If she didn't have STDs, and I wasn't in a relationship, yes.

Probably not

good thing there's a thing called CONDOMS eh? ;)

Intimacy with another human can spread deseases that a condom won't stop. Simularly, condoms are only high 90% effective in practice. (perfect condom use for 1 year gives a 5% pregnancy rate, compared to 85% without a condom. 14% for a more real-world rate (ie, allowing for mistakes)).


http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/pub...t/fscondom.htm

(random google website on the topic).

The risks are low, but not ignoreable.

I remember years ago hearing a female comedian tell this story to demonstrate the difference between how men and women think:

Imagine you're leaving a bar after last call. You're walking to your car - alone; it's dark, and the parking lot is unlit and mostly empty. Before you get your key into the lock, a stranger of the opposite sex, obviously drunk, who was making lewd remarks to you across the bar earlier, runs up behind you, puts their arms around you, and describes - in great detail - what sexual acts they would like to perform on you right there; right now - in a dark parked car, in the now-empty parking lot.

To most men - this is a nightly fantasy; a dream come true.
To most women - it's a frightening nightmare.

/questions the relevance; just sharing.

My SO was a late shift bartender & oh my - yes, I've done that scenario before, knowing full well that it was totally safe from disease...wore the trench coat and bare skin and yes, I was the aggresser. Said I was the best attack girl he ever trysted with in a car.

but now I seriously doubt that I'd say "yes" if it were me in that dark lot, since things have changed so much over the years. I miss those safe sexy nights at the Park!

condom usage would be mandatory though

i gots a fiance yo, so that would be a negative

If she was clean, in a heartbeat.

Absolutely no.
I've never accepted a one night stand proposal from guys that I have partied with and "know" on some level. I certainly wouldn't accept it from a complete stranger. I don't care how "hot" they are.
I'm one of those people that has to have an emotional connection with someone when I am sharing my body and my bed.

I was honest and I voted yes.
I would use a condom and I might even ask if she has any stds! LOL that would be funny but necessary.

If an extremely attractive woman came up to me and asked for sex I would do two things before taking any action. I'd ask if she'd be willing to come to a clinic with me and get tested for STD's WITH me. If she was willing to do that, then I would. But I imagine some stranger who comes up and asks for sex wants it then and now... nope, sorry.

This is definately one of those tricky question that if a woman asker her SO, he would never give the right answer! :lol:

I want to say no, but when it came down to it, in the passion of a moment, I don't know how I would react. Unfortunately as a man, I just might end up saying yes, and I'm not sure if that is a behavior based on the social structure that men grow up in or just the libido of a man rising to the occasion. (no pun intended) :p

I can't answer because I would say MAYBE. What kind of mood am I in? Where do I meet this stranger? Do I meet her through friends? How does she ask? Does she say in an alien voice that she "wants my seed"?

In short: NOT ENOUGH INFORMATION.

Bag it and Tag it. Sex is beautiful, share it.

I'm a guy, and I definitely wouldn't.

Not worth the risk, and I'd find it a little disrespectful honestly.

That about sums it up right there.

Remember my words I posted earlier in this forum....

If it seems too good to be true, then it is too good to be true...

I answered yes, but it would only be in the situation where I didn't have a wife.

I'm male and a Sailor. What do you think? :D

Sure why not, if I've got a few hours to kill and all it's just sex, no stalking, phone calls, letters...unless she was really good looking.
Why not is the big question.

I agree, but I still said yes. :o

I am female and I find that I cannot do that kind of thing with a stranger, the lack of trust bothers me. I find that when I think about this I am mostly turned off by the blunt fact that I have no emotional link to a stranger.

And I must agree with MrFlux on the risks, I'm not interested in getting sick or pregnant. It just isn't worth it.

I am a guy, I say no...
I am married and couldnt do that to my wife...
of course it might be very hard to say no in a RL situation... but I think I have the self-restraint...

Single male here. Yes, with protection. I'm no stranger to the stranger fantasy.

im a female obviously and i dont have a bf currently, so assuming proper protection was used and the person/situation didnt seem creepy and i didnt get bad vibes, and assuming there would be no committment or even contact after the fact, HELL YES.

I'm a guy, and I'd never sleep with a random attractive stranger. Because they're STRANGERS. You know nothing about them.

If I were single and the girl seemed nice enough as well as hot, sure.

Do bats fly?

Hell yeah I would. I have done it before and until I get married, I will prolly do it again. Always use protection though.

im a dude and hell yes i would
its been that damn long :lol:

Guy and NOPE. To much horrible shit being passed around these days.

Cool poll, it would be a little better if girl/guys were separate categories that both add up to 100% Oh, by the way Guy/Yes. This is under the assumption that "no strings attached" applies in the situation. For example, hot girl that I never have to see, talk to, carry as baggage, no one finds out, Yes. If other people will find out, she calls all the time, etc, then NO!!!

hahaha

I'm a guy and I have been in that situation. I guess now I am more interested in a long term as I think things get better with familiarity.

but.... ;) if she were really hot I might try it and hope it dosen't turn into a one night and maybe something that could be more promising like a friend with explicit benifits.

as a male and former sailor myself my answer is never have and never will under such circumstances. Still waiting for the marriage and wife scenario.

Not while I'm in a relationship. Otherwise, of course.

you only live once...


and why would I want to fuck that up.:p

Even if I was single I wouldnt think about it, never a stranger, and if they are attractive and ask me to sleep with him, chances are hes asked many girls before

i think i saw that documentary and it was more like 98% of men would when asked by a hot chick, and i think 0% of the women would when asked by a hot dude. wasn't it on a college campus?

Re: If an attractive stranger asked...
 

Dude, that's a CLASSIC female response, despite what you see on "Sex and the City" the concept of the anonymous one night stand is, for women, not at all that appealing.

Seems like alot more guys would do it.. Hmmm