met a new girl - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Ov3rKiLL · 04-14-2004, 06:20 PM

im not sure if this is in the right place but heres the story.
my aunt lives in a house and in the back she has an aprtment that is rented by a mom and her daughter, so today i met the daughter and my aunt introduced us because i wnted to see what her school offered for when i graduate. so she gave me an application for me to fill out to see if they accepted me into the school, but my question is that 2morrow when i go to my aunts house again and she gets to her house from school, i wanna talk to her. but i dont know what to say. can any of you people give me advice on how to go to her house and say hi and from there have a long convo so i can get to know her.

R3d · 04-14-2004, 06:25 PM

ionno.. start talkin about school.. go into some funny stories that have happened.. if you can get her to laugh, it's always a foot in the door..

Homey_V · 04-14-2004, 07:00 PM

Try and find something in common to talk about. Music, movies anything.

Just mentioned that you wanted to thank her for her help with school and the application and steer the conversation from there. Be casual and friendly and see where it goes.

Ov3rKiLL · 04-15-2004, 02:36 AM

k thanx guys ill try that today.

hossified · 04-15-2004, 05:33 AM

def. use the application as a way to get a conversation going with her. Ask if she'd like to go for a walk or out for a coffee to talk more about her school etc.. It's pretty easy dude....you got nothing to lose...so just get her going

Blackthorn · 04-15-2004, 01:42 PM

You could start by telling her you'd like to do to her what Kobe did to the receptionist

I don't really recommend that but you could try that approach. Be yourself and ask question about her that you'd like to know the answer to.

- when did you lose your first tooth?
- where did you have your first kiss and what was his/her name?
- at age 10 what did you want to be when you grew up?
- Thongs or grannies?
- Crumple or Fold?
- Vanilla or Chocolate?

Simple stuff...but using your good sense of humor is a good thing!

skysooner · 04-15-2004, 01:46 PM

Starting the conversation is the hardest part. I find that some guys are better at it than others. I'm not one of the good ones. If I ever tried to pick up a girl in a bar years ago, I was doomed for failure if I had to make the approach. Heck, even if I try and talk with women in bars now when I'm on the road (and I'm not trying to pick them up), I still have trouble getting a conversation started. The only thing that has ever worked for me it to not try at it. When I'm not trying, I guess I'm more relaxed. I can meet women on the street and in elevators all day long, but put me in a "social" setting and I'm doomed.

04-14-2004, 06:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ov3rKiLL Banned	met a new girl im not sure if this is in the right place but heres the story. my aunt lives in a house and in the back she has an aprtment that is rented by a mom and her daughter, so today i met the daughter and my aunt introduced us because i wnted to see what her school offered for when i graduate. so she gave me an application for me to fill out to see if they accepted me into the school, but my question is that 2morrow when i go to my aunts house again and she gets to her house from school, i wanna talk to her. but i dont know what to say. can any of you people give me advice on how to go to her house and say hi and from there have a long convo so i can get to know her.

04-14-2004, 07:00 PM	#3 (permalink)
Homey_V Psycho Location: Canada	Try and find something in common to talk about. Music, movies anything. Just mentioned that you wanted to thank her for her help with school and the application and steer the conversation from there. Be casual and friendly and see where it goes. __________________ You did what with a duck?

04-15-2004, 01:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
Blackthorn Beware the Mad Irish Location: Wish I was on the N17...	You could start by telling her you'd like to do to her what Kobe did to the receptionist I don't really recommend that but you could try that approach. Be yourself and ask question about her that you'd like to know the answer to. - when did you lose your first tooth? - where did you have your first kiss and what was his/her name? - at age 10 what did you want to be when you grew up? - Thongs or grannies? - Crumple or Fold? - Vanilla or Chocolate? Simple stuff...but using your good sense of humor is a good thing! __________________ What are you willing to give up in order to get what you want?

04-14-2004, 06:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
R3d Insane Location: Sask, Canada	ionno.. start talkin about school.. go into some funny stories that have happened.. if you can get her to laugh, it's always a foot in the door..

04-15-2004, 02:36 AM	#4 (permalink)
Ov3rKiLL Banned	k thanx guys ill try that today.

04-15-2004, 05:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
hossified face f$cker Location: canada	def. use the application as a way to get a conversation going with her. Ask if she'd like to go for a walk or out for a coffee to talk more about her school etc.. It's pretty easy dude....you got nothing to lose...so just get her going

04-15-2004, 01:46 PM	#7 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	Starting the conversation is the hardest part. I find that some guys are better at it than others. I'm not one of the good ones. If I ever tried to pick up a girl in a bar years ago, I was doomed for failure if I had to make the approach. Heck, even if I try and talk with women in bars now when I'm on the road (and I'm not trying to pick them up), I still have trouble getting a conversation started. The only thing that has ever worked for me it to not try at it. When I'm not trying, I guess I'm more relaxed. I can meet women on the street and in elevators all day long, but put me in a "social" setting and I'm doomed.