If an attractive stranger asked...
 

I was having a bit of a disscussion about this yesterday and it was pretty much unanimous (probably cause it was 4 guys and 1 girl). Anyway, if an attractive stranger or person asked you to sleep with them, would you?

This was done on some human body or human instincts dicumentary, where an attractive guy and girl went around asking people if they'd sleep with them (it was pretty much all heterosexual though). Of course, 90 plus percent of guys said yes and the guy got a fraction of that response, which i guess could be anticipated. But i thought this may be a curious excercise/poll?

basically just state your sex/gender and your response, the poll is independant of sexuality as well :D

I would not. I am a girl, and I am completely committed to my SO. He is way more attractive than anyone else.

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male and Hell Yes I would... I gotta sew these wild oats sometime!

haha i saw that documentary!!!

And yes, i would... if i were single, and am right now i guess

ok, assuming you're single and everything. This isn't about infidelity as such, moreso about the ease etc you're inclined to have sex with a stranger :D

Completely aside from the infidelity issue (since you want to discount it), NO!!!

Sure, it's a nice Penthouse Letter type of fantasy, but let's get realistic:

- Why does this person want to sleep with you? Is it for sex or are they psycho?

- Will they cry "rape!"??

- One word: AIDS.


So no, no and NO!

hmm, now i want to see this documentary... i would definately consider the option, however my stupid heart belongs to someone else... even if i AM single

First of all, I'm currently involved in a serious relationship so I wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend.

Second, I go by this one motto: "If it sounds too good to be true, then it is too good to be true." Most of my life women have been running away from me and turning me down (and unfortunately I've grown used to that), so if out of the blue a very attractive woman were to make a proposition to me I'd be very scared and suspect she has an ulterior motive I'd probably not agree with.

I wouldn't. Okay, I would if the stranger was Colin Farrell, Jesse Bradford or Chris Carrabba. Then I'd say yes. But the chances of that happening are pretty slim...

No, happily married for 10 years. No need to mess that up now.

Of course I would. The poll is at "1" for a girl who would say yes, and that's me :) He'd have to be way hot though...

Reading that response then reading your sig is kinda hypocritical:)

I know for myself I would not sleep with anyone else(except Brad Pitt) if asked.

If there were no strings attached, no one would know kind of thing, then maybe. I voted yes, but the circumstances would have to be right, and I wouldn't cheat on my wife though.

IF I was single and had access to a condom then yes, yes I would. If it was particularly good, I might need more condoms, many more condoms....

One night stands are extremely common.

Stranger doesn't have to just mean "someone who walks up to you in the street"... How well do you know most of the people around you, let alone that person you talked to for an hour before hornily deciding to slope off back to their place for a debauched few hours of lusty congress.

Younger Folks: Thou art born, but thou art not dead yet. (I assume)

If that happen I'd be looking around for the TV cameras. Or a group of people looking over and laughing.

In a perfect world, I would say yes absolutely! However, there are far too many things to worry about today, like STDs, that make sleeping with a stranger a very very bad idea. So, I answered no. However, in an entirely risk free situation I would. :p

I answered no before I saw the disclaimer- infidelity aside. Since I'm married I of course said no.
But if I was single, and he was seriously the hottest guy I'd ever laid eyes on, then I just might do it. I'd have to think about it a lot probably...

I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that "attractive" doesn't just mean physically attractive. If the person was both good-looking and attractive personality-wise, then hell yes. I don't see why not.

In the words of one recent former president of the good ol U.S. of A..... "A man is only as loyal as his options." Or wait...was that Chris Rock babbling on about a former recent president. Who cares...it applies to me. Hell YES I would.

Depends on the stranger and the context but I would say yes (male).

In my University days this happened to me and I did it.

Been there done that. Most definately would do it again. They became friends with us later.

Female, no.

Two years ago, I would have said hell no. A year ago, I would have said hell yes. The sexually liberated part of my personality wants to say I'd go for it, but the part of me that had a herpes scare (luckily came back negative...) is much much more cautious. I just can't have casual sex anymore...I'm scared. Maybe in another year I'll have myself straightened out a little more, but I'm still too wary.

No way -- I need the emotional tie to make the sex good. Also, I love Lebell just way too much to cheat on him!

I'm married, so I answered no. If I were single, my answer would be yes. In fact, it was yes a few times.

If I was single, I'd probably go for it. Based soley on the fact that we can uphold a conversation for 5 minutes before, and that he's hot.

I mean, you can't NOT be superficial with this question ;D

Yeah, anyone wanna hook up? :lol:

I'd have to say no... the first thought that'd go through my head would be "I dunno where that thing's been"

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I voted yes. And I'm in a relationship...a very open one that is

:lol: :lol: :lol: Sorry, my signature is something my mother said to me once after I had angrily told her that I don't look at other guys. :p ;)

For men, there is a profession of "attractive strangers" who will have sex for just a few $s.

So, no, I wouldn't.

I'm thinking, not so much.

However, someone isn't a stranger after you've had a few drinks with them, eh?

I would MAYBE have sex with a stranger...but I would DEFINITELY not go down on a stranger. As someone put it, who know's where that's been?

Im a guy, and I dont think I would...

It just would seem too good to be true, and really, I dont know where that woman has been...

If that were the situation, i would rather rub one off.

I dont have a girlfriend, so why not?

even if i was single, sounds too dangerous to me. You never know where a stranger's been.

maybe when i was younger, dumber, and more desperate...

No. I'm very paranoid about STDs and AIDS.

No, for a few reasons

A guy and HELL NO.

It's just not worth the risk of pregnancy/stds/etc.