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Zamunda · 01-25-2004, 06:45 PM

Right, so while the thread might sound like a great story... met a girl DJing and stuff happened from there... it could've gone like that but didn't so I want advice....
So I was DJing a pretty hip party, and all of a suddent this fine girl walks by and asks me to put something on... so i do, and keep playing good music... she comes back, not once but three times and says (jokingly) that she wants to have my baby... I find out her name and that she speaks spanish, but unfortunately, I was on the tables all night and didn't get a chance to catch up with her... Is this a lost opportunity? or can I call her/email her and maybe just start talking to her and eventually meet her at another party? This is kind of rhetorical because I already have emailed her, but I'm just wondering, ladies, if this happened to you, would you think I responded solely on the wanting to have my baby line, or perhaps that I am just meeting somone new? Any and all opinions welcome

LaughinMon · 01-25-2004, 06:57 PM

well if she gave you a contact, ie an email address and or phone number, its kinda obvious that she wants you to hit her up and do something. from my experience, if a girl says she wants to have your baby, its a joking way of saying that she wants you(she saw you DJing, thought you were hot, wanted some of that). i wouldnt leave it to chance and hope that you run into her again at another party. talk to her and if shes interested, go somewhere together

Averett · 01-25-2004, 07:01 PM

I don't understand the question. She gave you her number/email? So whats the problem? Contact her and see what happens

Dixie_Wrekked · 01-25-2004, 07:11 PM

dude, talk to her, get to know her and go from there, can't hurt, im sure she doesnt think you are contacting her based solely on the baby crack

sillygirl · 01-25-2004, 07:17 PM

If she made a comment about having your baby, and then gives you a phone number/email address, she has no right/reason to freak out about you calling her and thinking that's all you want. Call her.

cait987 · 01-25-2004, 07:52 PM

If she gave you a number/whatever call her personally its a sign that she wants to do something a bit more then talk >< but I guess you can wait till another party

but its better to regret talking to a person then regret never talking to them at all :/

mbchills · 01-25-2004, 09:52 PM

niiice fellow DJ.

Zamunda · 01-26-2004, 09:20 AM

hmm, maybe I should've been more clear... she didn't give me her email address... she told me her name, and I knew what school she was from so I looked up her email address... thats why this story is a little different... however, she did respond nicely to my email...

gabshu · 01-26-2004, 10:01 AM

hmmm, she didn't give you her email and you still emailed her? I don't know there, and this was the day after the party or did you wait a couple of days? I think it might either creep her or flater her that you looked her up. Her answering your email is a good sign.

Personaly I hardly ever give out anything other than my IM thing, so that guys don't start stalking me. My advice: just don't call her or email her too much until she gets a feel for you, or she starts calling you.

skysooner · 01-26-2004, 10:25 AM

She gave up any reason to be shy about it when she used that line on you. As stated above, if you don't go crazy and start e-mailing her all the time or calling her without an invitation, then all is good. I hope it works out for you.

analog · 01-26-2004, 11:42 AM

The one time it's ever happened to me, I responded with the following: "I'm never having kids, so you can't have my baby, but you can have my penis instead"

It's ok though, she was being rude at the time. Everyone laughed.

Jephree · 01-26-2004, 12:15 PM

Funny to have come across this thread. I'm also a part-time house DJ (local) and fortunately I come across these situations kinda often. But man, if she gave you a #, AND an EMAIL address, all I can say is that you're $. Rush it and crush it.

01-25-2004, 06:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
Zamunda Tilted	met a girl DJing Right, so while the thread might sound like a great story... met a girl DJing and stuff happened from there... it could've gone like that but didn't so I want advice.... So I was DJing a pretty hip party, and all of a suddent this fine girl walks by and asks me to put something on... so i do, and keep playing good music... she comes back, not once but three times and says (jokingly) that she wants to have my baby... I find out her name and that she speaks spanish, but unfortunately, I was on the tables all night and didn't get a chance to catch up with her... Is this a lost opportunity? or can I call her/email her and maybe just start talking to her and eventually meet her at another party? This is kind of rhetorical because I already have emailed her, but I'm just wondering, ladies, if this happened to you, would you think I responded solely on the wanting to have my baby line, or perhaps that I am just meeting somone new? Any and all opinions welcome

01-25-2004, 07:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	I don't understand the question. She gave you her number/email? So whats the problem? Contact her and see what happens __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

01-25-2004, 07:17 PM	#5 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	If she made a comment about having your baby, and then gives you a phone number/email address, she has no right/reason to freak out about you calling her and thinking that's all you want. Call her. __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

01-25-2004, 09:52 PM	#7 (permalink)
mbchills Insane Location: NJ	niiice fellow DJ. __________________ rawr.

01-26-2004, 10:01 AM	#9 (permalink)
gabshu Psycho Location: The capital of the free world??	hmmm, she didn't give you her email and you still emailed her? I don't know there, and this was the day after the party or did you wait a couple of days? I think it might either creep her or flater her that you looked her up. Her answering your email is a good sign. Personaly I hardly ever give out anything other than my IM thing, so that guys don't start stalking me. My advice: just don't call her or email her too much until she gets a feel for you, or she starts calling you. __________________ Go Kool Aid. OH YEAAHH http://www.retrocrush.com/archive2003/koolaid/

01-25-2004, 06:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
LaughinMon Tilted Location: Tampa, FL	well if she gave you a contact, ie an email address and or phone number, its kinda obvious that she wants you to hit her up and do something. from my experience, if a girl says she wants to have your baby, its a joking way of saying that she wants you(she saw you DJing, thought you were hot, wanted some of that). i wouldnt leave it to chance and hope that you run into her again at another party. talk to her and if shes interested, go somewhere together

01-25-2004, 07:11 PM	#4 (permalink)
Dixie_Wrekked Banned Location: Bryan, Tx	dude, talk to her, get to know her and go from there, can't hurt, im sure she doesnt think you are contacting her based solely on the baby crack

01-25-2004, 07:52 PM	#6 (permalink)
cait987 Insane	If she gave you a number/whatever call her personally its a sign that she wants to do something a bit more then talk >< but I guess you can wait till another party but its better to regret talking to a person then regret never talking to them at all :/

01-26-2004, 09:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
Zamunda Tilted	hmm, maybe I should've been more clear... she didn't give me her email address... she told me her name, and I knew what school she was from so I looked up her email address... thats why this story is a little different... however, she did respond nicely to my email...

01-26-2004, 10:25 AM	#10 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	She gave up any reason to be shy about it when she used that line on you. As stated above, if you don't go crazy and start e-mailing her all the time or calling her without an invitation, then all is good. I hope it works out for you.

01-26-2004, 11:42 AM	#11 (permalink)
analog Banned	The one time it's ever happened to me, I responded with the following: "I'm never having kids, so you can't have my baby, but you can have my penis instead" It's ok though, she was being rude at the time. Everyone laughed.

01-26-2004, 12:15 PM	#12 (permalink)
Jephree AKA: Boner Stabone Location: The one and only, SoCaLi	Funny to have come across this thread. I'm also a part-time house DJ (local) and fortunately I come across these situations kinda often. But man, if she gave you a #, AND an EMAIL address, all I can say is that you're $. Rush it and crush it.