Sir wangs a lot

My g/f is going to be home in about 20 minutes, and our sex life has sucked as of late.

So today, I'm going to live out her fantasy: Me in total control of her.

So far, I have:
A Lighter (for heat)
A Candle (for wax dripping)
Handcuffs (duh)
Her bathroom robe rope (silencing her, tying her legs)
A whip (duh again)
2 Vibes
Lube
Aprhodesic oil and a feather.

Can anyone give me some advice or more things I could quickly and easily find?

la petite moi

Mmmmmmmmmmm...sounds soooooo fun.

I think you have a lot of good stuff. Make sure you have a safe word though.

JStrider

duct tape baby!

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la petite moi

Oh yeah, for the mouth. Heck yeah.

Sir wangs a lot

She just got home, she's in the bathroom. Let's see how this goes!

fallenangel

-duct tape
-paddle, or some sort of spanking device
-silk scarves (or similar)
-candles and music (of any sort, i just find it heightens things a bit)

-me! (sounds like a fun night, hope everything goes well, just remember to pick a 'code word' ahead of time just in case anything happens?) *woohoo!*

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ratbastid

Thing about candles is.... when you see candle-wax play in movies, they're using 100% beeswax candles, which melt at a very low temperature. You can actually cause 2nd degree burns with non-beeswax candles. I don't recommend playing with wax on her unless you've first tried it on yourself and see what it's like.

True for anything you want to do to her, actually. Whack yourself with the whip a few times, see what it's like at various levels of intensity. You can't really know what experience you're causing for her otherwise.

lurkette has a silk robe, the belt from which makes an AWESOME whip. It's all soft and silky, and it's great to drag it across her, and the whip it around and ZAP her with. Yum.

Redlemon

It is now 11 hours since his last post. It either went really well, or really badly. I'm thinking the latter. This doesn't seem to be the kind of thing you want to just throw at someone without some discussion first.

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Rrrgh. I HAVE to read these messages closer before I post. Nevermind, I'm off to clean my contact lenses...

noahfor

yea well even though it already happened, id have to agree with the duct tape, when i have a roll of duct tape there is no getting away for my girlfriend

ruggerp11

update!

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la petite moi

UPDATE UPDATE!!!

moonstrucksoul

heh heh he heee, o my this ought to be good.

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Sir wangs a lot

Alright, update:

I walked her into her room, and blindfolded her immediatly. The room was pitch black before when she came in.

I came up behind her, whispered in her ear that I was going to take total control of her, and that tonight she was mine. I groped her tits from behind, took her shirt and pants off, and walked her to the bed.

I then handcuffed her (I was going to handcuff her behind her back, but it was really uncomfortable for her, so I just told her not to fucking move her hands in a very mean voice, which I never do). Then, I tied her legs together with the bathrope, and then tied that to the bedpost.

I put her on all fours, and spanked/whipped/rubbed her all over. I made her respond to me only as "Master", and I basically made her scream it any time she said it.

(FYI- I've never acted like this. Ever. I'm totally docile and like to be dominated, so this was a huge turn on for her).

If she fucked up, by either not calling me "Master" or by making too much noise when I spanked her, I "punished" her. That involved walking away so she didn't know where I was, or putting a lighter *close* to her so she could feel the heat. She fucking loved it.

Then I forced her to suck me off for a minute, which is also weird, because I hate even putting my hands on her hair when she does it normally. After gagging her once or twice, I rolled her onto her stomach.

I then began whipping and slapping her tits (my girl doens't have "boobs", she has some nice fucking tits) and telling her she was my slave. She was loving it. I took her bra and panties off and began playing with her. I told her I had to go "prepare" something (the candle), and she asked if I was leaving. I totally went into domination mode.

I got up on top of her and asked if she thought she was in control. I told her I was the one calling the fucking shots tonight, and that she needed punished now. I slapped and whipped her tits and made her suck me off some more. She loved it.

So I got the candle burning and began playing with her again. She fucked up again by not calling me master. I dripped some wax onto her back, and she said "Ow, stop, *codeword*". I apparently dripped too much wax, but she said it was ok and to continue on. We've used wax before, but I just used too much.

So we began again. I began fingering her and licking her tits. She made a noise, and I went off agian. I tied the bathrope around her mouth (which changed the codeword to knocking on the bed 3 times). I tickled and teased her for a few more, and then began my first "game."

I told her I was going to go balls deep in her for 60 seconds, and if she didn't move, she would get the right to speak back. She did very well, so I allowed her to talk again. I then made her suck me clean (telling her that her nasty juice got all over her master, but I did mostly wipe it off before hand). More teasing, more playing, and then the lighter.

I began by just flicking the flint. Just the noise made her gasp. I held the lighter approx 2 inches away from her, and moved it all over her body. She would writhe and wrench away from it, but eventually she began moaning when I placed it close to her nipples.

After this, I was incredibly horny, and she was an amazing slave. I slowly untied her legs, undid her handcuffs, and began making love to her. About halfway through, I pulled her blindfold off and kissed her into a ten minute, wall moving orgasm.

I think I could get into this.

la petite moi

WOOHOO!

fallenangel

HOLY SHIT, own me... right now. *sigh* that was great i'm glad you enjoyed it... i'm still working up to having someone dominate me, i mean really dominate.

any takers...

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Tuffy_McGee

LOTS and LOTS of ATTITUDE!

Redlemon

Glad to hear it went so well, and very glad to hear you have codewords in place. Thanks very much for reporting back!

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sexymama

Awesome -- sounds like a great time was had by both of you! Ah, I'm looking forward to the day -- soon, soon, soon.

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ruggerp11

*claps*

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Polyphobic

Wow!

I don't think I should be reading this post at work.

*presses the back button repeatedly*

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moonstrucksoul

woot woot

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Sparhawk

That was some well-planned sex! A great example that good sex doesn't have to be spontaneous!

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cas305

Wow don't check the board for a couple of days and look what you can miss, nice job!

omid

you are my hero. hahah.

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Chuckles

Damn you, DAAMNN YOU! <--- jealous!!

World's King

Shit on her chest.

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Ananas

Well, uh, well...

I'd like for you to lord it over me. That was hot. Well thought-out, planned and executed.

Now, if you'll excuse me....

Captain Nemo

Dude, I'm telling you, so many people don't realize that sometimes you just need to step out of the comfort zone. To me a comfort zone isn't a defined space. It keeps getting bigger everytime my wife and I get experimental. For example, she had absolutely no idea that you don't have to swat lightly with a riding crop. She was getting into it so much the other night (well, so was I) that she said she hurt her elbow.

Yee haw

dman2

Great stuff.

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ShaniFaye

That sounds like one of our nites!!! I've been in the lifestyle for a long time.....and hope to be for a long time to come

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KinkyKiwi

*sigh* own me too!!

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bad jane

very hot, glad to hear it went so well!