phoenix1002

I'm not sure if this should go here or in the health section, and I'm a bit nervous to actually post this, but here goes.

I just had sex for the first time yesterday, and at one point when she was on top, I slipped out, and she came down, and my dick bent a little. It wasn't comfortable, but there wasn't any extreme pain or a popping sound, or any of the other things that I've heard generally mean that its broken. However, it's been hurting for most of today. There doesn't seem to be any sort of bruise or anything, and I don't think there's any sort of abnormal bump or anything, but I was wondering what I should do. Should I just give it a few days and see if it goes away, or should I go to health services (at my school) and get a referral if its necessary? I'm probably making a big deal out of nothing, but I haven't had to deal with this kind of thing before, and if there is actual damage, I want it to heal as soon as possible. And I'd also like to not be hurting when I see my girlfriend again in a week and a half. So anyway, sorry about the rambling nature of this post. I appreciate any suggestions anyone can give me on what to do.

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daswig

leave it alone for a few days.

I've injured myself (and sometimes my partner, but that's another story) plenty of times while engaged in sex, and as long as there are no broken bones, and you're not bleeding heavily, you'll be fine.

CityOfAngels

Actually, if you're in a lot of pain, I highly recommend seeing a doctor. I've had the same thing happen to me, only I didn't have any recurring pain later on. Maybe you strained something.

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Ambiguity

Why fuck around with the most important tool in the box? Get it checked out man.

wombatman

Truth be told....it could be sore just from the actual act. There's just nothing quite like it.

avhg1

If you're in real pain see the doctor. Otherwise I'd give it 2-3 days to recover. If it's still sore, go get it checked out. Never hurts to get it checked out.

denim

While there's no bone in there, you can break your penis. The scenario described is one way to do it. If you're in actual pain, see a doctor quick.

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clavus

No popping? It's probably alright. If it hurts tomorrow go see a doc.

Here's a little trick: next time she is on top, place your hands under her ass with your middle finger and ring finger dead center on the "gluteal crease" (just under each butt-cheek). If she's getting a little crazy up there, and it feels like she's going to come down on you wrong, give her a firm squeeze, and say "careful". It won't hurt her, but it will make her pay attention.

Do this a couple times and eventuially you can just substitute the squweeze for any verbal warnings. Its a nice nonverbal way to keep your partner on the same wavelength.

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Val_1

It is possible to sprain the penis.

Here's sa link from Dr Drew .

If I still had my medical encyclopedia, I'd look it up.

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Paxton_Free

Ah!

This weekend I was doing my girl from behind. When her ass came in close, I had a belt that I smacked it with (kind of like an arcade game). However, as we went on I wasn't paying attention and brought the belt down (fucking hard) when her ass was away and smacked the hell out of my balls!

She thought it was hilarious. I was doubled over for 20 minutes.

Paxton_Free

And I know that was off topic, but had to share it.

thanks

avhg1

Good Doggy You can also roll up a newspaper and swat around her. It just sounded funny the way you put that.

minyn

yea yea it did avhg...but i understand what he's saying. sometimes us gals just go crrraaazzzy and yea its all fun and games till something slides the wrong way.

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clavus

Ya. I get that a lot.

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GTI

Last year I busted one of the blood vessels that run into the penis and I will be the first to tell you IT HURT! I was doing some of best work that morning in fact I was showing off. Then I heard something that sounded like someone snapping thier fingers. Immediately I felt pain and swelling. I went to the Dr. and nothing could be done. I had to allow a few weeks for it to heal. Funny part of it is when the Dr. asked how I did it, he chuckled a little and told me to be careful next time. Depending on how "hard" you do it or if a slip occurs you will experince a little discomfort. I recommend you going to the Dr. if you feel that it is uncomfortable. If you take care of your body it will take care of you.

Irishsean

Popping out and then slamming into her pubic bone trying to get back in hurts! But who can balme a guy for trying to get back in quickly, its warmer in there!

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MSD

It's amazing to see what you learn about your friends on the internet. Also rather funny that I missed this thread browsing this board for the past few days.

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Jay You Dee

I've done that before, it hurt for a couple of days, then just went away and was good as new again. But yeah, it hurt like a motherfucker when I first did it and the next day. Made me sadfaced all over.

The ABSOLUTE WORST though was when my girlfriend was giving me a handjob in the theatre. I didn't really feel the fact that my zipper was rubbing the side everytime she slid down on it. So, afterwards she gives me head, the like two hours later, then the next day - and at that time she looked at me wierd and said she tasted blood. I was like "Wtf, where is the blood coming from, am I like a vampire?" I had no clue and she went on, but the second she touched it again I knew where the fuck it came from. Zipper shaved off most of skin, and then the head 3x over the next 12 hours just kinda rubbed it all off. Then I felt it, then I hated life, then I didn't get head for 3 days while it healed up. ALL AROUND BAD SITUATION, I URGE YOU TO WEAR SWEAT PANTS OR A BUTTON FLY FROM NOW ON!

KarmicLaw

Personally, I almost broke my girlfriend's nose with my elbow when, I dont know exactly what happened, we were trying to go from standing to sitting without 'disengaging' and we lost balance and fell... rather wildly... it was bad.

In residence here, I know this guy, and I have a couple witnesses to the aftermath that will testify. Well he was with a girl and she was giving him a little manual action and she apparently was a little 'rough' and on a downstroke she ripped his foreskin. It apparently bled profusely over both of them and they had to get an RA to come in to give medical aid. But at least the RA was hot!

thefictionweliv

Not so much a sex injury but full of hilarity nonetheless, I was taking a piss one time and everything was quite and normal till I finished up and as I was zipping someone banged on the bathroom window causing me to jump and pinching the head to the zipper, and the skin didn't bleed or rip you could see it coming out the other side of the zipper. Left me with quite a painful bruise for a week.

clavus

This is from my friend. He is a surgical nurse.
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If your girl is on top, riding you like some kind of mechanical bull, make sure
you keep it in 'some' hole, 'cause you can fracture you penis. You know how
we fix it? We de-glove it to allow for the swelling. What is de-gloving you
ask? We split the skin down to the 'muscle' and peel it back a bit (quite a bit).
Then throw some big sutures in it leaving a gap. We bring you back later to close
it up. (And we leave a drain in it, much like your foot had, dude)

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Averett

Sweet Jesus clavus!

I'm going to be very, very careful from now on

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lunchbox

okay so I was hoping to get a humourous thread about people hurting each other in none valuable parts during sex when I read this it makes my john thomas hurt. This makes me want to take it nice and slow rather than pounding when I see my girlfriend in 27 days... eiik.