CheeseButtons

I decided to test myself. I made a promise that I would not masturbate for 30 days...or until I see my girlfriend again, whichever comes first (she lives out of town currently). I'm at the end of day 4...and it's been so hard. (no pun intended) Last couple days I've been wanting to just explode, there is so much of something building up that it feels like I'm gonna just pop. Maybe I"m over reacting...I've gone this long w/o doing it before, but usually just cuz I didn't have time to.

Anyone else try this before? I can't tell you exactly why I wanted to, I guess for a lesson in self discipline, and self denial. Also, there is a point when desensitization happens.

Wish me luck,

Dave

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because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3

Spidey

exercise is the answer my friend, burn off all that horny energy at the gym. works wonders.

doncalypso

It's not impossible, but it's not easy either.

Believe it or not, I've once gone 60 days without any sex or masturbation whatsoever two summers ago because my girlfriend wasn't around. Apart from doing exercise like Spidey recommended, I'd also advise you to steer clear from all pornographic material and anything remotely erotic.

If you have porn in your hard drive then delete it all. And if you have any porno magazine either stash them away or burn them.

The first few weeks will be hell, but afterwards you'll get used to it and it won't be a problem (as long as you keep yourself occupied with enough activities that you won't feel a need to go looking for sex).

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Jesus Pimp

Just don't go to a gym where there's hot girls working out. I've made that mistake.

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clockworkgreen

From what I've heard on Loveline of similar situations, don't be surprised to start having "wet dreams" like you were 12 years old. The body stores all this stuff up and it needs to get out somehow, even if you're not trying to do anything.

Just fair warning.

nukeu666

get yourself busy in somehting else...or go somewhere totally put-offing

i masterbated weekly(as opposed to daily) when i 1st joined college....later i find the gigs og porn on the LAN

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SixEdxMia

I have gone a little over three months at a time with out petting it,I dont have many suggestions except
www.uglypeople.com

Nothing helps you to maintain your self control like a good plan,sound morals,and a witness.

Hang out with the boys

Abstainer, n. A weak person who yields to the temptation of denying himself a pleasure. ~Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary, 1911

Not what you had in mind? *evil grin*


I am,
indeed,
a king,
because I know how
to rule myself.
~Pietro Aretino, 10 May 1537,much better.

Or

Everything you see I owe to spaghetti.
Sophia Loren, actress

One of those should benefit you.

Good luck.

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CheeseButtons

Hehehe thanks guys.

I exercise regularly...I'm usually at the gym 5 or more times a week. I'm kinda hoping the extra testosterone will help me with more power in my workout.

BTW, the mornings are the worst.

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SixEdxMia

Tell him to go back to bed. Wake up at watch the 700 club,He will be bored back to sleep in no time.

but what do I know? I dont have a penis.

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Honey,We're home.

No surrender

The wet dream cometh, or in your case, cumeth. Good luck.

Aladdin Sane

One word: Why?

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doncalypso

Maybe he's trying to test his limits and determine the extent of his will power...

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punx1325

When I read this it made me think of 40 days and 40 nights, haha. It is gonna be hard. The longest I have ever lasted is 21 days, after that I pretty much decided it was too fun to give up. Good luck to you!

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clockworkgreen

It's the new X prize. There are only so many things that test the will of man. Breaking into outer space and not masterbating for weeks on end.

Frankly, the 2nd might be harder. No pun intended.

nanofever

I'm sure this thread will help relieve you of your stress...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/forumdi...p?s=&forumid=3

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Originally Posted by Norseman on another forum:
"Yeah, the problem with the world is the stupid people are all cocksure of themselves and the intellectuals are full of doubt."

strife

Harsh, so very harsh. Oh, and this may actually help you:

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...e&pagenumber=1

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strife

redarrow

I will join you, my friend.

Its not easy, esp. when youve wanked 3 X a day for years (exagguration)

SexyCat

I thought there was a thread like this on here before...you proved my point.

TopRamen66

Hmmm, I kinda feel like joining a Wank Free TFP this time around... Mabey we should get this going again? I'd be "down" with it for awhile.

Nitrox

One question previously pondered on this thread:

Why?

CheeseButtons

Well...I caved. I went a solid 6 days tho :-/

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because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3

Redgirl

you went a whole six days!! Sorry, that's not funny. I guess it just proves to me that guys really are a bunch of horny toads. I never realized how often ya'll jerk it!

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Bill O'Rights

That needed proving?

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"I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires." - Susan B. Anthony

"Hedonism with rules isn't hedonism at all, it's the Republican party." - JumpinJesus

It is indisputable that true beauty lies within...but a nice rack sure doesn't hurt.

ShaniFaye

How do catholic priests handle not "storing" up...and yes Im being serious...so no choir boy jokes

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fhqwhgads

Hey, its mine and I'll wash it as fast as I want to.

hossified

i did 3 months once...and get ready for the wet-dreams buddy.....they're good...but after that long...they leave quite the mess!

ultra_agent9

Not for everyone my friend. Going to gym can make me quite horny, sure a good workout exhausts you, but the next day/morning? I need to release all that extra energy.

Anyway, the only way I find to keep my mind off it is to work hard all week, every week, and to be too damn tired to do anything at all. Also, hide the porn.

But really, if you are not getting sex, why would you want to deny yourself the next best thing? To me, it's a basic human right...

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dabossy2k

Man I've never tired this I wonder what would happen. I think I am going to take the challenge and see how long I can go before I go crazy. Wish me luck!!!

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big perm

My gf is out of the country for the next 6 weeks. I would try this but when i have an extra 5 minutes and am in between tv shows or something, i'm like a masterbating zombie, it just happens. Plus what if you went for like a month without doing it and then you got into some freak accident and lost your arms?

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CheeseButtons

Well the plan was to wait until I saw my girl again, she doesn't move here for about 6 more weeks.

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Sorrow is better than laughter,
because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3

CheeseButtons

LOL I totally had those same thoughts! What if something happens to me, and I can never do it again!? I kept trying to justify it

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because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3

herostar

there was a non-masturbating club on here once, it was funny, the longest anyone went was like 3 weeks... lol. Those were the good 'ole days...

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water_boy1999

dude, don't exercise as some have said. The extra testosterone will increase the libido, not decrease it. I speak from experience. I workout in the early mornings, but the time I come home and in-between getting ready for work, I am yanking it. Then at night, because I have energy from the afternoon, I have to go at it again. Can't help it, just super horny and it is a direct correlation from working out.

You caved in anyways, so mute point now.....

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DelayedReaction

Maybe we should have a moderation club, instead of a abstaining club? Since I'm sure a lot of us wank it daily (or more so), and orgasms are better with moderation, we all strive to reduce the quantity and increase the quality?

I read it takes 4 days to reload, so I'll try for a 0.25 wank/day ratio. *shudder*

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hossified

it's like that movie 40 days and 40 nights!

I say...based on tis thread that we start a club / comp once again. I personally believe it's more a matter of will power vs basic libido. My gf is leaving too for 2 months....and I would like to see how well / long I can go without any yanking. I am good to go starting on Monday June 28th! Who else is with me?!?!

water_boy1999

Would love to but "god helps those who help themselves", so I will be wank-full while you suffer.

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-Homer Simpson

dfence

MASTER OF YOUR DOMAIN!

jumprun

Count me in!!

It's already been going on 5 days for me!!!

primal

I just had a 37 day stint of no wanking. I just kind of realised that I hadn't done it in two weeks and I tried to see how long I could continue the trend. I even watched quite a bit of porn. The only effect that I noticed is that I got mad a lot quicker than normal. I had much more road rage than usual.

Ultimately I figure that when I'm 100 years old and my dick works like a slinky, that I'll probably regret every time I could have had sex and didn't. I'll probably wish that I yanked my chain more often.

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TopRamen66

Alright, well lets get this going! Should we put it in our sigs again or something? Mabey a new thread so more people join in?