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It's important to be there for the person you're in a relationship with. But they've got to be there for you, too, or at least be seriously working on it. If they're not at that point, don't wait for them, 'cause they're probably never going to get there. I'm glad you forced the issue with that one girl and made the break; but you should have done it sooner, or written her off as soon as she made the decision.
Sounds harsh, but remember: young women on the average aren't any wiser, kinder, or more mature than young men; they're just a little more subtle, and they have different goals (if they've arrived at the point of having goals yet).
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