Amarth

I didn't know where else to post this... so if someone needs to delete this... whatev. (There's probably a better place for it, but I just felt like venting.)

Anyway... I've had a lot of bad relationships in the past. One girl was bipolar who loved me and then hated me instantly. One girl was a feminist control freak who had to have complete dominance in the relationship socially and sexually. One girl friend was an average good girlfriend who found a better boyfriend while I was away (no spite there). And many random hookups who only liked me cuz I have a big dick.

Anyway... I finally found the perfect girl... or maybe she'll eventually be added to the list above. She's a schitzo. She's the most beautiful girl in the world. She just went to college and decided it was a very transitional time and not the time for a relationship. I sat aside for a few weeks and watched her hook up with random guys. Eventually I got tired and forced her to a decision. Me or random hookups. She chose random hookups. Anyone want to kill me? This is a venting post. I just had to release some emotion. Sympathy anyone?

Flyguy

At least you won't get herpes (or worse) from her.......

Just trying to cheer you up a bit. Don't worry man, it's all good, the right one will come.

Seaver

I think you need to look at why you keep going after the psycho ones.

Honestly ask yourself if you're a masochist and enjoy the drama and rejection... I had a friend who went through that forever until I sat his ass down and made him look at himself and the reasons why. Now he has a steady girl who's no only hot, but is cool as hell.

Oh yeah... if she wants random hookups over you she's not perfect now is she?

Y2KDREAD

Go find a nice normal girl, and just realize how nice things can be with her. There are many girls out there, and the few that are crazy are not the best for the majority of people.

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Rodney

It's important to be there for the person you're in a relationship with. But they've got to be there for you, too, or at least be seriously working on it. If they're not at that point, don't wait for them, 'cause they're probably never going to get there. I'm glad you forced the issue with that one girl and made the break; but you should have done it sooner, or written her off as soon as she made the decision.

Sounds harsh, but remember: young women on the average aren't any wiser, kinder, or more mature than young men; they're just a little more subtle, and they have different goals (if they've arrived at the point of having goals yet).