nah, I'll pass

It works for me
 

It's a gas as long as it doesn't become a session of brutality.

yeah, I'll pass, I'm very uncomfortable with my whole anal region...

just seems sick and wrong to me

i'd give it a go if she ever brought it up. i don't think i could bring it up. she's a bit prudish beyond the standard practice. a finger here and there is cool for now.

I'm not averse to it, but I'm not going to go after it either,
if it's something that a s/o is really interested in, I see no problem with it.

i wouldn't do it... unless if my lady had some deep desire too... i really don't like anal sex and wouldnt start any with her to begin with

I'm not really into the idea having anything shoved up there. I'm more of a pitcher than a catcher.

Not many places you can say that, eh?!

As for me, absolutely would I try it.

I've had a dildo stimulate my prostate and it's quite pleasurable. The only way I can think it would be better is if my honey was getting off on the other end of a double ended dildo and experiencing a little of what it is like for me.

i got my girlfriend into doing the whole finger in the bum thing when she is giving me head and that is hot and makes my orgasms so much stronger and more pleasurable and is just plain fun. I dont know if I would let her use a strap on, unless its pretty small and she wanted to do it, which I think she does since I got her into the whole anal play thing. She won't take it in the bum though and thats fine with me, maybe one day she will.

my butt is exit only...

My wife has been the receiver of anal sex/analingus/anal fingering in the past, so when she wanted to try it on me, I couldn't say no 1. out of respect that she had tried it and 2. just plain curiosity.

She mostly tried the finger, we never went so far as to use a strap on or any such device, but I would be open to trying it...

The finger itself was uncomfortable, but also very exciting... although a large strap on would be VERY uncomfortable and painful, I suppose I'd be willing to try a smaller sized one at some point.

Well that provokes a thought of emense pain with no pleasure...so No..NEVER...I wasn't made for this.

Tried it... couldn't be a regular thing, but on occasion, I'd be willing again.

sounds hot...just need to find the right lady.

*wanders off in search...

Wow... Almost 50/50... :)

post moved, cause I put it in the wrong thread....couldnt find the female one

As I said it before in this thread, I love to give women anal sex and I love the feeling of a hot tight ass around my dick... But I have a hard time imagining what a woman would get out of fucking a guy in the ass with a dildo or strapon since a strapon doesn't have nerve endings.

I think women who are into ass-fucking guys with strapons do it for the power trip or because they just want to get back at guys for liking to take them up the ass... I don't see what a woman gets out of it.

It's not something I really ever think about... but I'll try anything once.

never done it have, never been intrested in it, never will be

I'm up for trying anything. However, I don't see myself ever finding a lady that would be willing.

Slam! (the sound of my mind going shut)

Um, no thanks.

isnt that kind of a selfish way to look at it?

Why should it be about what the woman gets out of it? Dont you ever do anything for your girl that is for HER pleasure when it does nothing for you? Can't it just be about knowing you're doing something that your partner greatly enjoys. What about when a woman gives her guy a bj and nothing else? There are LOTS of times that I know Dave has had a bad/tiring/etc day and I give him a bj when we go to bed to relax him....what do I get out of that? Whats the difference between onesided oral and using a strapon?

and as a sidenote...I have gotten off doing it....the strapon hits the "right" places and causes clitoral orgasms.....BUT Id do it even if it didnt because I love nothing more than knowing that IM doing something that my partner enjoys very much and satisfying him is what its all about.

I got a big kick out of this question, which I got off of the Suicide Girl RSS feed: ADVICE: Does My Boy Want a Wiener In His Butt?
:lol:

Ummmmmm negative.

no never thank you

Sign me up! Only problem is my wife is not up for it. :o(
Any ladies here willing to make me their bitch?

Sure why not, up for a lot of different things.

Edit: For lack of real penis. :D

If she asked i'd give it the college try. I could see a finger or something small no huge strap on or anything thank you very much. If I don't like it no harm no foul and i don't seem like a jerk for asking her to let me do the same to her. Boy now that I think about it that would be real awkward that''s for sure!

Sorry, my ass is definately exit only.

I've had a finger up my ass, and enjoyed it. I would like to try being on the receving end of strap on sex.

I dont mind a girl fingering my ass but the strap on thing looks scary.

Absolutely down for it. I've spent far too much time with my own fingers up my ass to say no, and I also don't want to be a hypocrite. I just need to find someone who's willing to give it a go.

There are so many great ways to experiment and experience sexual things... I am sorry I waited so long to try anal play. The strap-on with your woman is great and sexy and has some interesting power exchange concepts. However the real deal is for her to use a dildo with her hand - massaging/pounding your prostrate. You must communicate and guide her and use lots of lube. The initial feeling is a little strange, but once you are comfortable- this play can send you to another planet (Uranus!)- seriously want a new kind of orgasm that will send you body into a tremor and put a moan on your lips...an no this is not just a gay thing.
OK so the best, cleanest is to do an enema before you play and make sure that you do not present her with any surprises. This is not that difficult for the reward you reap.

I'd definately do it any day.

I enjoy having my ass played with and my plug is certainly fun, but it still hurts like crazy going in...so I don't think I'm ready for the strap on just yet. I need to get loosened up. :hmm:

Just don't like the idea of it, don't think I would like it.

Not a chance in hell. Not a road I would ever take when experimenting.

I think I've said it before in a thread in Wayside but for records sake, If it was with someone i trust and care for and they want to try it I'm game. I'll try everything once.

I prefer to keep rectums one way streets thankyou. That goes for both sexes.

I'm just not into that.

strap ons are scary...they just look painful and brutal and have an S&M connotation to them (no offense to S&M ppl out there)
and I like having my ass played with, but not in a S&M brutal way, just a pleasurable way

biznatch kind of summed it up for me
they look scary, they are sort of tied with s&m, which for the most part I don't enjoy at all. now if you knew for sure the woman would be gentle... and the strapon penis was like extra extra small.... id still probably not lol

you know, the reason why it may have seemed that *every man* was interested and messaging you over yahoo was probably because it was the internet :p

no thank you.

That would just hurt too much to even try, guys just aren't built to do things like that, especially me.

Up t3h bu++ R0X0RZ

No thank you, please.

i'd be willing to I guess, but I'd have to be in a very horny mood. It'd be cool to feel the women on you for a change.

I second that

yeah i'd give it a go! why not.

that i think could be a good point, seeing as how No guy would just be shooting the shit with their friends (no pun intended) and be like "yeah, so i had my [wife/gf/fb/whatever] stick their (finger, dildo, strap on, whatever) and it was freakin' awesome!"
although an older person if they had really good and open friends its feasible, i guess

i have never used a strap-on on my boyfriend, however, he does like a finger shoved up his ass right before he's about to cum. he's never brought it up, and as we have an extremely comfortable and understanding sexual relationship, i'd think he would have mentioned it by now. too bad - i'd be willing! but i definitely understand why he might not.

Ummmmm… turned on by it? (Just a guess) :rolleyes:

Oh, please…. Sex is a give and take. It should turn you on to turn someone else on. Your way sounds a little one-sided. If a girl breaks down and fucks her man in the ass because he ASKED her to, and said he’d been fucking himself for years, and wanted to feel an actual woman on the other end filling him with pleasure, would this still be in your opinion, a power trip for the woman?

Now, what does she get out of doing something that drives her man wild? Hmmm, let me guess; A dripping wet, swollen, throbbing, hot, pussy? (Again, I'm just speculating)

I think you need to free your mind... ;)

I wasn't opposed to a finger up the pooper but a strap-on was a no way thing for me.
Until I had a dream two nights in a row about it. Now I'm curious. But I may go the Aneros route instead.

I guess I'm not very adventurous. If my wife came at me with one of those things I would be afraid, very afraid.

:lol: BWHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAA!

No thank you... I'm a giver, not a taker.

With the way most strap-ons sit, it rubs on the woman's clit. You can also find strap ons that take vibrating bullets without too much trouble. There are even ones that use a double headed dildo, so one end goes in the women, and one into whomever she's penetrating.

I dont know about being pounded with a dildo, but one time, I was getting a blowjob by my girl and right when I was blowing she pushed her finger in. Not hard and not far, and it definitely took the orgasm to the next level.

pinkie, he didnt bother to answer my questions along that line either

This doesn't make you homosexual. The fact of the matter is, whether you are straight or gay, every man has a lot of nerve endings in and around his pernium.

Next time you are with your partner, have them rub your scrotum, sides of the scrotum, or the pernium (the area between your scrotum and anus). Tap it, or give it a little push (no, not that hard!). If it's rythmic and awesome enough, your partner will soon be on the stratosphere in no time!

For those ladies who want to do it, hey, all the power to you. You could think of it as dominating your guy! For those who don't know, you can get strap-on harnesses with vibrating bullets.

I don't know what else to add. But guys, give it a try. You shouldn't be disappointed.

Girls, if he was gay, it's no problem of yours. Of all the men I know who weren't gay but now are, I think back on it and find myself saying "Somehow, I knew he would be some day". So don't worry about turning your man gay or something, because quite frankly, there are millions of other straight guys to choose from in the dating pool.

My GF has put a finger in there and a mini handbag sized vibrator in there which was quite nice actually (used a bit of vaseline on the vibro) so i suppose it could be enjoyable, but i'd be too worried about

1. her staring at my hairy, lubed arse (possibly smelly and brown after deep penetration)
2. maybe following through when she pulls out (thus resulting in having to buy a new mattress)
3. not being able to walk properly
4. anal injury

Just an FYI... NONE of the above will happen if you are both open and willing to try this and don't let fear get in the way of the potential fun. :) Try to be more comfortable with your arse, no matter what it looks like. You should clean yourself down there anyway beforehand, so it shouldn't smell too bad (store-bough enemas help). She knows what she's getting into (literally), and as long as you take things slowly and with lots of lube, #3 and 4 will not happen. I'm not sure what #2 means... but it doesn't sound possible.

Believe me, I've tried a strap-on with my boyfriend, and we were alive and well (and enjoying it) throughout the whole process and afterwards! See our thread on the same topic: http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=83111 :thumbsup:

never really thought about it, dont think i would without some sort of mind altering substance tho

When i mentioned following through, i meant crapping the bed. No-one likes to see that, do they?!

I do! Well you should be able to avoid that if you do an enema beforehand.

My wife is REALLY into it. Odd at first, but, well, sure!

JC

My wife won't even discuss the topic of Anal..."exit only" is her relpy! I'm jealous!

i think that it is an interesting idea but i would have to pass. maybe if i was into it, but hay to each your own, what ever gets your rocks off

no thanks. however, if it was real important to my woman i'd want to talk it through and see why. then decide.

I lost a bet with a girl friend once and the loser got rear ended.

After the initial entry and a few minutes it was very erotic and once I relaxed she drove deep and hard. It literally blew my mind (she took care of the rest later).

Now I look for women who enjoy doing it.

Rock ON.

my girlfriend hates anal. she won't let me stick anything in her ass, she won't stick anything in mine. i don't really mind, but it is something down inside in which i only wonder if...

What if most of the men who are interested can think of it only with a stranger :) some one online or someone with whom no strings attached ? at least the first time ???

Nope. I don't mind a rim job, and I don't mind a little finger going in during a BJ, but dildoes are going too far. When it comes to anal, I am perfectly happy to stay a top, not a bottom.

I wouldn't mind it, though I have to say it'd had to be small

This is a long lived thread for sure!

I do it with my wife every now and then, nothing wrong with it in my opinion and she gets off on it too, so everyone is happy! and as mentioned the orgasm is totally mind blowing.

I would let the wife go there if she wanted to, at least once, though preferably with something much smaller to begin with. Really not an issue in my world though since she would probably be totally grossed out by just the thought. Not something I am going to be asking for though.

That shit is exit only.. especially for a straight dude

I voted "I have not tried it, but I would be willing to". I'm not up for it for my own pleasure, it would be about fulfilling a partner's fantasy or desire. That being said I would expect the partner to be very open to fulfilling my own desires/fantasies.

Straight or gay really has nothing to do with it. I've never been attracted to another man, but sex with an anal plug was a whole new interesting experience, and I look forward my fiance trying a strap-on someday.

the straight label really does nothing besides exclude male intimacy...if its with yourself or a woman i don't see how anything could be accurately labeled as gay...a woman putting something in a mans butt is about as gay as masturbating...anyone who qualms at the IDEA of an object going in a mans ass and instantly calls it gay regardless of whether another man is involved or not likely has some insecurity issues with their own sexuality...my two cents...anyway, i'd try it with my girlfriend if she wanted to, why not

Yes, prostate stimulation, should be extremely pleasurable, straight men do this kind of thing all the time.

Have done it and do it on a weekly basis, I love my strapon girl

No i'm most certainly straight, I just don't enjoy things being shoved up my ass

Yet some entirely straight dudes enjoy it. Some guys find great pleasure with having their prostate stimulated internally.

Uh, first of all the women make sure they're clean, which basically means they take a shower and use an enema, Or maybe they just use an enema. Either way they make sure there is no fecal matter in their anus before they get fucked. Clear enough?

Sounds like that would be somewhere between uncomfortable and painful. I'll pass.

Then again, I'm just not into the idea of anal to begin with.

I love it when my wife dresses as an alien and I dress as a back woods hick. She abducts me and begins the anal probing.

It's very hot.

I'm into the concept of prostate tickling as it's called, but I don't think I could do a strap on...

I am a 21 year old STRAIGHT male. My girlfriend and I have sex atleast 5 times a week and its part of our usual practice. It feels great. It has made me a better love knowing more on how to penetrate after being penetrated. We both get a turn on for the kink of it. And the best part (Besides the AWESOME ORGASM) is the open and trusting bond that it gave us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Without meaning to sound trite "pleasure" isnt exactly the thing that comes to mind when thinking of this prospect.

Obviously to each their own, but I would break up with a girl instantly if she threatened me with someone like this.

it is not safe to do this unless you really know your partner. that is porn, not reality.
Yes it can be messy. Some use an enema prior to play but there is always a chance for something to come out.
Love receiving a strap on and always will.

not that i have anything against it, i'm just not curious about it and it doesn't seem like something that sounds enjoyable to me