Alright, update:
I walked her into her room, and blindfolded her immediatly. The room was pitch black before when she came in.
I came up behind her, whispered in her ear that I was going to take total control of her, and that tonight she was mine. I groped her tits from behind, took her shirt and pants off, and walked her to the bed.
I then handcuffed her (I was going to handcuff her behind her back, but it was really uncomfortable for her, so I just told her not to fucking move her hands in a very mean voice, which I never do). Then, I tied her legs together with the bathrope, and then tied that to the bedpost.
I put her on all fours, and spanked/whipped/rubbed her all over. I made her respond to me only as "Master", and I basically made her scream it any time she said it.
(FYI- I've never acted like this. Ever. I'm totally docile and like to be dominated, so this was a huge turn on for her).
If she fucked up, by either not calling me "Master" or by making too much noise when I spanked her, I "punished" her. That involved walking away so she didn't know where I was, or putting a lighter *close* to her so she could feel the heat. She fucking loved it.
Then I forced her to suck me off for a minute, which is also weird, because I hate even putting my hands on her hair when she does it normally. After gagging her once or twice, I rolled her onto her stomach.
I then began whipping and slapping her tits (my girl doens't have "boobs", she has some nice fucking tits) and telling her she was my slave. She was loving it. I took her bra and panties off and began playing with her. I told her I had to go "prepare" something (the candle), and she asked if I was leaving. I totally went into domination mode.
I got up on top of her and asked if she thought she was in control. I told her I was the one calling the fucking shots tonight, and that she needed punished now. I slapped and whipped her tits and made her suck me off some more. She loved it.
So I got the candle burning and began playing with her again. She fucked up again by not calling me master. I dripped some wax onto her back, and she said "Ow, stop, *codeword*". I apparently dripped too much wax, but she said it was ok and to continue on. We've used wax before, but I just used too much.
So we began again. I began fingering her and licking her tits. She made a noise, and I went off agian. I tied the bathrope around her mouth (which changed the codeword to knocking on the bed 3 times). I tickled and teased her for a few more, and then began my first "game."
I told her I was going to go balls deep in her for 60 seconds, and if she didn't move, she would get the right to speak back. She did very well, so I allowed her to talk again. I then made her suck me clean (telling her that her nasty juice got all over her master, but I did mostly wipe it off before hand). More teasing, more playing, and then the lighter.
I began by just flicking the flint. Just the noise made her gasp. I held the lighter approx 2 inches away from her, and moved it all over her body. She would writhe and wrench away from it, but eventually she began moaning when I placed it close to her nipples.
After this, I was incredibly horny, and she was an amazing slave. I slowly untied her legs, undid her handcuffs, and began making love to her. About halfway through, I pulled her blindfold off and kissed her into a ten minute, wall moving orgasm.
I think I could get into this.