You could start by telling her you'd like to do to her what Kobe did to the receptionist
I don't really recommend that but you could try that approach. Be yourself and ask question about her that you'd like to know the answer to.
- when did you lose your first tooth?
- where did you have your first kiss and what was his/her name?
- at age 10 what did you want to be when you grew up?
- Thongs or grannies?
- Crumple or Fold?
- Vanilla or Chocolate?
Simple stuff...but using your good sense of humor is a good thing!