Men only: What do you think about being pleasured by a woman wearing a strap-on?
 

I used to have a pic of me wearing a strap on dildo on my yahoo profile. I don't chat that often, but when I did with that pic, I would get man after man PMing me to ask if I would do, might do, thought about doing a man with that thing.

The reality is that I never did anyone with it, ever. I bought it so a friend of mine could pop out of a cake wearing it for a mutual friend's birthday (long story).

A few women would PM me, but it seemed as if EVERY MAN was interested. My s/o and I have had discussions about this. He thinks that very few men would be open to being on the receiving end of it, but most women would be willing to do it to their man if he wanted it.

So, I am posting two polls. One for the women, one for the men.

Thanks for participating

I think this would be right up my wife's alley. Actually I guess it would be up my... Nevermind. This is something that I would have to say no to my wife about.

that's a big fat negatron voltron. my ex used her finger in my ass once and i didn't enjoy it.

That's something that I'd have to take a pass on.

i can't say that's a fantasy of mine. But you know, if I close my eyes and think of the chippendales maybe it could work. ;)

ONE WAY!
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While I won't go out of my way to do it, I am kind of curious. I've tried anal with myself, and she's done it to me, but the problem is, anything beyond a finger just doesn't seem possible. So it interests me, but it's not really at the top of my list of things I haven't done.

I've had it done before, it was okay, I'd do it again only if it wasn't a giant dildo or something, just something small would be okay.

Done it. Loved it. Will do again.

It was sort of improvised, so we need to buy something specifically designed for it.

Would NEVER even consider it.

I'd like to try anything once. This does seem a bit kinkier than I'm used to, but if it's something small I would give it a try. Especially if it excites her. The last part is more important to me for whatever reason.

Not much more to add to that... ;)

I like to think of my anus as exit only in 99.999 percent of the potential circumstances where it would be exposed to another human being. The one time is for the prostate check that :eek: is now coming my way since I've crossed the magical 40!

agreed....

I had a woman try it with her finger once with no warning. In about .00041 nanoseconds I was standing on the bed with my back to the wall and she had fallen off onto the floor when I screamed bloody murder.

Not gonna happen!

Gotta agree with this. I dont think I would ever suggest it, but if she was in to it enough I might allow it.

i have not done it but i would love to try it

Sounds interesting, and I don't have the aversion that some have expressed, so I'd probably do it.

I'm pretty open when it comes to new things, but concerning this, I'd have to decline.

I wouldn't want anyone to shove their finger or any personal property of theirs up my ass. I know where my ass has been and what comes out of it. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. :D

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I wonder how many guys on here are afraid to say yes they like it...

I'd imagine a couple, but not that many. Most of us are pretty open in here. Negative comments are frowned upon everywhere but politics, so its pretty safe to admit you like stuff that most dont.

Hi, my first post :D
 

It's an anonymous poll, so worst case scenario is that there are guys voting that they have done it or would do it, but then are posting messages that say they have no interest.

I think the poll results are going to be a good representation of what guys feel about this issue.

If she REALLY wanted it, I would give it a try. I would ask her to be careful and pick out a small dildo.

huh. i'm kind of shocked at the number of men who are so adverse to this. and honestly, i'm a a little concerned that many of you expect women to try (and usually enjoy anal sex). anyone want to contribute thoughts on why so many men are so afraid or anything going up their ass? it could very easily be argued that anal sex would be much more pleasurable for men then for women since men have a prostate gland to be stimulated....

Interesting to note that 100% of the men that have tried it, would do it again. :D

I think I'd have to pass on that. Had a girl surprise me once with a finger and didn't find it at all pleasurable.

I ain't going backdoor on anybody so I'll be DAMNED if anybody pulled that on me.
Call me closed minded but I'm going to have an anus that matches the mind.
Suffice to say ain't gonna happen. EVER.

If my girlfriend wanted to, I'd be willing to try. If I like it, good! If I don't like it, just too bad, won't do it again. Don't see what the big deal is..

Well, each to their own, but definitely not for me. Even if it might cause physically pleasurable sensations - and I figure it might, or it might just hurt, I just wouldnt want to do anything like that at all

My girl loves to get fucked in the ass. If it feels that good I have to try it.

Not for me. Not a phobia, just no interest.

My old one is kind of cheap. All of this strap on talk has inspired my s/o to try it out, so I ordered this from my wholesaler last night (I am a sex toy retailer)
http://www.mikoexoticwear.com/Mercha...nessad_sml.jpg Isn't it pretty? :love:

I haven't had it done, but my wife is getting into anal sex, so I told her if she wants to do it to me, I'd be ok with it. I'll try almost anything once.

BTW, Leah's Passion, if you wanted to do it, I would probably be ok with it. That picture in your profile is just yummy. :D

I won't expect women to try it either. My SO has said she will NOT try it, so I feel pretty safe not wanting to try it. She was pretty horrified at the thought when I brought this up to her. She is pretty kinky otherwise.

If I had a girl that would want to, I would give it a try. You never know- Might actually like it. Especially if we're already doing anal, it's her right to let me know how it feels :p

As my wife likes to say, I'll try anything once. Haven't so far, though.

I know this will sound so hypocritical of me given the fact that I love to take women anally, but I would definitely not want a girl trying to fuck me with a strap-on.

That's not me, sorry. I am a probably 10 lbs chunkier than that girl. I can't find the pic of me wearing one, so I posted that one instead. Maybe I should just take it off until such time as I can get a pic of me wearing my new one.

I've got a serious question for those who have tried anal. Doesn't it smell?? Ive watched porno's where a guy performs anal on a female then he pulls out and shoves it in her mouth and goes in her mouth. I'm just wondering how people do this and get by the smell? if it does at all?

no one that does anal should "stick it" anywhere else until they've washed, it can cause really bad infections for the woman

Yeah, those videos that show a man swapping holes without any breaks contribute to some serious delusions about the cleanliness of it.

That was a porno man. Nothing in porno's is like real life...thats why they're porno's. Those guys use stunt cum.

Asta!!

As to the smell, depends on how well the girl and or man has "cleaned up" (so to speak) before the act.

I have never tried but would be pretty open to it. It seems as though many men suffer from some (homo)phobia when it comes to their own hole. I don't get the whole "I know what comes out of it" argument. You know what comes out of your penis right? There isn't THAT big of a difference in that respect. Anyway, I guess it all comes down to your personal limits. Let's not be judgemental here...

I'd be willing to try it as long as my fiancee would get somethin out of it. I doubt I would be that tremendously much.

I've had a finger from my wife during oral and that is very pleasurable for me. Adds to the experience and all. I don't know about a strap-on. If she was really into it, then maybe. It would have to be a mostly psychological thing for her. I mean, if I am penetrating her, we both have sensation. If she is penetrating me with a strap-on... I feel it, sure. But what does she get out of it exactly? Any females out there who want to comment? Have you done this with your man? If so, did you get direct physical pleasure from it or was it a domination thing, control thing?

With the right person, I'd be open to trying just about anything. I don't say no to anything until the decision is in front of me, so I really can't tell now.

when my last girl friend would give give me a message she would some times grind aginest my bum. I really liked that a lot. moving from dry humping to anal, i guess it would have to be with a woman i trusted. Im not really to keen on anal sex anyways, but if a girl wanted to give it a try i would be open about it

Love-juice? Man-malade? Jerking Jelly?

I was trying to be funny, but I guess we'll have none of that here. To be perfectly honest, I have no interest in assholes. None. I have no desire to stick anything up mine nor stick anything of mine in anybody elses. Don't know why. Can't explain it. I also don't get the whole latex asphyxiation thing, tentacle rape or bukkake. I wouldn't consider myself a prude; I'm just not turned on by it.

Let's not be too quick to jump on the homophobe wagon. It's been my experience that the folks around here are, for the most part, brutally honest in all matters. Why wouldn't they be about anal sex? I'm sure there are a few who are harboring some pent up homophobia, but more than likely the vast majority just aren't interested.

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

And on the flip side, I'm not a closet homosexual for liking it.

A cigar is still a cigar. ;)

<----Anal sex virgin. (both ways)

I'd be into it! My wife has used her finger on me before and I came buckets. Whats with the homophobe comment?....its just sex....if it gets you off, why be ashamed?

That is *very* pretty indeed!

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Would I do it again? Most definitely

The idea has entered my mind a few times when giving oral to a lady. There I am, on my hands and knees, doing what I love to do most, with my butt up in the air, and suddenly it comes to mind, gee, now if we had another lady to join us we could try some kinky stuff, like ----

ehh.....not so much. We're a one penis family!;)

I'd be willing to try it, as long as my woman would let me get her there, which she won't. So this is moot. But you never know until you try it. And her doing this to you certainly won't make you gay.

Yea...gonna have to pass on the strap-on. It just doesn't really work for me.

Fear. People are afraid of the unknown. I used to be that way, but now I'm much happier.

I haven't done it, but would give it a shot if my girl suggested it. I've been on the giving end so it'd be kinda hypocritical of me to outright refuse the reverse. Who knows? It may open up whole new worlds of pleasure to me. If not, then I will no longer wonder if I missed out on something I might have enjoyed in this life.

I don't mind anal play at all, but I think a strap-on might be a bit too rough. For the record, I haven't 'pitched' on anal sex either, so that's not a double-standard.

I also find it telling that not a single person (as of this post) responded with this answer:

• I have done it, but would not be open to doing it again

I think that says a hell of a lot about the experience.

No, not really. I think it says that only someone who is sure that they are going to like it actually tries it.

I'd have to disagree. I wasn't sure I'd like it and tried it anyway.

Yup, tried it, liked it very much. I am sure a lot of the difinitive "no way" responses are due to the stigma that it is a "gay" thing. It doesn't have to be. Men have a serious erogenous zone down there and there is nothing wrong with a little experimentation. I have had fingers twiddling down there, but would be open to something a little more robust with my SO.....if and when I find an SO.

I'll pass on that experince.

i've only done it twice. once 2 yrs ago.. and once about 2 wks ago. both times w/ my wife. dont know the difference between the 2 times, but after this time, she said 'we're gonna have to start doing that more often.' she loved..... and i cant say that i argued with her. ;) its a really different feeling and after relaxing enough to enjoy it, it's great.

as far as what the women get out of it.. you can buy a harness with either an inverted vibrator or a vibrating egg. inour case we had neither but the friction of the harness against her still have her an orgasm. very unexpected but o' so wonderful. :D

yupp, I've dont it, loved it, did it some more, hope to do it more in the future :D

no interest in being on the receiving OR giving end. The idea of sticking my dick up a hole someone shits out of is disgusting, and would draw no pleasure shoving something up my own. No fear involved, I simply find the activity to be nasty, akin to shoving foreign items up my peehole.

In the spirit of openness...

I'd like to try, but the wife isn't interested in receiving or giving. I've resorted to trying it on my own, just because I find myself bored and looking for new experiences. During masturbation, a finger or dildo is also VERY effective... (showers are a good place to do this, given the need to wash)

hmm dont know if i would let that thing in my bum bum but maybe

OH gawd yess!!!!!!!!!

If that's really you in your profile picture, you could do anything you wanted to me with that thing. ;)

I have given myself anal with my wifes vibrator but I didn't enjoy it much. It made me feel like I had to take a dump (which I assume is normal), and I didn't access any g-spots. I did it to myself because my wife would never in a million years go near my anus or have me go near hers. I just wanted to see what it felt like. Probably won't do it much anymore...

I did this with my ex wife she said if you want to do it to me i'm going to do it to you and it acctually felt good but man it made me cum in a heart beat

I've had one gf use a vibrator onme, and another 2 use their fingers.. I must say those time have beent eh most instense orgasms I ever had. It's really the only time I can give up total control and enjoy myself..

as long as she was gentle and knew what she was doing I'd be open to it. Don't want to get a hemroid or something for being open minded.

I'd be into trying it but my wife when I mentioned it was totally not willing to entertain the idea.

Not sure why, but I have had fantasies about this recently. The way I picture it is on my back so she can jerk me off at the same time. I figure eventually I'll give it a go.

Debianuser, typically before you would do anal the "receiver" will clean themself up first with a...whatchamacallit...Enima, ya that's it. I know I wouldn't do it to a woman if I didn't know she was clean inside and out.

My girlfriend is against all anal. I'm not really into getting fucked with a strap on, but sometimes I wish she would just rub the buttle some while giving me head. And I would also love a rimjob. But like I said, she is against anal anything.
We did try the prostate thing, but it didn't work out good because of my girlfriend's "prudeness". Basically I just jerked off with her finger in my ass....it wasn't as good as if she was giving me some dome or jerking me off herself (at least that is what I think).
So no to the strap on, but yes to everything else.

If my wife came to me and said she wanted to try it I would have to say ok. After all, she lets me do her. If I said no she might not ever let me fuck her ass again. Who knows, might like it.

i dunno.....but i am guessing that some think that the girl will tell people what they done in bed

i saw this reason on television actually

lots ppl said theyd try that aneros or whatever toy
fewer than said theyd try this

just an observation

Quite nice, but looks pretty big... You may want to let him work up to that thing.

I have tried it and will do it again. It is quite fun, and the orgasms rock. Y'all ever seen the movie "Road Trip"... ya know... where the guy gets his prostate stimulated :crazy: Yeah baby... it's that good.

agreed...i wouldnt mind it sometimes...but there are times when i dont even want my ass touched lol :|

must be nice to get all this nice stuff inexpensively and plus if you wanna sell it you wanna try it out right? :thumbsup:

I would think that the girl would find it a turn on to be the fucker rather than the fuck. A domination thing.

This is not something that I would ever try. It isn't that I think it might somehow make me gay, it just doesn't seem that appealing.

[QUOTE=braisler]I've had a finger from my wife during oral and that is very pleasurable for me. Adds to the experience and all. [QUOTE]

Ditto.. My wife doesn this about half of the time that she is doing it... I'd also be willing to try anything once. Most that could happen would be that I did't enjoy it and we didn't do it again.

Really good question. I've seen the guys do that in some movies, and don't know how the heck the women can turn around and suck it without cleansing first. Maybe there is some sort of clear condem that the viewer cannot see and she pulls it off his dick before she sucks him?

anal??? with a strap on?? (no offence) but i think it is just wrong. my ass is (and will remain) a one way street>

I would certainly try it. My only concern would be my own cleanliness. I'd wanna take a shit for hours before trying this. I would feel awful if my s/o got an unpleasant surprise. I have used a finger on myself but I think it would be much better if I didn't have to do any of the work. Just relax and try to enjoy it. Alas, I also need to find someone who is willing to do it to me.

I'd be willing if offered, maybe. Considering some of the logs I've crapped out I'm well assured that I could take a tiny little strapon.

In most pornos they probably clean it off first. They probably cut to a new shot at some point between him pulling it out and her putting her mouth around it.

To answer this common misconception. In an Ass to Mouth (ATM) shot the person receiving the ass fucking has shit at least an hour before hand and has had an enima. Ass to Mouth is not so bad when used in conjunction with an enima. I certainly would not try it without an enima. It would be like gargling with scope and then sucking dick. Same idea just different hole.

I can't believe this is only the second post I've made on these forums, and I've already wandered into the realm of strap-on ass-fucking :rolleyes: .
Well, I haven't tried it, but I wouldn't say no if g/f asked. I figure if she'll do it for me...
Don't think it's likely to come up though.

I dunno.....I've seen it directly from one girl's ass directly to another girls mouth...in many pornos. Unless they have some great digital cut and paste technology for movies these days.
But I agree with the enema thing. I'm sure it helps.

*backs away slowly*

Definitely not interested in that! I do wish my wife was into receiving anal sex though as I would love to try that!!

I woudn't exactly call it being pleasured in my book.

Only if she's wearing it while making me a sandwitch. Now thats pleasurable.

mmmmm sandwitch

-fibber

Yeah, I'd be game. My wife is not into anal play at all, but a girlfriend from years ago was up for "playing the back nine" and we played with some toys. Let me say the best orgasm I ever had was here giving me a blow job and puling on a string of anal beads!