No masturbation
 

I decided to test myself. I made a promise that I would not masturbate for 30 days...or until I see my girlfriend again, whichever comes first (she lives out of town currently). I'm at the end of day 4...and it's been so hard. (no pun intended) Last couple days I've been wanting to just explode, there is so much of something building up that it feels like I'm gonna just pop. Maybe I"m over reacting...I've gone this long w/o doing it before, but usually just cuz I didn't have time to.

Anyone else try this before? I can't tell you exactly why I wanted to, I guess for a lesson in self discipline, and self denial. Also, there is a point when desensitization happens.

Wish me luck,

Dave

exercise is the answer my friend, burn off all that horny energy at the gym. works wonders.

It's not impossible, but it's not easy either.

Believe it or not, I've once gone 60 days without any sex or masturbation whatsoever two summers ago because my girlfriend wasn't around. Apart from doing exercise like Spidey recommended, I'd also advise you to steer clear from all pornographic material and anything remotely erotic.

If you have porn in your hard drive then delete it all. And if you have any porno magazine either stash them away or burn them.

The first few weeks will be hell, but afterwards you'll get used to it and it won't be a problem (as long as you keep yourself occupied with enough activities that you won't feel a need to go looking for sex).

Just don't go to a gym where there's hot girls working out. I've made that mistake.

From what I've heard on Loveline of similar situations, don't be surprised to start having "wet dreams" like you were 12 years old. The body stores all this stuff up and it needs to get out somehow, even if you're not trying to do anything.

Just fair warning. :)

get yourself busy in somehting else...or go somewhere totally put-offing

i masterbated weekly(as opposed to daily) when i 1st joined college....later i find the gigs og porn on the LAN :D

I have gone a little over three months at a time with out petting it,I dont have many suggestions except
www.uglypeople.com

Nothing helps you to maintain your self control like a good plan,sound morals,and a witness.

Hang out with the boys

Abstainer, n. A weak person who yields to the temptation of denying himself a pleasure. ~Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary, 1911

Not what you had in mind? *evil grin*


I am,
indeed,
a king,
because I know how
to rule myself.
~Pietro Aretino, 10 May 1537,much better.

Or

Everything you see I owe to spaghetti.
Sophia Loren, actress

One of those should benefit you. :)

Good luck.

Hehehe thanks guys.

I exercise regularly...I'm usually at the gym 5 or more times a week. I'm kinda hoping the extra testosterone will help me with more power in my workout. :)

BTW, the mornings are the worst.

Tell him to go back to bed. Wake up at watch the 700 club,He will be bored back to sleep in no time.

but what do I know? I dont have a penis.

The wet dream cometh, or in your case, cumeth. Good luck.

One word: Why?

Maybe he's trying to test his limits and determine the extent of his will power...

When I read this it made me think of 40 days and 40 nights, haha. It is gonna be hard. The longest I have ever lasted is 21 days, after that I pretty much decided it was too fun to give up. Good luck to you!

It's the new X prize. There are only so many things that test the will of man. Breaking into outer space and not masterbating for weeks on end.

Frankly, the 2nd might be harder. No pun intended.

I'm sure this thread will help relieve you of your stress...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/forumdi...p?s=&forumid=3

Strength in numbers
 

Harsh, so very harsh. Oh, and this may actually help you:

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...e&pagenumber=1

I will join you, my friend.

Its not easy, esp. when youve wanked 3 X a day for years (exagguration)

Re: Strength in numbers
 

I thought there was a thread like this on here before...you proved my point.

Hmmm, I kinda feel like joining a Wank Free TFP this time around... Mabey we should get this going again? I'd be "down" with it for awhile.

One question previously pondered on this thread:

Why?

Well...I caved. I went a solid 6 days tho :-/

:lol: you went a whole six days!! Sorry, that's not funny. :D I guess it just proves to me that guys really are a bunch of horny toads. I never realized how often ya'll jerk it!

That needed proving?

How do catholic priests handle not "storing" up...and yes Im being serious...so no choir boy jokes :)

Hey, its mine and I'll wash it as fast as I want to.

i did 3 months once...and get ready for the wet-dreams buddy.....they're good...but after that long...they leave quite the mess!

Not for everyone my friend. Going to gym can make me quite horny, sure a good workout exhausts you, but the next day/morning? I need to release all that extra energy.

Anyway, the only way I find to keep my mind off it is to work hard all week, every week, and to be too damn tired to do anything at all. Also, hide the porn.

But really, if you are not getting sex, why would you want to deny yourself the next best thing? To me, it's a basic human right...

Man I've never tired this I wonder what would happen. I think I am going to take the challenge and see how long I can go before I go crazy. Wish me luck!!!

My gf is out of the country for the next 6 weeks. I would try this but when i have an extra 5 minutes and am in between tv shows or something, i'm like a masterbating zombie, it just happens. Plus what if you went for like a month without doing it and then you got into some freak accident and lost your arms?

Well the plan was to wait until I saw my girl again, she doesn't move here for about 6 more weeks.

LOL I totally had those same thoughts! What if something happens to me, and I can never do it again!? I kept trying to justify it :)

there was a non-masturbating club on here once, it was funny, the longest anyone went was like 3 weeks... lol. Those were the good 'ole days...

dude, don't exercise as some have said. The extra testosterone will increase the libido, not decrease it. I speak from experience. I workout in the early mornings, but the time I come home and in-between getting ready for work, I am yanking it. Then at night, because I have energy from the afternoon, I have to go at it again. Can't help it, just super horny and it is a direct correlation from working out.

You caved in anyways, so mute point now.....

Maybe we should have a moderation club, instead of a abstaining club? Since I'm sure a lot of us wank it daily (or more so), and orgasms are better with moderation, we all strive to reduce the quantity and increase the quality?

I read it takes 4 days to reload, so I'll try for a 0.25 wank/day ratio. *shudder*

it's like that movie 40 days and 40 nights!

I say...based on tis thread that we start a club / comp once again. I personally believe it's more a matter of will power vs basic libido. My gf is leaving too for 2 months....and I would like to see how well / long I can go without any yanking. I am good to go starting on Monday June 28th! Who else is with me?!?!

Would love to but "god helps those who help themselves", so I will be wank-full while you suffer.

MASTER OF YOUR DOMAIN!

Count me in!!

It's already been going on 5 days for me!!!

I just had a 37 day stint of no wanking. I just kind of realised that I hadn't done it in two weeks and I tried to see how long I could continue the trend. I even watched quite a bit of porn. The only effect that I noticed is that I got mad a lot quicker than normal. I had much more road rage than usual.

Ultimately I figure that when I'm 100 years old and my dick works like a slinky, that I'll probably regret every time I could have had sex and didn't. I'll probably wish that I yanked my chain more often.

Alright, well lets get this going! Should we put it in our sigs again or something? Mabey a new thread so more people join in?