No masturbation
 

I decided to test myself. I made a promise that I would not masturbate for 30 days...or until I see my girlfriend again, whichever comes first (she lives out of town currently). I'm at the end of day 4...and it's been so hard. (no pun intended) Last couple days I've been wanting to just explode, there is so much of something building up that it feels like I'm gonna just pop. Maybe I"m over reacting...I've gone this long w/o doing it before, but usually just cuz I didn't have time to.

Anyone else try this before? I can't tell you exactly why I wanted to, I guess for a lesson in self discipline, and self denial. Also, there is a point when desensitization happens.

Wish me luck,

Dave

exercise is the answer my friend, burn off all that horny energy at the gym. works wonders.

It's not impossible, but it's not easy either.

Believe it or not, I've once gone 60 days without any sex or masturbation whatsoever two summers ago because my girlfriend wasn't around. Apart from doing exercise like Spidey recommended, I'd also advise you to steer clear from all pornographic material and anything remotely erotic.

If you have porn in your hard drive then delete it all. And if you have any porno magazine either stash them away or burn them.

The first few weeks will be hell, but afterwards you'll get used to it and it won't be a problem (as long as you keep yourself occupied with enough activities that you won't feel a need to go looking for sex).

Just don't go to a gym where there's hot girls working out. I've made that mistake.

From what I've heard on Loveline of similar situations, don't be surprised to start having "wet dreams" like you were 12 years old. The body stores all this stuff up and it needs to get out somehow, even if you're not trying to do anything.

Just fair warning. :)

get yourself busy in somehting else...or go somewhere totally put-offing

i masterbated weekly(as opposed to daily) when i 1st joined college....later i find the gigs og porn on the LAN :D

I have gone a little over three months at a time with out petting it,I dont have many suggestions except
www.uglypeople.com

Nothing helps you to maintain your self control like a good plan,sound morals,and a witness.

Hang out with the boys

Abstainer, n. A weak person who yields to the temptation of denying himself a pleasure. ~Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary, 1911

Not what you had in mind? *evil grin*


I am,
indeed,
a king,
because I know how
to rule myself.
~Pietro Aretino, 10 May 1537,much better.

Or

Everything you see I owe to spaghetti.
Sophia Loren, actress

One of those should benefit you. :)

Good luck.

Hehehe thanks guys.

I exercise regularly...I'm usually at the gym 5 or more times a week. I'm kinda hoping the extra testosterone will help me with more power in my workout. :)

BTW, the mornings are the worst.

Tell him to go back to bed. Wake up at watch the 700 club,He will be bored back to sleep in no time.

but what do I know? I dont have a penis.

The wet dream cometh, or in your case, cumeth. Good luck.

One word: Why?

Maybe he's trying to test his limits and determine the extent of his will power...

When I read this it made me think of 40 days and 40 nights, haha. It is gonna be hard. The longest I have ever lasted is 21 days, after that I pretty much decided it was too fun to give up. Good luck to you!

It's the new X prize. There are only so many things that test the will of man. Breaking into outer space and not masterbating for weeks on end.

Frankly, the 2nd might be harder. No pun intended.

I'm sure this thread will help relieve you of your stress...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/forumdi...p?s=&forumid=3

Strength in numbers
 

Harsh, so very harsh. Oh, and this may actually help you:

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...e&pagenumber=1

I will join you, my friend.

Its not easy, esp. when youve wanked 3 X a day for years (exagguration)

Re: Strength in numbers
 

I thought there was a thread like this on here before...you proved my point.

Hmmm, I kinda feel like joining a Wank Free TFP this time around... Mabey we should get this going again? I'd be "down" with it for awhile.

One question previously pondered on this thread:

Why?

Well...I caved. I went a solid 6 days tho :-/

:lol: you went a whole six days!! Sorry, that's not funny. :D I guess it just proves to me that guys really are a bunch of horny toads. I never realized how often ya'll jerk it!

That needed proving?

How do catholic priests handle not "storing" up...and yes Im being serious...so no choir boy jokes :)

Hey, its mine and I'll wash it as fast as I want to.

i did 3 months once...and get ready for the wet-dreams buddy.....they're good...but after that long...they leave quite the mess!

Not for everyone my friend. Going to gym can make me quite horny, sure a good workout exhausts you, but the next day/morning? I need to release all that extra energy.

Anyway, the only way I find to keep my mind off it is to work hard all week, every week, and to be too damn tired to do anything at all. Also, hide the porn.

But really, if you are not getting sex, why would you want to deny yourself the next best thing? To me, it's a basic human right...

Man I've never tired this I wonder what would happen. I think I am going to take the challenge and see how long I can go before I go crazy. Wish me luck!!!

My gf is out of the country for the next 6 weeks. I would try this but when i have an extra 5 minutes and am in between tv shows or something, i'm like a masterbating zombie, it just happens. Plus what if you went for like a month without doing it and then you got into some freak accident and lost your arms?

Well the plan was to wait until I saw my girl again, she doesn't move here for about 6 more weeks.

LOL I totally had those same thoughts! What if something happens to me, and I can never do it again!? I kept trying to justify it :)

there was a non-masturbating club on here once, it was funny, the longest anyone went was like 3 weeks... lol. Those were the good 'ole days...

dude, don't exercise as some have said. The extra testosterone will increase the libido, not decrease it. I speak from experience. I workout in the early mornings, but the time I come home and in-between getting ready for work, I am yanking it. Then at night, because I have energy from the afternoon, I have to go at it again. Can't help it, just super horny and it is a direct correlation from working out.

You caved in anyways, so mute point now.....

Maybe we should have a moderation club, instead of a abstaining club? Since I'm sure a lot of us wank it daily (or more so), and orgasms are better with moderation, we all strive to reduce the quantity and increase the quality?

I read it takes 4 days to reload, so I'll try for a 0.25 wank/day ratio. *shudder*

it's like that movie 40 days and 40 nights!

I say...based on tis thread that we start a club / comp once again. I personally believe it's more a matter of will power vs basic libido. My gf is leaving too for 2 months....and I would like to see how well / long I can go without any yanking. I am good to go starting on Monday June 28th! Who else is with me?!?!

Would love to but "god helps those who help themselves", so I will be wank-full while you suffer.

MASTER OF YOUR DOMAIN!

Count me in!!

It's already been going on 5 days for me!!!

I just had a 37 day stint of no wanking. I just kind of realised that I hadn't done it in two weeks and I tried to see how long I could continue the trend. I even watched quite a bit of porn. The only effect that I noticed is that I got mad a lot quicker than normal. I had much more road rage than usual.

Ultimately I figure that when I'm 100 years old and my dick works like a slinky, that I'll probably regret every time I could have had sex and didn't. I'll probably wish that I yanked my chain more often.

Alright, well lets get this going! Should we put it in our sigs again or something? Mabey a new thread so more people join in?

There is a thread like that already going on. Probably buried by now. I forget what it was called...

Uhh, no thanks. I know my limits, and quite frankly, I don't care to see how long I can go without it.

It's all I've got in that respect, so I'm certainly not giving wanking up at all.

Although waiting a few days in between wanks does make for a more enjoyable experience though, so maybe like 4 or 5 days or something, but most certainly not 30 days plus.....

I couldn't handle it.... (no pun intended)!!

Well that lasted about twelve hours. My domain has long since been paved over and turned into a strip mall.

does a little massaging but not to the point of cumming count as jerking off though? id keep track in orgasmns. (yes i know about blue balls)

When you get the urge, think of your mom. That should harsh your desire. If it doesn't, then wanking too much is not your biggest issue.

:p

I would say it doesn't count....but honestly I dont think it's healthy to get yourself too excited and not finish. That's part of the reason I caved in...

I held off for three weeks, then i realized that it was pointless and caved :D

success guys...i made it all day yesterday without doing it

good job. It gets so much more difficult with each increasing day. You'll level off at about day 5.

I guess I wasn't clear, I caved in 12 hours time:D

I can go a while without masturbating. And I don't even think about it. I've gone a couple of weeks without it even crossing my mind. Other times I'll do it every chance I get. No idea why it's so erratic like that

I've gone 6+ months. Why? Because I lived in a 10x10 room with a guy and his girlfriend. I wasn't going to do it in the shower (that's just rude), so I just avoided thinking about it. I would regularly go like 30+ days without it in high school, since I lived in a small apartment with my family, with both parents not working, and an older sister. I had very little time to work it.

The only problem is the wet dreams, which come at random, inopportune times (sometimes in a few days, sometimes in a month).

Bollocks to it i'm gonna do this also

Just for a laugh :D

Re: No masturbation
 

REALLY? For how long?!

Shit i'm stopping right now :o

see, if you lived in Canada, our health care would pay for blow jobs for life!!

:crazy: :lol:

I can't even imagine going an entire month. After 5 or 6 days the
first female I see (in real life or on TV) with a low cut shirt
and big boobs gets me in the horny mood and I do it about 8 times
that day. Although, I do have to admit, the first one after stopping
for 6-7 days is ... AWESOME.

Alrighty.....so let's start this up!!! I declare the beginning (of the end)..haha....honour system in effect folks......girls are 2 to 1 (just because it isn't in their wiring like us dudes)....kidding......so it's officially day number one! Good luck to all.

I'm not sure on peticulars such as wet dreams.....can someone shed some light on this one?

I'm out

I haven't wanked it on my own in a few years... Damned wife catches me and insists on finishing it up for me... OH the sadness.... well, not really, I LIKE IT!

I endured TWO months forced hands-off with a hyper religious company commander in Navy boot camp. When I did finally get some "quality time" to myself after this ordeal, let's just say that ! gave Peter North a run for his money.

My prostate would never forgive me.

well day two...and I tell ya....the more you konw you shouldn't do sumthin....the more you want to!!! I took a quick look over at the titty board...and almost lost it....man o man...gotta remeber to nt go there....in the next couple of weeks. Otherwise all seems the same!

When I was a freshman in college, I lived in a dorm with 2 other guys and had no privacy. I couldn't snap it for about 6 weeks until I went home for the weekend. When I did finally get my chance, it felt like the first time again! Plus, I went at it 2 more times within a couple of hours...all without visual aides.

You'll have a little trouble sleeping a few days in the first week, but you'll be proud that you had control over when you hit day 60. Think of it this way....when adding up the total days in your entire life, 60 days isn't so long. Keep that in mind.

Not possible. Spank it at will and enjoy every minute of it :D

I mean really...why build up all that stress when you can pop and drop sauce and be just a happier dude for it. Unless you are a dudette in which case well...there would be no droppage of sauce but you'd still feel better.

plus i think so clearly after i finish.

About two months ago I starting seeing this new girl (well, lets just say we have a very strange relationship, right Y) and for the entire first month and most of the second (about 2 weeks) I never spanked it. It wasn't that I was testing myself, just didn't have the desire. It was the wierdest month and a half of my life.
Maybe I am just getting lazy

same thing happens to me when I start seeing someone new

Do guys really wank it that much that they need to take these sort of measures in order to practice self control?

hahaha... Good episode.

Ha ha ha....It makes me think of the Seinfeld episode where they bet each other who can go the longest with out being "the king of their domain" (masterbating)
Of course as a man, it really depends on the outside stimulation you receive. If you go to the gym to work it off, you can count on watching some young hottie stretch and bend right in front of you. Then of course, we are bombed by sexual inuendos all day long by marketing and TV, so staying at home doesn't really help. All I know is that the longer my wife and I go without sex, the harder it is to stimulate her (get her in the mood) and the easier it is for me to pop in record time. I think it is just a cruel joke played on us by nature it's self.
Good luck my friend:p :hmm:

And one more thing about spanking off: I recall reading somewhere that regular ejacualtion can reduce the overall risk of developing prostate cancer later in life. ;) :thumbsup: I'm all for a regular sex-plosion even if it's self inflicted!!

Hah I know Im a little late to comment but I went I tihnk maximum of two weeks, and it really is just to see how long you can go usually, and plus you figure by the time you're back with your girlfriend its gotta be DAMN good (that or you'll last 5 seconds with her before you explode lol). heh btw this is the first time I posted here, I've spent the last month or so perusing the titty board but I decided to broaden my TFP horizons =P

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...e&pagenumber=1


This topic has already been discussed as I posted on the first page of this thread (in case any of you have missed it.)