is work. What do they have in common after 5pm?
It doesn't sound so creepy meeting someone from the internet now does it?

WillyPete

Daoust.
As a teacher, you'll know of all the ways in which things can be taken in the worst possible light.
I'd encourage you to at least turn on the history of the online chats and archive them regularly. All it takes is one kid with a bad day to ruin a career with a lie.

Daoust

I appreciate your feedback. I do this regularly. I know that some kids do take the opportunity to ruin a teachers career. I choose to not talk with those guys or girls. I know what you're saying though.

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Penndude

Many, Many times. As often as once a week when my wife and I were doing a lot of swinging....

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Never have, more than likely never will. It's just not my thing.

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jillian

i have met a few men through chatting because its the one place it seems acceptable for guys to show there goods... cant go to a club and see who has the biggest cock... but on yahoo its another story... ive met with quite a few couples but lately havent had much luck meeting ppl.... too many bots too many liars

jillian

they were all strictly "booty calls" though.. simply a means to satisfy a craving... as far as a relationship... dunno... havent really tried to look for one on there

torzola

i also met my love on a forum...

over a year has passed....

LIMilf

Met some girl online in High school. What a freak! But not sexually, just personality wise. 4 different colors in her hair, total weirdo. Stayed the night, but no sex. Met another girl in college, she said she was a little overweight. She was a lot wrong.

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frankx

I met several women online over the years. Some became girlfriends, some were just one night stands, some would be one night stands but would call me up later for romps. They have run the gamut from skinny as a rail to plump to downright fat. I also met my wife online.

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Echodork

I met my first girlfriend online, back before being "online" had anything to do with instant messaging (2400 baud or bust!). We chatted, we talked on the phone, we had phone sex, but we were both too young to drive and lived 45 minutes away from each other. During the course of our "relationship" I never met her. Then I found out, as so many other net-romance victims have, that I was just one of many guys she had cyber-relationships with. I cut it off immediately, and swore off internet dating forever.

I met her about a year after we broke up. She was a cow.

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gh0ti

Ive had a few experiances meeting people online, a few one night stands, a couple of bootie calls. I went through an experimental phase in college and wanted to try somethings. My gf at the time was pretty damn cool about it, heck she liked to watch. One or twice I met a guy and brought him home for my and my girl to play with.

Lots of fun at the time, If your into no strings sex then its the way to go, however If you want to feel any sort of attachment, then I would advise against it.

blar

never done it and i don't think i will i have learned that people usually don't use there most recent pic thus they lok totally different when you meet them

Daoust

Yeah it's totally false advertising. I've observed that women use the pic when they were like 13 and innocent and skinny and then you see them on the webcam and they're totally different people. I say people gotta be real. Be honest.
Maybe better, post a really average or maybe even slightly ugly pic and if you get some solid responses, show them the real you and they'll be impressed.

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maleficent

1:30am, I'm not sleeping.. .reading forums and chatting in the chatroom, i had forgotten that I had Yahoo logged in... I get an instant message from a name i don't know...

So I'm thinking... (and I think I said in chat...) it's 1:30 in the morning, and this is BFE, New hampshire, the 24 hour 7-11 closed at 9:00... where ya gonna go for conversation...

Ah- I'm not totally stupid - it dawned on me - Conversation with chemistry... that's what you crazy kids are calling it these days...

Pass - thanks...

my only chance to get laid this year... gone...

It just amazes me the boldness that people possess when they are hiding behind a computer screen, it shouldn't but it does.

am i really that behind the times - -do people really find people for a random fuck that way? is it successful?

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Charlatan

You are really behind the times... people really do find random fucks this way. I have a friend who partakes of this lifestyle... whatever.

A few years ago when I first discovered IRC I was invited to hook up with one woman. She offered to get a hotel room and all I had to do was show up... not really my thing so I passed.

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ShaniFaye

lol I wonder how many times in these forums I've answerd this kind of question lol

this is the FIRST time though I can state it like this

yep, thats how I met dave and we are now married

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Toaster126

I think as time goes by the stigma of meeting people from online will continue to disappear.

I've never met someone online for sex, but I think as long as both parties are honest about it, there is nothing wrong with that.

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SERPENT7

I met my wife through an online dating service. I was supposed to be a one-nighter for her. (I was only the second time she had ever had sex. I think she was just trying to get over her 'stage fright'.) Any way, 5 years later we are married w/ 2 kids! So yeah, i would say it can work out.

Hardknock

Sounds like fun if it wern't for all the diseases you could catch......

qweds

it happened once and was the worst sex of my life.

yeah...let's not talk about that.

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SiN

hm, well if we're talking about random hooking up ... yes it's possible, but i've never actually done that.

thought about it, when i moved back to the US I started a myspace page that was basically for 1. meeting local people 2. finding local people to have sex with.

but, i never really got around to having random sex with the few people i probably could've taken advantage of.

instead, I met my boyfriend, and don't give a rat's ass about random hookups anymore

(my previous bf i'd also met on the internet ... granted, that was long-distance (until i moved to germany to be with him) ..

so, yeah, i suppose, the internet is certainly a valid hook-up method, whether that be for random sex or finding someone.

granted, i'd be reeeeallly wary about random sex hookups without seeing lots of pics first.
and, watch out for the creeps. there's a lot of them. creepy guys, and creepy girls.

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dlish

im with hardknock on this one..STD hasnt popped up in this conversation yet... its not just about a fuck... anyone thought of consequences of sleeping with someone youve never met or know little about.

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Confederate

I've never done it just for sex. I've met people from online that went to my university, and once from my hometown but we were both college students. Most of them lead to friendship, and 2 lead to a relationship. But just for a booty call, I odn't think i could go through with that.

hunnychile

Nope....I'm old and married.

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fresnelly

I'm going to have to keep this one firmly in the realm of fantasy. I can only imagine the reality to be awkward and disheartening.

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CityOfAngels

I don't do this mostly because I'm shallow. I don't want to talk to a "voluptuos, busty, beautiful" woman only to find she doesn't fit my "Goddess" standards. I would feel bad for pulling her into a situation, only to go back on it and give her some lame excuse like, "let's be friends." I'm an asshole, but I don't like being one. I can't help being shallow, but I try my best to make it only an issue with me, and not force my shallowness on other peoples' lives.

Impetuous1

I'm way too old fashioned to meet someone online just for sex. I met my current boyfriend online but it was for a relationship. We were friends first. It just seems kind of tawdry to me. I wouldn't be able to get over the fact that I didn't really know this person. Also, I can only imagine the consequences.... What if they come back and they were lousy in bed? What if it turns out they're in a relationship and their SO comes after you? What if they have kids? Too much potential for drama if you ask me.

xxSquirtxx

Is meeting someone online for a one-night stand any worse than meeting someone in a bar and having a one-night stand?

I don't do this, I'm married, but I think it's a legit question.

How is it different than a bar scene?

Toaster126

In a bar, you can see what they look like and get a basic feel of if they are crazy before you interact with them.

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maleficent

well for one, it's a heck of a lot lazier, online.. in a bar, you can read body language and know who's up for it and who's not.

I guess in my case I was completely appalled that at the hour and the lack of approach - nothing in my profile stated that asking me this was acceptable behavior.

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